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Bettyfair09:
Bad guys in this context are referred to guys who are not so dangerous and violent and are irresistible by 90% of women. A bad guy is known to be confident and has set boundary rules guiding him. He hardly bends to the will of others to please them; he pleases himself first before considering others around him.

The bad guy works effortlessly to get that girl you have being dreaming about and sweeps her off her feet with mind blowing sexual fantasies; in most cases still leaves her heart broken and longing for more. He is the guy women fantasizes about and can practically do anything to have him. She can stake her neck for him even if her family and friends don’t like him.

Bad guys have this appealing and incredible traits that keep women endeared to them even with the after effect regrets, you still find many women willing to risk it. Women are always overwhelmed with the excitement of having them (bad guys) because there can never be a recorded boring moment around them; until when they are hurt, their senses returns.

Let’s kick-off with the reasons why women are more attracted to the bad guys than the good guys!

The push to redo what is familiar like the father-daughter connection
Many women idealize their father, especially if the father-daughter relationship was a good one. They always have this funny feeling that Dad will be impressed if they both share same traits. So, if her father was rebellious and shared most of the bad guys traits, there is every possibility that the said woman will always have a strong attraction with the bad guys. Personally, I’m a typical example because I glue to my father more than my mother. With that I’m always out to see that traits of him whenever I meet any man. If I don’t see 70% of his traits in you, then you will automatically be dismissed or fired.

Women love adventures especially when it has to do with a man
Yea…men are not the only ones that love adventures especially when it has to do with that classy woman that is probably beyond your class.

Women love the excitement and sense of danger that hovers around the bad guy. It ignites their adventurous spirit especially for the good women. Most good women that fall victim to bad guys grew up in a family where there is conformity and adherence to rules, so they always want to test what it feels like breaking some governing rules. Hence their attraction towards men that scoff at rules and shrugs at certain responsibilities.

Bad guys go after what they want, think for themselves and do things their way without asking for permission from anyone
You can never hear a bad guy gushing to talk to a woman…. “I wish I could approach that pretty woman…” no no no. A bad guy goes out of his comfort zone to get what he wants.

He gets over the fear and nervousness to achieve his aim. He focuses on that which he wants to do and sees obstacles as a risk worth taking.

He doesn’t need the permission of his woman to do whatever he wants unlike the nice guys that bores women with permission cards. He does not need the go-ahead order from you as his woman to keep her happy. He is the controller of himself and moves at his own pace still carrying his woman along. Women sincerely enjoy it like that. The bad guy is so comfortable thinking for himself and don’t need the help of you or a woman to help him out. He has a strong control over what he wishes to do and cannot be in the page with the crowd. Wow! Believe you me dear, the bad guys have the locus of control over any woman with these qualities.

Bad guys are brutally unpredictable and hardly pretend especially when it has to do with the truth
With a bad guy, you don’t know what his next plan is! Women love it when you make yourself an unpredictable being as a man. As long as you are not that mad man that smacks women or behave abusiveky, then your unpredictability is a strong turn-on for women. Nice guys are always so predictable and that singular feature of them bores women a lot. Nice guys and their predictable attitude can be likened to seeing a boring Nigerian movie that is very uninteresting and predictable.

Nice guys tend to pretend to be cool, nice and good more than they are in real life. The way nice guys behave with their friends and family is totally different from the way they will act around an attractive woman. For instance, have you been around a nice guy when he is talking to a woman? You must instantly notice that it’s a woman he is talking with, but such is not applicable with the bad guys. Even around an attractive woman, they tend to be their real self. They don’t change their personality to accommodate you as a woman. He doesn’t try to impress you as a woman because he believes that his personality is attractive enough to impress you. Bad guys think highly of themselves and don’t care how you as a person perceives them to be. This attitude attracts women and communicates honesty, maturity and composure to them.

Bad guys cannot paint their words to suit your ears, they tell you what they have in their mind the exact way it is. They are brutally honest and blunt even around the woman they cherish. But nice guys are just the opposite of such attitude; they tend to value the approval of that woman they like. A woman prefers to be mad at your honesty than have you lie to her in the first instance. The truth might hurt her but you will earn her trust and respect with your honesty. Women don’t stick to men that have lying reputation because they easily misinterpret them to be good heart breakers.

The daring confidence and not scared attitude of bad guys attracts women to them
The daring confidence of a bad guy originates from the internal not externalities such as his money, cars, clothes and good looking houses. His confidence is powerful and authentic since it originates from the inside. They don’t seem to be faking their level of self-confidence even around a woman. Most times their confidence can be misinterpreted by their fellow men as pride and low self-esteem. Women love their confidence a lot because it conveys a message of someone that knows who he is and where he is going in life.

Bad boys can’t be scared or worried about a woman’s view about their personality. They take charge of every situation that crops up around them. Unlike the nice guys that find it so hard to hold a woman’s hand or kiss her in the public; they are scared of what the outcome might result to. A bad guy goes for what he feels like doing with a woman; he can boldly play or kiss her in the public. The truth is that women love such attitude because it makes them feel you are assertive about them and equally would not mind if things are stepped up to the next levels. Once a man is a little weird or scared, it turns-off their level of attraction towards you.

Bad guys don’t play victims, they adapt and overcome every situation
A bad guy don’t enjoy playing a victim nor do he stick around feeling sorry for himself when trapped in a bad situation. He doesn’t cry to his friends and families about any bad condition; he quickly adapts and overcomes his bad situations. Unlike the nice guys that tend to complain about what is fair and what is not fair, the bad guys act like the real men by trying to always be in control of their emotions. He sucks up his situations and moves on with life. A man who cries and complains to his friends and families over every situation is perceived weak and unattractive to any woman. Naturally, women are the weak and are in need of a man that can protect them with their weak emotions, so why act weak to be Mr. Nice? This is why the women will always run to the Bad guy.

Bad guys are very passionate even when they are after a woman
Bad guys are very passionate about whatever they do; they put more energy into anything and that includes going after a woman. They bring into display more passion and sexual energy that attracts women. They tend to build on the fantasies of a woman when it comes to passion.

Bad guys are not heart-broken or are played on by a woman
Bad guys are not ignorant or too blind to quickly notice the games that women play. They are not quick to fall in love and get their hearts stomped to pieces by women. The bad guy understands that in today’s world, there exist some level of possibility that he might not be the only man in a woman’s life because women like to keep their options open, which is not totally bad. He tends to play with caution and avoids putting his heart on the line unlike the nice guys would do at first gaze. When a woman knows she can’t break your heart as a bad guy, it pushes her to try harder and hence the attraction.

He leaves her always wanting for more
The bad guy will definitely win the heart of any woman and leave her wanting for more even till the rest of her life. He has the magic short-lived touch on any woman. He will always try to hide his true feelings towards you as a woman thereby trying to obey the rules that says, “keep her close by hiding your cards”…making her enjoy almost enough but denying her what she wants. It duplicates the level of attraction and desires on a woman. If a woman always leaves you first, check yourself very well; maybe you are offering way too much of yourself to her. Remember the saying, “too much of everything is bad”….not when it has to do with money.

Bad guys make women feel needed and equally help boost their low self-esteem
Women naturally love fixing things especially when it has to be with a man. A woman with low self-esteem believes she can nurture a bad guy all to her credit. It sure boosts the self-esteem of a low esteemed woman and pushes her to achieve more with the bad guy. They tend to see bad guys as an assignment to be fixed, and if handled properly; they will be theirs forever. That is not true, because a woman can never change a full-grown man. A man decides to change whenever he wants to. However, the fact that the bad guy needs to be fixed makes a woman feel wanted.

Bad guys are not good with commitment
At a point in a woman’s life, all she might just need is a bad boy that will not sing the commitment songs to her ears.

Women are sometimes scared of intimacy or commitment, for instance after a heartbreak. But with a bad boy she will definitely avoid the commitment part of a nice time together. Unlike the nice guys that always want to know their stand when it comes to a relationship.

With the bad guy, sex is just mind-blowing
A woman perceives a nice guy to be dull in bed but is that really the truth? Women want to be manhandled in bed and bad guys has won that award right from their looks. A bad guy is seen to be good in the act. Generally it is perceived that one, and such crazy fantasies draws women to them no matter the risk involved.

Bad guys are physically strong while the nice guys are seen weak in the eyes of women
Bad guys have this illusion of being physical strong hovering around them. They are seen to be able to protect women physically while the nice guys are seen to be otherwise. That bad guy attitude conveys strength to women. Women have this funny believe that they are protected under them.

In life, it is always good to strike a balance in all you do. Until you accept that notion, your dream woman will always leave you for a bad guy. In my candid opinion, I think the ideal should be able to walk the fine line between the nice and the bad guy.

Thanks for stopping by to read this, I will love to listen to your opinions and questions on this via your comments below, remember! We always look out for each other at mysugarcandy.com Stay cool!

Source: http://mysugarcandy.com/reasons-why-women-are-more-attracted-to-the-bad-guys-than-the-good-guys/

2BB4CB3E:
lmao

easy to say!

uzobaby:
You didn't read where it was written that he went for AU assignment?

blueto:
so how did you become a minion to the ‘fantastically corrupt’ Bubu that made plethora infelicitous blunders?

A president that Forgot the name of his vice-presidential running-mate. Called him Yemi Osunbade instead of Yemi Osinbajo.
Told President Obama the name of his political party is the All Nigeria’s Peoples’ Congress when it is All Progressives Congress. Call hia party on CNN the All Progressives Confidence.

Told Al Jazeera INEC means Independent Nigerian Electoral Commission instead of Independent National Electoral Commission. Even though West Germany ceased to exist in 1999 and the current German president is Joachim Gauck, referred to German Chancellor, Angela Merkel as “President Michelle of West Germany.”

How such a person was able to indoctrinate or subjugate an ‘erudite’ still amazes me.

nma24:
Na u sabi

nma24:
Na u sabi

nma24:
lol... Yea

handysuzy:
Let him be stoned to death while hanging upside down on a Mango tree

Ramon92:
Pastor Adeboye is an intelligent man of God fraudster. He just stirred the brains of his followers like one stirs a boiling pot of soup..

But do you know how many relationships will crash cos of this his statement??

AdeniyiA:
Flesh do use us sometimes no matter our spiritual level.
He wasn't totally right

Zakkyoz:
Nothing will do you madam. you will serve the good people of Taraba as the first female governor in the country

Iseoluwani:
If you die for Nigeria unto say you wan be HERO


Hmmmmm


OYO Z YOUR CASE


WETIN WON DO ME WEY I GO DIE FOR NIGERIA.

ABASHA!! ! IRANU



I CANT FORGET MY NYSC YEAR WHERE CORPERS WERE TREATED LIKE BEGGERS. community sef no valUr you

Rossikk:
You are the dumbest person on this forum. Get off Fox News and start using your brain. If a man tells you he is prepared to start a nuclear war, you do NOT vote him in as president unless you want to die in a nuclear conflict. Understood? Dunce.

HungerBAD:
Wasted life.

And by the evening,his name would have been forgotten.

When will people learn from history?thousands died during the civil war,but can any of us even remember the names of any?

But we do remember Ojukwu's name,that led them to their deaths,and also General Gowon,that liberated and ensured Nigeria remains one.

And how did Ojukwu that led thousands to war,and also fled from the War die?in his sleep.

He died peacefully after leading thousands to violent deaths.

To those that have ears,do not be deceived. Tell the likes of Kanu and Unwazuruike,to be on the front line too,to lead the chant for the break up of Nigeria,instead of giving orders via a Radio show.

ChangeIsCostant:
more >>> http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/07/ctjf-members-newly-recruited-into-army.html

MrDude:
You no serious

MrDude:
Same old faces still running things in Nigeria. Where are the future leaders?

MrDude:
Same old faces still running things in Nigeria. Where are the future leaders?

shamecurls:
[size=18pt]God bless President Mohammadu Buhari



Am 100% certain that we will get out of these times.

Tough times never last, but tough people do.[/size]

kidman96:
Lol... Nigerian Miltary helicopter being held with ropes.

TunezMedia:
Nollywood stars, Rita Dominic and Ramsey Nouah play the main roles in the historical drama film, '76.

The film which was produced by Adonaijah Owiriwa and directed by Izu Ojukwu, tells the story behind the Nigerian Military Coup of 1976 and the assassination of General Murtala Mohammed.

Fans are patiently waiting for the premiere date of what promise to be another mind blowing movie from the legendary acts.



http://www.tunezmediablog.com/2016/07/rita-dominic-and-ramsey-nouah-star-in.html?m=1

drshrewd:
maybe one of those gang that dubbed GEJ fortunato

RZArecta:
one day you might become intelligent

RZArecta:
one day you might become intelligent

DTALLPRINCE:
Pls let's hit like for the president. He had a good vission for us.

DTALLPRINCE:
Pls let's hit like for the president. He had a good vission for us.

seunmsg:
The apology goes to show that the president is not a dictator but a democrat who is ready to take responsibility when mistake is made and apologies when necessary.

LouisVanGaal:
No Senate standing rules has been/was adopted for 2015...Why do you think that the senate unity forum keep mentioning that of 2011 There WAS NO ammendment to it..the chief whip even said that...why are you always like this?

evanscheck:
Panties ke! He shud have stolen good things na so that wen dey beat u, u know u are being beaten for a good stealing bizness dat failed. Not to steal panties, am sure his parents wud be mad at him.

evanscheck:
Panties ke! He shud have stolen good things na so that wen dey beat u, u know u are being beaten for a good stealing bizness dat failed. Not to steal panties, am sure his parents wud be mad at him.

PentiumPro:
Nobody need to tell you that all gloves are off now. The duo will either go down or the Executive will be in problem. This is Nigeria, the chances of the Executive failing on this plot is very slim.

MVLOX:
Am a teacher, a jumia sales consultant, a part time surveyor and an ICT guru

MVLOX:
Am a teacher, a jumia sales consultant, a part time surveyor and an ICT guru

PentiumPro:
If I were you, I will show more sobriety rather than pumping champagne. The duo are in for a long haul.

OnankpaBa:
call me Joseph the dreamer. My dreams always come through

MVLOX:
I also know a young guy who graduated fro DELSU dept of chemistry 1st class but can't seem to get a job, he currently does laundry services to survive. A confirmation to d fact dat higher education is one of the biggest scam ever in dis life.... As for me with my 3rd class I am beta off

rotimileke:
ok! noted Sir. I wash every form of bigotry from my life in Jesus name. Amen