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Ephemeralbeing:
Good morning, please I really do appreciate this platform and it's inspired me alot during this tough and trying period.

Please I need the advise and opinions of other members in that platform. Keep my name.

Okay so i've been depressed, battling with anxiety.

I got married at 26.

Before our marriage, things we going pretty fine and okay.

6 years later with two female kids. I secured this awesome paying job for my wife. But eversince then they go for conferences in other states representing her company which I'm aware of.

But after the third conference in Calabar. she's LOCKED her phone with a new password and times without number I've requested for it but she would say that there's nothing to check on her phone. (Meanwhile before this job, we knew each other password and are entitled boths phones)

Long story cut short, she now communicate with men and Stay up late texting and if I ask her who she's texting with she said her female colleagues at work.

Until last weekend when a whatsapp text came in on the notification from JOHN saying I miss you and I want to be with hold you again.

I inquired about who John was and holding her means, she said I shouldn't mind him.

Then I asked for her password she said don't you trust me.

Please I want to know does this matter cos I've been worried?

Why would she change her passwords?

Why can't i know who she's texting up late?
Do partners hide phone passwords from eachother after years of knowing one another password?

Am I just feeling insecure or something?

Please I need the opinions of other matured minds in the platform so I don't ACT WRONGLY PLEASE.

Guy she is CHEATING.....they all do. Dont let her manipulate you with blackmail abeg. I keep saying it, get a freshyo 18yr pussie. You will never be bothered again who sucking your wifes flat tits and drilling the borehole again. Infact you will feel.pity for the dude.

Body no know cousin talkless of maid.

Loool, this pastor don run all the pussies in his church finish.

Onyi22:
Regina Daniel is a Bea, she dumps her ex boyfriend and got married to a Multi billionaire, that's exactly what a wise lady would do..
Dump him!! I repeat, dump his useless ugly broke ass when u see a richer guy/man than him..
Don't be deceive that "things will get better" he's a bloody lier.
Don't die before ur death with a miserable, frustrated guy that has refused to make money.
Finally my sister, Marry money because Love na scam..

People like.you end up pregnant for the vulcanizer in your area

elimsun:
Please forgive my typo errors and i will try to be simple and straight to the point.

For nearly six months i have noticed some unusual behaviour in my cousin sis especially towards me whenever she comes visiting. I am older than her by five years and she is someone i am so fond of.
Three years back, she came visiting at port harcourt and as usual, we would joke and talk about so many things- sometimes my parents would leave us both in the sitting room and go to bed. On that fateful day, we had talked for a long time into the night and i told her i was tired that i needed rest. She began laying her head on my laps and before i knew it, she was feeling my joystick. I shoved her aside and reprimanded her.

fast forward to yesterday, she came into my room when my parents had gone out and asked me to massage her back. I politely refused. Before i could say jack, her lips were already locked into mine.
pls what can i do about her unbecoming attitude cos obviously this is not the same cousin i knew years back.


Mods pls push to FP.

So your cousins sister is not your cousin. Welldone.

See question this age and time with crazy girls everywhere......you dont even have to hide to do it. Just tell your girl you like to have a 3some with her and her bestie and see your wish come thru next weekend life.

SweetCunt97:
Baba ibeji what exactly can you offer me apart from money

The kind of all round pleasure you dream of. Seriously i am that man that can make you go against your decision never to be a 2nd wife.....tho i av no plans for that, for you a side chic will do.

slimanyd:
Hope say no be the same dangote that Donated Billions of Naira to FG for Covid19?

So, The donation was for a show of power and wealth ,not really for humanitarian services at all.

Anyways , Those sacked staffs Should honorably Open and an online store with Century Heng Yue group and allow the malaysian company Sells for them and still get paid every 10 days.

My brother, all those donations na for show. Arm twisted by the govt to make them so their operations can go on. Na the staffs dey suffer am. My company after donating 600m slashed all junior employee monthly free issues by half and senior staff nothing till end of year. I know more measures will follow by January 2021. To recover no easy.

Prof Mumu. Debate with yourself

kahal29:
https://punchng.com/how-pdp-govs-chieftains-endorsed-obaseki-shaibu-ticket/?

Hope.if they flooor you in the process you will accept and shake hands sha

Started New job on 1st June. 3 interviews all conducted via skype thru April due to covid 19.

SweetCunt97:
Nope. There's nothing attractive about a married man. That's a rule I never break knowingly.

Wait till you meet me.

Nooil:
I've never dated a married man knowingly. Why? I feel it's wrong. But have I fallen in love with someone taken? Yes, twice.

The first one was after secondary school. I attended this preparatory class for University, and that's where I saw him.

This man was nothing like men I'll crush on a normal day. In secondary school, I had crushed only on tall fair guys. But this guy was dark (not too dark) and average height. Why did I fall in love?

The way he taught literature made me imagine him reading the poem, "To His Coy Mistress" to just me. I never missed his class.

I managed to get his number, and I started calling him. I'll call, and immediately he says hello, I'll cut. His voice was like my daily dose of sanity. When he calls back, I won't pick.

There was one time a popular musician died, I called him and said, "so so person is dead." Then I cut the call. Thinking back, I realized I was a freak!

One day he gave us an assignment to write two poems. I put my soul into those poems.

The day he finally asked for the poems, I was the only one who wrote them. I finally got his attention. He was just shouting wow wow wow, like an ambulance after reading the poems.

Then we got talking. I let him know I was the one who has been calling him. He was shocked. "So, it was you." He said. He was speechless. Anyway, that was the last day of the lesson, so that's where the story ended. I got the attention I wanted.

Second

The other man was a military officer that had given me a lift in the barracks. He was somehow young too. Got married the previous year. He later called, told his marital status, and asked if I could be his mistress.

I told him outrightly that I don't have the calling to be a mistress. He sounded disappointed and cut the call. Then he called back again, and said, "At least we can be friends." I said no problem.

If you've ever had a Leo male as a friend, you'll know these guys don't sit down one place. They like hanging out, and they must drink and smoke. This one doesn't smoke.

I liked hanging out with him, he was funny. We would talk and gist about everything. And then I got to drink different wine, Bailey, and Smirnoff. I'll never outdo myself.

Now being a military man, a Group Captain at that time, he had this air of superiority. But being the kind of person I was who will look anyone eyeball to eyeball when talking, I was never intimidated, and he liked me for it. You see, his wife was faraway and he needed company.

He invited me to his house one day. When I got there, I saw him outside his house talking with a postman.

He wore a singlet and joggers, exposing his muscles. He was tall, fair, had muscle, both on the arms and legs ( not like all these boys that will gym only their upper region and their legs will be looking like toothpicks). In my mind, I said his wife is lucky o.

He served me watermelon and red wine. I finished eating. I asked where his kitchen was, and he pointed it. I dropped the plates in the sink and came back.

After gisting, he dropped me home as usual. I noticed he didn't call for a day. He always called to check on me. I called him, he wasn't picking. Called him continuously, no response. Ok o. Then after a week, he finally called, asked me to come over. I did.

When I got to the house, he took me to the kitchen and asked, "So you came the last time, I served you, and you went and dropped the plates for me to wash, knowing that I don't have a woman in the house." That's when I realized my fvck up. "I'm sorry, " I said, "It completely skipped my mind".

He was like no problem, "Just pointing it out to you because someone else might not." And then, he wanted to assume that the solemn position of someone who just gave advice. I changed it for him o.

With my hands akimbo, I asked, " So this is why you didn't call me? Like seriously? Something you would have just said and we'll sort out?"

He then turned his face away, smiling shyly. Wait... Is he shy? I asked myself. So this hard man can be shy? That moment melted my heart. He was like, leave me joor, and left to the sitting room.

We hang out a few more times. One time, he asked me, am I ugly, or is it I'm not your type. The next time, he called me a lesbian. I laughed loud and long. I get him though. How can he have all he had and I still maintained my stance?

He later got posted to Abuja and wanted me to visit him there. But nope, not possible. I can't take that risk abeg. I'm more comfortable in my environment.

But in all the time we hanged out, never for once did he behave inappropriately with me. Very respectful man.

My love was one of respect and admiration, not lustful feelings.

Have you ever fallen in love with a married man or woman? Let's hear your stories.

Why tou edit the banging part. Story

PoliticallyInco:
Naturally, the more the taboo the more the adrenaline rush.

The excitement of creeping late at night. Of watching and waiting and bidding time. The excitement of nearly getting caught. All that adds to the thrill. We are actors in this movie called life. We play our roles and if roles become too boring and excitement comes with some action, we damn the consequences. Especially when the said maid it tempting enough. While it is not accepted by the society as an excuse, it is worsened when the man is in a boring relationship. There are also instances where it is the woman who is attracted to the male domestic servants.

Of course this is capable of hurting people. Especially when the parties aren't careful or the maid goes rogue.

In one of the last Friday of the month pub/bar/lounge gist, a guy had two maids and was sleeping with the two of them. His wife had a maid at home, and then his wife's relatives sent a young girl of about 20 who was a "distant niece" of sort to stay with them. It was the niece he first had an affair with just about a month after she arrived the house.
The wife will usually leave and go for vigil on the last Friday of every month. Usually, the househelp will cater for the 2 kids and put them to sleep. They asleep in the help's room when the wife is out for the night. He woke up in the middle of the night and wanted to be sure who was with the kids and how they were all sleeping, especially as this was the first time the wife's niece was experiencing his wife not being around at night. Also, he had noticed light in the room where they sleep and was wondering who was still awake around 1am in the morning. When he got to the room, the wife's niece was sprawled on one of the beds alone. The kids aged 3 and 4 were with the maid on her own bed sleeping. The small TV in the room was on providing slight illumination. From what he said he saw that night, he knew he was in trouble. The wife's niece, there she was laying on her tummy. Her arse was up in the air with her thighs spread apart. Her sleeping wrapper barely covering anything. The pubic hair scantily covering her labia, and the pink slit of the labia showing. He did not know how long he starred and contemplated or whether it was only for a few seconds. All he noticed was that he had a rock solid erection. One of the strongest he has ever had. He instinctively started stroking himself and she moved a little spreading her thighs wider and bending one of her legs at the knee putting her in a position like she was climbing a high stairs. He went to his room, changed into a towel, came back and noticed the wrapper was all gone and not on her body anymore. Like she woke up while he was briefly gone and took it completely off her body. Long story short he quietly climbed the bed and when he tried to gently push his way and enter her, he realized that though she was tight as he was huge, she was already very wet and welcoming. She also did resist at all. He took a huge gamble and came inside her twice that night amidst her stiffled cries and moan as she used her own hands to cover her mouth from screaming and crying out too loud that night. And that was how it began with her.

He thought he was being careful until one thing led to another and he realized that the maid saw all that happened the very first night. That was when he pieced his recent observations together. He had noticed that the maid started dressing skimpily at home and she was much younger. Perhaps 17 at most. He did not relate it to the fact that her dressing sort of changed a day or two after the night with the wife's niece. Long story short he slept with her too but in a more crazy sort of way. While she was trying to entice him, when he made his move. In the course of trying to take his shorts off she saw his manhood full and erect, she got a little scared and very afraid. She started trying to resist. He had to practically use force/subdue her to have his way. She struggled and resisted trying to break free, but the moment he was able to get inbetween her thighs, position himself and push her jerseylike very skimpy night trunk shorts aside he penetrated and lodge fully deep inside her raw. She started actively moaning, crying and kissing back.

About a while latter both girls got seriously ill. He thought he was a dead man. Which brought about the gist in the first place.He was very worried. We tried our best then to tell him to keep calm. Eventually, going to the hospital, it was revealed that they both came down with Malaria at the same time. One had typhoid as well.

Lol.

Good, a war is better fought from within.

johnmartus:
Federal government should stop giving edo government federal allocation until new government emerge in the state. Because the way Obaseki is wasting money sponsoring protests against his opponent is too much.

Oshiomole not send you .

Gerrout. Na you be the sharing account officer? ApC winsh

nairavsdollars:
https://www.independent.ng/apc-primary-dont-come-to-edo-ex-speaker-warns-uzodinma/

Hope Uzodinma , dont take Edo threat as a joke o. I advice. This one wey vulture egg don involve.

Judeerons32:
He has 14 house members why then did he inaugurate the house at night. Lol. There are 10 house members who haven't even decided.the supposed speaker inclusive. Junk journalism.every single councillor including the leaders of ovia legislative arm who were removed by 3members for refusing to decamp.Lol.
Truth is politics is about survival. Those officials will have to measure their survival chances.
Time will tell. The picture will become clearer. Sylva tried it

You go soon die

tesppidd:
Only God knows how much of Edo billions Obaseki shared and would still share to actualize this move.

PDP bosses don cash out big time on top Edo allocation.

Mumu Nigerians.

Like APC wasnt cashing out since 4years from the same purse.

Professor Stupid.

Adunny07:
Please I just really need someone to talk to about this and I will like your candid advise..

So since my older sister got married I always come to her house and spend few weeks or months and go back. Al·through my university days, whenever school is not in session I always come down here to spend time with her and her husband.

Truth be told the husband is a very nice man and has helped me always financially, anytime I come here once my sister welcomes me the first day like this, from the second day she leaves all her house chores for me, I mean everything and she just relaxes. At times I get really tired and don't even feel like doing those chores but because most times when I come visiting she is heavy ( pregnant) so most times I just help her...

Thing is my sister doesn't appreciate all my effort, most times she complains self its the hubby that tells her that I am hardworking and at least she should give me credit for all I do.

Now the reason why am writing this is because am done with service (NYSC) and as it is its like I have to stay in her house because the state where she stays has more job opportunities compared to where our parents live... She stays in Abuja...I have been down with malaria for few days now and I have been on treatment, just because I can't do certain house chores because am not too strong my sis started complaining saying I can't be living in her house and be waking up whenever i like... Mind you I was always the first that wakes up when I wasn't sick, in fact I will wash the dishes, sweep, mop daily, cook food, bath her children and all those things.

The only thing she does is to bath her youngest baby, but now because for these few days she has been doing those work I do daily she is already saying she can't tolerate me sleeping and not waking up on time.

My question is this, does she have the right to be so angry at me because she is doing her house chores? I feel its her house and so she doing her house chores herself shouldn't be a problem since am not too strong to help her do it. She herself just sweep and doesn't mop, but she expects me to sweep and mop everyday.

Should i just go back to my parents house and get a job there? Me renting my own house is not an option because am a lady and am just 22...

Please i need you guys advice, what can I do?

She is Lazy, just try and find a way and move and dump her lazy ass

nairalandankrah:
https://thenationonlineng.net/oshiomhole-giadoms-take-over-makes-no-sense/

Someone trying to entheone a theif is talking aboit God. See him growing wicked beards already.

Pls after servung his time in dubai. He shld be sent to europe, America and finally Nigeria to serve for all.his crimes till death. Ole Barawo banza

And a governor is bouncing up and down like a kangaroo

Ehinmen3:
BY, Pa. Ehinmen

I woke up this morning wondering if the PDP is a political party with ideology or a mere gathering of thieves and power grabbers who are only after the money bag, and power? I asked this questions because since the inception of the PDP as a political party in 1999, the party has earned its name among Nigerians as a corrupt organization.h



Not surprising why after ruling Nigeria for 16 years, the PDP was unanimously voted out by all Nigerians irrespective of region and ethnicity in 2015.

Since then, the PDP has been trying hard to rebuild their image in other to convince Nigerians that they can live above corruption and deliver good governance once again.

However, the recent political permutations in the PDP has not really shown that they are a party that is ready to change. This is because, since 2015, the PDP has been a dumping ground or better put 'a trash can' for politicians that are either expelled by another party or politicians that could not get the running tickets of another party. Indeed this is a shame.

Recent examples of this fact is the last minutes decamping to the PDP by the likes of Dino Milaye, bukola saraki, Gov. Samuel ortom and a host of others just because they found no favour anymore with the APC. These politicians were allowed to cross to the PDP without any screening or investigation into why they left the APC. They were rather accepted because they were politicians with big names and fat pockets!
Sadly, the recent open arms shown to the embattled governor of Edo state, Gov. Godwin Obaseki by the PDP goes further to proof that the PDP will never change its color.

Given the obvious reasons why Gov. Obaseki was disqualified by the APC, the PDP should not even be thinking of accepting him into their fold so as to avoid future court cases, however, that is not the case. The shameless party is even mauling to make him their flag bearer overnight!

One will therefore wonder, Does the PDP even have dignity? Do they have ideology or even plans for Nigerians? Does the PDP have a manifesto at all?

I specifically asked if the PDP has a manifesto of their own because we all know that governors in Nigeria hardly perform in their second term like they did in their first term. Infact they see their second term as a time to relax and 'reap the fruit of their so called labour'. Then why is the PDP in Edo state accepting a second term governor?
How can a party who want to truly redeem its image after they lost Edo more than 12 years ago settle for a second term governor? This is beyond reasoning and goes to show that the PDP does not care about good governance and does not also respect its members!

I therefore advise the PDP to retrace its step in Edo and face modern political realities that is obtainable in developed climes of the world. The PDP should as a matter of fact start to copy the progressive behavior of the APC if they ever want to redeem their image.

The recent disqualification of Gov. Obaseki by the APC national screening committee is a proof that the APC is a progressive party that is ready to learn from past mistakes in line with the laws of the federal republic of Nigeria.

The PDP in Edo should hurriedly lock the door against Gov. obaseki as a proof that they are ready to be a progressive party rather than a money and power conscious party. If this is not done, then they are driving the last nail into their coffin and Nigerians will continue to reject them at the polls.



Pa. Ehinmen is a writer, nairalander, and member of pastor Osagie ize-Iyamu youth movement from Edo state

Pa Mumu, you sound like an idiot. Wasnt APC a dumping ground too. Even the Ize-Iyamu you now suppport is a political prostitute and thief according to Oshiomhole. Nonsense

Obaseki to be taken out during the primaries. Mumu guy

Their stomach and greed told them to come ouy early than directed.

This life no fair at all.....why real geez dey hustle....useless people dey make am. Issorite