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Crime / Re: Police Sergeant Faces Prosecution For Raping 17-year Old Girl In Lagos by Ayotemide(f): 11:41am On Aug 05, 2020
The victim is a minor and should not have her name published please.
Literature / Re: Article Writers Needed. by Ayotemide(f): 1:15pm On Aug 02, 2020
Hi, 08087831375
Politics / Re: Video Of Dino Melaye, Hushpuppi And Timi Frank Laughing At A Party In Dubai by Ayotemide(f): 6:33am On Jul 06, 2020
If you think for a minute that we would buy into these theories that vilify ex members of YOUR party. You must be ferociously mad.


APC, PDP and the paid pawns that promote nonsense in the face of grinding poverty and a useless government and pathetic governance; You are ridiculously insane.
Romance / Re: Lady Laments As Fine Boy Who Collected Her Number 3Months Ago Refuses To Woo Her by Ayotemide(f): 3:58pm On Jun 30, 2020
Does he want for words to say asides this time-distorted greetings?

Iru problem wo leleyi?

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Politics / Re: Victoria, Wife Of Lance Corporal Martins Arrested For Granting Media Interview by Ayotemide(f): 2:16pm On Jun 26, 2020
Revolutions would eventually happen with severely oppressed populations, see Tunisia's Jasmine revolution that birth the Arab spring.

I can't say what the eventual trigger will be but we need a crazy one to wake our collective docility.

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Politics / Re: Mr President Used The Federal Executive Chamber For APC NWC Meeting by Ayotemide(f): 9:01am On Jun 26, 2020
Abouwaza:
So what? Is it an impeachable offense? If not shvt d fvck up

This is an incredibly stupid thing to say.
Politics / Re: Mr President Used The Federal Executive Chamber For APC NWC Meeting by Ayotemide(f): 8:59am On Jun 26, 2020
All that is to blur the lines between the party and state. I hope that when time comes to defend our democracy against the inept , we fight with our blood.
Education / Re: SA School Kids Asked To Make Slave Auction Posters for Project (PICS) by Ayotemide(f): 8:21pm On Jun 10, 2020
That 'Education regulator' has racist tendencies or racist members in its board and until that board is overturned this 'fun' activity might come up again. Arrest the roots of racism
Romance / Re: "He Knows His Worth" Twitter Praised New Groom Who Is Physically Challenged. by Ayotemide(f): 9:00pm On May 25, 2020
The young man is a former classmate and friend. Articulate, intelligent and has a pure soul that attracted/still attracts many friends to him. It is dissapointing that all many want to emphasize on through one photo is his inability to use his legs.

This has been a revealing and personal mind check for me.

Have we gone to irredeemable depths of shallowness to define all of a human being with one photo?

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Crime / Re: Salman Hassan Stabs Husband To Death In Bauchi Over Sex (Photos) by Ayotemide(f): 9:03pm On May 21, 2020
FloxySmart:

I’m not saying it is, but an 18 year old girl as viewed by the society is an adult as such having sex with such a girl can’t be regarded as child abuse. I’m way beyond 20years of age and yet I’m not married even the pressure from home is kind of minimal but we all know not all parent understands this. My Dad always tell me raising you is the most challenging thing I’ve had to do. I believe he puts in great effort to raising me as I’m the only girl child, so I believe that’s why he has so much fate in me that i will never go rogue.
So the question is, How many of our parents are ready to invest everything they’ve got in a girl child? So I wouldn’t blame them if they marry them off early

Addressing your second line, that an 18year old is considered to legally adult is not a reason to hand her a penis, it might not be child abuse but it definitely abuse against her existential rights.

Now to your concluding paragraph, if parents cannot invest in thier children (I make no distinctions in gender) they cannot get an'alternative' by marrying them off. It is a ridiculous and counterproductive action.

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Crime / Re: Salman Hassan Stabs Husband To Death In Bauchi Over Sex (Photos) by Ayotemide(f): 8:14pm On May 21, 2020
guy222:
I wonder oh, there is country in world where an 18yrs old marriage is regarded as an under age marriage.

That child is not 18.
How is it justifiable that the best thing you give to girls at 18 is marriage with a prick (literally)?

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Crime / Re: Salman Hassan Stabs Husband To Death In Bauchi Over Sex (Photos) by Ayotemide(f): 8:08pm On May 21, 2020
FloxySmart:
If a woman is old enough to have sex, she’s old enough to be a wife My opinion
That is an unintelligent comparison. Sex is not the SI unit of marriage
Crime / Re: Pastor Okochi Chukwu Obeni Tortured In Ebonyi. 10 People Arrested by Ayotemide(f): 8:22am On May 21, 2020
Ever elected position MUST face Criticism and handle it as fundamental rights of it's electorate;

The Foolish LG chairman thinks himself a monarch.

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Religion / Re: Ravi Zacharias Dies Of Cancer At 74 by Ayotemide(f): 4:48pm On May 19, 2020
The Headline is rubbish. Christ and Christianity are not unpopular beliefs.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Committee Formed To Make Michelle Obama VP And It's Pushing Hard by Ayotemide(f): 9:01pm On May 05, 2020
She is a responsive leader, I have seen her make kind gestures post-Obama's administration that Melania trump has ignorantly ignored. You do not need to 'run a McDonald's' to be kind and responsible.
Crime / Re: COVID19: Imam Flogged In Public By Emir For Holding Prayers In Mosque (VIDEO) by Ayotemide(f): 8:18am On May 03, 2020
A beautiful rarity.
Travel / Re: Which African Countries Interest You Most? by Ayotemide(f): 8:48pm On Apr 29, 2020
WannaHowzit:


grin My takeaway from this is romance (Kenya) and a good read.

Is anyone bothered by Paul Kagame's alleged authoritarian style of leadership in Rwanda? undecided

I was until I heard he will no longer contest further elections. And yes, some Kenyans make excellent lovers.
Family / Re: African Child With Blue Eyes Abandoned By Parents On Suspicion Of Witchcraft by Ayotemide(f): 2:19pm On Apr 29, 2020
crackkhaus:

Yupbut what's the connection between your comament and mine though?

The picture I uploaded is of someone with vitiligo, I clearly specified this in my coment.
I just uploaded it to show someone having similar skin discolourations.

den Burg does not affect speech (Paris Jacksetelon can talk), so a symptom of hearing loss does not factor in or explain why the boy can't speak.

I highlighted to you the presence of hearing loss in varying proportions as a common feature for Wardeenburg. Severe hearing impediment can cause loss in speech also. I have not seen vocal, completely deaf people.

Paris is not the hallmark of this disease; other people have it bad.

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Travel / Re: Which African Countries Interest You Most? by Ayotemide(f): 12:39pm On Apr 29, 2020
Kenya: They are a freer society than Nigeria and have some pretty interesting ideas on everything. Good friends and great lovers.

Rwanda: I like their attempt at rebranding their imagery and I am curious to visit.

Botswana: I have read that they have a unique approach to governance and alongside Zimbabwe have very good writers. A Zim author is a must-read for me.
Travel / Re: Which African Countries Interest You Most? by Ayotemide(f): 12:37pm On Apr 29, 2020
Kenya: They are a freer society than Nigeria and have some pretty interesting ideas on everything. Good friends and great lovers.

Rwanda: I like their attempt at rebranding their imagery and I am curious to visit.

Botswana: I have read that they have a unique approach to governance and alongdide
Family / Re: African Child With Blue Eyes Abandoned By Parents On Suspicion Of Witchcraft by Ayotemide(f): 12:18pm On Apr 29, 2020
crackkhaus:
What's the correlation between a syndrome that causes discolouration and inability to speak?
I think his lack of speech is due to something else.

One popular person with this syndrome is Paris Jackson, Michael Jackson's daughter.
You can hardly notice the discolouration on her skin though because she's white...only her eyes give it away.

Education & tolerance are very important because these things also happen even in advanced countries.

Supermodel Winnie Harlow (pictured below) has talked extensively about the bullying and stigmatization she faced for most of her childhood and teenage years because of her vitiligo...so serious that they had to move around and live in different places.

This kind of treatment really has nothing to do with the country one was born/lives in.

He is suffering from Waardenburg not vitiligo. A quick search on Google shows you that hearing loss is one of its symptoms also.

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Celebrities / Re: Fred The Godson Dies Of Coronavirus Disease At 35 Years by Ayotemide(f): 8:25am On Apr 24, 2020
Se this 2nd picture. He looks as if he's struggling to breathe. To those people forming self-love (especially ladies) because they are fat, you better go and lose weight. [/quote]

Pick your words wisely.

You do not get to destroy someone's psyche for whatever need

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Family / Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by Ayotemide(f): 7:05pm On Apr 23, 2020
I understand your fears of moving to Lagos for the first time (I myself want to run away from it) and possibly loosing your source of income.
My good friend had left Lagos for ibadan as a newly wed and resigned her employment here; it has not been a particularly rewarding move to be dependent on her husband and I would advise against it to another friend.

He must be a muslim who considers non-islamic banking haram; he might oppose to
your continued working in that system once you are here.

Think it through and consider if the sacrifice is worth it . Many families stay apart with occasional visits and heaven did not fall. If it compromises your job security I would advise you to not make a rushed move.

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Politics / Re: Christians See How Gov. Ganduje Of Kano State Is Islamizing Christians In Kano. by Ayotemide(f): 1:37pm On Apr 19, 2020
You lots are derailing this thread.

This is Ganduje an executive governor of a state in Nigeria with adults and full press coverage asking an obvious child if she wants to be converted and doing the conversion for her.

A lot of Nonsense happens up north but this trumps it. How can you accept the consent of a child and do the work of Islamic ambassador in official capacity?

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Crime / Re: #lagosunrest: One Million Boys Gets The Greatest Shock As They Visited Bariga by Ayotemide(f): 9:02am On Apr 19, 2020
LOL.
Politics / Re: Rape Threat: Bello El-Rufai To Sue Samuel Ogundipe by Ayotemide(f): 11:23am On Apr 14, 2020
Kubernetes:


He did not actually meant RAPE as in the true sense of it.

He meant it as a gift ba?

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Celebrities / Re: Don Jazzy Gifts N100k To Elderly Woman Who Offered Sex For N500 (Photos, Video) by Ayotemide(f): 3:08pm On Apr 12, 2020
eni4real:
cc: Ayotemide

I hope these people never have to go through poverty that blinds.
Celebrities / Re: Don Jazzy Gifts N100k To Elderly Woman Who Offered Sex For N500 (Photos, Video) by Ayotemide(f): 8:14am On Apr 12, 2020
You can't shame the shameless. Before some uncouth and untrained lips lay accusations on this woman I put it to you that you are neither parents nor women.

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Family / Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by Ayotemide(f): 7:17am On Mar 29, 2020
I remember walking in on my parents too and NOT being aware of what was going on. I wasn't offered any explanations whatsoever and it went on to define my curiosity for 'whatever' they were doing that night.

Might be best to give her correct sex information friendly for her age. Heaven will not fall.

All these 'wrestling' stories are useless as this might be a learning opportunity to break the myths on sex from a trusted source. You don't want your baby asking a class mate or demonstrating what she saw with strangers.

Shalom.

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Politics / Re: Buhari Reportedly Coughing Seriously After Coronavirus Test by Ayotemide(f): 12:05am On Mar 25, 2020
monichannel:
Nigerians be ready, we are facing a bigger problem post the pandemic.

Are we going back to military rule?

The sight is blur

blur bawo?

I see a future with many new beginnings, If we are too docile to request leadership we want; this is a window of numerous opportunities.

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