sinaj:
I expect literate people to read and comprehend my post easily, especially the part where I said it works for some women and doesnt for some.

While it has worked for some, others are having amputation, internal bleeding, ectopic pregnancy , scaring amongst other things which can lead to death if not diagnoised on time.

I expect a literate person to do a simple google search or ask question instead of rushing to counter a post she/he has limited knowledge of

Don't be dull, I am a family planning expert. Google hold nothing on me; I am simply saying to you that calling it a killer because of some of its side effects is an obvious exaggeration.

You should check Google to help you and prevent sweeping generalisations that increase fear in the potential users of this method.

Madeu:

Vasectomy reduces male sexual performance. You want the wife to look for an alternate virile man outside?

The confidence you use in typing falsehood is alarming. Help yourself with some knowledge; ask wiki for Vasectomy.

sinaj:
Truth is, its difficult to get a good contraceptive and it depends on her body too.

What works for another lady might not work for her. Even the IUCD is a silent killer, pills comes with its wahala too.

Op should just study his wife's cycle so he can tell when she is on her safe period or when she is ovulating so as to know when to use condom and when not to.

IUCD is not a killer.

These negative and personal views of contraceptives make literate people sound stupid.

IUCD is not a killer, speak facts or nothing else.

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

the doctors have not said you have veinous leak, you had come to that conclusion yourself and somehow want to commit suicide with unverified information;

First, calm down.

Second, ask a doctor's opinion and don't leave without one; they should also know what to do if this is psychological.

Third, Pray. The heartfelt prayers of the righteous man maketh tremendous power available to you.

You cannot lose hope for this, you shouldn't.

They currently have less than 413 and can only operate 200 of that number. That 800 buses would be lost on them

This Trend might not last beyond this hour.
SEUN, Make it an app! SEUN, make this thing global.
The Universe clearly speaks.

Professionals in Drawing African themed comics is needed. Please send a mail with copies of your work and this role as Mail subject.

Thank you.

I have to wade in to this petty talk you have started as expected.

Nobody has asked for IDP camps in your land, some of your tribesmen have had some money raised for them and more importantly we have seem overwhelming support from all corners for this tragic incident.


Your chest-beating over the strong-will of your tribe is unneeded. People would rise from this storm whilst some others would sink from it,

Develop a stronger sense of worth for yourself, it would not come by bragging needlessly like the loser of a bout.

Isn't this such an awesome post by a mindless asslicker?

TaiKuun:
We all know that this is real, but please, you all shouldn't ruin our image completely!!

They should be protected ba?

TaiKuun:
We all know that this is real, but please, you all shouldn't ruin our image completely!!

They should be protected ba?

Geminita1:
Bleaching your skin has some rewards. Why regret something that benefits you and gives you an edge.

what edge oh aunty?

What a bloody Joke.

9jayes:
These people will be the first to blame Hausa/Fulani for marrying underage. Is marrying underage nt better dan underage babe factory products

Very typical. Your line of thoughts reveal just how ignorant of VVF you are. Your region is supremely messed up and you can't even see beyond your nose.

This is Crazy and anyone that thinks this is a funny story should be banned.

tollyboy5:

most of you advising on education I mean bsc don't read the part where he is the bread winner of his family you guys are just typing what you felt was best not what he needs right now.

young man, So bread winners must be unschooled? or you think everyone in schools today depend on someone else.

My advice stands, if 6years in a university proves too much let him enrol to a polytechnic and work at his own pace.

Nothing should leave you unschooled in this time of life.

No matter how education is paraded as thrash, it puts a foot in the door for you. I have had need to register for IT courses that required a Bsc of any kind to be admitted. The number of years not withstanding get that certificate in the bag also.

If you had learned right all these years, you would be sufficient enough to stand Alone and act as a freelance software developer well without holding on to some job.

horhizah:

It's a game jo. No need for bad blood

Hello! can I have a word please? I sent you mails from my mail and username. please take time to reply. it would mean a lot.

Channel your energy to something else young man. You apparently want from what to think and talk on.

complete Bullshit.

Adults that defer to their parents for reasons that would be silly to a 10year old are not adults at all.

Leave her, let her mother find an Edo man to marry, as though that is the guarantee for marital bliss.

fykes:

I have no respect for people who trivialize deep things like adultery with common arguments like gender biases.
y'all women are too often too personal in thinking about the hurts of a cheating partner whether male or female.
Forgetting that aside from the couple, this while thing affects and maybe even more so, the kids, the couples parents and siblings, and in this case extended in laws families.
So tell me of what good is ur supposed defence or excuse of d gender of the offender in any case?

Your argument could be better if this Man-dog had thought of all the parties involved before sleeping with his wife's niece. Why should one person worry for the decisions made by an adult incapable of self-control? why should she be the one to keep a home that has a partner destroying ;Y'all just give me unneeded humor.

Let the scales of your double-standards, patriarchal and inherently Adultery-favoring mindset fall off your laden eyes.

SUPOL:
Madam take care of the girl and the child, children are blessing, and u must stand by ur husband. Don’t put him to shame but let him not repeat the error. May God help u with Wisdom, Amen

It would soon come home for you; I hope you can take your own advice when it does.

fykes:

My dear u can't say that. We make mistakes and have crisis atimes. U have no idea if the wife has been a model wife herself, u don't know how long the man has held up his head and just one moment of indiscretion or bad decision can ruin it all. This may be just his one bad moment of weaknes

LMAO. I really want your opinion if the wife was the cheat in this case, had she slept with her husband's nephew; would you not be spewing bile and abominations all over this thread.

We love babies but these are adorable ones.

One day this nation would burn from rage, it would be an undeniable one from decades of anal rape of a nation by policies and selfish leadership.

What a mad man.

The myopic thinking of this group of disorganized, perpetually lying group disturbs me.

Babawon1:
looks like being a virgin is a problem to u.

I don't deal with shallow minded individuals who think having an hymen is a qualification for marriage. I can't see how the biological process of fucking is the reason some guy thinks I am wife material.

Don't engage me in needless banter tori olorun. Goodluck on your Hymen search.

pocohantas:


Trust me, I can see how much you jump on my posts with the aim of provoking me.

You are still crawling, I am already roller-skating. I have more comebacks than your spermcells, but you can be my guest- only that you will be ignored henceforth.

Wait, What?!!

pocohantas:


Trust me, I can see how much you jump on my posts with the aim of provoking me.

You are still crawling, I am already roller-skating. I have more comebacks than your spermcells, but you can be my guest- only that you will be ignored henceforth.

Wait, What?!! I am howling.

Babawon1:
am a virgin and I want a virgin also. how will I find one if I don't ask.

You would find one in the same mental dimension as you also.

You have just gotten your first knowledge that this person is shallow minded. It is a useless question to ask especially from someone with a well-used penis also.

He was rooting to die on this position until the will of the people prevailed. No founding father should remain on a position meant for a new breed of leadership,