Romance › Re: I'm Not Aborting The Baby, But I've To Travel Far_Far Away From Home. by Ayo081(m): 10:37am On Oct 27, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: I'm Not Aborting The Baby, But I've To Travel Far_Far Away From Home. by Ayo081(m): 10:08am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Breathe bro,
This is life, it has happened. Tomorrow will come. It will pass. Better days ahead.
Life could be easy if you want it to.
Let your friends know, your parents and brethren. Almost everybody laugh in a funny situation. They'll forget they did.
You'll be surprised they won't be that mad at you and you're just overthinking. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor M Says, "There Is No God!" by Ayo081(m): 9:09am On Oct 27, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: Jesus' group are two fractions! Disciples: these are people who go about their normal businesses but keep spending time (leisure) sharing what they know with neighbours. Apostles: this set are full time workers who gave everything they had for Jesus, many of them were married with children in the first century but they abandoned their normal way of family life to focus completely on the ministry! Mark 10:28
Whoever is a disciple of Jesus only need to put his/her best in sharing kingdom truth with the neighbours they must continue with their day to day life, but when Jesus was calling his first set of disciples in the first century he made them understand that they must forget about their normal lifestyle if they want to fully be his companions {Mark 10:21} such a person must forget all plans to start a family with children because they'll become a distraction to his Apostleship. But today most people wants to be full-time workers in Jesus' vineyard yet they want all what life has to offer of course they're not Christians at all, because Jesus made himself clear when he ordered that man to forgo normal life and concentrate on the ministry! Luke 18:18-23
Nobody is divinely called today like it was in the first century, it's a calculation that each person needs to put in place {Luke 14:28} each person needs to plan whether he will go into the full time ministry which gives no room for raising biological children {1Corinthians 7:7 compare to Matthew 19:10-12} but if you're going to raise children then you can't be a full-time evangelizer like Jesus, Paul or Timothy!  The man in [Mark 10/Luke 18] asked how will he gain eternal life. Isn't that a kind of question all will ask? and not just Apostles? And what do you think of 1 Tim. 3 : 1-7? |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 7:31am On Oct 27, 2021 |
hupernikao: Bro, you not identifying with Christians again haven't still solve or answer your question (Does God Exist). Even the best of atheism today still seek answers and proof to that question daily.
The questions on your heart are normal. It only showed you likely don't have those who are willing to listen to you around you, or who can answer what bothers you.
For me, looking at all your comments here, I can assumed you have likely had much of wrong teaching of God around you. And that raised lot of questions that such teachers couldn't answer.
Well, if you seek answers truly. Then you should read this intelligently.
1. Your decision above doesn't solve the problem at hand nor does it answer the question you seek. Hence it is only be a distraction for you, as your heart knows you haven't gotten answers.
2. There are usually hidden concerns that underline the great question you asked. Most who call themselves atheist here have narrated unknowingly in their multitude of words such hidden concerns that drove them to atheism and mostly are from personal challenges or concerns that surround how the place you fellowship have presented God's word and promises to you or your normal desires that were never fulfilled even after you have done all that you were told was required.
3. In life, when confused, you should rather err on the side of one you know, one you have seen, and count faithful to you (your real world, your family, your people) than one who you haven't seen, nor know, nor add any value to you in life (the online world).
You can't measure the life of any here by just reading their text including me. Here you will see, liars, deceiver, good and bad etc. Yet all come in the name of helping or intelligent. But there is always a means to that end.
Err on the side of caution and patiently determine your next step.
4. And most importantly, no one can or will decide for you as am sure you can make decision by yourself. But ask yourself, what truly is driving your decisions.
Are they based on failed expectations from God?
Are they based on pressure from life and seems God wasn't there for you?
Are they based on assumptions from poor doctrine about God?
Or are they based on true desire to know the truth about God existence or non existence.
Whatever the reasons. I can confidently tell you, that the foundation is from a wrong knowledge of who God is or what he can do.
Give yourself time Bro. And ask your questions, you will find answers from the right persons. Absolutely! |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 9:28pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 9:08pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: God came through for me so, i have proof of God to give others, is that what you are trying to insinuate?  Yes for yourself and others  If the Man with the spirit of legion wasn't healed would he be asked to go tell  Why did Jesus asked him to go tell?  |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 9:00pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 8:54pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: This is God waking you up from a delusion. Leave and be free to search and find Him for yourself.  No. Not shove. 38 The man from whom the demons had gone out begged to go with him, but Jesus sent him away, saying,
39 “Return home and tell how much God has done for you.” So the man went away and told all over town how much Jesus had done for him.
Luke 8:38-39 NIV |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 8:51pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: He is telling you that the delusion that is the gathering of your brethren has not no proof to show him of God and yet you here you are suggesting for him more of the same?   |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 8:47pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: If you never had evidence of God's existence before thus, why did you call yourself a Christian to begin with? 
I would never had chosen Christianity if He hadn't proven to me first that He is. If He hadn't invaded my space during the trial period, I would have concluded that He didn't exist and moved on to the next Faith on my list.  Encounter, details might be of help too. Even to me  |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 8:45pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Reason why the gathering of the brethren is important. If you belong to one, why not tell your mind to them. Well there's on NL here although not an organized one. I could mention some that could help. oh one of em already posted. cc MaxInDHouse et Al.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor M Says, "There Is No God!" by Ayo081(m): 12:58pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
PastorM: I personally don't believe tithes is for Christians today but that's another topic. 'That's another topic'. It'll be interesting to hear you on that. Maybe on another thread. How would those who have been called fulltime do it?  |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Religious Friend Says Pastor Oyedepo Is Richer Than China Jack Ma. See Pics by Ayo081(m): 9:30am On Oct 26, 2021 |
Note this today, there is a significant difference between a religious person and a Christ like person.  |
Romance › Re: How Can I Stop My 23-Year-Old Girlfriend From Bed-Wetting? by Ayo081(m): 5:52am On Oct 26, 2021 |
Promzy99: A customer I was conversing with today, told me that d parents should kill a snake nd wrap it around her waist, that it wud stop d flow. I dnt really knw how true.  Don't start another trouble, you want to turn her to snake girl?  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 10:06pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Jesus Christ instructed His disciples to teach those who are not saved - those who are yet to believe and be baptized. Recall that Jesus Christ declared that He alone is Teacher, leader/authority over those who are saved - those who are entered into His Kingdom.  What do you think of discipleship making?  Teaching those who need salvation for a day or two?  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:47pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:29pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Again, in the Kingdom of God, there is only one Leader and His name is Jesus Christ.  As far as the Church which is built by Jesus Christ is concerned, He alone is the vine and everyone else is a branch on the vine. ... no branch can lead another branch in the vine. Instead each branch directly abides in the vine and the vine in turn abides in each branch... I'll assume you don't get me  Completely get your point tho  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:28pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I didn't do that at all.  Pay attention. lol Ok  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:20pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Christ never handed over His Kingdom to His servants... instead He sent His followers out to teach the Gospel to those in the world..those who are not Saved and of His Kingdom. His Kingdom, He alone is King and ruler over all those who belong in it.  You just paraphrased what I typed  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:19pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: For the umpteenth time, Jesus Christ declared Himself the only Master, Leader/authority, Head, Shepherd, Teacher, Helper...etc. , over each of those who belong in His flock. So those whom you suggest are leaders over you are not of Him since He emphatically declared that no one who belongs to Him can serve two masters.  Again, recall that you're having a chit chat with another in Christ.  Leadership in this context is not the wordly one  I suspect you don't know how the Apostles of Christ go about their leadership  There are reasons why Christ gave them teachings a about leadership  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:05pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: We were just moments ago considering how own of the entries in Paul's letters obscures the Truth as given by Jesus Christ and here you are asking me this? 
That God permits a thing does then mean it is of God, does it?  Again, don't forget Christ handed over to us how the Kingdom should be expanded by bringing people along. That's the commission given to followers. Don't mix it up, Paul was not in disagreement with Christ after his revelatory conversation. |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:02pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:44pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I don't believe in the power of the Holy Ghost and what is written to have happened on the day of Pentecost, why?  Why? Because you would believe the disciples received power and will result in you believing their letters to the early gatherings. |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:42pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: God permitted this or men deliberated and decided this of their own? So are the decisions of men now of God? 
I believe you need to become more informed about the history of scripture and that which you call your Bible today in order to get a better understanding of why your first statement somehow brings God under men. For more than 1000 years, what was known as scripture was more than just the 99 books in your Bible today. Did God change His mind or did man?  He definitely didn't change  I ask again, does it obscure the message of Christ? God is not under man. He isn't. If I decide to do anything today, it still depends on if God will permit me. God permitted many false prophets today. If they're are no false people, how will you believe Mathew 7?  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:37pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:33pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: As to what is stated in 2 Peter 1 vs 20 - 21, as quoted by you, am I to take it then that you also consider that which is written in scriptural texts such as the infact Gospel of Jesus, the Gospel of Jesus according to Barnabas, the apocalypse of John, the Gospel of Nicodemus, Bel and the dragon ... etc., -many of them not including in your current Bible today - as being of the Holy Spirit? 
Or is it only prophesy and scripture and of the Holy Spirit if currently included in the book you call your Bible?  If some books were removed from the early Bibles, I believe God permitted that  They didn't change the fact that Christ is the author and finisher of our faith.  The ones available now wether from John, Mark , Luke or Paul didn't obscure the true message of Christ  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:29pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
emmnprince: Funny enough, Paul's words are God's words because he was inspired to pen those words, especially areas that borders on godly living. Absolutely! |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:28pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: The Spirit of Truth, is Jesus Christ , and He will never reveal or speak any Truth that contradicts Jesus Christ. When you understand this, you will realize how very important it is to validate everything you hear and think against God's Truth, Jesus Christ, this as revealed to the world over 2000 years ago.  Do you mean to say you don't count Paul as one with the spirit of truth?  Or that he might not be speaking according to what the spirit told him?  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 7:49pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Scripture works best when we don't add or remove from it. Prescribing a special case for married couples where God has not prescribed such is what Paul is alleged to have done in Ephesians, and this by erroneously suggesting that the curse is God's plan for the redeemed.  God gave warnings/prophecy to nations/individuals through prophets in the old testament. Christ reached his disciples. Christ commanded his disciples to teach with the spirit. So God could speak through you too if you have the spirit of truth.  20 Above all, you must understand that no prophecy of Scripture came about by the prophet’s own interpretation of things. 21 For prophecy never had its origin in the human will, but prophets, though human, spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.
2 Peter 1:20-21 NIV  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 7:32pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: There is no special flow between a husband and a wife in Jesus Christ and no special headship except that which came by way of the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 from which all those who are in Jesus Christ have been redeemed from. The only Head over each and every one who is a disciple - those who have been redeemed from that very curse - is Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ alone.  , It's okay if you don't agree with me on this  |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 7:03pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I don't follow! 
Again, what I am saying is that what Paul said is not what Jesus Christ said. So, to suggest then that Paul's words are Jesus Christ's own Words is wrong. 
What Jesus Christ commanded was to all of His disciples (individuals, Eunuchs, husbands and wives included). However, Paul's extraction suggests a special case for husbands, where Jesus Christ never said or taught such to begin with.
The same love that Jesus Christ taught should exist between a disciple and another disciple is the exact same love that should exist between a husband/wife and spouse...no difference whatsoever. So in the same exact way Jesus Christ taught His disciples to submit to each other in Him is the very same way a husband is to submit to wife and wife submit to husband. The only Lord or ruler over them all is Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ alone.  Absolutely! How it should. We must submit to one another. I fear to break it to you that there's a special kind of flow between a husband and a wife which must confirm the 'headship' of the husband in the Christian life.  How the husband choose to manage this 'headship' will tell if he's a Christian or not.  You might want to change your perspective about Paul and Christ used him to spread His Gospel of truth.  Paul's function among the disciples and the gentiles.  15 But the Lord said to Ananias, “Go! This man is my chosen instrument to proclaim my name to the Gentiles and their kings and to the people of Israel.
16 I will show him how much he must suffer for my name.”
Acts 9:15-16 NIV He was a man of spirit and obviously saying things that has been revealed to him. He was a son of God and led by the spirit.  13 But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come.
14 He will glorify me because it is from me that he will receive what he will make known to you.
15 All that belongs to the Father is mine. That is why I said the Spirit will receive from me what he will make known to you.”
John 16:13-15 NIV Same with other apostles. Marriage is was created by God |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 6:30pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
after4: But true love don't lord it over the ones they love nah Exactly what I said  |