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Romance / Why Do Women Naturally Get Attracted To Brilliant/intelligent Young Men? by AyoolaIgwe(m): 6:23pm On Aug 18, 2016
I'm a corper serving in Port-Harcourt, Rivers state. I have observed that ladies have this "thing" (attraction) for guys who exude intelligence even if he is not as handsome as the other guys. I used to think women prefer face(handsome) guys. What's d chemistry behind it?
Romance / Re: Help!! I Am Doing My Sister's Housemaid And It's Ruining Me (18+ Pls) by AyoolaIgwe(m): 5:57pm On Aug 18, 2016
hungrynigerian:
It all started about two months ago, when I went to visit my sister in abuja. on arrival at her house I was welcomed by a new face with boobs so big that her nipples were staring at me right in the eyes. at first I looked away but my mind couldn't just get off it.
so when we were alone in the house I made a playful advance towards her and she responded positively, my John Thomas became erect at an angle of 90 degrees to the vertical, so I did the needful. We kept on doing almost every night till I finally left back to my base in lagos.
I haven't been able to get her off my mind since then, I find any small excuse to visit abuja. even my sister has started asking me why I so much love coming to her house at the slightest chance.
Please it's ruining my life and affecting me even in my work place. how can I get her out of my mind, advice me.

*matured advice please
speak to a trusted man of God about it. Be careful too so dat u don't end up like Samson (in the bible). Illicit relationships & fornication ruined his life. He was cut short in the mist of his days. Take heed to yourself. When something terrible comes out of it that is when you'll know that u could have controlled urself but by then it may be too late. Talk to a trusted man of God for onward spiritual assistance.

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Sports / I Will Never Step Out For Nigeria Again- Usman by AyoolaIgwe(m): 5:48pm On Aug 18, 2016
Even before she left the shores of Nigeria for Brazil, Mariam Usman knew that winning a medal at the Rio 2016 Olympics would be a tough call. She would not pretend to be a magician nor claim perfection where there is none. Usman believes one can only reap where one sows.
DOWN & OUT . . . Team Nigeria’s female weightlifter hopeful, Maryam Usman disappointed as she flops during the women’s +75-kg weightlifting event of the London 2012 Olympics.
The Commonwealth medallist in the +75kg in weightlifting says she has lost the urge to represent Nigeria at international events.
Mariam was the only weightlifter that represented Nigeria here in Rio. She competed in the +75 category and amassed 265 kg. She finished 8th in her group.
“It is painful to come to the Olympics and see people who are your contemporaries perform better than you; not because you lack the ability but because you were not prepared like them,” she said, while speaking to reporters at the Games Village, here in Rio.
“For me, it is not just about jumping unto the plane every four years to go to the Olympics. Every athlete you see here wants to step on the podium. If you can’t aim to climb up there, you have no business coming to the Olympics. I can only consider going to another Olympics if things change for the better. But if the status quo is maintained, I don’t think I will go to another Olympics again.”
She said training for the Rio Olympics was non-existent while her counterparts from other countries who are competing here in Brazil have been training for three to four years.
"Olympic gold medal doesn’t come cheap. It is painful that one has to suffer and when competition comes they expect you to win a medal with your blood.
“The people you have to compete with had everything they needed: training grants, competitions and are exposed to the most modern equipment. I had nothing. You don’t expect such people who have invested so much to lose to one who don’t even train adequately.”
The African champion said before the 2012 Olympics, she had better training than she did under the current dispensation.
“Yes, I feel 2012 was better. I had better training and my result was better. This time nothing was done to better one’s performance.”

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Crime / Re: Rapist And Bike Thief Caught In Anambra This Morning - Photo by AyoolaIgwe(m): 5:40pm On Aug 18, 2016
obyikye:
Some people are heartless, how can you hurt someone you made love to?....
maybe he didn't enjoy it...lolzzzzzz

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Politics / Re: Ikpeazu Wins At The Appeal Court, Uche Ogah Heads To Supreme Court by AyoolaIgwe(m): 5:31pm On Aug 18, 2016
KnowAll:
[size=18pt]Ikpeazu only legally won what was illegally give to him by Judge Abang. " A stay of execution " . The Appeal Court is sayinng that " Stay of Execution " given to Ikpeazu was wrong as he(Judge Abang does not have the right to give a stay of execution once a final judgement has being determined) by him 2 weeks earlier. Judge Abang by granting Ikpeazu a " stay of execution " Judge Abang is in effect nullifying his own earlier judgment of cancelling Ikpeazu's election.

In a layman's parlance is like the proverbial speaking out of both sides of one's mouth. I think Judge Abang by over-ruling his earlier judgment by granting an illegal " stay of execution " has more or less damage the case of Mr Orgar. it is fair to say Ikpeazu should have a smooth sailing from now except if the Apeal Court Judges look at the substantive issues of the case. [/size]
and wot is/are d substantive issue(s)?
Politics / Appeal Court Reaffirms The Election Of Okezie Ikpeazu by AyoolaIgwe(m): 5:05pm On Aug 18, 2016
The five-man panel of judges led by Morenikeji Ogunwumiju on Thursday said the lower court made a “summersault” when it entertained matters that had already been transmitted to the appellate court.
According to the judgement, which was delivered by Philomena Ekpe, the lower court had no business entertaining further applications on the matter and did not have right to adjourn the matter.
“From the above submission, the said issue is hereby resolved in view of the appellant against the first respondent. Consequently this appeal is deemed meritorious and it is hereby allowed,” she said.
“The decision of the lower court delivered 28th July 2016 is hereby set aside and the cost of N100,000 is hereby awarded in favour of the appellant.”
Culture / Re: Sanusi's 19-Year-Old Wife, Saadatu Lamido, Stuns In New Photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 8:59pm On Aug 17, 2016
DabELLs:


Google it yourself. You will cry a river.
U're definitely sick. so u were deliberately displaying stupidity & matchless ignorance
MAY IT NOT BE WELL WITH U IF U QUOTE ME AGAIN, AMEN
Politics / Re: Solving Our Problems In Nigeria by AyoolaIgwe(m): 8:57pm On Aug 17, 2016
cjrane:
North know they are the trouble, but they enjoy it because it forces the south to cede their resources to northerners in order to buy peace.
can u explain better. How is d south buying peace from d north ?
Culture / Re: Sanusi's 19-Year-Old Wife, Saadatu Lamido, Stuns In New Photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 8:54pm On Aug 17, 2016
DabELLs:


I CAN GIVE YOU THOUSANDS OF CASES IN NIGRIA... AND OUTSIDE OF NAIJA, EVEN YOUR POPES ARE KIDS RAPISTS.
so wot are u waiting for? Educate me and provide credible source for verification. So bring it on
Science/Technology / Re: Ukoma Michael Builds Standing Fan Using Wires Without Electricity (Photos) by AyoolaIgwe(m): 11:28am On Aug 17, 2016
dickrider:
This is one of the reasons why the igbos won't get any biafra. We need their technological know how to build a better and prosperous one Nigeria. The yoruba's are sophisticated and far ahead in academics and politics while the Igbo's knowledge of business and technology is second to none. The only constraint here is the north but we have to keep tolerating them cos the British handed over power to them and they are born to rule Nigeria. Biafra will never come. One nigeria we shall remain. sad
u cracked me up...where did u get d statistics dat yorubas are "far ahead" in education hahahahaha... pls furnish me with statistics from a credible source. Let me educate u quickly. 1. In d last statistics for best performance in waec by State, the 5 South Eastern states made first 10. Lagos was d only South-Western state that made it in first ten. Lagos was actually in 10th position.
http://www.google.com.ng/url?q=http://punchng.com/again-south-east-leads-in-wassce-performance-chart/&sa=U&ved=0ahUKEwiR5P7vnMjOAhXoDMAKHVPZBekQFggLMAA&sig2=ARDHNwfTYjG7eXT4F0uOEA&usg=AFQjCNG0phShCNgyTKKnmFZE26_17st6Rw
From 1996 when the late military dictator, Sani Abacha, created 36 states out of Nigeria, the three states that have been producing the highest number of applicants in the examination organised by the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board have been Imo, Anambra and Delta.
The Guardian of August 26, 1999, page 31, had some statistics about the 1999 UTME examination. It showed that the six states with the highest number of applications were: Imo (44,274), Delta (36,375), Anambra (34,206), Ogun (33,375), Edo (29,057), and Osun (22,950).
In 2007, The Guardian newspaper of June 1, page 3, published the results of the 2007 University Matriculation Examination. The top six states with the highest number of candidates were Imo (93,065), Anambra (64,689), Delta (61,580), Edo (57,754), Akwa Ibom (47,928), and Ogun (47,227). The last six were: Kebbi (4,682), Sokoto (3,925), Taraba (3,832), Zamfara (2,904), Jigawa (2,541), and Yobe (2,516).
For the 2012 results released by JAMB and published by Vanguard of March 31, the top five states were: Imo (123,865), Delta (88,876), Anambra (84,204), Osun (73,935), Oyo (71,272). The least five states were: Jigawa (11,529), Kebbi (7,364), Yobe (6,389), Zamfara (5,713), and Sokoto (5,664).
In the Unity School admission of 2013, the states that got the highest cut-off marks were: Anambra – Male (139) Female (139); Imo – Male (138) Female (138); Enugu – Male (134) Female (134); Lagos – Male (133) Female (133); Delta – Male (131) Female (131); Ogun – Male(131) Female(131); Abia – Male (130) Female (130).
MY BROTHER PLS SPEAK ONLY OF WOT U KNOW NEXT TIME

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Politics / Re: Fulani Herd-boy Seen Studying His Books While Out With ‘his’ Cows For Grazing by AyoolaIgwe(m): 9:55am On Aug 17, 2016
Phinity318:

Seriously? best med student ever in U.I was a Fulani dude, bro chill u don't know nothing.
and I hope u know dy adopt a 6.0 cgpa grading system?

7.0 grading system. if u are not correct about u.i's maximum grade point, how am I sure dat U're story about d Fulani setting an unbeaten record in College of Medicine, U.I is true?
Politics / Re: Fulani Herd-boy Seen Studying His Books While Out With ‘his’ Cows For Grazing by AyoolaIgwe(m): 9:54am On Aug 17, 2016
Phinity318:

Seriously? best med student ever in U.I was a Fulani dude, bro chill u don't know nothing.
and I hope u know dy adopt a 6.0 cgpa grading system?
7.0 grading system. if u are not correct about u.i's maximum grade point, how am I sure dat U're story about d Fulani setting an unbeaten record in College of Medicine, U.I is true?
Politics / Re: Solving Our Problems In Nigeria by AyoolaIgwe(m): 9:29am On Aug 17, 2016
BoleynDynaSTY:
We are all our problems undecided
we? u mean all of us?
Politics / Re: Solving Our Problems In Nigeria by AyoolaIgwe(m): 7:11am On Aug 17, 2016
lekjons:
contd ...give birth to as many babies as they could later to be deployed to SW states.. and those children will grow up here to terrorise us.. they're the reason why this country failed to develop.. fact!

i don't think i've ever heard any thing like igbo-yoruba clash, all i've heard of is hausa vs igbo, hausa vs yoruba.. yet we(yorubas) defend them..

you'll hardly see a abôki(especially the youths) anywhere in the country that isn't equipped with at least a dagger! what for? any slight argument with them, you get stabbed..

they don't normally have valuable properties outside their state(just radio, mat, and at most a scooter/motorcycleundecided), so when they start their trouble they literarily have nothing to lose.. when rioting they will quickly pack their properties dirts while we can't carry our houses, shops, cars and there's even nowhere to run.. they'll raze down everything..

yet we always defend them against peace-loving, productive igbos..WTF?!


Yoruba Ronuuu!!!!!


pls don't mind my english..
u made sense bro. speaking d truth is all dat matters. keep it up
Politics / Pdp Convention Impasse; The Way Out by AyoolaIgwe(m): 9:50pm On Aug 16, 2016
BY: Ayoola Igwe Sylvanus.
Political observers are familiar with the conflicting judgements given by two Federal High Courts, one sitting in Port-Harcourt & the other in Abuja. The Federal High Court in Port-Harcourt approved of d PDP Convention but d Court in Abuja which has equal powers with dat of Port-Harcourt gave an opposite judgement suspending d convention until September 7. The question then is,what should be the way forward? The way forward is VERY SIMPLE. One out of the twelve legal maxims of equity states dat, *"when two (equal) equities disagree on a matter, the first in time prevails."* That means dat since the contradicting judgements was delivered by 2 different courts of equal powers, the first judgement will prevail over the second. *The Port-Harcourt judgment was delivered FIRST before the Abuja judgement.* Therefore d Port-Harcourt judgement will supersede d Abuja judgement. That's d way forward. The PDP Convention has a legal ground to hold(sentiments apart). Why? Because, "when two equities disagree, the first in time prevails".
Culture / Re: Sanusi's 19-Year-Old Wife, Saadatu Lamido, Stuns In New Photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 9:45pm On Aug 16, 2016
DabELLs:


Nasarawa State Police command on Monday nabbed a 46 year-old pastor, Ifeanyi Bernard, for allegedly raping a 13-year-old girl in the Karu Local Government Area of the state.

The law enforcement agents said the said rape occurred on November 3 during a deliverance session between the pastor and the teenager.

However, the pastor described the incident as the handiwork of the devil.

According to the Criminal Investigative Department, the Commissioner of Police, Mr. Sani Mohammed, the suspect was apprehended following a report by the victim’s father of the victim, Mr. Martins Ijiwo.

The police said the cleric who lives in the Alikima Mararaba area of the state, lured the victim into his house promising to exorcize the demons in the teenager after which he pushed her to his bed and raped her repeatedly.

“the suspect threatened to kill the victim if she reported the incident to any member of her family.” The commissioner noted

Policemen also recovered bottles of anointing oil from the suspect’s home as well as a bedspread.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/11/pastor-rapes-13-yr-old-during-deliverance-says-its-devils-work/
just 3! is dis enough to conclude dat southerners engage in rape dan northerners? U're funny. just 3 instances only! u collect 3 samples to test nd prove ur hypothesis out of hundreds of rape cases?
Culture / Re: Sanusi's 19-Year-Old Wife, Saadatu Lamido, Stuns In New Photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 9:41pm On Aug 16, 2016
DabELLs:



Two married men with grown up children have been arrested by the Mabushi police division for allegedly molesting and raping an underage girl in an uncompleted building in Gishiri area.
13-year-old Peace Chinedu had accused Mr. David Sarki, a driver and Chidi Njoku, a businessman, who also live in Gishiri, of violently raping her in an uncompleted building.

Peace told our reporter that her mother went out that evening to buy some items for dinner when suddenly, Mr. Chidi Njoku, a father of three came to their house with David Sarki and requested she followed them to see something.
She said that initially, she refused, but the men pressured her to follow them to where her mother was. On hearing that, she followed them, thinking that something bad had happened to her mother.
“I thought they were taking me to see my mum because that was what they told me, but instead I was taken to an uncompleted building. When I asked them why they brought me there, Mr. David slapped me and asked me to remove my clothes. I refused, but both men tore my clothes. They pushed me down and Mr. David Sarki raped me. I cried and pleaded to Mr. Njoku who was watching, to rescue me but he also removed his trousers and raped me.”
She said that after the rape, she felt so much pain that she started begging the two men not to kill her.
http://www.dailytrust.com.ng/news/city-news/suspected-rapists-nabbed-at-mabushi/109312.html

dis is just one. are u judging with just one rape case in the south?
do u know how many go on in the North?
Culture / Re: Sanusi's 19-Year-Old Wife, Saadatu Lamido, Stuns In New Photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 7:52pm On Aug 15, 2016
Hash86:

Southerners are synonymous with raping under age girls. From father raping his 8yrs old daughter to pastor raping underage girl during deliverance, teacher raped primary 2 kid and so on.. When it comes to s3x southerners tend to behave like animals. They despise marriage they prefer prostitution

really? furnish me with a source. dis is ur opinion. Now let's get down to facts. Do u have a credible source??
Culture / Re: Sanusi's 19-Year-Old Wife, Saadatu Lamido, Stuns In New Photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 7:25pm On Aug 15, 2016
Enesi47:
lol, epain this one ooooo,did you know series of raping case and baby factory that s came out from your every month?
u need to go back to school. u have introduced another dimension to ur ignorance. Now it's not about d fact dat only southerners indulge in rape, it's now about d number. How quantitatively ignorant can u be! Can u furnish me with d specific numbers of rape dat has happened in the South relative to d North?
Culture / Re: Sanusi's 19-Year-Old Wife, Saadatu Lamido, Stuns In New Photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 7:05pm On Aug 15, 2016
Enesi47:
still better than raping 8years old girl
rape is not peculiar to any tribe or caste or region na. wen will u get sense? northerners rape too. the only news of female raping a male dat got media attention dat I've ever heard happened in the mosque, in the north!
Culture / Re: Sanusi's 19-Year-Old Wife, Saadatu Lamido, Stuns In New Photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 7:02pm On Aug 15, 2016
hammer2010:
No dis respect to Islam, but the whole ideology seems to be dangerously centered around women, especially virgins.

They don't only have a seeming craze for getting married to under aged girls, but they equally believe when you die fighting for "Allah, " you will be rewarded with 72 virgins
yea...72 virgins in hell
Sports / Re: Usain Bolt Retains His 100m Gold Medal At Rio Olympics by AyoolaIgwe(m): 1:11pm On Aug 15, 2016
adewumiopeyemi:
i didnt see Nigeria name dere what happen( sad sad sad
Google is ya friend...kikikikikikiki
Politics / Re: Ahmed Umar Bolori Arrives Army Headquarters Over Alleged Boko Haram Ties. Pics by AyoolaIgwe(m): 1:00pm On Aug 15, 2016
Lanretoye:
thank God for social media,dem for rig this guy election...sharp guuy dey take style talk wetin dem giv am plus who give him the tea,they dare giv u the one wey remain from MkO own.
lolzzzzzz... meaning
Politics / Re: Ahmed Umar Bolori Arrives Army Headquarters Over Alleged Boko Haram Ties. Pics by AyoolaIgwe(m): 12:59pm On Aug 15, 2016
IllegalMoney:
grin grin grin


The same tea they use to kill MKO Abiola.
lolzzzzzz
Romance / Re: Why Women Are More Attracted To The Bad Guys Than The Good Guys by AyoolaIgwe(m): 12:53pm On Aug 15, 2016
Bettyfair09:
Bad guys in this context are referred to guys who are not so dangerous and violent and are irresistible by 90% of women. A bad guy is known to be confident and has set boundary rules guiding him. He hardly bends to the will of others to please them; he pleases himself first before considering others around him.

The bad guy works effortlessly to get that girl you have being dreaming about and sweeps her off her feet with mind blowing sexual fantasies; in most cases still leaves her heart broken and longing for more. He is the guy women fantasizes about and can practically do anything to have him. She can stake her neck for him even if her family and friends don’t like him.

Bad guys have this appealing and incredible traits that keep women endeared to them even with the after effect regrets, you still find many women willing to risk it. Women are always overwhelmed with the excitement of having them (bad guys) because there can never be a recorded boring moment around them; until when they are hurt, their senses returns.

Let’s kick-off with the reasons why women are more attracted to the bad guys than the good guys!

The push to redo what is familiar like the father-daughter connection
Many women idealize their father, especially if the father-daughter relationship was a good one. They always have this funny feeling that Dad will be impressed if they both share same traits. So, if her father was rebellious and shared most of the bad guys traits, there is every possibility that the said woman will always have a strong attraction with the bad guys. Personally, I’m a typical example because I glue to my father more than my mother. With that I’m always out to see that traits of him whenever I meet any man. If I don’t see 70% of his traits in you, then you will automatically be dismissed or fired.

Women love adventures especially when it has to do with a man
Yea…men are not the only ones that love adventures especially when it has to do with that classy woman that is probably beyond your class.

Women love the excitement and sense of danger that hovers around the bad guy. It ignites their adventurous spirit especially for the good women. Most good women that fall victim to bad guys grew up in a family where there is conformity and adherence to rules, so they always want to test what it feels like breaking some governing rules. Hence their attraction towards men that scoff at rules and shrugs at certain responsibilities.

Bad guys go after what they want, think for themselves and do things their way without asking for permission from anyone
You can never hear a bad guy gushing to talk to a woman…. “I wish I could approach that pretty woman…” no no no. A bad guy goes out of his comfort zone to get what he wants.

He gets over the fear and nervousness to achieve his aim. He focuses on that which he wants to do and sees obstacles as a risk worth taking.

He doesn’t need the permission of his woman to do whatever he wants unlike the nice guys that bores women with permission cards. He does not need the go-ahead order from you as his woman to keep her happy. He is the controller of himself and moves at his own pace still carrying his woman along. Women sincerely enjoy it like that. The bad guy is so comfortable thinking for himself and don’t need the help of you or a woman to help him out. He has a strong control over what he wishes to do and cannot be in the page with the crowd. Wow! Believe you me dear, the bad guys have the locus of control over any woman with these qualities.

Bad guys are brutally unpredictable and hardly pretend especially when it has to do with the truth
With a bad guy, you don’t know what his next plan is! Women love it when you make yourself an unpredictable being as a man. As long as you are not that mad man that smacks women or behave abusiveky, then your unpredictability is a strong turn-on for women. Nice guys are always so predictable and that singular feature of them bores women a lot. Nice guys and their predictable attitude can be likened to seeing a boring Nigerian movie that is very uninteresting and predictable.

Nice guys tend to pretend to be cool, nice and good more than they are in real life. The way nice guys behave with their friends and family is totally different from the way they will act around an attractive woman. For instance, have you been around a nice guy when he is talking to a woman? You must instantly notice that it’s a woman he is talking with, but such is not applicable with the bad guys. Even around an attractive woman, they tend to be their real self. They don’t change their personality to accommodate you as a woman. He doesn’t try to impress you as a woman because he believes that his personality is attractive enough to impress you. Bad guys think highly of themselves and don’t care how you as a person perceives them to be. This attitude attracts women and communicates honesty, maturity and composure to them.

Bad guys cannot paint their words to suit your ears, they tell you what they have in their mind the exact way it is. They are brutally honest and blunt even around the woman they cherish. But nice guys are just the opposite of such attitude; they tend to value the approval of that woman they like. A woman prefers to be mad at your honesty than have you lie to her in the first instance. The truth might hurt her but you will earn her trust and respect with your honesty. Women don’t stick to men that have lying reputation because they easily misinterpret them to be good heart breakers.

The daring confidence and not scared attitude of bad guys attracts women to them
The daring confidence of a bad guy originates from the internal not externalities such as his money, cars, clothes and good looking houses. His confidence is powerful and authentic since it originates from the inside. They don’t seem to be faking their level of self-confidence even around a woman. Most times their confidence can be misinterpreted by their fellow men as pride and low self-esteem. Women love their confidence a lot because it conveys a message of someone that knows who he is and where he is going in life.

Bad boys can’t be scared or worried about a woman’s view about their personality. They take charge of every situation that crops up around them. Unlike the nice guys that find it so hard to hold a woman’s hand or kiss her in the public; they are scared of what the outcome might result to. A bad guy goes for what he feels like doing with a woman; he can boldly play or kiss her in the public. The truth is that women love such attitude because it makes them feel you are assertive about them and equally would not mind if things are stepped up to the next levels. Once a man is a little weird or scared, it turns-off their level of attraction towards you.

Bad guys don’t play victims, they adapt and overcome every situation
A bad guy don’t enjoy playing a victim nor do he stick around feeling sorry for himself when trapped in a bad situation. He doesn’t cry to his friends and families about any bad condition; he quickly adapts and overcomes his bad situations. Unlike the nice guys that tend to complain about what is fair and what is not fair, the bad guys act like the real men by trying to always be in control of their emotions. He sucks up his situations and moves on with life. A man who cries and complains to his friends and families over every situation is perceived weak and unattractive to any woman. Naturally, women are the weak and are in need of a man that can protect them with their weak emotions, so why act weak to be Mr. Nice? This is why the women will always run to the Bad guy.

Bad guys are very passionate even when they are after a woman
Bad guys are very passionate about whatever they do; they put more energy into anything and that includes going after a woman. They bring into display more passion and sexual energy that attracts women. They tend to build on the fantasies of a woman when it comes to passion.

Bad guys are not heart-broken or are played on by a woman
Bad guys are not ignorant or too blind to quickly notice the games that women play. They are not quick to fall in love and get their hearts stomped to pieces by women. The bad guy understands that in today’s world, there exist some level of possibility that he might not be the only man in a woman’s life because women like to keep their options open, which is not totally bad. He tends to play with caution and avoids putting his heart on the line unlike the nice guys would do at first gaze. When a woman knows she can’t break your heart as a bad guy, it pushes her to try harder and hence the attraction.

He leaves her always wanting for more
The bad guy will definitely win the heart of any woman and leave her wanting for more even till the rest of her life. He has the magic short-lived touch on any woman. He will always try to hide his true feelings towards you as a woman thereby trying to obey the rules that says, “keep her close by hiding your cards”…making her enjoy almost enough but denying her what she wants. It duplicates the level of attraction and desires on a woman. If a woman always leaves you first, check yourself very well; maybe you are offering way too much of yourself to her. Remember the saying, “too much of everything is bad”….not when it has to do with money.

Bad guys make women feel needed and equally help boost their low self-esteem
Women naturally love fixing things especially when it has to be with a man. A woman with low self-esteem believes she can nurture a bad guy all to her credit. It sure boosts the self-esteem of a low esteemed woman and pushes her to achieve more with the bad guy. They tend to see bad guys as an assignment to be fixed, and if handled properly; they will be theirs forever. That is not true, because a woman can never change a full-grown man. A man decides to change whenever he wants to. However, the fact that the bad guy needs to be fixed makes a woman feel wanted.

Bad guys are not good with commitment
At a point in a woman’s life, all she might just need is a bad boy that will not sing the commitment songs to her ears.

Women are sometimes scared of intimacy or commitment, for instance after a heartbreak. But with a bad boy she will definitely avoid the commitment part of a nice time together. Unlike the nice guys that always want to know their stand when it comes to a relationship.

With the bad guy, sex is just mind-blowing
A woman perceives a nice guy to be dull in bed but is that really the truth? Women want to be manhandled in bed and bad guys has won that award right from their looks. A bad guy is seen to be good in the act. Generally it is perceived that one, and such crazy fantasies draws women to them no matter the risk involved.

Bad guys are physically strong while the nice guys are seen weak in the eyes of women
Bad guys have this illusion of being physical strong hovering around them. They are seen to be able to protect women physically while the nice guys are seen to be otherwise. That bad guy attitude conveys strength to women. Women have this funny believe that they are protected under them.

In life, it is always good to strike a balance in all you do. Until you accept that notion, your dream woman will always leave you for a bad guy. In my candid opinion, I think the ideal should be able to walk the fine line between the nice and the bad guy.

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Source: http://mysugarcandy.com/reasons-why-women-are-more-attracted-to-the-bad-guys-than-the-good-guys/
must it be all about women...hun?? anyway all or most of d nature of a bad guy dat u've identified are equally detestable in the sight of God. u may want to see wotz written in Luke 16:15b. Some points are correct in isolation. For instance, "self-confidence, having a mind of ur own, insisting when it is expedient", are some isolated points dat a real man must have.
THIS IS ONE VERY LENGTHY SOCIAL WRITE-UP DAT I TOOK MY TYM TO READ ALL.
Romance / Re: Why Women Are More Attracted To The Bad Guys Than The Good Guys by AyoolaIgwe(m): 12:52pm On Aug 15, 2016
2BB4CB3E:
lmao cheesy cheesy

easy to say!
must it be all about women...hun?? anyway all or most of d nature of a bad guy dat u've identified are equally detestable in the sight of God. u may want to see wotz written in Luke 16:15b. Some points are correct in isolation. For instance, "self-confidence, having a mind of ur own, insisting when it is expedient", are some isolated points dat a real man must have.
Politics / Re: Goodluck Jonathan Returns To Nigeria From Zambia(photo) by AyoolaIgwe(m): 10:46am On Aug 15, 2016
uzobaby:
You didn't read where it was written that he went for AU assignment?
when he wanted to read dat part was the time he developed eye problem. lolzzzzzz
Politics / Re: Nigeria Has No Other Option But To Borrow, Says Adeosun by AyoolaIgwe(m): 2:43pm On Aug 10, 2016
blueto:
so how did you become a minion to the ‘fantastically corrupt’ Bubu that made plethora infelicitous blunders?

A president that Forgot the name of his vice-presidential running-mate. Called him Yemi Osunbade instead of Yemi Osinbajo.
Told President Obama the name of his political party is the All Nigeria’s Peoples’ Congress when it is All Progressives Congress. Call hia party on CNN the All Progressives Confidence.

Told Al Jazeera INEC means Independent Nigerian Electoral Commission instead of Independent National Electoral Commission. Even though West Germany ceased to exist in 1999 and the current German president is Joachim Gauck, referred to German Chancellor, Angela Merkel as “President Michelle of West Germany.”

How such a person was able to indoctrinate or subjugate an ‘erudite’ still amazes me.
west Germany ceased to exist & Germany reunited on 3rd October, 1990.
weldone bro. I like ur rebuttal

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Romance / Re: Dollars Husband Sprayed On Wife At Their Wedding Reception (photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 7:29am On Aug 08, 2016
nma24:
Na u sabi
grin
nma24:
Na u sabi
Romance / Re: Dollars Husband Sprayed On Wife At Their Wedding Reception (photos by AyoolaIgwe(m): 6:11am On Aug 07, 2016
nma24:
lol... Yea
igbo girls... na their way be dat...lolzzzzzz
Crime / Re: Man Rapes A Girl In A Mosque In Lagos During Morning Prayers. Photo: by AyoolaIgwe(m): 7:49am On Aug 03, 2016
handysuzy:
Let him be stoned to death while hanging upside down on a Mango tree
lolzzzzzz... u take d lead
Religion / Re: Akin Alabi Blasts Adeboye Over Comment On Type Of People To Marry by AyoolaIgwe(m): 7:14am On Aug 03, 2016
Ramon92:
Pastor Adeboye is an intelligent man of God fraudster. He just stirred the brains of his followers like one stirs a boiling pot of soup..

But do you know how many relationships will crash cos of this his statement??
I don't need to be told dat those who liked ur statement are as myopic in tot as u. U know wot? A BROKEN COURTSHIP IS BETTER THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE!

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