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Chinkos99:
Our company recently employed this guy, we worked in the same company before, then he was a manager and i was a junior staff.

I left the company years ago and joined another, so few months ago he got employed in my new office as a Director.

When he resumed, being that i knew him before, i started playing around with him, like when he was introduced to us, i was like oo, common, i hug him tightly and people were surprise at our closeness before i informed them that we have worked together before.

I am a jovial person, so each time i go around his office, i will call him boyfriend, my love, hope no girl is trespassing cos i will fight o and his subordinates will laugh and say you are not serious.

On the job, we get to work together at times cos i am a Manager now, we go for meetings etc, then some of his job includes doing some short production, even though i am not employed as a video producer, i told him i can do those for him personally, cos i recently learn those, he was surprise before but he decided to give me a try, i did it for him and he liked it, he became close and said i was helping him solve alot of problems.

Recently when he comes to my office, he will ask my PA where is my woman and that one will laugh knowing i started it but i just thought that was it though.

So last month when we went to the Palms Mall, to seek for permission to film their facilities in the short production work we had, we were together then he decided to do some shopping, i helped him carry the things he bought and just had fun, he took me to shoprite and ask me to shop, i just pick two things, drink and rice and he said is that all i said yes, he started showing me things, take this, take that i said i was okay, that it wasnt appropriate to come here and start shopping like its month end. So we left, in the car he said, you do have some very good attribute girl, i said like what, he said never mind and we drove off.

After that he started asking if we can have lunch but most time our lunch time dont sync, so i told him not to worry, then he asked for a dinner, i close late, im a workaholic, so most times i will agree but i will work till 9pm and he would have waited and get tired and left.

Finally i get to have a dinner date with him and he ask if we could do this more often, i said why not boyfriend jokingly, the next time we were having dinner, I said boyfriend let me greet that guy there, i really needed to meet him, he has a contact i need for work, he held me and said you call me boyfriend jokingly, i want you to mean it lol.

After i met with the guy, he started telling me how he loved me and how he will really love us to be in a relationship, he doesnt expect a yes and he knows its so wrong on all level because we work in the same place, but i can think about it and give him a response later that he will respect any decision i make.

I said thank you o, but since then, dude is so soft and nervous when he sees me, i can see the butterflies even when we are in a client meeting.

Even though he tries not to make it obvious at work, after work he is all over me

Last night we were together, i told him i am scared as he is almost 40 and not married, that i believe any guy who gets to that age, with enough money but has not married is a play boy lol. He couldn't say a word for like some minutes then he said, yes i am old enough to have been married and i had relationships, beautiful relationships with wonderful women, some didn't work because of my mistakes and because of things i neglected and some didn't work because it was not meant to work, but above all have learnt alot to be at least a better man and i am ready to make it work this time i promise, i have no doubt if you are the right girl because have known you for long and have never had a second thought about my woman, so forgive me for not making it work all these while, i want to make it right this time - MEHN THOSE WORDS RINGS IN MY HEAD LIKE KILODE, i loved the fact that he didnt put the blame on the ladies he's dated.

Now on my own side, I do not feel anything for him but i like him alot, i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that. What do you guys advise.

You led him on karashika ...leave him alone..you shld be worried why u not married at 38 than worry why he is not married at 40. Meanwhile i will love to play with you. Contact abeg!

DisLifeSha:
Your full family get money reach D'banj

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No, but i still get money pass your full family and still doesnt change the fact the Niggar is broke and seeking cheap opportunity

Dbanj is broke......see opportunity.

Free this idiot, talking abt Edo while looking at Bauchi"s map

Oh boy you be learner, you dnt knw while waiting for fruit to yellow ripe well well, birds are eating it from the other side. Dey there

Currently 20yrs. Very fresh, loyal, appreciative, always in my body like she cuddling a big teddy, d pussy so neat fresh feels like heavy. Nd hey i smashed it first.

tnerro1:
4 years older, single mother of 2. Fvckmate, terrific in bed

Entanglement

Where are their faces? They shld show their faces and tell us when they disvigined. Useless officers

Hey, so my tax go be 42000. Issorite. make i do go my village

nwikpab:
Then I told her how she has been harassing me and all that. She said she thought I was my bro.
I now told her doesn't she know the difference between me and my bro?
She said why am I shouting like a woman that I should keep quiet else she shout too.
So I kept quiet and lay on my bed.

When the day broke completely before I went out for exercise, I asked her to bury everything and let it fly and she refused so I walked out.

I went out for morning exercise and by the time I came back, she has called my lil brother and he was around so I asked him if her lady has told him anything but he kept mute.

Next, he went and pick a stick to hit me with but I wasn't moved and went about preparing for my work.

I know I should have reported to him earlier but I needed to confront the girl in action, when she truly is awake.

The girl said that she will involve large group of people which I confronted her saying those were the people plotting to disgrace me.

Still at work now and I will go home when I close.

So, this is the shit I find myself in.

Oga , that lady is a deep sleeper while your mind is playing tricks on you. My advice is squeeze money get a small mattress nd sleep on d floor. Why will u be sleeping on same bed with your brothers wife when he is at work....evem poverty no need am abeg

Na wa o. These guys grab everything even crumbs

Where will the poor who dont av access to steal 500mil go to now?

agwom:
The resurgence of endless fights among appointees of President Muhammadu Buhari, especially ministers and heads of departments and agencies, have become a regular feature in recent time. The orgy of internal strife among the appointees was equally recorded during President Buhari’s first term between 2015 and 2019.

Daily Trust Saturday has catalogued some of the unending in-fighting among these appointees which have not only constituted a distraction to governance but also elicited reactions from critical stakeholders in the country who are worried about the development.

Pantami Vs Dabiri-Erewa

A cold war between the Chairman/Chief Executive Officer of the Nigerians in Diaspora Commission (NIDCOM), Abike Dabiri-Erewa, and the Minister of Communications and Digital Economy, Dr Isa Ibrahim Pantami, escalated again in May this year over who has the right to the office located at Mbora District, on the Airport Road, Jabi, Abuja. Dabiri-Erewa had publicly accused Dr Pantami of ejecting her staff from an office given to her by the Federal Government. Reacting, the minister, in a tweet on May 24, 2020, described Dabiri-Erewa’s allegation as “a big fat lie”.

Magu Vs Malami

The endless tussle between the Minister of Justice and Attorney-General of the Federation (AGF), Abubakar Malami, and the suspended Acting Chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), Ibrahim Magu, came back to the fore following the former’s reported recommendation to President Buhari that the latter should be sacked over “weighty” allegations, including the diversion of recovered loot.

Magu is currently appearing before Justice Ayo Salami-led presidential panel investigating corruption allegations against him, following petitions by Malami and the Department of State Service (DSS). Malami’s memo allegedly accused Magu of diversion of recovered loot. Before the latest saga, Malami and Magu have been disagreeing on issues.

Malami had once blamed Magu for causing the suspension of Nigeria from the Egmont Group, an international anti-corruption body with over 135 member countries. The AGF had also accused the EFCC boss of breaching Section 10 (1) of the EFCC Act which states that the EFCC must send complex cases to the AGF for better cooperation and prosecution.

Akpabio Vs Nunieh

The case between the Minister of Niger Delta Affairs, Godswill Akpabio, and the former Acting Managing Director, Interim Management Committee (IMC) of the Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC), Ms. Gbene Joi Nunieh, has equally joined the long list of fighters in the corridors of power.

Ms. Nunieh, who was relieved of her job early this year, had accused the minister of corruption, sexual and workplace harassment, pipelines bombings, secret cult activities, abuse of office, amongst others, in an interview she granted recently. However, the minister, in a statement issued Wednesday in Abuja by Anietie Ekong, his media aide, said the allegations were “litany of lies”.

Ahmed Vs Mamman

There is also a case of internal strife between the Minister of Finance, Budget, and National Planning, Hajiya Zainab Ahmed and the Minister of Power, Saleh Mamman, over the Chief Executive Officer of the Nigerian Bulk Electricity Trading Company (NBET), Marilyn Amobi. Hajiya Zainab had reinstated Ms Marylin Amobi, as the Chief Executive Officer of the NBET and inaugurated the board of the agency recently moved to her ministry by President Buhari.

The reinstatement was seen as an affront against her counterpart in the ministry of power, Mamman, who had on two separate occasions recommended Amobi’s sack. NBET was under the power ministry before the President moved it to the ministry of finance, budget and national planning after a face-off between Mamman and Amobi on December 24, 2019.

Monguno Vs late Kyari

Another scenario of silent tussle among appointees of President Buhari came to the forefront when the National Security Adviser, retired Maj. Gen. Babagana Monguno, alleged that undue interference by the late Chief of Staff to the President, Abba Kyari, on matters of national security, had slowed down meaningful gains that Buhari had sought to achieve.

Kachikwu Vs Baru

During the first tenure, there was supremacy battle between the former Minister of State for Petroleum Resources, Dr. Ibe Kachikwu, and the late Group Managing Director of the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC), Dr. Maikanti Baru.

The former minister had released a letter to President Buhari, accusing the NNPC boss of flagrant violation of due process in the award of contracts and acts of insubordination.

After maintaining initial silence at the time, the NNPC later responded, describing the allegations by Kachikwu against its late Group Managing Director, Baru, as baseless even as it accused the minister of exaggerating and concocting figures to give vent to his claims.

Magu Vs DSS

The suspended EFCC chairman, Ibrahim Magu, has been having issues with the DSS since the first tenure of Mr President.

The Senate had declined to confirm Magu as substantive chairman of the EFCC on December 15, 2016 based on an incriminating report by the DSS. Though he was presented again to the upper chamber in January 2017 after an alleged executive inquest absolved him of wrongdoing, Magu was rejected for the second time by the Senate on March 15 during its confirmation hearing.

Hameed Vs Kemi Adeosun

There was also the war of attrition between the Comptroller-General of Customs (CGC), Colonel Hameed Ibrahim Ali (retd), and the former Minister of Finance, Mrs Kemi Adeosun, who took different positions on the revenue accruing into the money spinning para-military government agency.

Although signs that all were not well in the relationship between the duo were initially under wraps as no one was willing to speak publicly about it, the rift came to public awareness when Ali promoted and demoted some men and officers of the Nigeria Customs Service (NCS) without recourse to the former finance minister.

Matters came to a head in the National Assembly when the duo appeared to defend their 2016 budget before the Senate Committee on Finance. The rift was obvious when Ali and Adeosun gave divergent figures and positions on items and figures in their budgets.

NHIS boss Vs Health Minister

The enduring rift in the corridors of power was also revealed when the former Executive Secretary of the National Health Insurance Scheme (NHIS), Usman Yusuf, was given a marching order by then Minister of Health, Professor Isaac Adewole, to proceed on suspension for three months, following mounting petitions against alleged fraudulent practices and nepotism by concerned groups.

The letter suspending Yusuf was given to him on July 6, 2017, directing him to go on three months suspension to pave the way for an independent probe of the mountains of petitions against him. However, in a daring tone, Prof Yusuf fired back at the Health Minister on July 12, telling him to his face that he could not proceed on the suspension as the minister lacks the power to sanction him. Usman was finally sacked after the exit of the former minister of health in 2019.

Amaechi Vs Sirika

During the first tenure, there was also a silent cold war between the Minister of Transportation, Rotimi Amaechi, and the incumbent Minister of Aviation, Alhaji Hadi Sirika, when the latter was under the former in the same ministry.

The cold war between the two ministers was said to have reached a crescendo when the Aviation minister undertook several programmes in the sector without involving Amaechi. The rift was settled when the president split the ministry of aviation from that of transportation during his current second tenure. Buhari should show leadership – CSOs Civil Society Organisations (CSOs) have reacted to the unending clashes between presidential aides and the ministers.

The Executive Director CLEEN Foundation, Dr Benson Olugbuo, said the expectation was that government officials and agencies would work together for good governance in Nigeria within the provisions of the 1999 constitution.

On his part, the Executive Director, Civil Society Legislative Advocacy Centre (CISLAC), Auwal Musa Rafsanjani, said that the various clashes were the result of the absence of control and leadership.

Equally, the Convener, Good Governance Team (GGT), Mr Tunde Salman, told Daily Trust Saturday that the issue of dirty bickering among top government functionaries is not good for the image of the presidency they are working for.

Read more: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/unending-fights-among-buharis-appointees.html

You forgot to add buhari vd Aisha

Trumpcard05:
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Yoi mean the pastor carrying AK47 stole yout intellectual property? Oshiomole must also annouce this

NwekeUG:
https://igberetvnews.com/1358419/akpabio-set-sue-ex-nddc-md-nunieh-defaming-character/

Lalasticlala

Can he just resign already. Nonsense

inscreAF:
Ive been married 5 years, the sex is good and usually regular (providing we're not fighting) but my husband has been having sex with me while I'm asleep. I know it sounds crazy! Im a very heavy sleeper and he's taking advantage of it. On a few occasions I've awoke to him fingering me and about to put it in, if he knows I'm waking up, he stops. I am all for being woke up for sex but what is driving me crazy is that he stops every time and pretends like he isn't doing anything. I hate sleeping in clothes, I'm a naked sleeper but I don't think that is an open invitation right?

Last weekend, I woke up again to him trying to get his dick in me, he froze until I acted like I was still asleep, I wanted to see how far this was going to go. I pretended to sleep and wake up 3 different times, everytime I "woke up" he pulled out, heart racing and held me in position real tight until I fell back asleep, finally he finished all over me and went to get up to get a towel and I said.... was that good for you? HE TRIED TO ACT LIKE HE WAS ASLEEP!!! I told him I was awake the whole time and asked why he did that and why he thought it was okay. His answer...I was Hot, it wont happen again.

Fast forward a week...I haven't been talking to him all week. I go to bed with clothes on all week because the thought of him doing it again just disgust me. I confront him about it, he acts like it's no big deal, I'm his wife so it should be fine, he wouldn't care if I did that to him and when I asked why he stopped when I woke up he says because he knew I'd be mad, he didnt want to get caught. I am trying to wrap my head around the whole thing. I'm pretty open minded, if it was a fettish or something, maybe I could be ok with it but he will not give me anything.

At this point in feel like I can't trust him anymore and I don't know what to do. Has anyone else ever dealt with this? Do you think I should believe him? He is only admitting to doing it this 1 time even though I've told him I've caught him before.

He dey work for mortuary? I know why i ask....

bubudeen:
Sorry to bother you guys it my first post here. Just want some advice though. I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year now and we have been bonding and growing well. I would say we have a fairly healthy relationship. I don't want to go into details of what I have done for her or she done for me but. I can assure you I make sure she doesn't lack any basics.

Recently I wanted to use a nice picture of hers for a profile so I ask for her phone and asked for her gallery precisely cos she passwords every single app on her phone including her pic gallery. She opened it and handed me the phone. As I was going through I saw a picture she took in a very posh room white bedsheets, posh hotel like furniture she wore a big t-shirt she normally use to sleep and just inner tights shorts.

I asked her immediately where was this cos we see almost every other day. I looked at the date of the picture and saw that it tallied with the time she said she wanted to go stay with her friend that lives alone for one week cos she normally stays with her family.

Rather than answer she collected the phone and didn't talk. I kept asking she now said it was a guy that we both knows room. That she just went to greet him. I knew it was a lie cos the room was mega posh with white bedsheet and the time stamp on the picture was 9.22pm during lockdown time

I have since asked her to let me see the picture again she has refused rather claiming that I am damn to jealous and have trust issues so she won't show me.



What do I do. I am 99% sure the pictures were taken in a posh hotel room.

I bleeped her that day. Yes i was in town, so whats your deal. Grow some balls and share a eg. Not like you married to her.

Mago mago magu

MichaelDee:
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Quick recovery.

My brother my wife has this procedure 3 times , twice on one ovary and once on the other. E nor easy. If not for Gof and the company i worked for then, each operation cost 1m, infact the third one we paid 1.3m

What i read.....
1. Deaconess of Living faith church
2. Have lighter ( Must be a marlian)
3. Abused 14yr old with her children( sick family)
4. Put stick in 14yr old pussy( raping a minor with a stick nd enjoying it- she is not crazy,but mad)


Issorite .

Ezennwa:
hmm!

The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him.

Soldiers, when committed to a task, can't compromise. It's unrelenting devotion to the standards of duty and courage, absolute loyalty to others, not letting the task go until it's been done.

Brave men rejoice in adversity, just as brave soldiers triumph in war

Continue chanting till boko shoot your left balls

anibi9674:
As a pastor why will you associate your self with a thief.

Cos he is one naa, ask oshiomole

luminouz:
Lies....Oya convince me

Look around you......u go see

Overself:
BREAKING: Massive protest reportedly calling for the arrest of Former Lagos State governor, Bola Tinubu over his Bullion van saga, is currently rocking Abuja....More details soon
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Na jail Tinubu go kpeme las las

FreeSpirited:
Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen.
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But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife.
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Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her.
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When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.

Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress.
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I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage.
Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside.
I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men.
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As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.

Guy go Bleep your Bleep nd shut up, even if na my wife Bleep am.........all of una bragging about slippers breast nd wringled puna when many 18yo dark chocolate, pear pointing nipple and clean puna with no bush dey. Mtchew

Retrography:
After the expensive dowry? �
I keep saying it, there's nothing so special In marrying a South East lady with the expensive traditional marriage rites because what I obtainable in other parts of the world is also obtainable in them.
Please correct me if I'm wrong.

You are wrong. What you obtain from other parts of the world is given freely in south east. Kezaiahs everywhere.

Stopfapping:
So, showing a 75 years old man and telling him to tell the camera crew that he thought it was all over is NCDC next move to bribe international media and continue creating fear so that they can continue stealing money.

Well people don't care again. BBC, CNN, WHO, CHINA, una father

My brother i weak o. What did this video ahow abeg. Omo 75 year old faint na news. He don chop? Abegi....no coro jor

This is Nigeria.....everybody na criminal!