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Babacele:
her nature should be the sin but her actions or virtues and you just said two had unresolvable differences. Of course you alone know what makes you happy.

Laughs,, I believe you think I lost a jewel outta carelessness or rather you think I shouldn't have broke up with her at all,,, innit?

All the stress just for bianca buh na breadbuns and pure water you de arrange iffah come your house

Give it up for the men...

Babacele:
hmmm was that her only sin? then you have deliberately thrown away a golden diamond....it is her nature , well different strokes for different folks.

Nah it wasn't,, personal issues buh trust me the odds were totally against her....

Concerning her nature, which is directly opposed to mine, I did my all to help her fight it buh these kinda girls who are equally independent believes you should love them for who they are and they can't change for anybody.....Funny

MichaelBukamzy:
My woman is too shy. Not good at interactions at all.our phone calls always bored with her "yes","no" and haha replies. But she loves me ooo

Laughs... Dated someone like that,, was one of the reasons I let the pretty bird fly,, boring to the core.

unclefamous:
then to make it interesting ask her questions that requires long answers

.... For how long will you keep asking her questions? forever? She is supposed to help liven up the relationship sometimes,, he should try to push her into working on her boring state.

iamJ:
all these yeye rules, a real player will behave like a faithful real boyfriend to each of his girlfriends na why girls they cry heartbreak, cause the guy did all the right things his game is always tight

abeg make i hear word, i feel sorry for any girl that follow these

Oga, do read carefully and meditate thoroughly before commenting.... Haba.

tommyken:
At first I always do her demands like getting her recharge card but I stop later on to avoid being seen like a fool.whenever their is misunderstanding and I say "I love you",she will remind me that "if you love me you would have bought me what I ask for."
Fastforward to two days ago she told when returning from work I should buy her a medicated cream called skinnel and I just say ok but know I will never buy it for her,the previous night she even told me to buy her food that she don't like what her mum cook,this was late in the night by 10:pm and I just switch off my phone.
When I return from work she called me by 9pm and said why have I not bring her the cream she said I should buy for her ,which I can remember perfectly that she has never ever given me any thing in her life,so I played the mirrow strategy on her.
ME:can you do me favour
HER:what is it?
ME:can you get me jellof rice to eat,I don't like what I'm eating.
HER:have u finnish speaking?
ME:yes
HER:gud nite,let's call it a day.
And she cut the call.I have not call her and don't intend calling her untill she realise how selfish she is.
Pls,if I may ask did I do the right thing?

You laid the foundation of the relationship with spending, now it's slippery and you don't wanna fall?.... You either ask her for pardon and continue the silly spending or face the consequences.

zerro:
tanks sooo much,rili love number 2..but i have a prob and dats is, i do see her arnd like 3x a week, do have some classes together.. how do i work on this, thats my weak point

You don't have to avoid her,, you are way stronger than that,, I want you to show her you can do so well without her,, infact I would like it if you inbox me let's take it private,, i have this insatiable urge of easing your pain.

zerro:
blame myself for this, never pland 2 fall in love with any lady, but she was quiet convincing, wit no signs, all hapnd al of a sudden

Provided you are not a flirt, falling in love is not something you can control, fate plays tricks on we humans, even flirts get played when fate turns to their page in life, you just happened to have met and fell for a girl that shattered your life which is quite unfortunate...You are like this because you loved with just your heart excluding your head..... You will fall in love again, if fate permits it, believe you me, when next it happens use your head to help your heart... For now broh,, I once got over a girl I thought I couldn't live without, I strongly believe you can too..... FIGHTING

Cutehector:
Hmm.. See wetin love dey do to person.. Chai.

Laughs...You no go know how bitter leaf de taste until you taste am.

Oga,, after the help we offered with our posts last time you are still in this state?

I told you to endure it,, with time you will definitely get over her...

Is she the only person that gives you happiness in this world? Seek happiness sensibly elsewhere man and get over this shitty occurrence.

Lookat those hips...

It's all abou choice broh....

In otherwords,, she is tryna imply that being touched is a sin......
Jus negodu this girl

I prefer my green lips

Afraid of one minute duration

Your question shows you know your problem.

Sark my niggie..

yemmy95:
You are funny but this not a joking matter

Ask her the whereabouts of the condom,, be bold and out with it.

Chioma at work..

Maybe she used them to tie water to refridgerate for block

You just happened to be senseless,, just learn your lesson and move on.

Diamond23:
Same!!! Non jealous type. Am a free spirited bird, luv to fry without limitations.

Good.

“Feeling or showing an envious resentment of someone or their achievements, possessions, or perceived advantages.”

I believe this is the definition of jealousy,, I can only feel the resentment, only at that particular point in time and it fades away immediately... In relationships, I believe whoever I chose to love should trust me and I as well should trust her.

Jealousy should be applied with maturity,, if he/she chose to leave you for another person, let that person go and accept your fate.... A relationship I called off weeks ago left the ignorant sweet girl thinking I called it off because I saw a male friend in her room and heard he has been sleeping there for days running from cultists......Still laughing at her thoughts till date.

Diamond23:
Frm jealously to stalking and maybe murder.....pls I still luv my life Nd need a breathing space. Don’t need any one to suffocate me in d name of luv. I prefer non- jealous type. !

What abou you?

"she has pressed my mumu button that I no longer concentrate in bible studies" I imagined myself in your shoes and I have to confess, I laughed so hard....

I would have loved to tell you the story of my first love cause it's kinda similar to yours buh you have already made a move which according to certain specifications and ramifications is wrong... If you hadn't told her how you felt the tempo would have been more easy to dictate....

Just assign yourself into finding her achilles heel and take advantage of the situation.

Laughs.... I'm nah gonna be surprised if your future wife sensibly frowns at this from wherever.....

It is not a crime to be very caring and loving, infact I admire your desire to make your spouse very happy buh doing all these is totally wrong,, why??

You are abou to turn jobless because of a pregnant wife staying with her all day for care.

You are directly/indirectly breeding a future lazy wife and mother...

You are also breeding an equator for a wife,, they are supposed to exercise regularly for weight loss, like trekking close distances to loosen some weight especially those born with natural weight addition....These are the few demerits of your future inclinations.

Oga op,, not picking your calls how does it relate to forming hard to get?

Judging from your story, it's obvious the girl is still naive,, there is every possibility she doesn't wanna get awkward in the presence of whoever is there when she sights your call.... Just give it time and play along sensibly.

Laughs...

Newbeginnings:
Oh, within those two years she must have cheated so many times... Do you remember that story on nairaland about that girl who had a guy who proposed to marry her, then they both decided that she should get pregnant... He slept with her raw and poured inside her on Monday... Then on Wednesday, the girl's ex called her and she went to meet him and after some sweet talked he slept with her raw and poured inside her.. Then on Saturday, she met her old friend on the way and he slept with her raw and poured in her... Now the baby has been born and the girl is married to the first maga, but the ex has come back to say he wons the baby...

This story shows you how women are... Don't think you can ever own a woman completely, they are out there screaming feminism because they want to eat their cake and have it. Because they want to Bleep all men and never be called hoes. They want to live their life as they want... So bro I advice you to wise up... Love does not exist... It never has...

I agree with you on the issue of women having the tendency of eating their cakes and having it at the same time buh on the boldly written words, there is love,, it just won't last if you the niggy play your cards wrong,, you gotta be wise, very wise.

mespusinglez:
Then Be Ready To Die Young

Afraid of death?.... Something must kill a man.

CaptainGOOD:
No homo but flavour is the most handsome celebrity in Nigeria..
If u visit his insta handle u will know

I can agree with most sweet not most handsome,, wizkid and kiss are more handsome.