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kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Righteousness2:
What a Pathetic End.
Adultery + Murder + Suicide = Disatrous Destruction in Hell.

We need to take the Matter of Eternity very Serious and Live according to GOD'S Commandments

As long as there is Life , there is a chance to obtain Mercy from GOD.
Once life goes, Mercy Expires..
Heaven and Hell are Real!
Behave yourself !

mytravels:
Hi guys

Please i have a question, the way i am seeing EFCC and ICPC confiscating corrupt politicians and government workers assets, what if ones money is not from stealing public funds?

I am still young and have this big dream of becoming rich, and i know with government job you will never be rich( i mean rich).

So what if i start business and it become successful such that i have assets everywhere, will EFCC still seize those assets thinking i got them by stealing public funds, or what did Nigerian law says?

YourBestSelf:
Okay. I see lots of japa posts all over the Nigerian internet space.

Now, I'm wondering...

If you had the ability to earn whatever you wish, how much will you be earning here in Nigeria, that the thoughts of permanently relocating abroad becomes unlucrative?

lordaltruist:
Dear Nairalanders,

I got this job in 2019 and it turns out that now I am the only male senior staff except from the security guard. Way back in 2019 there were 2 other guys but they left in 2020 after our company transferred to a different location and since then, I have been the only male staff other than the security guard whose job is not in internal affairs.

She is actually my senior colleague and way older than myself but over the past year and some months now, we have been so friendly though we don't discuss relationship together or talk anything boyfriend and girlfriend together but something seems to be odd in her look whenever I talk about a girl likewise myself I felt odd when she talks about a guy she flirted with.

In my office every other staff have a nickname for us both even my boss was the one who initiated the nickname because of how close we are and even though I nurse getting under her skirts, I do not have yet the muscle to tell her that and lately I am beginning to like her more as we share everything about ourselves.

I have been to her house and can go to her house at anytime and she was the one who persuaded me to return to the company after I didn't want to return when it relocated and also convince my boss to retain me; sometimes she buys me food in the office likewise myself and always like to have me around her like working together and whenever she needs assistance over a job, she will want me to be the person to help.

I notice she and my other female (married) colleague who work in the same department with us had almost had squabble because of whom I should be assisting and since she's the most senior colleague she won over that one.

She is very single and above her 40s but I don't mind as age does not define my relationship and right now I am growing so fund of her in a way I can't stop imagining and I need your advise on how to relate my feelings and make her confess hers to me.

All criticism and advise will be duly accepted.

Righteousness2:
What shall it Profit a man to have half a billion or even 5 billion streams and lose your soul in Hell.

Irrespective of how blessed, wealthy or Empty you are, if you living without a Genuie Salvation through JESUS Christ, it is a loss. It's a waste!

Whatever you do, Live with Eternity in view!
Live in the Conciousness of your Eternity!
This is what Really Matters

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lalasticlala:
Femi Otedola and Akinwumi Adesina visited Dangote Petrochemical Plant. Sharing pictures from their visit on Instagram, Otedola wrote:



https://www.instagram.com/p/CZEy52BNyJ6/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Righteousness2:
That's no Problem.
Forfeit it!

Even if u lose or miss all on Earth, Ensure you don't Miss Heaven. Because a Minute in Hell Fire will Dissolve a million years of riotous and Vanitious living on Earth.

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

My case same as yours. The truth is if your wife loves you too much, she would hardly leave you alone. if you like woo her with Canadian PR, SHE WONT GO. Na love dey shark am. I ma in the same shoes with you. Same case. All I see in my wife's face daily na love love love after 8 years of togetherness in marriage!

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

seunmsg:
It means no one individual can wake up one morning and sack anybody. The process involved in sacking a federal government employee is rigorous and thorough. It must be proved beyond reasonable doubt that the person had committed a gross misconduct after a very thorough investigation before such a person can be dismissed.

Dismissal at the federal level comes with lots of consequences. The person losses not just the job but also all pensionable years already put in service and gratuity. It is the ultimate punishment in Federal service so it is cautiously applied.

However, once a gross misconduct is proved beyond doubt, dismissal can be applied.

RedEnergy:
The way people hype FG jobs in the area of job security, makes me wonder is it that the FG never sacks anyone or what? Is it that once they employ you, they tolerate whatever you do till eternity, that private companies will sack you for?

TWLifestyle:
you are deceiving yourself - men habe always denied women's sexuality - from inflicting genital mutilation , slut shaming to outright denial of women's sexuality just to keep women in check. If women were really wired to be monogamous then they can't be " won" over as you put it - u are even contradicting yourself - if they can be won over by other men how are they " monogamous " . Pls apply sense.

TWLifestyle:
both male AND female are naturally polygamous - men go for quantity women go for quality . All the lies about womwn being monogamous is just to keep women from being sexually adventurous . They are social constructs which are obviously lies since the rate of womwn cheating has increased tremendously - if womwn were wired to be monogamous then they wouldn't cheat at all .

SimplyFacts:
I reason like a primate & not lesser animals.

SimplyFacts:
I see any cheating partner (wife or husband) as a mad dog. If you can't do without illicit sexcapades, stay off marriage. Save him or her of emotional trauma.

As for the side chicks to the married men, I've always wished you don't die well, but pitifully, not all wishes come to reality. Close your legs & focus on putting your hands & brains to good use, let's see if the foolish married men would resort to raping you.

Racoon:
Matawalle: Protests against Buhari’s medical vacation in London an attack on the north


https://www.thecable.ng/matawalle-protests-against-buharis-medical-vacation-in-london-an-attack-on-the-north/amp
Lalasticlala

adadike:
Side chicks should please leave married men alone. What goes around always find a way to come around. I decided never to date a married man for just one reason - it will come back to haunt me

damiloIaduke:
Young woman give your life to Christ and stop all this.
No once cares about your body transformation anymore.
You're being alive is God's grace

southniyikaye:
OLUWAKINBATI

that's a powerful name..
Happy birthday kinbati

Kosiso12:
https://igberetvnews.com/1375307/abia-north-jubilation-sen-kalu-reconstructs-renovates-schoolsphotos/

MrDrey:
Video Of 17 Year Old Best WAEC Student, Chisom Chukwuneke Before Her Death



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/11/late-chisom-chukwuneke-talks-about-her-ailment-chronic-myeliod-leukemia/amp/

SmartPolician:
Irresponsible, attention-seeking disowned oldie

Gracedavid125:
Nollywood actress, Kemi Korede, has joined the growing list of celebrities who have acquired luxury properties in 2020.

The movie star took to social media to celebrate with fans and colleagues as she unveiled her new car.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CvfK4uFWRNw

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CHYUQr3nXfb/?igshid=h2b0vfjpniro

skales67:
It is not uncommon anymore seeing marriages and relationships falling apart out of so many reasons bordering from infidelity, domestic violence and other reasons.

Other reasons may stem from incompatibility, financial hardship, sexual weakness etc but about 80% of these breakups are from the first two reasons i stated earlier.

In the event of a breakup in relationship or marriage between two people, for the reason of domestic violence or infidelity, one person is seen as a perpetrator while the other is seen as the victim.

As you all know, in most cases of these events, the men are seen as the perpetrators while the women are seen as the victims. All over social media, we see ladies and women of all ages screaming blue murder about how they made sacrifices for the previous men they dated and how they ended up being dumped by these men.

Many of them who are single mothers from previous failed relationship(s) or failed marriage come online at any slightest opportunity to vent about how their ex got them pregnant and absconded or left her to raise their child alone.

While i would like to truthfully point out that there are indeed dead-beat dads all over the place who are irresponsible, my personal experience has also taught me to be wary and made me look in-depth at the scenarios that come to play while being with a fraction of the women who fall in this category which made be draw a solid conclusion based on my analysis before crucifying the men these women have either been with or are currently with. Oh yes...women who are single and even MARRIED...yes...i have dated them all and even opened a thread about some of my escapades with some of the married women i have had affairs with (see the thread here if you wish to be entertained or "disgusted" depending on your social and "moral standing" in the society)

Before you begin to throw charades at me, ask yourself inwardly if you are any better. We all have done things which society may not be give us accolades for but it takes guts to come out in the open and admit it like i am about to do so read on.

Like i said earlier, women seem to place themselves on the receiving end of most failed relationships and marriage as victims and the men seen as the villian but i have discovered that this is mostly false in it's entirety because most of the time, the man does not speak up.

Between 2014 till date apart from single ladies whom i have had something romantically with, i took a census which arrived at 8 married women and about 9 single mothers i was involved with.

All these women had something bad to say about their present or ex partners except just 1 among them. The only one case who never bad-mouthed her hubby as a matter of fact broke up with me as she said she was feeling pangs of guilt after making out with me and going home.

We were coursemates in the university back then and never talked to each other while in school but got reunited via our alumni Whatsapp group where i found her more appealing and radiant after having 4 kids. I approached her online via Facebook, we started chatting and before you could say "Jack Robinson", we kick-started a steamy amorous affair which but lasted for about 4 months.

While we were together "doing our thing" we never had any serious form of altercation or arguments or fights unlike the other ones who were slandering their partners or ex-partners as the case may be. We only ended it because she still had that love and respect for her husband even though she was caught up in the heat of the moment when i was making passes at her (trust me, i am very sweet-mouthed and artistic in seducing women)

I decided to really sit down and do an in-depth research and analysis and found out that these women's husbands and exes were really not the problem but the women themselves because they eventually displayed their crass attitude which their husbands and partners experienced to me!

The only case i made an exemption of apart from the "coursemate" was the very first married woman i dated. She is a mother of 3 but presently separated from him because of his negligence and the crude behavior from her in-laws which i later investigated and found out to be very true.

Of the other women, i investigated their husbands and found out that for some, they were either slandering the man or there was very little truth in their claims but mostly, the man was being who he was because of the negative and TOXIC character which they eventually displayed to me in due course!

This made me realize that the only and most effective way of finding out if what a married woman says about her husband is true is to DATE HER and in no distant time, her true characteristics will surface because like they say, "A leopard cannot shed its spots"

These women go all over social media groups, talkshows etc talking about how bad men treat them while they are the problems themselves.

Painfully the society takes whatever they say seriously and begin to berate the man because when they narrate "their ordeals", they go emotional and the man is seen as the devil because when he is narrating his own side (that is if he is even given the chance and opportunity to do so) he is barely emotional but says it with either a vent of bile or a straight face.

I will in due course recount my experiences with these women starting from the very first i dated till the last one which i broke up with few days ago.

My reason for creating this thread is to change the narrative that women are generally the victims of failed relationships while to me, it seems it is largely the other way round.

I am not a religious person but the BIBLE which Christians read says in Proverbs 14 that "A wise woman buildeth her home but the foolish woman pulls it down with her own hands"...if we should interpret that passage to my own understanding, it can be said that THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE while the WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO RUNS THE HOME! This is akin to a captain who steers a ship but the wife is like the ship mate who organizes the crew...if the crew becomes disorderly, the captain can be disoriented and that can wreck the ship!

If we should go with the narrative of the bible which say that the foolish woman pulls her house down with her own hands, then it is pertinent to say that so many of our women are really getting damn foolish these days because of so many broken homes we see and single mothers all over the place who lack decorum and display their brash attitude at any slightest given chance. (APOLOGIES TO THE FEW GOOD ONES WHO ARE THE REAL VICTIMS).

My fellow men, it is time for us to look inwardly...it is high time we begin to take the narratives of these slanderous women with a pinch of salt until we hear from the man's side or better still, try to get involved with the woman and no matter how hard you try to do things differently and better from "her husband or ex who she slandered" you will still get your own fair share of her venom!

A toxic woman will always be toxic even if she dates or marries JESUS CHRIST!

Will drop my harrowing encounters with some of these women whom i dated subsequently on this very thread so you all will learn from it!

Stay tuned!

xtervaganza:
It's better you read more about your father. he wasn't a good man


Your father was part of the military mouthpiece in the media. He also worked for abiola and both abiola and the military used him to discredit People. In fact, people who were against the government the. We're having their filth brought out.



Your father dined with the devil a d when the devil got tired of playing and had no further use of him he got rid of him

Righteousness89:
The Word of GOD is the Hand Book and Manual that Guides the Universe..
In the Beginning, GOD Created the Heaven and Earth. That is Final

The Only Place Suitable for Life outside Earth is HEAVEN.
HEAVEN is a Place Specially Created by God For All who Accept the Free Gift of Salvation Given by JESUS Christ ..

Heaven is a Place where all Tears, Pains and Worries will be Wiped away..

Heaven is the Consolation of the Righteous..

The Next Place Humans will be is Hell Fire!
It's for all who Reject God's Free Gift of Salvation..
It's a Place for all who see no need to be Saved..

Whatever any mere Human says that does not Tally with the Word of God is Mere talks..

Emir8:
Hello Nairalander,
I really need advice concerning making a choice between the two jobs before me. My family members are divided over which job I should choose.

I'm working in a highbrow secondary school and my start up salary was N75,000. After three years, my salary is now N96,000.00. I just got a lecturing job with a private university and my gross salary according to the appointment letter is N88,000.00. My father wants me to continue with my teaching in the secondary school but my mother and fiancee are pressuring me to write acceptance letter to the university and accept the offer. There's no time, both the university and the secondary school will be resuming on 12/10/2020 and I have to make a choice between now and Thursday. My fiancee is already calling herself "wife of a lecturer" and threatening that she will quit the relationship if I did not accept the university offer. My mind is in the secondary school because there is free lunch and N150,000.00 housing allowance per year, but the university doesn't give lunch and housing allowance.

Should I go and become Mr. Lecturer and sacrifice my secondary school benefits?