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RomanceRe: I'm Not Aborting The Baby, But I've To Travel Far_Far Away From Home. by Ayo081(m): 10:37am On Oct 27, 2021
grin
Parizz:
hi dad
RomanceRe: I'm Not Aborting The Baby, But I've To Travel Far_Far Away From Home. by Ayo081(m): 10:08am On Oct 27, 2021
Breathe bro,

This is life, it has happened. Tomorrow will come. It will pass. Better days ahead.

Life could be easy if you want it to.

Let your friends know, your parents and brethren. Almost everybody laugh in a funny situation. They'll forget they did.

You'll be surprised they won't be that mad at you and you're just overthinking.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor M Says, "There Is No God!" by Ayo081(m): 9:09am On Oct 27, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
Jesus' group are two fractions!
Disciples: these are people who go about their normal businesses but keep spending time (leisure) sharing what they know with neighbours.
Apostles: this set are full time workers who gave everything they had for Jesus, many of them were married with children in the first century but they abandoned their normal way of family life to focus completely on the ministry! Mark 10:28

Whoever is a disciple of Jesus only need to put his/her best in sharing kingdom truth with the neighbours they must continue with their day to day life, but when Jesus was calling his first set of disciples in the first century he made them understand that they must forget about their normal lifestyle if they want to fully be his companions {Mark 10:21} such a person must forget all plans to start a family with children because they'll become a distraction to his Apostleship. But today most people wants to be full-time workers in Jesus' vineyard yet they want all what life has to offer of course they're not Christians at all, because Jesus made himself clear when he ordered that man to forgo normal life and concentrate on the ministry! Luke 18:18-23

Nobody is divinely called today like it was in the first century, it's a calculation that each person needs to put in place {Luke 14:28} each person needs to plan whether he will go into the full time ministry which gives no room for raising biological children {1Corinthians 7:7 compare to Matthew 19:10-12} but if you're going to raise children then you can't be a full-time evangelizer like Jesus, Paul or Timothy! smiley
The man in [Mark 10/Luke 18] asked how will he gain eternal life. Isn't that a kind of question all will ask? and not just Apostles?

And what do you think of 1 Tim. 3 : 1-7?
Christianity EtcRe: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 7:31am On Oct 27, 2021
hupernikao:
Bro, you not identifying with Christians again haven't still solve or answer your question (Does God Exist). Even the best of atheism today still seek answers and proof to that question daily.

The questions on your heart are normal. It only showed you likely don't have those who are willing to listen to you around you, or who can answer what bothers you.


For me, looking at all your comments here, I can assumed you have likely had much of wrong teaching of God around you. And that raised lot of questions that such teachers couldn't answer.

Well, if you seek answers truly. Then you should read this intelligently.

1. Your decision above doesn't solve the problem at hand nor does it answer the question you seek. Hence it is only be a distraction for you, as your heart knows you haven't gotten answers.

2. There are usually hidden concerns that underline the great question you asked. Most who call themselves atheist here have narrated unknowingly in their multitude of words such hidden concerns that drove them to atheism and mostly are from personal challenges or concerns that surround how the place you fellowship have presented God's word and promises to you or your normal desires that were never fulfilled even after you have done all that you were told was required.

3. In life, when confused, you should rather err on the side of one you know, one you have seen, and count faithful to you (your real world, your family, your people) than one who you haven't seen, nor know, nor add any value to you in life (the online world).

You can't measure the life of any here by just reading their text including me. Here you will see, liars, deceiver, good and bad etc. Yet all come in the name of helping or intelligent. But there is always a means to that end.

Err on the side of caution and patiently determine your next step.


4. And most importantly, no one can or will decide for you as am sure you can make decision by yourself. But ask yourself, what truly is driving your decisions.

Are they based on failed expectations from God?

Are they based on pressure from life and seems God wasn't there for you?

Are they based on assumptions from poor doctrine about God?

Or are they based on true desire to know the truth about God existence or non existence.


Whatever the reasons. I can confidently tell you, that the foundation is from a wrong knowledge of who God is or what he can do.

Give yourself time Bro. And ask your questions, you will find answers from the right persons.
Absolutely!
Christianity EtcRe: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 9:28pm On Oct 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I am afraid you are mixing things up here. undecided

That proof of God's existence does not come from hearing about God. It comes instead from a direct encounter and relationship with God Himself. undecided

The man with the spirit of legion did not tell you he didn't have proof of God to begin with. He was delivered of possession by demons... that there is a form of proof of God's existence to this man.
Now, Jesus Christ's commandment to the man who had just been healed was not this He go and present proof of God's existence but instead to fell people of his personal experience. undecided

I can't prove God to you - that is impossible to do - I can only tell you of what God has done for me. You have to seek proof you need directly from God Himself. That is how God Himself set this up. You have to call upon Him yourself in order for Him to show you the great and mighty things He will. undecided
I can only tell you of what God has done for me.
And it's not a prove? undecided
Christianity EtcRe: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 9:08pm On Oct 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
God came through for me so, i have proof of God to give others, is that what you are trying to insinuate? undecided
Yes for yourself and others undecided

If the Man with the spirit of legion wasn't healed would he be asked to go tell undecided

Why did Jesus asked him to go tell? undecided
Christianity EtcRe: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 9:00pm On Oct 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Talk about pulling verses out of context. undecided

Do you really believe that the reason the Op does not believe in God is because he has not heard people talk about God to him? undecided
So why did Jesus asked the man to go tell how much God has done for him? undecided

You claimed He came through for you, so what? undecided
Christianity EtcRe: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 8:54pm On Oct 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
This is God waking you up from a delusion. Leave and be free to search and find Him for yourself. undecided
No. Not shove.

38 The man from whom the demons had gone out begged to go with him, but Jesus sent him away, saying,

39 “Return home and tell how much God has done for you.” So the man went away and told all over town how much Jesus had done for him.

Luke 8:38‭-‬39 NIV
Christianity EtcRe: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 8:51pm On Oct 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
He is telling you that the delusion that is the gathering of your brethren has not no proof to show him of God and yet you here you are suggesting for him more of the same? undecided
undecided
Christianity EtcRe: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 8:47pm On Oct 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
If you never had evidence of God's existence before thus, why did you call yourself a Christian to begin with? undecided

I would never had chosen Christianity if He hadn't proven to me first that He is. If He hadn't invaded my space during the trial period, I would have concluded that He didn't exist and moved on to the next Faith on my list. undecided
Encounter, details might be of help too.

Even to me undecided
Christianity EtcRe: I Am Leaving Christianity :-) by Ayo081(m): 8:45pm On Oct 26, 2021
Reason why the gathering of the brethren is important.

If you belong to one, why not tell your mind to them.

Well there's on NL here although not an organized one. I could mention some that could help.

oh one of em already posted.

cc MaxInDHouse et Al. smiley
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor M Says, "There Is No God!" by Ayo081(m): 12:58pm On Oct 26, 2021
PastorM:
I personally don't believe tithes is for Christians today but that's another topic.
'That's another topic'.

It'll be interesting to hear you on that. Maybe on another thread.

How would those who have been called fulltime do it? undecided
Christianity EtcRe: My Religious Friend Says Pastor Oyedepo Is Richer Than China Jack Ma. See Pics by Ayo081(m): 9:30am On Oct 26, 2021
Note this today, there is a significant difference between a religious person and a Christ like person. undecided
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop My 23-Year-Old Girlfriend From Bed-Wetting? by Ayo081(m): 5:52am On Oct 26, 2021
Promzy99:
A customer I was conversing with today, told me that d parents should kill a snake nd wrap it around her waist, that it wud stop d flow. I dnt really knw how true.
shocked

Don't start another trouble, you want to turn her to snake girl? undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 10:06pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ instructed His disciples to teach those who are not saved - those who are yet to believe and be baptized. Recall that Jesus Christ declared that He alone is Teacher, leader/authority over those who are saved - those who are entered into His Kingdom. undecided
What do you think of discipleship making? undecided

Teaching those who need salvation for a day or two? undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:47pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I completely get what you are saying only that it does not line up with the teachings of Jesus Christ undecided

I know it sounds crazy when I tell you things like everyone who is attached to the church of men is headed in the other direction as far as Heaven is concerned. But it is the Truth as contained in the Gospel of the Kingdom of God. undecided
Absolutely! Christ prophesied that many will be led astray. undecided

But he then commanded his disciples to teach undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:29pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Again, in the Kingdom of God, there is only one Leader and His name is Jesus Christ. undecided
As far as the Church which is built by Jesus Christ is concerned, He alone is the vine and everyone else is a branch on the vine. ... no branch can lead another branch in the vine. Instead each branch directly abides in the vine and the vine in turn abides in each branch...
I'll assume you don't get me undecided

Completely get your point tho undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:28pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I didn't do that at all. undecided
Pay attention.
lol
Ok undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:20pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Christ never handed over His Kingdom to His servants... instead He sent His followers out to teach the Gospel to those in the world..those who are not Saved and of His Kingdom. His Kingdom, He alone is King and ruler over all those who belong in it. undecided
You just paraphrased what I typed undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:19pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
For the umpteenth time, Jesus Christ declared Himself the only Master, Leader/authority, Head, Shepherd, Teacher, Helper...etc. , over each of those who belong in His flock. So those whom you suggest are leaders over you are not of Him since He emphatically declared that no one who belongs to Him can serve two masters. undecided
Again, recall that you're having a chit chat with another in Christ. undecided

Leadership in this context is not the wordly one undecided

I suspect you don't know how the Apostles of Christ go about their leadership undecided

There are reasons why Christ gave them teachings a about leadership undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:05pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
We were just moments ago considering how own of the entries in Paul's letters obscures the Truth as given by Jesus Christ and here you are asking me this? undecided

That God permits a thing does then mean it is of God, does it? undecided
Again, don't forget Christ handed over to us how the Kingdom should be expanded by bringing people along. That's the commission given to followers.

Don't mix it up, Paul was not in disagreement with Christ after his revelatory conversation.
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 9:02pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You are wrong! Receiving the power of the Spirit of God will never elevate elevate the mightiest of us all to the status of Jesus Christ, the only one we are called to believe and trust and Obey. undecided

All the disciples are waiting in their graves for Jesus Christ to raise them and judge their works. So why do you believe you are right to put your trust in even that written in their letters? undecided

Jesus Christ, the one who gave them the Spirit of God, decreed that He alone is Head, Teacher, Master...Over each one who belongs to Him so why do you set His servants instead as god Over you in anyway? undecided
You're in error. They're leaders in the gathering of the saints. undecided

They don't serve and lord it over others undecided

Remember Christ said: 'whoever that wants to be great must be the least'. undecided

There was a reason why Christ told Peter; 'Upon you I'll build my Church'. undecided

Wonder why Peter was the first to speak to the gentiles undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:44pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I don't believe in the power of the Holy Ghost and what is written to have happened on the day of Pentecost, why? undecided
Why?

Because you would believe the disciples received power and will result in you believing their letters to the early gatherings.
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:42pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
God permitted this or men deliberated and decided this of their own? So are the decisions of men now of God? undecided

I believe you need to become more informed about the history of scripture and that which you call your Bible today in order to get a better understanding of why your first statement somehow brings God under men. For more than 1000 years, what was known as scripture was more than just the 99 books in your Bible today. Did God change His mind or did man? undecided
He definitely didn't change undecided

I ask again, does it obscure the message of Christ?

God is not under man. He isn't.

If I decide to do anything today, it still depends on if God will permit me.

God permitted many false prophets today. If they're are no false people, how will you believe Mathew 7? undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:37pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I can't vouch for Paul, the man, since I never met him and he, like the other thousands before him is sleeping in his grave awaiting judgment like the rest of us. undecided

What I can speak of is what the Spirit of Truths says of what Paul's views as expressed in his epistles. undecided
You obviously don't believe in the power of the Holy Ghost and the event of the day of pentecost then undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:33pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
As to what is stated in 2 Peter 1 vs 20 - 21, as quoted by you, am I to take it then that you also consider that which is written in scriptural texts such as the infact Gospel of Jesus, the Gospel of Jesus according to Barnabas, the apocalypse of John, the Gospel of Nicodemus, Bel and the dragon ... etc., -many of them not including in your current Bible today - as being of the Holy Spirit? undecided

Or is it only prophesy and scripture and of the Holy Spirit if currently included in the book you call your Bible? undecided
If some books were removed from the early Bibles, I believe God permitted that undecided

They didn't change the fact that Christ is the author and finisher of our faith. undecided

The ones available now wether from John, Mark , Luke or Paul didn't obscure the true message of Christ undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:29pm On Oct 25, 2021
emmnprince:
Funny enough, Paul's words are God's words because he was inspired to pen those words, especially areas that borders on godly living.
Absolutely!
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 8:28pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
The Spirit of Truth, is Jesus Christ , and He will never reveal or speak any Truth that contradicts Jesus Christ. When you understand this, you will realize how very important it is to validate everything you hear and think against God's Truth, Jesus Christ, this as revealed to the world over 2000 years ago. undecided
Do you mean to say you don't count Paul as one with the spirit of truth? undecided

Or that he might not be speaking according to what the spirit told him? undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 7:49pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Scripture works best when we don't add or remove from it. Prescribing a special case for married couples where God has not prescribed such is what Paul is alleged to have done in Ephesians, and this by erroneously suggesting that the curse is God's plan for the redeemed. undecided
God gave warnings/prophecy to nations/individuals through prophets in the old testament.

Christ reached his disciples.

Christ commanded his disciples to teach with the spirit.

So God could speak through you too if you have the spirit of truth. undecided
20 Above all, you must understand that no prophecy of Scripture came about by the prophet’s own interpretation of things. 21 For prophecy never had its origin in the human will, but prophets, though human, spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.

2 Peter 1:20‭-‬21 NIV
undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 7:32pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
There is no special flow between a husband and a wife in Jesus Christ and no special headship except that which came by way of the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 from which all those who are in Jesus Christ have been redeemed from. The only Head over each and every one who is a disciple - those who have been redeemed from that very curse - is Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ alone. undecided
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It's okay if you don't agree with me on this undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 7:03pm On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I don't follow! undecided

Again, what I am saying is that what Paul said is not what Jesus Christ said. So, to suggest then that Paul's words are Jesus Christ's own Words is wrong. undecided

What Jesus Christ commanded was to all of His disciples (individuals, Eunuchs, husbands and wives included). However, Paul's extraction suggests a special case for husbands, where Jesus Christ never said or taught such to begin with. undecided

The same love that Jesus Christ taught should exist between a disciple and another disciple is the exact same love that should exist between a husband/wife and spouse...no difference whatsoever. So in the same exact way Jesus Christ taught His disciples to submit to each other in Him is the very same way a husband is to submit to wife and wife submit to husband. The only Lord or ruler over them all is Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ alone. undecided
Absolutely! How it should.

We must submit to one another. I fear to break it to you that there's a special kind of flow between a husband and a wife which must confirm the 'headship' of the husband in the Christian life. undecided

How the husband choose to manage this 'headship' will tell if he's a Christian or not. undecided

You might want to change your perspective about Paul and Christ used him to spread His Gospel of truth. undecided

Paul's function among the disciples and the gentiles. undecided

15 But the Lord said to Ananias, “Go! This man is my chosen instrument to proclaim my name to the Gentiles and their kings and to the people of Israel.

16 I will show him how much he must suffer for my name.”

Acts 9:15‭-‬16 NIV
He was a man of spirit and obviously saying things that has been revealed to him.

He was a son of God and led by the spirit. undecided

13 But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come.

14 He will glorify me because it is from me that he will receive what he will make known to you.

15 All that belongs to the Father is mine. That is why I said the Spirit will receive from me what he will make known to you.”

John 16:13‭-‬15 NIV
Same with other apostles.

Marriage is was created by God
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 6:30pm On Oct 25, 2021
after4:
But true love don't lord it over the ones they love nah
Exactly what I said undecided

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