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Babymama1: The one in the middle only 9.99

But they all came from Ross
And everyone of my colleagues who has been in my office admires it

Same here. A smaller vase at Bed, bath and beyond will go for 30 bucks.

armyofone: Thanks a bunch for the idea.
Will patiently check them out...one thing is having the patient.
Right now I'm looking at Ashley bedset for the whole nine yards.
I heard bed, bath and beyond is a great place for household stuff.
Will check Ross out and hope i meet some folks like you

Yeah baby mama is right. You'd never know Ross pack good deals on household stuffs; usually at the back of the store so you won't really notice.
Did some interior decorating for my apt some months back; I got everything from Ross.

BBB too isn't bad.

naijababe: Na only Oman? In which of those countries does the vote count.

Coogar, try Egypt, Algeria, Morroco, Tunisia, Iran, Syria, Jordan and so on abi those ones do not count?

You have to Understand that Algeria and co aren't as well developed.

Lets so Saudi, UAE, Kuwait vs USA, Uk etc. Same level of development.

Read up or travel and compare those two sets of counties and you'll understand that US/UK are under developed compared to those countries; complete sham. They have a way of making their citizens think they're "free".


I'd love to finally settle down in Kuwait. Bädäss country.

Babymama1: You don't know?
A you can't take the cart out of the store
I asked

CFCfan: The rod prevents theft.

I guessed as much. Thanks, Americanas.

armyofone: lol, that store where you fit find only one leg of shoe...the other went missing.

I know o. I understand why that women is buying in bulk. Ross is cheap. Just like you'd find Nigerians buying in bulk at primark.
Na to get home and sell a pair of $3 flip flops for N5000.

Babymama1: Na Ross o
E be like say u be constant

That long annoying blue rod on the cart gave it away.
I've always wondered what purpose the rod serves.

Babymama1: Our people can be so bush
Came into a clothing store and this lady was shouting on top of her lungs while shopping with her friend and some kids
Obviously vacationing from Nigeria
To my utter amazement the mgbeke proceeded to try on a pair of shorts over her own leggings,right there in the store
And checking herself out on the wall mirror to the full glare of the public
I had to take a picture mehn
Caught her in the snap shot while she was taking it down
Tufia

Is that Ross?

SangoCrusader: It doesn't prove anything I suppose, I just decided to believe her because to lie about smthing like this would be seriously out of character. Well I will find out in a few months if it is true when she starts getting inflated...

Apologies, I did not intend to hijack this topic, it's just good to share sometimes anonymously and some people on here have really good advice. Thanks guys.

Out of character ? Women do that often, it's no biggie. It's just to see how you'll react or how serious you are.

But wait for it though, and make sure the baby is truly yours.

SangoCrusader: Good point, didn't think about that. If it is a test then I have failed terribly...

All she showed me was the instruction leaflet. I just took a screenshot from my phone of it

How does the instruction leaflet prove that she's pregnant (for you)?

This may be a test like Coogar said , coz I'd expect her to show you the result, not that leaflet.

coogar: don't do vasectomy....
the reversal operation won't bring you back to normal. the success rate is 50-80%. there are millions of women who would not even think of tying you down with an unwanted baby in this city. take your time & find them. vasecto-what?

TV01: There are cheaper, less risky, more convenient and not as messy sounding ways to keep yourself safe from "thirsty hoes". Not being prescriptive, just saying.
All the best
TV

I agree with you two. I know single guys in their early/late 30's that haven't had any baby mama issues; and they aren't sēx starved. A man has to be very smart in his dealings. Once you sense any sign of desperation, you run.
And don't fück females that have nothing to lose/ at stake.

cococandy: I actually don't think you're a coward.
I suspect you have issues.(Not even because of this thread BTW)
But cowardice isn't one of them.
That's my honest thought.
I don't know about selfishness but coogar and pickabeau are definitely biased.
I understand coogar's bias
Pickabeau's I don't.
Now you asked. I wouldn't have said if you didn't ask

At least you're admitting that you think I have issues; i applaud you for that. You're clueless, and I have issues. Fair enough.

Sophyrocks: Hey!!! Little girls wailing up and down and mentioning my name like their lives depend on it, quit mentioning my name here!!!! I must be special huh? You detest my line of thoughts simply because you lack regard for human life, then quit mentioning my name and move on. You all keep going east south west north on and on with your comments repeating same trash over and over since your e*j*a*c*u*l*ations are what matters most in life. Im done with this thread. BASH YOUR HEADS AGAINST THE WALL IF YOU FIND MY COMMENT ILLOGICAL. You call women emotional simply because they do not disregard human lives like you do? What will you say of the males who are different from you and totally disagree with you? Check the thread from the begining to the end!! They are emotional and illogical right? Just shows your level of barbaric venom in your veins. Who know if you all participate in jungle justice around the four corners of the country. Quit the silly mentions!!!

O.....k? Sophyrocks?

Anacksunamun: Yeah I know of BABE! and her "tenk gawd ayam a Finn" siggy. but Tatiana009, I don't know, I'm gonna be looking out for her though. BABE! didn't insert emotions in her comments and I respect that. It takes an exceptional amount of "unbiasness" for her to stick to the truth, not that I'm shocked though. The BABE! I know acts like that. She's changed these days though, she doesn't bully as before.

You know way too much. Who are you? Lemme guess, richvcunt?

Anacksunamun: Sophyrocks? Of course I know her and her illogical arguments. Just because you had an opposing view to hers, she called you heartless and asked God to have mercy on you. Saying a spérm which is a still a cell after hours of sèx shouldn't be killed off because it's murder. I'm a Christian, but that statement is dumb because she forgot even Pastors uses condoms which are meant to kill sperm cells by preventing them achieve their aims. Her type uses condoms for sex but doesn't know she's also killing the sperm cells too.

She's also never cared to know if you are a Christian and believe in our principles. I won't be caught dead arguing with her in many threads.

Anacksunamun: I know of Coogar's caustic fingers, and they hit below the waistline; but one thing is certain, Coogar won't start cussing someone in the Family Section out of the blue (I stand to be corrected), maybe in the Rap Battles threads. Take a look at how Mondi started calling Coogar a goat and a foolish man, so he'd to respond. If you want civility, he'll argue with you with civility, that's the truth.

Of course she started it. I'm even surprised it took a while for him to react.

When I say women are overly emotional, it's the truth. I was arguing with one yesterday about abortion; sophyrocks; you shoulda seen the way homegirl was hallaring. So much emotions.

Anacksunamun: I guess she feels you might CAP LOCK her to death or something. But what I don't get is the 'scaredness' on a faceless forum. Nobody can stop me from saying my mind. I pay my internet bills!!

Uhn? You say wetin? I'll be scared of coogar too o. Look at what just happened up there. How person go take recover from that kind' tin?

Anacksunamun: LOL!! I guess when snides are being used by her on "Nairaland", it's meant for those "off" Nairaland; but when used by others on "Nairaland", they are meant for Nairlanders online and she must not have used it "first".

She's scared of some people's wrath.

Anacksunamun: When she tried to wave her snide insultss off and I still insisted told her it's insultive, she ignored, because she's wrong but won't accept it.

I don't know why cococandy won't admit that she thinks I'm a coward, or that coogar and pickbeau1 are selfish men. It's not like i'll CAPS-LOCK her to death or anything.

cococandy: People will keep on having sex whether we like it or not.
It's only proper that they take care of offspring(if any) that come from it.

it is not the children's fault
Even if you think it is the mother's fault for not aborting the baby,it is still wrong to punish the child for it.
And I know that the people who made the laws weren't concerned about the couple's petty squabbles and blame games. All they know is that the kid is here and has to be taken care of.
So all hands on deck
Simples

Most of these kids turn out wrong anyway, upon the child support. Let's check out the African American community; baby mama galore. The mother transfer her own aggression on the child.
The kids grow up full of hate; hate planted by the mother. They grow up resenting their fathers/or men.

Ultimately, if the child is female she becomes a salty feminist, with the "niggas ain't shït" ideology.
A vicious cycle.


There's nothing like bringing forth a child into a functional family.

coogar: with these women, na by force. they are ultra-desperate. hitting them means they must be part of a man's life till the end of time. even though God hasn't joined them together, they are ready to overrule Him and stick to men that don't want them like a tick on a dog.

Young men out there should be careful of these stubborn and desperate broads. What shall it profit a man to pay child support for 18 years and still end up with a poorly trained child. lose- lose.

coogar: he just finished drinking shekpe - don't blame him. i wonder how this women are not asking child support when they go to spërm banks to refill their radiators. who knows - they might start demanding that in a couple of years.

I don't know why we can't just all eat our cakes and have it. Can't person just fucck without pikin matter? Abi na by force? Nawa.

Adyrin: C dis dude, W̶̲̥̅̊ђA̶̲̥̅t are you calling accidental?
When U̶̲̥̅̊ were thrusting in and out is it a television you were expection to be the result?
Can you say there's no mental linking of a child to the result of sex?
If his dick is matured enough to stand, and he is bold enuf to chuk it in, then he shud also be man enuf to brace up his responsibilities!
Shikina

This is the sentimental BS we're taking about. A 15 year old boy fuccking is "matured" enough to be a father? A 15 year old female fuccking is matured enough to be a mum? Some 30 year olds aren't even ready to be parents. How can you equate the readiness of being a parent to the ability to cop an erecction?

I cannot.

coogar: maybe pröstitutes have supernatural powers that ordinary women don't have. the moment they sense the man has got a potential or he's ready-made then the babies are immune to abortion. see how they are all over 2face like a rash. irresponsible lots with no shame or decorum. half of the nigerian ladies have no problems getting pregnant for 2face - his celebrity status turns them on.

This is the bottom line.

[quote author=baby_123]Bursting condoms or putting holes in them. Or pretending to pull out while emptying it small small till pregnancy comes. It happens o[/quote]That's insane. I'm for a woman wearing the condom for the man. To make sure there are no holes.

Withdrawal can fail, it's the woman's responsibility to take the plan Bs (pun intended).

If all fails, it's still her choice to have the baby or not.

[quote author=baby_123]It's your baby, it's a product of the gift you left behind. Men also trap successful women. I don't see women crying about that. They own up and have the baby most times. The man may end up getting paid to take care of the baby.[/quote]

how's that possible?

cococandy: they do. All the time.

Really? An educated man segregating his own daughter? You're reaching.


There are laws to protect women, the problem is no one to enforce them. If a woman feels she's discriminated against because of her gender, she can sue. However, would the law enforcement take her seriously? Nope. Why? They've all been bribed by the company. You think men don't get discriminated against too coz they're igbo, hausa or yoruba? which court will they take the case to?

We can't even enforce basic human rights, talkess of feministic rights. The foundation isn't there; which is development and education. Campaigning as a feminist in Nigeria is like having a a roof with no foundation, where will you place the roof, when there's no structure?

Hunger is a great weapon; so long as there's hunger in the land, women will continue to exchange their bodies for money; it's the easy way out. As long as there's no accountability, lecturers will continue to sleep with female students.

Give Nigerians a dignifying ticket out of hunger and poverty, and everything will fall into place.

cococandy: I repeat I didn't throw one at you first. Check yourself. You must have been snide or condescending.
But I'm not interested in dilly dallying over oldies. My Apologies if you felt bullied.
I don't know Zeus. But I forgive you even if you don't apologize for your part in it.

No need to apologize. You can't bully a veteran bully.

I think I read somewhere where you said your feministic views starts and stops in Nigeria and that part of the world.

Don't you think what Nigeria needs is development and education, not feminism? I'm pretty sure in the country's constitution, women have same rights as men. Most folks that have chauvinistic views are greatly influenced by culture and religion. I highly doubt that a well educated man will leave his daughter out of his will because she's female.


The laws are there to protect these women, but who do we have to enforce the laws? No one. That's where my development angle comes in.

Also, poverty and hunger make women in Nigeria do degrading things to themselves. Women there see marriage/man as a ticket out of poverty. That's why men treat them like they do.

So, how does feminism come into play in all of these?

Mondisweets: so is every other married woman, but do u see them aborting instead?

i have witnessed people who have been put in mental institutions because of abortions and u think living that kind of a life is far much better than living up to your responsibilities and simply having that child.

And for every 1 of those in mental institutions, there are many having seamless abortions.

cococandy: Trust me if I insulted you,you threw the first one.I don't insult people for having a different opinion.
I don't roll like that.
If you want to discuss with me,you've to put away high handedness,condescention and leave such words like clueless or any form of snides out of it.
You won't get any vitriols from me that way.

You being clueless isn't an insult.

Cococandy, you bullied me. you even claimed you knew who "panthar" was. You made false claims that I was a man/trany. My crime was saying that women are over emotional beings.

..... which you actually proved right.

May Zeus forgive you.

cococandy: It's funny that I don't question your reasons for being non feminist. At least I understand that you may have a reason if you've experienced male gender suppression.

But you think you have an opinion about my feminism even when you have no idea why I chose to be.

Do the insults make you feel smarter?
Enjoy yourself.

don't take it personal. I'm sure you have many clues when it comes to non-feministic issues.

It's possible you're a very smart individual. But when it comes to feminist issues, I can't take anyone of you here seriously.


Weren't you the babe insulting panthar (before the e-tsunami) because she had a completely different opinion from you?
Now you're claiming church. Rich.

Mondisweets: what exactly are you trying to say?

And who is more likely to have difficulties having children in the future? The one who gives birth or the one has abortions?

Who is more likely to have mental disorders that would affect her for the rest of her life, the one who gives birth the one who has abortions?

I am trying to say, you, mondisweet, are 14 times more likely to die from child birth than abortion.

There's a high risk of me dying from a car crash or hitting a pedestrian, should I then stop driving? What must be done, must be done.

Mental disorder ? Affect her for the rest of her life? That's sensationalism. The pros of aborting a fatherless child outweigh the cons.

cococandy: That's very unfair.
If you haven't seen any feminist stand against it?
Well Now you have.

You? Feminist?

You're one of those clueless females I mentioned yesterday. Nothing more.

Mondisweets: please when your daughter gets pregnant and her bf wants her to put her life at risk simply because he doesn't want to buy diapers and baby milk, come back and say this rubbish you are

Studies show that a woman is 14 times more likely to die from child birth compared to having an abortion. Should we then stop giving birth to avoid risking our lives?

cococandy: I don't know any reasonable person who would either.

Maybe like someone on this thread said,it's a racket that earns the govt money.
I don't know how true that statement is but if critically examined,there may be some truth to it.
Because it definitely beats reasons. Why should that man pay for kids that are not his? Poor guy

There's more to that story. And maybe someone somewhere is benefiting from all that.

BTW I don't think judges should be above sanction. That one needs his license(or whatever) suspended for awhile.

Ermm.. That case is just one in a thousand. So far anyone is a woman in those cases, she's the "victim", and the man is "Freddy Krueger". So many fathers paying child support for kids that aren't theirs; so far they make a substantial income, the court orders them to pay.

And I've never seen a feminist stand up against this; when the movement is about equal gender right; most of them actually love that innocent men are being leeched upon.

Same goes to räpe cases too. Police don't even bother to investigate anymore. So far the women is the first to report the räpe, she's the victim. So many innocent men have gone to prison wrongly.

Coogar remember that Nigerian student's alleged räpe case?