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OceanmorganTrix:
may safe delivery fall on you

I'm not pregnant o

2dice01:
lol

You are a gamer

Not an expert, I'm just a humble novice

Women have been disgracing themselves since Eve. She was expecting the guy to shed tears cos she rejected him. Now she's the one ranting and the guy is calmly blasting her
Finishing 101

Must everything be broadcasted

This polithiefians will do anything to remain in power. Pls she should come and help me wash, I'll vote for them in 2090

OceanmorganTrix:
are you pregnant potentially??

Hahahahahaha....2 months potentially (na lie o)

He left since 1993? Anyway since the house is in his name, the woman should let go.
Btw, was d man saving since 1993 in order to have enof money to fight this case
But something just doesn't add up in this story

kaboninc:
Hi

Yello! Welcome to the MTN customers care service
Hello, Good morning

Which one is the b4 and which is the after pics
Some people change skin colour but their heart is still black like back of pot, what's ur usefulness in life?
Anyway, keep bleaching, until you turn to coat of many colours. Pls don't stop

I hate the unclearable traffic and potholes as deep as the pit of hell. Some of those potholes can cause miscarriage

ArchangeLucifer:
Accident survivors.

Hei you prefer the dead ones?

How did you even get so close to someone of the opposite sex while you're married?
I'd advise you remain in your marriage, body dey sweet you nw. But when you mistakenly leave your marriage for the newbie story fit change from i love him to men are scum.
I'm not married but my male friends have their limits, to avoid touching stories. So i wonder why a married woman will make this silly mistake.
Close that chapter of new love and don't let ur hubby find out, cos you may end up losing ur marriage and ur newbie love. Your children fit hate you self.
Btw, you have UKWU'NNU (i think you're a who.re)

cescky:
Well..dunno about your assertion though..bit the lady that put me similar ground like the op was a church girl..." Pure church girl", so I have my reservations about girls , the most holy and not so holy ones are all alike in many respects..even Lucifer was once an archangel.

Yes their the crying shoulders because that fact supports my statement vthat most girls don't marry for love....hence the pain they go through. Madam u sef know say u fit marry one man, mean while your in love with another .... The Bible support my statement, because it says " the heart of a woman is as deep as well who can know it?"

About being friend zoned..it's a problem with the " good girls' because they think their godly husband will fall on them...hence Aristo girls quickly and easily settle before them..God works or provides through faith..and Faith is an action ...so Aristo girls will act, whil the godly will wait for husband to fall from heaven, Faith wotj out works is dead on arrival.

After God fear woman who ever coined that was a wise man ..even Solomon saodbthe heart of a woman is as deep as a well, you can't know what's in her.

I twale for una

Even me self dey fear us
As for me, I'm not the too holy or not holy, I'm balanced. Also i do not expect my mr right to just fall on me, I know a good guy when i see one (though to be with you, i must love you too. I don't do one sided love). All the same, not all women will choose wealth over love.

No 11 and 15 got me laughing
Op, this ur list make sense but it's not complete, person loss Lemme not talk sha

Othlera:
yeah, just imagine dating a girl with some of those traits and someone is telling you she's your God's will, same as the guy who has been beating you even before marriage.

If someone tells me that kind of guy is my god sent husband, I'll make sure i gv the person a slap that will erase the gift of prophecy from him/her

cescky:
your my ''perfect type''

though many like you exist..their numbers are diminishing quite fast

No dear. They're not really diminishing quite fast. The problem is that they've been friend zoned up to the 10th generation. They're the crying shoulders of ladies whose relationships are in turbulence. So this makes it look like they are scarce

Philosophia:
Hey guys. Thanks a lot.

I don't want to seem like a stupid person or what not. But I am in a confusion like I have never been in.

I slept on this issue. And my mind was troubled through out the night. I find it hard to really believe or accept that she would be seeing another guy right now. The reason is that she has been in several situations where guys would try to hit on her and start up something but she'd shut them down and tell me about it and we would laugh over it.

I remember that atimes I would read stories off nairaland about relationship troubles to her and we would discuss it. She would always give sound and very mature advice. And I would thank my stars for having met such a wise and conscientious girl.

I am thinking, is it possible she just wants to wake me from my seeming "slumber" to take life more seriously and make things happen faster generally? Or Does she expect me to get my act together ASAP and step to the plate to fulfill her desire?

She's the type that would think up an idea this minute and 3 mins later, she's doing it while I would take a bit more time to think the idea through. She has gotten me to take decisions faster in past by pulling up some stunt. Some of the decisions were ok while some others, I still regret till date.

I don't want to be in a haste. I want to follow her as smartly as possible so I don't loose out unnecessarily. Sometimes I fear she is smarter than me in "things of the world". She obviously has more experience, as this is her third relationship and my first.

What do you think?

MrHistorian
Wristbangle
PrimadonnaO
People with experience

Guy chill. Babe doesn't want you anymore, it's hard to believe but it's the fact. No dey cry over spilt milk. It's even better it's ending like this instead of persuading her in to waiting and when you're married you'll have no peace, cos she'll keep taunting you abt the suitors she lost. True love is hard to forget, but you no go kill yourself for woman, especially one behaving like this. If you die, she fit no come ur burial and if she manage come, another man go follow am.

Btw, no one has told you something quite important here. I just remembered you said her dad is or was a military man. Guy run for your dear life. If the man catch you, you're dead

saaedlee:
Philosophia

"Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt."
It took me a long time to figure this out, and it hurt the whole way. Then I understood what it was and then remembered the actual things that hurt and moved on. Don't hate love or think it hurts, because it doesn't....

I'll buy you a bottle of beer

majekdom2:
Thank you. She is a disaster waiting to happen to the next woman

So you mean she's a ticking time bomb

Nightwatchknine:
thumbs up dear, you will spread your legs and allow a path way for the right man

Jesu Kristi
Na compliment be that? Hei God
Which one be spread legs again
As for the right man, thank you

mozele:
life can be crazy some times you know.... what if you also discovered you are also carrying his baby? I'm sure
the thought of jejely leaving the relationship would have vaporized.

it's not fair o, is it ur leaving
Truth is if dt child was conceived b4 we started, I'll accept the baby. But me carrying his child will make me double minded. Still i no gree, I'm leaving. If he needs d child, make he come carry am.
Your plan no work

Othlera:
babe thats wah I believe too coz I prefer knowing I brought something on myself than regretting I actually followed the directions of someone who won't bear the consequences with me when the problem starts.buh like chivic said it has saved lots of life.buh this girl turned to a intimacy gadget coz she felt she was with Mr forever.guess we just have to take a risk between following our hearts or other means

Life is a risk anyway. But most times people get into these problems themselves. As a guy, you'll be in a relationship with a girl who
1. Uses sex to threaten you
2. Tell lies as colorful as fanta
3. Hang out with friends you're not comfortable with (cheating)
4. Loves attention like a new born child
5. Has shown unkind and uncalled for attitude to people
6. Disrespectful and find old people and kids disgusting
7. Challenges every single thing you say, and she is not even eager to learn
8. Compares you to other guys
9. Does not care if you save at all, na her self she know
10. You do not trust her fully, you still doubt her to an extent.
Some guys see these traits and still dive in to marriage like divers. No one is a saint, everyone has some flaws, but a girl who has almost all listed there na no no for me if i be guy.
While for the girls, they'll see a guy who
1. Beats them
2. Boss them around
3. Cheats
4. Isn't baby friendly or respectful to people especially the aged
5. Withholds sex or affection as punishment
6. Compares you to other ladies
7. Tell constant lies like the power failure in 9ja
8. Only has time for you when it's a weather for two
9. Doesn't include you in future plans
10. He doesn't make you feel good, wanted and loved. You still doubt if this will work a lot.
Girls see all these and jump in to marriage like life guards at a beach thinking the guy will change. If a person loves you, they'll change for good becos of you. But if they don't change when you're dating, forget it, they ain't changing after marriage.

Othlera:
babe thats wah I believe too coz I prefer knowing I brought something on myself than regretting I actually followed the directions of someone who won't bear the consequences with me when the problem starts.buh like chivic said it has saved lots of life.buh this girl turned to a intimacy gadget coz she felt she was with Mr forever.guess we just have to take a risk between following our hearts or other means

Life is a risk anyway. But most times people get into these problems themselves. As a guy, you'll be in a relationship with a girl who
1. Uses sex to threaten you
2. Tell lies as colorful as fanta
3. Hang out with friends you're not comfortable with (cheating)
4. Loves attention like a new born child
5. Has shown unkind and uncalled for attitude to people
6. Disrespectful and find old people and kids disgusting
7. Challenges every single thing you say, and she is not even eager to learn
8. Compares you to other guys
9. Does not care if you save at all, na her self she know
10. You do not trust her fully, you still doubt her to an extent.
Some guys see these traits and still dive in to marriage like divers. No one is a saint, everyone has some flaws, but a girl who has almost all listed there na no no for me if i be guy.
While for the girls, they'll see a guy who
1. Beats them
2. Boss them around
3. Cheats
4.

He cheated is my issue now, so he should take good care of the baby while i jejely leave the toxic relationship in peace

The eater raped that meat Not good to leave a plate like dt sha but any woman who eats well (i don't mean eat everything in the eatery, like she's abt to die), who's not ashamed to eat comfortably in your presence on your first date is probably not a pretender. Not all these slay queens eating 1/3 of the chicken and wasting food, whereas they lick the pots in their homes

The eater raped that meat Not good to leave a plate like dt sha but any woman who eats well (i don't mean eat everything in the eatery, like she's abt to die), who's not ashamed to eat comfortably in your presence on your first date is probably not a pretender.

cruchenutii:
How you take know? You dom see Raging Lion before ?

Hahahahahahaha....you never see where woman dey craze b4, if you don see u go know say raging lion na understatement

Just when i thought sanity was slowly returning to this op, his madness escalated again.

I don't know abt others, but the last thing i'll do is seek spiritual counsel concerning my relationship or marriage. God was der wen i fell in love, so nobody should tell me dt he's not in support of my union. When things do not go well, i'll know i followed my heart, and not blame it on any prophecy

What kind of inferiority complex is swallowing some Nigerians bikonu? What's the big deal in hawking? So if they see whites who are into sewage business or whites sleeping in slums and looking all dirty, they'll make a movie out of it? Foolish Cows

Each time i get new fuvks, somebody hides them. But as i no see am

Breadwinner, head of the family, all these do not really count. A couple should sit down and talk, know what's good for the family and make a decision. If it's a hard decision, compromise can help. Although, the husband should take major stands on issues but if a couple is deeply in love, they'll do everything together.