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okoroemeka:
we have three weeding options to choose from ,one is to get motorised weeders,(2)is to use plastic hooded knapsack nozzle and apply paraquat herbicide,(3)is to go medieval and use the manpower of our 12 farm workers to scrap,brush and clear the weeds with good old hoes and Cutlass.

Sir okoroemeka been following this "e-class" since morning as though am preparing to defend a doctorate.
... With the way your are sounding in ur advocacy for the third, it seems that is what is serving your projects best ?

Good

This wisdom is rear !!!

[quote author=julieeni post=89140944]yes, I gave him a son, he got a place and moved in with another woman while I was with his parents. Didn't know about it until when he was posted to Abuja and we had to join him, that was when I knew he still got a house there in Abuja and moved in with same lady, while I was hustling for money to give to him to rent at least a room for us... everything came out in the open anyway and I had to come back to my parents. He got married to the lady few months after I left and she put to birth around Nov. My worse mistake [/quote
My dear , in life we all make mistakes- shits do happen to everyone but those who turn out great are those who have learn to forget it and keep moving forward
Life is too short to be spent on holding onto the past
HAKUNNA MATATA

Wow

Are you for real

Watching

Money wey we still good, e no dey finish oooo

Ishilove:
It is also called 'wara'.

Yeah wara, just thinking of what we use to call it back then in the North

kolaa007:
Blob Fish


This fish looks like a man that melted on the sidewalk. It has two small eyes and a large nose. It even has a mean smirk on its face. It’s a rather large fish and looks just like a giant blob. These fish are found off the coasts of mainland Australia and Tasmania, as well as the waters of New Zealand.

Which white did it with a fish ?

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

Before I read comments may I ask haunty this question . You guys were this close as you claim and he never knew when you started dating and that you are dating? I am trying to understand...

bamidelee:
Abi na
The oza room

That anty na ancient and modern for nairaland

bamidelee:
Pocochantas and ishilove comes to mind

Pls let me ask, what is the where about of Ishiluv?

May I book space first

GreaterDC:
WTF, Some girls are just known to be absurd, even with all this hint, they will see oppose you and give you a groundless excuse.

and beside, i did nt see 'FUND', abi girls don get phobia for money

Guy you use brain borrow money from LAPO ?

Op, pls is it that am reading the wrong stuff you posted , because, I seem not to comprehend anything in your story

pansophist:
Thank you. I post regularly on NL, and you may shoot me an email if you need to know specifically more about anything I wrote.

I will send you a mail, Sir.

pansophist:
Women have a higher perception of danger. Where a man feels perfectly safe, a woman may not feel safe, the presence of a man is sufficient to create a balance and make her feel safe. If a woman wants a kid, it is only a man that can impregnate her, and potentially provide for her and her kids if he is responsible.

Men by nature have a soft spot for women and women know this first hand. Men generally will sacrifice himself to make a woman feel comfortable, eg giving her his jacket when she feels cold, or even taking a bullet for her. A single google search will reveal thousands of men have been taking bullets and losing their lives for the women they love, so far, I have not seen the opposite.

Humans evolved to be social beings, no matter the material riches, popularity and social class, companionship triumph above all, we can see it with our female celebrities for example. Humans need each other, and more so for women, who need men for emotional safety and in some cases, balance out the chaotic nature of the feminine with rationality and order.

Women want to feel loved, desired and chosen, and if one can see the value of a man past his wallet, it won't be difficult to find out the importance of a man in a woman's life, and what he brings into the relationship.

Need I say more?

Sir, your wisdom is pure, need not say more.
Pls, I plead one thing sir,: I desire to learn more from you

pansophist:
It is like expecting a yahoo boy who has cruise fine cars, wined, and dined in the best of locations, to settle and live in a modest life devoid of materialistic gratification. Well, reality may force him to live a normal life, but he will not be satisfied and deeply ashamed of how low he has been reduced.

It works in the same way for women (also for men, but not to an extent it affects women). A woman that has slept will many men will find it hard to bond to one. Those that have women who love them will understand what I am talking about. The more sexual partner a woman has had will make it harder to bond. Also, you will be compared with every man she has been with, so make sure your performance supersedes or at least comparable to the best she had.

This is one of the reasons why every old religion and society value sexual exclusivity and chastity (virginity), in women. Men also instinctively understand this phenomenon, which suggests why all sexual enhancing drugs are channeled to male customers, For men, it is to last longer with gladiatorial performance. For females, it is to become tighter, to signify chastity.

Hmmm, no wonder you were beseeched, BABA: Wisdom so ancient- so devoid of dent; perspective - crystal.....
Baba, i salute u!!!

Why is Africa falling into the wrong hands?

gbagyiza:
I will be frank with u, you brought this on yourself. You saw a girl that came to write weac, you lust after her, n that was the beginning of your problem. What could have saved you from that manipulation of the devil was your spirituality in Christ, but I have doubt in your spiritual level n reason you easily fall to it. The damage has been done, I pray that the Lord give you a solution to this.

There is something the op is not telling us.....

daddytime:
Nice one.

Just stay safe and away from any potential mass shooting site.

Our people say beauty no dey complete.

Their Government dey people-oriented, but you fit just say make you stroll go supermarket to buy some grocery the next thing one kolo oyibo wey half done and medium-rare meat don chop part of him brain go just enter there begin shoot everybody for no just cause.

In fact ehn, e no get anywhere wey e be 10/10.

Las las na only God perfect.

With this lockdown I just wished I was in my village aswear.

Easy jeje life...wetin concern you concern coro

I was shocked to notice there were no mosquitoes in my village the last time I visited. I slept with the netless windows open.

When men that speak from higher revelation speaks , we shouldn't take them too trifle

INTEGRITYA1:
They want dash us human right.

Fela Anikulapo, Rest on.

Drinking from the water we toiled to fetch is now a great privilege they are doing us....
The journey is still far for my beloved country

Watching

ghettokid1:
RIPP to them, but iranians are majority now how can they blow their nationals?

People can do anything do evoke sympathy .
Though am not saying they did

Valkrie:
You people commenting don't even understand what they call "Double Talk" in politics....!
Trust me when the shit start fully, Is real would be flying sorties into Iran to take out targets, their eyes have been on Iran's nuclear reactor and that they would make sure is reduced to rubble...!!
Some would here would shout..oh Russia would support Iran, but alas once the nuclear reactor is brought down, its same Russia Iran would run to to help them build another and you people sincerely think Russia would rebuild it for free? At the end its more money for Russia..!!

Russia stand to make.more money from the war simple...who no like money or see money wey him no go pick..!!

I only just sorry for Iran for picking the bait...!!

Once Iran is finally destroyed, same.world powers would be jostling for reconstruction contracts and all at the expense of Iran...!! Both that and her resources would be shared by the world powers...simple..!!

Good line of thought!!!

What do ibex left from a continent where religion is given such an exalted throne?

I would rather say a real life combo of Santa and robbinhood

Such happens when u smoke oshogbo weed soaked wt uncle jona's shekpe.
So many funny and strange lines in this story or is it because it didn't happen in my beloveth country?

Hantty, hot cash is what I need ooo

24kmagic:
Congratulations to her.
I don't mean to sound heartless but I cannot tolerate two years of childlessness in marriage.

If after two years you don't give me a child, I will get someone else to give me while I bring him/her home for you to train.

One of the major reasons why I will ever get married is because I want children, so why will I be with a woman who can't give me that for more than two years?

Even in my relationship. If I have unprotected sex with you at least ten times in a month and and you don't take in, I will start doubting your fertility.

I don't wish childlessness in marriage for even my worst enemy cos I know I can't take it.

No offense biko

Hmm, sounding like the mere mortals that we all are.
What if the the problem is from u, what will u do, get another man to do ur manly duty?

Life and it's little surprises.
mgbe nke onye n'eche ya