Next guy is still gonna cheat. Deal with it

Eboski:
Don't do it, let it not come from you, resist the devil and thank me later.

You just don't resist the devil. The Bible says 'Flee' from temptation. My Guy, pack comot from that house.

SweetCunt97:
Where dem release this one from? Who is" We" exactly? Abi you denying d fact that there are Broke Men?

C'mon Amiga, there are Broke men. Perhaps broke men sld be with broke ladies. Nothing inspires a broke man to Up his game more than dating a broke girl.

SweetCunt97:
So it's safe to tell women to stay away from Broke Guys huh?

Who says we're broke? I guess you should paraphrase; "So it's safe to tell women to go earn some living for themselves huh? and that man must not live on sweetcunt alone.

You should also consider seeing yourself beyond your fanny too

Send me your account number let me refund your money and save the girl of your pettiness and humiliation. I mean send me a PM!

We have so many scripted Wale Adenuga Productions here... Master fictitious storytellers...

cynosuree:
Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.

I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.

But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.


He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.

I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?

The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .

I'd like to know what you think

You're undeserving of this guy. I'd direct him to this thread so that he knows what you think about him.

Your husband is a fraudster. Deep down you know it. You are failing to accept the harsh reality based on sentiment and love he shares with your mother. You were used as a ticket for him to leave the country. Such crimes are easily perpetrated for a fraudster living outside Nigeria. Especially those into Romance scam. Those poorly structured grammar could be as a result of a translator's output or him deliberately decentralizing from a speech/word pattern known to him. I'd go for the former, they later is for advanced psychopaths. You need to be careful. because there is a level of knowledge you'd have in his activity that can incriminate you. You could be charged for perjury. Start weighing your options on starting life afresh. Coz from my viewpoint, it doesn't look good! I'm sorry!

He doesn't want a relationship with you. Remain in the friend zone.

Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

You're obviously the only one in the relationship. Schedule a meeting btw her and the stranger. Keep a spy camera closeby and come share with us here. We'd like to see the shock on her face �

Dammiesugar:
This life is funny! me that I can cook any kind of delicacy, never a dull moment with me, working with side hustle sef, no man to say I want meet your family�� Anyway uncle open your mind to her and if she’s not willing to change then let her go.

I want to meet your family.

So what are they going to charge him with? Illegal possession of human excreta?

lovewizzy09:
Their is one very important point you missed, girls under 16 are very young and very confused. Just wait till she turns 20, she will tell you to your face that you are a control freak and you don't want her to experience other aspects of life that is why you tricked her into a relationship at a very early age.

A girl at 20 is still a kid...

OP, go get help

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ola9ja:


Baba na five years self, late 2012 till now, I just have to take my time, after ending the relationship, I will have to cross examine myself to be able to identify my own faults, I have always ask her to tell me what I am not doing right, her answer has always been nothing.

There is nothing wrong with you bro. Needless to reevaluate yourself. They are the problem. Stay away from liabilities and leeches that won't help you grow. Trust me, there are loads of wonderful women out there who are not liabilities and ready to love/pamper their partners. I can't guarantee you won't be getting the usual women drama. Stay away from girls below they age of 25. A good number of them are hungry as$ leeches that can't afford to buy common biscuit for themselves and have never lifted a finger to work to know the true value of money. For a guy of your age, your focus should be finding a smart, educated, working class lady above 25 years. Be wise

Clear case of many being mad, but a few roaming the street. I guess she didn't enjoy the food she had and decided to return it in Poop form... Disgusting!

Evil Child!!!

Before I even entered to read the content of your thread, I knew felt it had to do with porn addiction. Amigo, there is something the called Neuroplasticity. It is the believe that our brain cells is plastic and can conform to whatever we feed it. Most of the time, our behaviour. In this case you are heavily in porn and have programmed you brain which also sends wrong signals to the rest of your body. Meaning say, na only through porn you fit derive enjoyment.

Here is my advise.. Keep away from pornographic material for at least 4 - 6 months. Even videos of girls twerking, semi nude ladies and all that. Starve your brain and your body. You are indirectly resetting it. Statistically, porn addiction is one of the primary causes of erectile dysfunction amongst youth. Thank me later.

UbanmeUdie:




T.B Joshua is not a prophet but a sorcerer!

He is an outcast and a spiritual bastard as far as the Nigerian christian community is concerned.

CAN does not know him!
PFN does not know him!

The Catholic church believes in tithing,
The Protestants also believe in tithing.

T.B Joshua does not fall in any category, so it is ok for him to tell his members to pay their tithes in anyway they deem fit. The question is, is that scriptural?

T.B Joshua is a dundee utd!
No bible sense at all.


Useless demonized pair from hell!

Na so the thing pain you reach? Do you own a church?

Khd95:
Flaunt ur brain abeg..no sane man will settle down for a massive poo reservoir if ur brain small like ant

what an interesting choice of word. Are you a geoscientist?

Stay away from pornography and masturbation. Do this for 2-3 months. Your brain will reset to factory setting. Those two shit are one of the major causes of ED (psychologically)... but if it persists, see a doctor!

No go sign yourself into eternal consensual slavery. For 70k, I'd say its not worth it. Esply if you don't have know in details what the company is up to.

Man 4 will shout first. He'd be like, just hang me already gad damnit! I don't stand the chance of knowing.

But jokes apart, if Man 1 is intelligent, he'd start by observing that there is a pattern and he stands on a vantage position. There are 3 level steps, he is at the topmost (this is the first pattern). He is aware that there are four of them in number and he stands at the first level with 2 criminals at different lower levels, while the 4th criminal is just across the wall. Meaning there is no one behind him. He can also see the colour of the hat the 2 other criminals are wearing, the closest being white and the farther being black. He can stochastically deduce that there is a pattern (Black - white - black). And also that the color of hat he has on is black with the limited information he has...

gqboyy:
I will never forgive glo. God punish their slow ass network

Get a 4G phone that supports that band. You'd be singing their praising all day long.

Typical example of monkey no fine, but hin mama like am...

Doesn't seem to apply to me. Awa body and brain dey different. I have always been nocturnal... And still get very efficient at work.

Apple taking a hit from Samsung...

Innobee99:
Hi Nairalander
I have read alot of relationship issues on this platform and I know many have gotten their solution from here. Am presently in a great confusion about a life time decision.
I met this lady while I was still serving, i.e 2015. I mean during my NYSC days. I love and cherish her so much and she knows. Immediately after my service, I moved to Abuja to find a greener pasture, after being through hell, I finally got a place with an Estate developer. Money wasn't my problem and I do send my babe money as a nice guy. Her birthday came, I did the necessary things a gentleman will do to please his woman.
Fast forward, I lost my job cuz the company was sealed up by EFCC. I started managing my life with the little I saved. My babe started displaying some nasty attitudes like she no longer call unless I call. She now compares me with how other guys are taking good care of their babes. Though I recently got a job with National Open University of Nigeria, and my pay is not too bad. I used my first salary to rent a self contain apartment so I dnt bother my colleague I was initially staying with which my babe knew that was what I used the money for. I haven't gotten salary for last month and I got a text from her telling me how she is tired of my broke as, dryness, poverty, how I have not added any value to her life and many provocative languages beyond my comprehension. Forgetting how I once took good care of her. This lady will only flash me and if I dnt call back due to the fact that I dnt have airtime, all manner of insults will rain on me that day.
Please, my people, is she someone that can really stand by you when things are rough? I love her so much but I dnt want to ever make a life time mistake. She threatens me of going out with other guys if I dnt get her a phone before December.
Should I quit and move on or what do you guys suggest I do as this point.
cc: Lalasticlala

You are asking questions you already have answers to. Wise up!

GloriaNinja:
HMM SO SHE EVEN HAVE FANS FOLLOWING HER AROUND, THAT OLD HAG THAT I CAN EVEN SPIT ON. THAT'S WHAT ASS-LICKING CAUSES.

Have you checked yasef out lately? You young, yet look like a hag.

You need to quit hoeing around...

Why is Ambode and Martins looking like they smell something foul. And the guy at the extreme right standing like he has done something foul.