Apparently Arsenal cannot have this coach out by placards that read 'UnaiOut'.

You must all embrace patience and tolerance..off to give this gist to the arsenal people I know.

If we not a docile people almost tending to cowardice, I wonder how this is not impossible.

The man has all the indications and maps guards to dictatorship.

Kuginzi:

How does that affect u?

How does it affect a Nigerian that his country has the 2bd largest child brides, highest number of out of school children; courtesy of the generosity of northern Nigeria?

Did you think this question through?

mindful01:
But Ngozi nd Jumoke are already disvirgin in their parents room

The 'disvirginer' of Jumoke and Ngozi; Pele oh, Káàbo.

This thing you do drawing up useless comparisons for the negative indices of northern Nigeria cannot help you.


Leave Ngozi and Jumoke to sleep with whom they will, they would most likely see through tertiary institutions by parents that know it is a priority; better still when they marry, they would not continue a cycle of illiteracy and neglect.

Your Aisha and Hadiza however would be married at 12, have VVF at 14 and would be a entity without economic viability to anyone.

I don't envy them.

Triplerg:
Keep calm young lady. Did you see the questions the person I quoted asked? How was it easy for an unarmed guy to rape without her shouting and calling for help? I'm looking at the possibility of her eating her cake and still have it.

Its even worse than I thought, Did you read that she was alone at home?

Maybe I could also inform you know that sometimes rape victims go through a psychological freeze which means not all rape victims would yell heaven down.

Why would an adult woman Bleep and go through the debilitating process of reporting to a messed up police system and a society that thinks she is lying by fault because 'she wants to eat her cake and have it'?

I honestly do not know how to put this in the most civil way but I would try:

Never address rape by punching holes in the victims story; Nobody wakes up in the morning and prays to be raped.

Let's not be unfortunate.

Triplerg:
Many posers begging for answers my brother. Something doesn't add up, but I'm not justifying the alleged rape

SMH

A rapist has confessed to raping his victim for refusing his advances BUT still 'something doesn't add up for you'.

I am in awe of your intelligence.

digitaltrades:


If you were not blind in the mind while reading my comment, you would see where I asked whether they went for medical examination before they got married.

Medical examination will detect such abnormalities before marriage.

The woman concerned didn't even complain, which is a sign that I may be right.

As I said earlier, if the women you know in your circle have been known to kill babies and have 'ghosts in their pasts'; don't make it the general assumption for every woman going through difficulty conceiving.

That Medical examination yadayada doesn't even cut it; you were intentional in your poor and misguided use of words.

maasoap:




Highly distasteful to throw this kind of words at someone going through this kind of shiit. You could have been subtle instead of showing lack of empathy with your use of words.

Copy Ayotemide

Ah, thank you! Every woman who has difficulty conceiving is automatically thought of as a past LovePeddler who has killed many babies; wtf!

Please help me understand; did he just wake from the dead?!

digitaltrades:



Did you commit abortions before you married him? How many babies did you kill this way? Repeated miscarriage is usually consequent of multiple abortions.

Did you tell him about those ugly pasts? Did the two of you go for medical examination before you got married?

It may be the ghost of the past coming to haunt you.

True, that might be the norm for the women you know; but I would take the liberty to educate you


Repeated miscarriages can be a function of Rhesus factor incompatibility, a weak womb muscle or worse still a cocktail of medical abnormalities,

Not every woman is walking with an 'ugly past'; and for all the emotions that this lady has put into this post; it is a fucking insensitive thing to say.

I am hoping your eyes and mind see why NOT having children with this man is the best thing to happen to you; no child should come to earth and be the 'fixer' of a dead marriage with emotionally abusive and abused people as parents.


My Aunt waited 18years, not once did her husband do this; you are married to a horrible creature neither prayers nor fertility visits can change that.

GTFO.

I can't under this?

fairfora:
Yea, but rape takes different dimensions. I didn't just sound that warning. What I've heard in one month alone on rape-related cases calls for a caution. I know of a girl who narrowly escaped, despite having her accompanied by her friend. A word is enough for the wise.

How about you give a wise word to the rapists; how their lives would be basically ruined of they did the act?

How are you not addressing rapist but unfortunate victims?

fairfora:
Girls pls stop going out in the night. Don't attend a party in which your security isn't guaranteed. Don't follow a guy you least can trust
Pls and pls, dont accept any online date, be warned.

I don't see a correlation to this post; they were raped in their homes.

I love looove this, i do belly painting for photoshoots like this.

Geminita1:
She is so beautiful, and her man is fair and strong, just how i like them.

However, seems they redrew those stretch marks for clout cos they look so unreal.

They are very real and consistent to the ones i have seen.

Zeedarh:
I believe in self love but this is sooo out of line.

If she didn't upload the pictures would she die??

You dont know what self-love is clearly.

' has revived' not will revive. Enough of the audio work in this government.

We will employ 2million and we now have unemployment at 50%

We will crash the exchange rates and we know how ridiculous the rates are now

We will stop medical tourism (the biggest joke if all) Unku is currently in the UK.

crackhaus:

With all your humanity, I wonder why you have not offered to take up this case yourself.

You might need to shut your trap.

LOL

As though I expected anything better from you that thinks brashfulness would somehow be the solution.

You are still sitting this one out until it comes home to you and you know how to respond with some EI.

Ryan03:
its always like this. Lemme give you a short story. A woman passing through similar stuff went to report to the police after the last beating almost ended her life, the police decided to invite her husband over but she refused (later found out it were her neighbours who pressurized her into reporting). She said she only wanted to make a complaint, she dont want her husband arrested. You can't force a woman to do otherwise hence she was asked to leave cause such cases can't be incidented as complaint. Two weeks later, news came that she was dead, died from assault by her husband, he was arrested and charged to court, he pleaded not guilty, remanded in jail and case adjourned. My bro, the case still dey on, funny enough, they have four kids

There is no rule cast in stone that women must always act that way, some have come to an 'awakening' by the help of other people.

An unfortunate number should not mean we leave everyone in this situation to themselves.

crackhaus:

Getting her to the hospital and getting in touch with the friend she asked for, is all the best the OP needed to do.

Any other thing that was done after the victim herself told her to withdraw the police case is oversabi, because she does not know the full story of what is going on between husband and wife.

I have read your comments half heartedly; "what is going on between husband and wife" you say?

The person who you have mentioned so far has a lot of humanity in him/her and that is evident; you however thinks life-threatening and injuries is a function of 'what is going on' in some damned marriage?

You are speaking without EQ, it is not some bitter truth but rather brash way of telling anyone what to do in such a situation.

Abeg go sit this one out.

And if they were fraudsters, breaking in like burglars is EFCC's method of arrest?

This useless criminalization of laptops for students as though the only way to respond to mails is with Laptops?

saucecoder:

Is it what the wife deserves or what a baby deserves that should matter now?
Some of these girls no just get sense again these days.

What is happening baba God?

You are probably in one corner of life without breakfast at 12:31, I can't join issues with you.

waley007:
Please help , what can I do .. My 8days old baby boy sucks breast too much , like he wants it every minute and wife is so exhausted , funnily , my baby doesn't like being covered , removes cloth from his body every time and always dragging himself from the mattress , the way he grabs my wife's breast is crazy even from the day he was born , we hardly sleep at home and this is really affecting us , what can we do please

please get him infant food; EBF is not for every child. One week old and your wife can't see road; please get him a bottle and feel no guilt.

Your wife deserves some reprieve.

nrexzy:


If u can't effect complete change don't start.

If u have been sexually abused would u want everyone to know?

Young Man.

I have it in good authority that you are a shallow minded and small thinking fellow. I would appreciate you getting something else to think on, Football or Barney maybe?

But as it relates to sexual abuse you clearly have no idea if you think silence should 'help' the victim.

please Gedifok.

Donald95:


I am in Aba, Abia State and those government agencies works only when they smell money.

Looking at the victims non-helpful poor mom, you will know they will definitely loose any case made against the abuser

Still do your best; the mother would place economic security over the well-being of her child; that is just crazy?

Try the ministry of women affairs, or any NGO fighting for rape causes; they can not all be dormant in Aba.

nrexzy:
Hmmm
If ur not giving them a new accommodation please stay d f##k away from their business... Sometimes life isn't fair allow nature play it's cause..

I hope nature can play its course with you too, given the circumstances.

In Lagos, report anonymously to DSVRT. That man is an eternal bastard

sinaj:
You call yourself a family planning expert yet you cant pass your message across like a civil person without insult?

So how do you educate your clients? O! I just remembered that you can be anything you want to be online with cheap data and cheaper words.

I am simply saying to you that calling it a killer because of some of its side effects...
Btw from your emboldened post, I can tell you got my message.

GRACIAS!

You can't run yet, it is easy to point out what you see wrong in something I wrote and completely exonerate yourself. I am simply returning the favor in tone to you; and you suddenly can't handle it??

Young Lady, go chill somewhere.