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Starzo:
I endorese this. But why would a man get married to you when he can simply afford to get a maid to take care of a house and also pay that maid to take care of the child he got through a surrogate?. Why voluntary enter himself into the bondage called marriage when he can simply use money to get maids and surrogate that would do everything you're trying to use to hold home to ransom?.

Na to just Hussle enough money buy everything and continue flexing your life with as many women as you want.

#NODRAMA

novakk:
I earlier posted this story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5694171/4-out-5-pastors-said

In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.

Moving to today...
I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that"
However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.

I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.

What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.

truthsayer009:
It depends oh, gods get levels.

Caseless:
Pull him down syndrome(PHD) is common with black people and they hate reading.

HarunaWest:
Yeah you are quite right. Truth is that i decided to lower my expectations of people cos i realized that we Africans reason along sentimental and culture lines. 'One way reasoning'.
The average black man is okay with food, shelter, clothing, wine and of course sex. He doesnt want to venture beyond his horizon due to mental laziness. He is intelligent, but doesnt harness his potential.
Many Nigerians are very intelligent but they are scarce commodity.

HarunaWest:
Nah you tried..The witchcraft part got me laughing

HarunaWest:
Any brilliant guy is a smart guy...I often dull some conversations atimes cos i feel its not intelligent enough to be discussed. Am well read very educated and vast.
I may start a conversation about the Neanderthal but you wouldnt comprehend cos you are used to the Homo Habilis or The big bang theory..So i just keep shut.
Am sure thats what is going through your guys mind. The sort of interest he has is way beyond normal and no one will seem to understand him.
Is his favourite music genre Reggae or Afrobeat?

salford1:
Nigerian men are wired differently.
Some have crucified her for being a divorcee.
She has been called a gold digger and all sort - this is a lady that was already a millionaire in dollars. Alot don't even have up to an equivalent of $100 in their accounts

Women are trying in Nigeria. No wonder alot immediately cage their husbands once they move to a developed country.

Hotfreez:
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Did she divorce her former husband because of racism too?

Is that racism that made Meghan have issues with her biological father and her own family too?
How many of her family members did you see at her wedding? Tell me.

Megan's former husband dumped her and ran. Her father ran, her own family ran.
Shebi it is towtow that isn't allowing Harry reason straight, she would wreck him and dump him.

Osagyefo98:
Then expect clashes very soon.

Osagyefo98:
You just wrote rubbish.

No difference between hausa and yorubas

If igbos aren't yorubas problem then hausas are abi..


Why not pack your bag and name your son lanre and stop writing as if you are the man called Igbo.


Your submission is the reason the word dustbin was coined.

Ebenezar2020:
. Osagie You are not from Anambra and can't speak for the people of Anambra.
Face your Edo issues and tell your governor to go make peace with his godfather the lord and jagaban of Edo state if not he will be bundled out in primaries.
Rev Fr Mbaka and I have already foreseen Ize Iyamu lifting up the ticket already and proceeding to win the gubernatorial elections latter this year.
Like is said earlier face your Edo issues and leave ndi Igbo alone.
lzaa immhotep jimyjames Greenback

Ebenezar2020:
oga keep quiet there and stop talking what u don't know.
We here in Anambra are already tired of the scam APGA which was long dead and gone with Ojukwu.
APGA will be finally buried with Obiano and APC ti take over.
Ndi Anambra needs a change.
Remember in the last gubernatorial election that APC came second and Willie Obiano escaped by just a few votes upon all the rigging he did
immhotep jimyjames Lzaa greenback

jimyjames:
Afonjas are jealous of us knowing that we occupy the rich oil lands in delta and rivers that's why they are doing everything the can to separate Igbo's from the igbiod subgroups infact general Gowon confessed that after the civil war they had to divide the east into smaller states to stop them from uniting and breaking away from Nigeria



Afonjas love our culture they want to be like us look at how happy this afonja is after kneeling to receive an Igbo title

jimyjames:
There are many afonjas claiming Igbo or Niger Delta etc
Osage007 is one of them

jimyjames:
This guy ebenezar2020 is an afonja from Ibadan don't ever take him serious, he claims to be Igbo from anambra, sometimes anioma delta Igbo , sometimes he's girlfriend is delta Igbo today he claims ikwerre, the other day he claimed to be from Massachusetts USA he is a dull yahoo ritualist don't take him serious

Ebenezar2020:
Mrs yam-legged Osu don't worry I'll bring evidence and everybody will know how evil Igbos are.
oral history and other documented records are there to proof to you that Igbos have an evil mindset.
You're obviously pained that's why you've resorted to abuses and insult by calling us names.
Your moniker has been marked, when I have the link I'll tag u along with it.
Shalom

Ebenezar2020:
Because Ikwerre speak igbo language and dress like igbos doesn't mean they are Igbos.

Ebenezar2020:
The French policy of Assimilation had it that all the French colonies Senegal, Cameroon, Togo etc must speak and dress and assimilate the Culture of France even till when they all had Independence they still have that French Culture deeply rooted in their way of life.
Now lemme ask because they speak French and dress like French does that make them French Men?
You know the answer.

These people you mentioned are French colonies. They are the African French speakers with very strong ties to France so that doesn't apply in this context.
Ikwerre isn't an igbo colony and there is no law today stating they must speak or dress like igbo or even name their children igbo names unless there's something we don't know of that you're not saying

Ebenezar2020:
before and during the Civil war Igbos invaded Ikwerre and killed all our men, raped and married our women and forced their language on our parents, renamed our communities to Igbo names and then that's how Igboid influence spread throughout Ikwerre, Etche-Igbo and Ndoni land.

Ebenezar2020:
I know you're apparently Pained because our eyes have been enlightened and if a referendum is to be conducted then 99% of Riverians will remain in Nigeria and detest Biafra.
Jimyjames Lzaa Immhotep

Ebenezar2020:
IPOB spotted from close range!
yes you have to fight and kill yourselves because we Ikwerre are special, we have large deposits of oil Wells, we have boundaries with the Atlantic Ocean where your igbo and Edo sisters can sail directly to Italy to ply your only God knows trade.
we Ikwerres feed the nation.
We are so envied amongst our neighbors.
no wonder jimyjames Immhotep Lzaa and other IPOBs are so desperate to integrate us in biafra cos we'll be the one feeding all igbos

Ebenezar2020:
even Auchi i.e Etsako lands, Esan other tribes in Edo state are not part of the Oba's subjects.
He is Oba of the 7 Bini speaking communities in Edo state.

Ebenezar2020:
nothing special here.
same kolanut can still be shared if Buhari or any Fulani on top visits anywhere in SE.
Kolanut is a sign of friendship and peace in Igboland

Ebenezar2020:
I thought IPOB said Ikwerre people are igbos, now Benin don claim Ikwerre from u guys, see as una con silent

nijabazaar:
Stop this. Stop trying to be a saint or an ostrich burying her head in the sand. Nigeria can never be good. Breaking up is the best option.

There's now so much bad blood between Igbos and yoruba and it is irredeemable. So what's the point. The Sw and SE don't have a common enemy to bury the hatchet on. So stop this advice of yours

FrLukas:
Now is the right time. Lots of people are getting fed up. Leverage on the Buhari-factor to win international sympathy.

Fulanis from Chad and Niger will start mass movement into Nigeria following Buhari's opening of the border to all Africans.

They will occupy your homeland and then it will be too late.

Anyone who thinks the Hausa/Fulani will relinquish power in 2023 is a dreamer.

Now is the time for the push. If this opportunity is missed...

Dedetwo:
This is another problem with Africans in general and Nigerians in particular. It is called insincerity. This is time to push for Biafra or preferably the Republic of Igbo land. Nigeria has clocked more than five decades yet nothing to show for it. We are having this discussion because Nigeria is a piece of shit. I am done with the joke called Nigeria and hope to start anew in a nation not a country.

helinues:
Some people derived joy and happiness in hating others..

We are busy tearing ourself up on NL while those who we supposed to hold responsible are the one even fueling the division.

Nigeria is not currently working for any regions that's the facts..

Dedetwo:
The bolded is one of cardinal reasons Nigeria cannot and will not achieve unity. Like USA, Nigeria fought a war and after the war unlike USA, Nigeria did not reconcile with every section of saga even as I write this post. The Biafrans are regarded as defeated people and had been treated as such. It is a matter of idiocy for Nigerians to happily jump into analogy with USA. Today's USA, the states in the Confederacy have produced more presidents than the states in the Union. In addition, cities in the Confederacy are arguably more developed, at least in numerical, than their counterparts in the Union. This nation building spirit has not been found in Nigeria and will never. As far as I am concerned, anything short total and unconditional disintegration of the shithole called Nigeria is a practical joke.

If every Nigeria saw the January 15, 1966 coup as you posited in second bolded stanza, this discussion should not have taken place. In addition, the goon we have today as president would have sacked from the army because he was not qualified to be a member of Nigerian armed forces officers cadre. Nepotistic tendencies of Tafawa Balewa's government made sure that goons such as Abacha, Buhari, Nasarawa, Isa Bukar, Nathan Nuhu, Nwadikon Pam, Dimpka, etc were pushed into the officer's cadre of Nigerian armed forces. However the visionary young officers were immediately branded as tribal nuts by British and engineered war of attrition on eastern region.

The idea of some folks having resources which supposedly feeds Nigeria and feeling to be worshipped was injected into the skulls by fellow Nigerians and British in order to spite another group. It did not stop at this instance. They even went further to lecture some of the goons wrongly on their forbearers. I will give up any crude oil well in Igbo land in order to have independent Igbo land or even Biafra so that people of the nation can decide to build deep water seaport and international airport anywhere in Biafra territory without idiotic political encumbrance from any section of the shithole called Nigeria.

NimrodEndOfDays:
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