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nigerian girls tufiakwa i prefer saotome or east african girls anyday. generally West African girls are all like dat, dey are just too materialistic.

SA Goddess:
Note that I am not the author:  Thought it would be interesting to share and get some views. . . .crazy world we live in!

"i know it's a bit of a heavy topic esp so late in the day, but it's bn bugging me all day. bd has cheated a few times, 3 that i know of, and each time things become sour and then promises to change and does for a while but then it happens with someone else and we've bn thru it 3 times alrdy and i really wonder if he can really truly honestly change? i doubt it. so y am i still with him? he's a good dad,totally hands on, great person and personality, i know he loves me to bits and spends all his time with me-leaves for work in the morning, gets back home straight from work and starts preparing supper etc and he showers me with love, kisses, affection. i don't know, sometimes i think mayb i'm asking too much of him and shud jst b satisfied with what i have, after all his cheating is basically confined to office hours so it's emails/sms's which he sometimes forgets to erase - but it's still cheating and i shudn't accept it rite? i just do not know what to do anymore. he's such a flirt and the thing is his charming, friendly personality always makes him an easy target for the ladies, so it's so easy for him. what do i do? sometimes i just feel like leaving him and moving on with my kids and then i get scared that i might meet someone worse than him? he's really great save for the flirtations really, he is the best, he spoils me rotten with massages,dinner dates, movie dates each atleast once a week and he's so good with our sons. why can't he just stop with the flirtations it's as if he's perpetually seeking something that is lacking in our relationship or me and even though i've told him that it hurts me he seems to stop but then resumes with someone else, he's got lots of female friends-oh the emails and sms's, it used to be worse cos they wud come in at nite as well so atlst now nothing comes in when he's at home anymore, and he's casual with his phone i can check it anytime i want, we are open like that, oh but it hurts to come accross these flirtatious sms's sometimes.oh i just don't know"

and de person involved can jump into the lagoon abi. what else does she wants at least the guy don try now!.
She better be contented with what she has else those daughter of Jezebels outside might teach her the lesson of her life in her hubby

oga larry

i sent u a mail please i need information on the following;

1. list and pictures of cars i can get btw 300k - 350k

2. how much can u do a Honda joker for me

3. also how much can u do for me a benz 190 regular very clean one not necessarily de paded one sir

looking forward to ur reply i already sent a mail to that effect

@190.

Guy why be say talk no dey finish 4 ya head ? ish.

@evil666 u are lucky dat guy never knew u took dat snap shot hence he would have got some bullet into ya dumb brain

oga abeg send de concluding chapter of the story to my e-mail bobosegee@yahoo.co.uk

@kuliye

well i will say u should have defined all this right from the start of the relationship. right now u are already making the guy feel like he is being used and he will definitely be having a wrong impression of ya, atleast if in de begining if u had let him know there will be no s3x den he woulda register it at the back of his mind that dis is a no sex relationship. i also have 2 questions 4 ya

1. are u a virgin? if no den i see no basis while u should deny him of his right ( is see dis as his right cause since u deemed it fit 2 collect gifts from him den he asking for sex should not be a be a big deal ok) so giving him de s3x he wants won't change anytin cause eventhough u do not give he would leave if he want to.

2. Are u of this no sex policy from the start of de relationship ? if no den u r a suspect of  your own rules, cause i know if u do not feel a thing 4 him and u know he is well loaded u must have given him wat he wants b4 u remember putin dis topic on in NL. therfore u are only seeking advice cause your own game plan is turning at ya u r already in LOVE with him as it is now .

so babe give de guy wat he deserves, keep your head high and see wat happens if he would wait and stay with ya or not

Goodluck

it's a pleasure baby.

@lola

not wat u think just dat am in de office and fb is not an option, as de management has disabled it long ago anyhow when i get home i will check ok just keep on being urself gurl.

and dat pics i saw in your profile luks so sweet and beautiful hun! 

@ lola

i sent u mail dis morning kindly go through it and get back 2 me tanx

@poster, sorry 4 what happened but i will just advice u to leave his sorry @ss cause he is not worth the trouble. Try to calm down and look for a matured guy dat would treat u de way u really deserve, good luck

@lola

This things happens often just try 2 sit him down and talk things over ask him wat u have done wrong dat could warrant such behaviour. we are all human and i know sumtin must be wrong 4 him to behave dat way. just try and and talk it over with him.

adaybola:
@ Cindy, lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really don't know what to say but am very very happy for you. Atimes, we have to make our own destiny and you just did that girlfriend, Congrants my dear.

Well, thanks to all who showed interest in me, am really really flattered. Actually, with the way things are going i must say God has such a beautiful plan for me. I'm not desperate at all, am just waiting eagerly unto him cos i know he's the perfect planner.

@adaybola i sent u a mail just now can u just go through de mail and get back 2 me eagerly waiting 4 ur reply

thanks 2 u all i have made up my mind to dump her. But recently she tried making a comeback over de weekend cause i refused to call her 4 days now. she now called back telling me she had not heard from me for days, dat wat is happening she is missing me. well i smell sumtin fishy it's like she sensed am already makin up my mind gradually about her. so she said she want 2 cum 2 my place but i just told her am out of town, ever since she been disturbing ma phone with calls and text messages but am sorry have made ma own decission and i think it's final cause afterall she started it.

peace unto every one thank u

Woke4all:
I think the reason she's leaving you is for marriage.

Do you hv the intention of marrying her?

yeah i do but it seems like she is refusing to understand some tins and i made her understand my intentions 4 her
i love her and i intended marrying her

i will like u ppl. to please help me with this cause am so confuse about sum tins right now.

I met this girl at a wedding last year, one thing led to another we exchanged numbers. but we did not start dating immediately, early this year january precisely she gave me a call dat she want us to see then i arranged a meeting point for both of us, we discussed so many things and we get things started from there.

Along the line in the relationship i came 2 realize so manythings about her but i beileive one thing shit happens and everybody has his or her own past all because i love her, but along de line came one anonymous guy dat gave her a call right in my presence ever since then de guy have been disturbing her i now took it 2 my self to approach her about this said guy but she denied having anytin with him. Recently she travelled down home and it is very obvious she would meet dis guy cause dey were from de same home town b4 i forget i am a yoruba guy and she is an edo girl akoko edo to be precise so i had dis feeling like dey were really getting along due to being able to speak same language but i tried to keep my kool, wen she came bak from travelling her ways changed alot of things also changed about her things she never does b4 she starts doing them, like she talks 2 me anyhow even go as far as insulting me she also treats me shabily like am nobody. This is someone i love and really respects but recently i discovered sumtins on her fone diffrent love text messages sent to her by this same guy and her responses too, and i also discovered de guy had introduced her to his mum all this happened during this short period dat she traveled home well my ppl i can see de handwritting clearly on de wall i just want to know if am actually makin de right decision cause i am ready to dump her but each time i ask her about it she keeps denying the fact dat she is having anytin with the guy, but i let her know about the revelations on her text but she said de guy was only expressing himself i just made her understand am not a fool i was only tryin to get a clearer picture of tins b4 i make a decission cause am kind of person dat if make a decission on tins i will never reverse it. pls. i need the help of u gud ppl. of nairaland.

PLS MY PPL DO NOT INSULT ME WAS JUST TRYING TO EXPRESS MY FEELING TANX 2 U ALL

pls dis is urgent

Guy am presently in ur shoes. But wat i will just advise is dat just take events as dey come cause if God says she is 4 u notin will take her away from and she will definitely find her way back 2 u.

But there is one thing i want u to know, money makes de world go round. Love without money is one leg in and another out and u know girls of nowadays and their love for money is very unbelievable. Your story truely relates 2 mine u can gime a beep so we can talk heart 2 heart here is my number 08032210331,08053090296

dat actually the problem i was passin through right now. i don't know why girls are doing this dey are like they don't know what dey want.

and now ancelotti has shown u all  he is class. either with drogba or not he can pull stunts, wat a good preparation against next saturday gbam!!!

all i know is dat inter are comming to stamford bridge to meet their waterloo.

case closed

moreover mikel is mom

meekas:
Thank God I didnt click

And how didi u get in here

jimmysho:
if   he  overhaul  d   FEC  wont   those against his  presidency   claim   goodluck   is   confirming   their   fears?

and he should be ready to be branded a failure then, cause those animals will never allow him to succed chikena!