TheOdumodu: How I got to know about her infidelity
At that time, I was really bent on finding out all her misdeeds though I knew I would get hurt, but I just had to do it. As God will have it, there was one morning when we were about going to church and while she was having her bath, I took her phone and went to her Whatsapp chat with the guy she claimed was her primary school classmate and I could not believe what I saw. In the chat, the guy asked her what they were and she said they were sex mates… My heart began beating faster and I seriously wanted to go to the toilet after reading that (laughs). Immediately she came out from the bathroom, I confronted her and she said it was a game they were playing on Whatsapp that it’s not true. Now, where I messed up was I didn’t really go through the chat and I wasn’t thinking straight at that time so I took her word for it because she sounded so convincing and innocent trust me so I let it go and we went to church.
After I was this close at finding out her misdeeds, she now made her Whatsapp accessible using a pin code and that was what really ascertained me that she actually was a cheat and I said to myself that this time, I must get it right. For my plan to work, I needed her Whatsapp pin so one day while she was with her phone, I pretended to be asleep and when she was about typing her Whatsapp pin, I quickly looked stylishly and I finally got it.
One fateful day, she went out with her female friend and left her phone at my place because it was dead so after she left, I quickly used my laptop to power on the phone and immediately went to her Whatsapp to go through the chats again and this time, carefully so I did just that and from what I saw, she really was a cheat, in fact, the chat was really nasty and I can’t speak of it. Truth is after I read it all, I cried my eyes out cause I felt used and betrayed by someone I trusted a lot. After I got hold of myself, I called her friend so I could speak to her but she hung up so I waited till the next day for her to get back.
The next day seemed to take forever to come but nevertheless, it came and I couldn’t wait to hear another lie from her but at the same time, I was eager to see her cause I feel a void in me whenever she isn’t close to me. Anyways, she later came back and was apologetic, she said she hid it from me because she was scared I would break up and that she never had sex with the guy (I still don’t believe that) but they’ve kissed. It was all like a dream to me but I had to accept reality and although what she did hurt me, I was ready to forgive her and put everything behind as long as she stays away from the so-called primary school classmate, I guess she wasn’t ready to be forgiven. She still spoke to the guy regularly and said she would stop speaking to him soon that she can’t just stop talking to him like that… I was dumbfounded sincerely.
To cut the long story short, I kept having this bitterness inside of me whenever I think of what she did and it was driving me crazy so things fell apart and we went our separate ways.
Conclusion
One of my greatest fear right now is that I’m still in love with her despite all that has happened and that I might not be able to love another the same way or if possible, more. I really want to see her happy, I really do but also, I want her to experience the pain I went through or even far greater pain cause I’m still hurting inside and I don’t know how to let go of this hurt other than thinking about it or expressing it out in writing. The biggest question I have that has gone unanswered is “why did I have to be cheated on and lied to the face?”. I remember her looking me in the eye and telling me there is nobody else, that I’m the only guy she’s with presently… isn’t that witchcraft?
Now I keep asking myself if I was an experiment to her or was I just used to while away time though I have no answer to those questions yet but I’d really like to know if she truly ever loved me but I surely can say I loved her deeply and I still do to the moon and back.
You still in love with her or her pussy. Lets get 1 thing straight. Oga wake up jor. Later i need go Bleep now
Story. Another way of discrediting our ankara mask and buying imported. Guys way to know a goos mask is turn on a lighter and try to blow it out from your face mask. If e off, u on yout own, if e no off, yoi good to go. Shikena
BonPatrick: Guys can you date a woman with 3 kids and still in her husband's house but the marriage is about to be dissolved because her husband is not touching her for over a year and doesn't give her food or talk to her.
She met you on Facebook and loves you so much and wants you to sleep with her when both of you see. She even sends her naked video to you to show you how much she loves you. Will you sleep with her when you meet as she is about to divorce her husband?
Na them dey hustle daily. Na them get family, carry famy load for head so them no fit stay house naa. Meanwhile you still dey find the poorest Nigerians when its obvious na these set due to their responsibilities.
When una no gree give people money. All the monwy dey catch fire for Accountant general office and CBN. Then na useless humanitarian woman wey just dey pack the rest go her village. Lockdown can not fit work again
Mugu, the babe don wash am again. She used herself as example, and the neighbor too put himself in the example and they left her kitchen door open. Smh. Sorry Bro. You with a Pro!
He ia not used to sex with a preggy woman. Guess its your first......with time he will.adjust. as for the drugs, he is taking them yo fire those young bitches he is helping himself with outside while u preg.
Guy they Bleep everyday. See when the guy said he is coming and she said the kitchen door is open. He been sneaking thru her back door to ensure neighbors dnt knw......thats why he doesnt knock. Just knack your own and free the babe.
OlawaleBammie: To the Gordon brown and queen Elizabeth in the house pls pardon my blunders oo, a no go oxford university oo.
When i was on a lookout for an apartment, my oga suggested i rent a room and parlour self-contained but i declined it on the ground dat am stil understudying, single, and i may leave here anytime soon cus am rounding up my apprenticeship already so to me no need of renting more than a room.
So i rented this single room in a face me i face u building like dat. So wen i packed in i tink i caught the attention of one girl like dat who have bn in d area before my arrival.
So this gal started coming to me weneva am around, she would come and we wil play together. (Lemme put dis, tho i tried to hav sex with the lady but since she told me she's a virgin and also i tink she's still young, *around 17 or 18 sha* i didn't bother doing dat again, i dont want to b chased around by guilt. )
Ever since this young lady started visiting me my neighbors has bn sniffing around, especially the female tenants.
The height of it is dat wen dis lady comes around and didn't find me, these tenants (the ladies now) wil start questioning her like.
where did she know me from?
who am i to her??
whaf was her mission blah blah blah...
And also wen they have the opportunity to talk to me, dey wil b asking me thesame questions(but with respect sha).
This development infuriated me to the bone but i just kept calm and put my usual smile on.
Another tin is dat, one of the tenants has a daughter who hapens to b a mate to this aforementioned young girl, now if i greet the daughter she would b answering me with nose......its like i dont get it
Even there greetings to me nowadays are suspicious, bn greeting me from afar..kilode??
Now to enter my ous in d even now na problem, a no know the kind gesture a go recv.
i have never experienced this before, i dont know why people find it to focus more on their dwindling business.
You needed privacy and rented a face me face you. Its like searching for oil in the north.
Explorers: The San Antonio Food Bank distributed one million pounds of food to roughly 6,000 families in a single day as millions across the country turn to charity organizations to avoid going hungry amid coronavirus lockdowns.
Stunning aerial photos show thousands of cars lined up at Trader's Village in San Antonio, Texas, during the massive food distribution event on Thursday.
People are seen standing on their cars as they waited in line for hours to get their hands on food and other essentials.
If organizations can gather food, pack em, gather peoplr anf share the food items. Why cant people get back to work and their normal life. Bleep world order, this is just a milf flu. Millions of people die every year around the world. Now in thr last 2mnths every death has been covid 19. No other illness kills people anymore.
I keep saying and i will say it again. These chinese are not doctors. They are engineers and technicians here to activate and build 5G toweres. The trunks are been laid. These are the experts to get it working. Thr Nigerian govt havr been arm twisted by the chinese to get their 5G into the largest black market and beat the US b4 they recover from what hit them. Lockdown continues till they tell your govt they done.
Stalwert: This has been in the works for a while, so it’s great to see the first consignment rolling in. @HQNigerianArmy has just received a batch of custom-built VT-4 battle tanks, ST-1 light tanks, SH-5 artillery guns, etc — ordered from China’s NORINCO.
senatordave1: Stop displaying ignorance here.the ministry of disaster and humanitarian affairs is incharge of the conditional cash transfer.they have distributed money in fct,anambra,imo,cross river,kano,rivers and its now the turn of lagos.up buhari
God punish the people who did this. Where is the money. Mr. Kingsley dey mad! Who takes a bus ride with 6.3M. And where are the boys? He obviously identified the wrong bus with these innocent ladies. Him generation will suffer.
Nigerians in China are being hunted by Chinese government officials for no explainable reasons in this Covid-19 pandemic. Even after being quarantined for 14 days; they were not allowed to lodge in hotels. Now, those in rented apartments are being evicted too.
It's pathetic though.
Chinese trying to make the world feel covid came.from black monkeys......and your presidrnt is helping them spread it by inviting them to help with thr virus in Naija
Good. The number was still high today at the Lagos-Abeokuta expressway. They should have punished them with 2 weeks community running 4km daily for next 2weeks. Shey them wan fit.
chuksstanlo: Women gossip amongst themselves about sex even more than men. They go into more details. You know the size, how long you lasted, and so on.
Just pray that you satisfy your wife/girlfriend if not the way her friends will be making mockery of you. You won't like it. I'm telling you.
How would you feel If after having sex with your woman and she said to you i didn't cum, baby you are not satisfying me. It will hurt you right?
I know for a fact that most women are not that straightforward. Some will look for a way to tell you nicely in order not to destroy your ego.
Some women will not even tell you at all. They would rather lie to you and pretend then when you travel or go for work they would cheat on you with the gateman. LOL
So? Make we turn police, no go work again? Mtchew .
HyzExcellencee: 5 TYPES OF BUSINESSES THAT ARE THRIVING DURING COVID-19 PANDEMIC by Chinedu Nnawetanma
The Coronavirus Pandemic has hit the world economy like a ton of bricks. Countless businesses across various industries have practically shutdown or are operating at fraction of their full capacity as a result of the restrictions on movement imposed by governments around the world to curtail the spread of the virulent COVID-19.
The International Monetary Fund (IMF), through its Managing Director, Kristalina Georgieva, on March 27 confirmed that the global economy has already slipped into a recession. Also, the Organization for Economic Co-operation and Development (OECD) cut its GDP growth forecast for global economy for the year 2020 to 2.4%, the lowest rate since the 2008-2009 financial crisis. At the national levels, the United States, United Kingdom, Italy, France and Malaysia are just a few of the countries that are almost certainly headed for a recession.
However, not every business has been negatively impacted by the global pandemic. Businesses in certain industries are actually thriving amidst the COVID-19-induced economic downturn. Changing lifestyle and business patterns occasioned by the restrictions on movement in various parts of the world means that people are now forced to spend much of their time indoors and engage in indoor and online activities, albeit temporarily. This has opened up a window of opportunity for online-oriented businesses.
Below are 5 peculiar industries that are currently witnessing uncommon growth in a recession-hit global economy.
1. Healthcare: It goes without saying that this is a boom period for businesses in the healthcare industry and its value chain. A lot of medical products and services are in high demand, such as surgical masks, hand sanitizers, disinfectants, vitamins and supplements, home healthcare and medical supplies, with many healthcare companies struggling to meet demands. Though saving lives is paramount in times like this, that has not stopped healthcare companies from smiling to the bank.
2. Social Media: Social media consumption has risen sharply across the world since the onset of the coronavirus crisis. According to a survey by the London-based market research firm, Kantar, in 30 economies between March 14 and 24, instant messaging giant, WhatsApp, has seen a 40% increase in usage due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Similarly, social networking platform Facebook has witnessed a 37% bump in usage since the crisis began.
Thanks to the ubiquity of the digital media, people are now discovering and leveraging novel ways of staying in touch with friends, family and colleagues; keeping abreast of happenings within their locality and around the world; and combating boredom amidst the lockdown.
3. Telecommuting: Organizations, including businesses, government agencies and religious bodies, have been forced to modify the way they operate in order to simultaneously keep their employees safe and ensure that their operations do not grind to a halt during the pandemic. More people than ever before are now working remotely. This phenomenon has elevated telecommuting platforms once considered luxuries to bare essentials of the work setting.
While stock markets have crashed and sent shares of travel and logistics companies like Uber and Lyft plummeting, the valuations of telecommuting companies like the video calling app Zoom have skyrocketed. The estimated net worth of Zoom's founder, Eric Yuan, has increased by more than $4 billion since the start of the coronavirus crisis.
4. Gaming: The entertainment industry generally is among the worst-hit industries in the coronavirus crisis. Movie studios have suspended production, sporting events have been cancelled, cinemas are shut, advert revenues for TV companies have dried up and streaming services like Netflix are struggling to churn out new content that will keep their subscribers engaged.
But the surge in demand for home entertainment has particularly benefited one niche business in the entertainment industry: online video gaming. US telco, Verizon, revealed in a recent report that video gaming traffic on its internet network during peak hours has spiked by as much as 75% since the shutdown in the United States began, and similar figures have been reported by other sources across other gaming hubs around the world.
5. E-learning: For many, this lockdown is an opportunity for self-improvement. And they have seized it to develop their knowledge and expand their skill set by taking online courses in software development, cooking, makeup, fashion design, foreign languages and entrepreneurship, among others. Parents have also enrolled their children in online academic programs while waiting for schools to resume.
All in all, apart from businesses in the healthcare industry (for obvious reasons), the biggest winners – for the lack of a more somber term – here are online-based and online-oriented businesses. A key takeaway for entrepreneurs during this economic gloom and doom should be the need to embrace the digital economy.