Shocker, you get a chamber that offers you 5grand or 20, You vex and decide to drop the law and look for greener pastures.u end up in zeneith, fcmb,gtb,and d likes, with ur mates that had just read 4year courses and didnt have2go tru the stufz u went thru, Its so sad, now tell me does it make any sence going professional anymur in Nigeria. Wen we have lawyer turn banker, Engineer turn customer care attendant,med doctor turn cashier, hen accountant turn human resource officer? Does it mke any sence people?

Efforts.you are given a pass(as in degree oh) merely because someone, somewhere believes that law sch shouldnt be beans so you should be graded on your lowest score, E.g u take 6 courses. Uve 80% in 5 of them whc earns you a first class.but you have 49% in the 6th course. So dat 49 becomes the determinant factor, ok as if thats not enough u sha take it as Gods will.and you go out2 the world job hunting full of high hopes.dat after so much money spent and time in school.you shld atleast get a good job.

Even to courses like yoruba(no offence intended).then after those mad years in sch.u finally finish witout a life cos your life was buried in your book.u then have to go an additional one year in law sch. Not a normal year oh.i mean a year when if given an option btw it and the deep deep blue sea youl so jump in happily, thats aside the fact that your whole community prob ably had2 donate money for you to meet up the fees, You write your exams and your results are released you find out that after so much

Im presently at the law school. 3wks to write one of the craziest exams i have ever written in my life and im beginin to wonder what the hell im doing in law? Let me break it down: u go into school with all the dreams and aspirations of becoming that lawyer u see on boston legal or justice, if u are as fortunate as i was.you get to spend 5 official and additional 1year in school(dats a gift from Assu).your mates that quietly borrowed themselves brain go and read other courses. From business ad. To economics

abi o, so the osu thingy still exists?na wa o

ello somegal, if i hadnt been in ur kind of shoes b4,i prob would have told you to loose the looser, but then i know how you fel,i have been there done dat,bought a shirt even opened a boutique, my point is dat you have to work on your mind and move on, atimes we gals often refuse to read btw the lines,it mit not be so obvious to you but to us, nairalanders reading your post,its obvious dis guy doest give a hoot about you anymore, if u think he does den he has a funny way of showing it o, look gal,just try and get him off your mindwhy havent u guys seen each other,is it an over the seas relationship?if its not and its justt a cross state thing then haba,,its not like you need a visa to go see him or vice versa, no one can tell u what to do,u wear the shoe u know where it pinches, u know the lies youv been telling yourself, u know the many nights uv stayed up crying.only u would know wat to do, but tkea ok

Thanx alot nice2have dat cut me real dip, Was merely giving a brief history of all dat happened,u get?its not like its still going on.yeh Attached then i would say but not obsessed, i dnt know if uv eva rily luved smeone u just refuse2 see his or her short comings initially,but u gradually start seeing dem, gullible? Why wld u say dat?rmb my first few posts,wen i told u all dat i almost slept wit him,dat infact i didnt in my mind feel like a virgin? Yeh,dat wld explain why it sims im        "obsessed"cos i constanly crucified myself4going dat far wit him,and wondered if i would be able2 telk whoeva i eventually endup with dat i went dat far wit smeone, coupled wit d fact dat i stl liked him,it was all2easy wen he came bak cos i felt i had gun far wit him so let me just stick2him and try dis time2make it work, i dnt knw if u get sha, but i hope u try2, and all ur help ere went a long way. D new guy, i dnt need dat right now.just need2set my piorities right, kip my fingers crosd tl i hear4rm u all.

Succeeded, i dont know jo,i feel kinda messed up, i want2 hate my ex having realised wat it was he must have had in mind but i guess it was all my fault.i was2confused 2 think or reason.and i allowed someone dat was in my life once2run my affairs,run my life, den turn me in2 an emotional freak, dats it o.now u see why i am just dere sha , Op u all r ok, kip n touch all of u, tassmal wr u dey?

@prettyh.wadup.dnt mind me o,ive just been there o.things v just been there,im still trying2 move on with my life,putting God first,trusting God and minding my own business.let me give u a break down of my lifes recent haps, i broke up wit my ex but still loved him bits afta all d shit he put me tru,met smone else but jeopordized my chances of being happy cos i couldnt just make up my mind on wat i wanted,or rather who i wanted.  My ex came bak wit all d stories of how he missed me and wanted 2spend d rest of his life wit me.while still confused abt d whle tng but watching2 c wat next wld happen and nt doing anything my ex calls2say he was getting married. Meanwhile things wit d new guy seem damaged beyond repairs,guess he just couldnt get why i was 2attached,i cldnt undastand myself. Now d reality of things hit me,my ex was merely out (aldo unconsciously)2stop me 4rm moving on wit smeone else esp knwn i broke up wit him wen he didnt want me2. Its just like "if i cant have u noone can"and i guess he kinda

@prettyh.wadup.dnt mind me o,ive just been there o.things v just been there,im still trying2 move on with my life,putting God first,trusting God and minding my own business.let me give u a break down of my lifes recent haps, i broke up wit my ex but still loved him bits afta all d shit he put me tru,met smone else but jeopordized my chances of being happy cos i couldnt just make up my mind on wat i wanted,or rather who i wanted.  My ex came bak wit all d stories of how he missed me and wanted 2spend d rest of his life wit me.while still confused abt d whle tng but watching2 c wat next wld happen and nt doing anything my ex calls2say he was getting married. Meanwhile things wit d new guy seem damaged beyond repairs,guess he just couldnt get why i was 2attached,i cldnt undastand myself. Now d reality of things hit me,my ex was merely out (aldo unconsciously)2stop me 4rm moving on wit smeone else esp knwn i broke up wit him wen he didnt want me2. Its just like "if i cant have u noone can"and i guess he kinda

rhinothanks alot for that piece, i guess youare actually right.one thing always leads to another.its easy saying you wont do anything wen you are going newly into the relationship buts its sooooooo difficult sticking to such decisions.but i guess God is always there wen you need hishelp, later people

ok here is the jist, u know i told you all sometime ago that my ex told me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.well got a call some few days ago,and he told me he was getting married soon, how now?i was mad.but didnt say or act up,i was so nice like ow that is so good,hope you are ready and stuffs like that, after all the pretence and i dropped the phone,in my quiet moments i was like na wa o.thats a brief, i will give you the full details later, ocho its our first semester hols.guess we would be resuming by next month

people wad up, prettyh atlast you surfaced.wats been up wit u all?, me ive just been there o,trying to have my fun yet stay clean and pure, im on holidays now,searching desperatly for a job or something to kip me busy, u know as dey say,an idle mind is the devils workshop, im doing good sha aspa my emotional life, i have so so hot jist for you, im sure by the time i tell you guys, i can imagine what someone like nice2have would say, tassmal, well u have always been on my side,as seen u dey my back any day so u would not say 'i told you'',  prettyh and ocho,im sure you will so so give who ever is involved a piece of your mind, ill keep u all guesing what the jist could be, tkea all

impact on me: i now look forward to coming online, even if its just to read replies to post from people like LAYI, SEUN, GREATPETER, HOTANGEL,TASSMAL, OCHO, PRETTYH, AND YEMSTRAND(guy impregnating cousin) hope i got that right, this site is fun, seun keep up the good work, alkdo initially i couldnt jts stand you, but u dey try, thumbs up

ive also learnt that you can never know what to do in a crazy situation until you are there or in it yourself, and that dont i repeat dont ever think somethins can never happen, men jerry springer should come pick some story lines from nairaland,

pull out? why if i may ask? unless theres more to your story than u are telling,i dont think u need to pull out of your relationship, but then if one part of you gets really worried everytime you think about it and u cant seem to shake of that feeling,i suggest you do wat would give you a peace of mind.

@tassmal.u want mey i wound? fine i can talk to my dad but to that extent, lets just keep my dad for when i want to feel pampered or spoilt, im glad everyone is back now except prettyh sha, u all have been good listeners or is it readers and a good pillar or support. u never mit know how much.but i mean it, about the new boy.well things have been abit edgy sha because of all the past issues i had to deal with.i guess he his finding it hard getting over all that happened.im trying my best to clear the air.but its proven difficult,feel he don't really trust me nomore, kip praying for me sha.i got m,y self into this whole mess,its God that will bring me out completly, so how was your vals day people? me hen i just roasted.when all my mates were having fun somewhere me i went to school chasing missing results, imagine, u all don't tell anyone o that babycute na one dry girl like that o, hope to read from u all soonest, later

hey u guyss.things are getting better now.gradually im letting go of this boy.its not as hard as i tot it would be, now he calls only once in a blue moon and unlike before when i would get mad that he had fashied me or something,i don't bother pushing it.just try to talk normal.and when im in die hard need of someone to talk to or share something with i unlike before DO NOT call him.i call my mum or sister instead, its getting better sha, ill kip u all posted, where is everyone in the house now, tassmal ,prettyh ,ocho.where u all at?

i told my friend about this site and she asked me to lay down her problem to you guys.

Sometime last year she was like dating this guy but it wasn't working out between them. In her mind it was over between them but she didnt want to break up with him over the phone because it would be unfair and he wasnt based in nigeria. But she had made up her mind for like 8 months that it was over and when she told me I actually saw reasons with her.

She met this new guy and dey seem to click and all.three months later he asked her out,she was like let them just chill and see what happens, but the guy on his own part took that for a yes, sha. She told her ex finally he said ok and all. Then everything was settled.

But sometime ago her ex came to say helo then they kissed only. She felt bad and all then told the other guy she met. He was mad and all, and raked and raked. They later talked about it, and afterwards this girl went round getting people to like beg him he cooled. But the thing is that it's so long ago that happened but now he has started acting funny. He hardly calls no more he his just acting all funny. Do you guys think it as something to do with that incident?

Please hola ok, she is in need of your responces.

dis is not a way to get over a heartbreak its just a little experience i had once, some time along time ago i was totally devastated wen i found out my ex was cheating on me,and to add salt to the injury, he left me for the other gal, i wanted to die, i was devastated.i was crushed.i couldnt think of anyoda thing.,he was my first boyfriend.tot i would nevewr be the same, guess wat, that same week,the much awiated semester exams timetable came out.we all tot they would post pone the exams men they didnt oh, sharpsharp i forgot totally about heartbreak, for a whole 3weeks.i dint even for once think about it.much less depress myself or cry, wen the exams were over it started again, men i just shoved it to one side, my point exactly wen you have something more serious at ahnd believe me heartbreak would be the last on your mind, i think sha.

na wa for the guys we have on this site o, how can you just tell him to dump the gal just like dat, did you ever sit to think maybe it was this her so called brother that forbadeher from seeing her boyfriend.or her parents or maybe something was going on that she just needed time off and was sure going to explain later, all u guys are thinking about is the fact that it took her so long then till vals eve to show up apologizing, stop it o,u can never know about a thing till you are the one feeling it.dont give advices like dat to people its not nice, im not saying the gal is justified for watever she must have done.but i think like we lawyers say, our clients innocence is rebuttable on proove of any unconscionable act, and my guy why did you use such an heading for your post? anyone reading it would automatically conclude that you know wat she was up too.and from the look of things atleast from the way your post sounded it seems you dont really know wats up, hope wat i wrote goes down well with ya.later

@donnie, reading thru all your post, i can only conclude two things, u either pastor at tb joshua'a church, u are a a close relative or friend<jokes>, nwayz seriously, this is a site where everyone is entiled to their opinions ok.dont try washing someones opinion down just cos it dont go down well wit you, tkea

hey wad up, wheres everyone, ive been busy with exams and all.hola anyone

initially i was trilled and dumbfounded but didnt say a word.but in my afta tots i am mad@myself cos i shld v said smtn.why is he doing dis2me and why cnt he just let me go. I know im stl abit attached and im working on it seriously but why wldnt he just let me go..im tired jo..

Im becoming one emotionally unstable female..tassmal yst he said he wants 2 spend d rest of his life wit me.my ex o.wat do i do?

Tassmal men i feel u.its so difficult letting go.like i said i was still so attached.i like spoke with this boy everyday.as in every single day for almost a whole year after we broke up.as in evryday,much as he was selfish and morally incompatible wit me.i still liked him alot,i tot breaking up would be it, it was a tough emotional and physical battle4me. but im glad its over. But tassmal wldnt lie2 u because uv been there done that,i still miss him alot when i think about it.aldo i try not2.but i guess wit time and Gods help ild get ova d whole thing, besides i nid2get on wit my life.and aldo we were like best pals its obvious we can't be that close ive2let go till i get my life back2geda, ill definatly kip u all posted because do u know its easy2talk2u and be so so honest because i dnt knw any of u technically.  , haha later people

Thanks ocho...and thanks4not condeming me4 still havin feelings4my ex and thinking about gettin bak2him...as4the new guy..yea ild take it slow..real slow.and ild make sure i always cum table out any wahala 2u guyz so ild knw im not alone in dis our lifes christian battle..cheers

Gradually i was beggining 2get convinced.d new guy heard abt it or rada i told him.he was mad. He was like couldnt i see?..men i couldnt o. But now i know God luvs me,cos wen i closed my eyes and ears2all dat was going on. God opened dem4 me..i can imagine him saying u sturborn child..i wont let u slip away distime..it was tough..i was falling again..but God saw me tru..i kinda call it my unfinished business dat i wouldv had2 face someday.aldo we broke up.i had dis mental conclusion dat i couldnt rily move on cos i felt i was2 attached..we stil spoke evryday.and he was stl part of my life..now GOd helped me c dat i had2deal wit it finally..i fell but im happier now..people na wa 4 dis our life o. Hola guys..tassmal. Nice2have,prettyh.. Evryone

Guess wat people..i kinda met dis guy sha. We just started talking o.but it sims dere mit be prospects.but im taking it so so slow.i dont want2 make any silly mistake dis time around.we talk alot about things generally.and im glad aldo he has had sexual relationships in the past.d longest relationship he had ever had and coolest atleast so he says..was d non sexual one dat is it was void of sex.dats encouraging abi? If things go2 anoda level with us.i know he strikes me as someone who would respect my feelings. jist2..my ex came back ..asking4us2 get back. It sounded crazy and i was rily mad dat he had d guts2 come say stuffs like dat2me .but nairalanders...hm..nairalanderr ur friend me babycute was considering d offer. I knew he had messed me up spritually,physi cally,emotionally name it.i was stl considering d offer. I really dont knw why i was.maybe cos i felt shebi i had done things with him 2 such great extent and i was use2him already.or maybe i was just scared of moving on..it was a tough battle cos

hey  wad up,tassmal nice2have prettyh,all of you, im doing aight.school resumed so lots of tests and all.ive hot hot jist for you all.just logged in hurridely.will log on later sha, tkea all

@neddy.yea we did talk about it.he asked me if i had done it before i  was like no and didnt intent to do it till i got married,he was like yea right that what was the use having someone you can't feel,me i was like watever jo,i would change him,he didnt change oh,it was always  a battle,we were always arguing about it,i should have let it go when i knew his stands about it,but i was too blinded by so called love,and thot i would change him.so its better when u know what knid of morals he or she has,and that it doesnt go with yours let it go o.
@Nairaland users, guess what?just found out today that this same boy had beem messing aroud with my friends and every availiable female on sight when we were supposedly dating.i feel so bad,i have been crying ever since,i know its over between us,but it hurts so bsd.what if  i had given him my all,how woulD I FEEL NOW?listen people,atimes we might feel God is to rigid and his rules to tough to follow,but now i know he loves us and is trying to protect us from getting hurt or making drastic mistakes.these rules are for outr own goog, i feel so bad i wont lie.but i am happy i can share it with you all, happy new year in advance

We dont lie. ..we only manipulate our cases to suit the course of justice.