₦airaland Forum

Draei:
"Who gave you timetable.?"

I like that question, most girls need to hear this.

siryolo4:
I love that question... "who gave you time table"?

God gave them timetable, a biological timetable. May be you and the one you quoted didn't know that.

Chummynoni:
What is he meant to do?
I can learn from your advise as well

He and his fiancée needs to sit and discuss about how to boost their income. For how long are they going to postpone the marriage? 8 years already after graduation.
They could pull their little resources (savings) together and let either the man or the woman go into buying and selling while the other one continues with the salary work. The one with salary work can assist after closing hour.
I got married with far less amount as salary but I quickly realised that I needed to change my orientation concerning work and income. I'm not there yet but the decision paid off.

Carchoice:
What do you mean you are ready?

Will you foot the marriage expenses and pay bills after marriage?

Local man is trying to make life better first. I don’t blame him.

Extravagant marriage expenses is not compulsory. Paying bills after marriage, she said she was ready to contribute. If they couldn't grow individually after 8 years, it is time to try to see if can grow as one. They should try business or trade

Chummynoni:
The guy meant well for you. With the way the economy is, settling down in marriage is a task many men dread of entering. 60k monthly is jus 720k annually. Price of everything is rising everyday in this shithole. The guy loves you, but he wants a secured future for you and yur unborn kids

How will the guy be financially okay if continues with that work and salary? Poor mindset. The marriage is not the problem here because, even without marriage, he will still continue to struggle with that 60k a month as a bachelor.

abigail11:
I have been dating this guy for 8 years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days.

You didn't mention the most important piece of information: how old are you?
Break free from the guy, don't mind the number of years you have wasted with him. Give attention to new suitors. How is he going to make millions by doing 60k a month job? I got married with far less amount but discovered that crappy monthly salary wasn't the way at all.

EkelediliBuhari:
Marriage is not all life is about

Focus on building yourself first... have a personal vision and drive... if you find another person along the way you move on
If he happens to be ready then you marry

[s] But don’t marry him because he’s available and you’re “running out of time”.... who gave you time table?? [/s]

Focus on your personal life and all will fall in place

Easier said than done. You are not in her shoes, I wouldn't expect you to understand. If the guy is finally ready to marry three to four years to come but thinks she's too old for him, are you the one who will marry her or provide husband for her

festacman:
MISTAKE: It is a mistake for agricultural products traders to make its strike action appear like protest in support of excesses of Fulani herdsmen is a big mistake. Traders issue and herdsmen issue are two different things .

So, you don't know or read that many of their members were killed in Ibadan and properties destroyed as a result of fallout from Hausa man and Yoruba woman/man?
We should even thank God that they applied wisdom and carried out their protests in a civilised manner. They could have gone on retaliatory killings of southerners in northern part of the country.

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You can say that again.
They just wasted those boys life for nothing.
[s] And to make it worse, no one was arrested at all or made to pay for the horrible crime. [/s]
There was a country.[/quote]Don't say what you don't know with authority. Many people were arrested including the two police officers who encouraged the mob instead of rescuing the victims or calling for backup. They all were charged to court and they are still in prison. Go and make your findings [i][/i]

[quote author= post=99562749]..

You can say that again.
They just wasted those boys life for nothing.
[s] And to make it worse, no one was arrested at all or made to pay for the horrible crime. [/s]
There was a country.[/quote]Don't say what you don't know with authority. Many people were arrested including the two police officers who encouraged the mob instead of rescuing the victims or calling for backup. They all were charged to court and they are still in prison. Go and make your findings

myright:
Anambra
Abia
Imo
Ebonyi
Cross River
Akwa Ibom

These states have witnessed guerrilla attacks within 2 weeks. The war has has begun! Lalasticlala

Handwork of IPOB and ESN. I hope it ends well for them and the innocent ones.

GodHatesBigots:
The police and army have been tormenting and killing thousands of Nigerians for decades now, maybe they should learn to be friends with the people and not the enemy.

Boko Haram is a different matter, they are terrorists sponsored by the Northern Elite.

Is that why Eastern Elites are sponsoring IPOB too? Because they too have finally transformed into terrorist organisation and I haven't seen Ohaneze criticise or condemn their killing spree

WestAfricaan:
This is enough to ask the president to step down.
He promised better security but he isn't meeting up

Lol. You're attacking police stations and killing police officers and the next thing you want is for the president to step down? How about calling on the president deal decisively with the murderers?

but the truth is that all of us would regret the day that we would not have the police on the streets.”

IPOBians and their supporters would like to experience that more than being told.

Following renewed attacks on police formations and officers, some elders from the South East have urged relevant authorities to deal decisively with IPOB members.

They kept quiet before, now some sensible ones, with liver among them are now speaking up. Ohaneze members still pretend like they don't read the news.

gidgiddy:
And what do you tell the families of the hundreds of unarmed IPOB members that have been shot dead by Police and Army since 2015 just for protesting?

Your question was not needed because I reacted to this:

EmekaA125:
IPOB has never maimed, harmed or killed anyone.

Prussian:
Fulanis have sex with their cattle. Yes or no?

No. Prove it. How can I say yes to invalidated allegation?

Owologbo:
Are the northerners feeding anybody? Are the northerners giving the non farmers farm products for free?
Are the northerners the ones providing the south the garri we consumed here?
They should keep their farm products in the North and wait for the south to come and beg them.
This few days have shown you and your ilk that you are not feeding anybody. You are the one blocking food from coming to south and still the crying.

Is it not when you see something to buy with your money that your money is said to have value?

epondudu:
Let hear what the haters of Nigeria's harmony will say on this.

They would sad right now. PDP members and sympathisers, IPOBians, Afenifere, (even Ohaneze dey get small sense pass Afenifere these days) are sad right now

harmargedon:
it's called a private part. I wonder how it took part in public affairs.

You are just like your leaders, insensitive

Ever8090:
No be Northern Nigeria!!?.....those people kills for nothing, not to talk of 3,500....very useless set of people...Rip sir,..

This happened in Southern state.

mmsen:
Just like a war against Boko Haram is a war against the north, so a war against killer herdsmen or kidnappers is also a war against the north...

Trash. Like Atiku was from your tribe. Lol

Some southern state governments and farmers have dismissed blockade by northern food suppliers, saying it is an opportunity for the South to boost its food production capacity. Officials of the states including Lagos, Cross River, Akwa Ibom, Delta, Enugu and Ondo in separate interviews with The PUNCH on Monday explained their actions to ensure self-sufficiency in food and animal production.

Jokes of the century .
You were waiting for northerners to punish you with starvation before you boost your own food production capacity all these years? Desert states threatening rain forest states with starvation and you are not ashamed of yourselves.
Most of them have been paying lip services to agriculture over the years and the truth is that they will not still learn anything this time around nor take any active steps. Everyone should brace for what's coming unless you all crawl back to the northerners and beg them.
BTW: I thought southerners including nairalanders were used to calling northerners lazy and parasites just because we happened to sit on natural crude oil? Parasites are now blackmailing you with basic and essential human needs! That's comic.

79! This man don old, happy birthday. Period for tiding things up, no one lives forever!

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PureMe01:
Na only AFENIFERE wey dey straightforward for Western region...they don't sit on the fence or mince words when speaking the truth or taking resolute action against injustice...in general,they don't leak fulani's asses...just AFENIFERE
...but unfortunately,Yorubas especially Yoruba Muslims don't appreciate them cos they haven't bowed to Tinubu & the caliphate yet just like the useless Ohaneze.
I'm not from the West but I so love AFENIFERE.
Umahi/Kalu/Ohaneze should keep dreaming of presidency, nonsense!...the lesson wey Tinubu dey learn now never clear dem.Dem think say dem wise pass .We go see.
Make baba God keep us all alive reach 2023,the drama wey go happen go sweet that is if there still exists the GREATEST scam,#ONENIGERIA then.
I just said it as it is,if you no like am,go to HELL!

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Afenifere is an arm of the major opposition party. Anything for disunity is what gives them orgasm.

igbeke:
I have stopped the consumption of beef in my household for close to a year now.
If you know what the fulanis do with these cows before selling.....,
It is well. Pls boycott beef in Nigeria if you love yourself and your household.

Here we go again! All manners of rubbish statements from sick minds

longetivity:
bubu is killing the youths... RIP Man

Youths are killing the youth

XshegzzyeeiX:
All my efforts to make him come down to 2 months proved abortive.

Take up the job and see if the tips from the customers will compensate for the 50% he's going to take from your salary for the next four months. The first month will determine if you should continue or quit, but don't give up without giving it a trial first

stupidmod3:
she wasn't happy bout herself


she complained bout being unmarried
about her size
business
she use to sleep in her shop
but later got a place


RIP lady
u left a shitting world going to a better place

Mehn, that's just too much for a lady.

Ever8090:
No be Northern Nigeria!!?.....those people kills for nothing, not to talk of 3,500....very useless set of people...Rip sir,..

Lynching and mob attacks are very rampant and more common in the south than in the North.

OOzz:
My tribe mines skull and practice wickedness + backstabbing for a living

And my tribe is a complete joke as far as Nigeria issue is concerned, no one takes us seriously.

OOzz:
I am from the afonja stock. Which one are u?

I'm from the flat headers stock. Happy now?

Whytelyon:
Ibos wanted to conquer yorubas? Can you kindly show me that pls , like links to that.

They were not stopped at Ore? When Banjo went back to inform ojukwu that south west was impenetrable, didn't ojukwu execute him and others? Go and read your history

EmekaA125:
IPOB has never maimed, harmed or killed anyone. The group under Mazi Nnamdi Kanu's command has maintained its peaceful objectives by demanding for a separate nation peacefully.

Tell that to the family of Northerners and police officers who have been murdered by IPOB miscreants, not even once or twice most especially in Rivers state. Soldiers had to be deployed on many occasions to stop them from their murderous rampage.