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Culture / Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by babymama3: 3:13pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
CFCfan: I wonder No chance Unless he doesn't wear deodorant |
Family / Re: What Do I Do? by babymama3: 2:57pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
maclatunji: @ OP,Nigeria has changed a lot for the better There are NGOs out there that will help you keep your children Don't ask him for any upkeep and if he doesn't provide anything,he up has no claims to the kids till they are of age and if you do your job well,they won't miss him My aunt was abandoned and her kids taken away by husband but she eventually got them back thanks to the NGO My best friend from high school was abandoned with three kids,she eventually remarried 4 years after and changed the kids first and last names and got her new husband to adopt her kids legally and the ex is gone from their lives forever. This is 2014 Men can no longer walk off then return and want to claim relationship with kids they didn't raise or try and snatch them by force The law today will work against him Give him a year or two to establish relationship with the kids,if he doesn't,you are free to legally terminate his parental rights through the court and these NGOs will help you Do not worry about this just yet but make enquiries later about what I am saying As far as I am concerned a man who abandons me and kids has lost the children forever I will take every legal route to make sure it stays that way 2 Likes |
Family / Re: What Do I Do? by babymama3: 2:48pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
I remember a young lady here who was marrying into another culture and was asking who she should kneel for and not kneel for and how long she should kneel and people were giving all sorts of advise including kneeling for husband's sisters and relatives younger than her I said Nne,if this kneeling thing is not your style bow your knees and greet everyone that appears older than you respectfully and move on from day one. If you kneel today and stop kneeling tomorrow,you become a bad wife. But if from the very first time you stand on your two feet,the way you feel comfortable and greet everyone,they know this is your style from day one and they will get used to it. People should simplify their lives as much as possible Let the young ladies, learn from this story. Do whatever is within your power to live with your husband and husband only, in the first years of marriage No inlaws or outlaws on permanent basis and absolutely not in you MIL's house Jobless and living with your MIL and her grandchildren and your husband under the same roof A suicidal combination You are strong o 2 Likes |
Family / Re: What Do I Do? by babymama3: 2:28pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Glitterdust: My dear you did too much ,next time don't do all that servant and slave sumtin Women think they win a loving place in a man's heart by becoming lower than dirt Hear this from a veteran who has been in this marriage business a while Men love and respect a woman who loves and respects them and is also strong woman who can hold their own The biggest mistake you made was agreeing to be a housewife Don't ever allow yourself to be controlled financially ever again There is a level of respect you gain by having some independence No matter how much a man provides,you must bring something to the table to be respected The same man will turn around and call you a liability when the thing go shele ,don't put yourself in that position Men by nature are controlling It takes the wisdom of a woman to set limits to his control You have to subtly lay down the rules of what you will put up with and what you will not If a man decides to come in at midnight ,he certainly won't be getting dinner from me and if I were to massage his feet,it will be with razor blade You could be doing these things and always trying yo please because you think by not working,you are somewhat diminished so you need to "love more" That is not love, love doesn't hurt If you had a job,at the end of the day,the last thing on your mind is massaging any feet Did he ever massage yours? Let that be the last feet you ever massaged Nne,you have massaged enough [b]Just before my wedding,I would sit Up and talk with my mom well into the night and she would tell me words of wisdom night after night One of the things she said is " my daughter, you go into marriage because you love but you stay in it and enjoy it with 100% wisdom and commonsense" and that is so true.Marriage needs a whole load of commonsense . Another word my mother said was " my daughter,anything you know will be going out yourself to do and anything you know will cause problems when you stop doing it,don't ever start it" then she told me a story of how she used to wash and iron my father's clothes till the babies started coming and she was Still working full time and washing and ironing his clothes and finally had to tell Him to wash his own clothes and the man sparked, a major argument ensued but she stuck to her guns. I learned a lot from that. Don't take on more than you can handle from the get go Love and also apply a whole load of sense and use style to teach the man to do things for himself and not to disrespect you. [/b] He may kick against it at first,they all do but eventually he will go along with it,I am speaking from experience here You need to train your man to respect you. 4 Likes |
Culture / Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by babymama3: 2:09pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
CFCfan: Of course na |
Culture / Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by babymama3: 1:59pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
MrRenaissance: Your rantings mean nada The woman's ID was not revealed unless you know the nyash and pants Nobody here can pick her up from a line up The thread is still up as you can see,no laws were violated There are pictures and videos everywhere online of people behaving badly,this is just one of them You folks just have to deal with it The same way I am a faceless moniker to you is the same way you all are to me,nameless faceless people When I log off,none of you exist and there is nothing anyone can say or do here beyond pounding on their phone or keyboard angrily If it causes anyone high BP,na for dia bodi I don't write for anyone's viewing pleasure Even if 99.999% of you are pained,I won't be moved,will still say my mind always I promise you that much in consistency Anyone that can't handle it should avoid my threads Because it is not about to end Simple! 4 Likes |
Family / Re: I Want To Start A New Life In Kwara. Help! by babymama3: 5:44am On Jul 24, 2014 |
jieta: i have a little money on me(30,000). i just want to go some where were no body knows me and start a new life.so please if you are from kwara and you have any ideas to share with me i will be very grateful Let them not use you for rituals o 2 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: My Random Pictures ( after the nairaland wipe out) by babymama3: 5:35am On Jul 24, 2014 |
shakol91: @ Baby Mama,the advice i gave to him was to apply for admission (I think is working on that now) pay all the necessary fees,visit embassy with documents to confuse the VO like the certificate he was given by California Highway patrol after the training,also the photo's he took in the college during training,with officers and also on patrol,he also has some CHP officers contact card given by them to him when he was leaving. Also the photos he took at the california government house. His present job employment letter, (All this just to confuse VO why he wanted to study the course and to confirm that he has truly undergone intensive training there b4. Pls ur suggestions First I thought you were asking for yourself I don't know why you kept saying "to confuse the visa officer" That shouldn't be anyone's intention as those people are very well trained and can tell when one is trying to pull stunts Going for an interview ,just be yourself People can tell when you are sincere On my very first visit to the British embassy,I was turned down and before I left I asked the interviewer why he turned me down and he told me I didn't apply correctly and that I needed to reapply for the right visa and that was what I did and got the visa 1 Like |
Culture / Re: What Particular Tradition Do You Dislike In Your Community by babymama3: 5:21am On Jul 24, 2014 |
I dislike that we don't have the tradition of men using their wives to do Kola for visitors as is done in some Benue community Na to target one berra bobo and ask him to visit often Hahahahahahaha 13 Likes |
Travel / Re: 7 Annoying Things Nigerians Do On Airplanes by babymama3: 5:12am On Jul 24, 2014 |
Jollof: Like me, I bet you've all run around with your bathing towels wrapped above your shoulders like a cape and pretended to be Superman (and if you haven't then it's never too late!). Ever since I was a little brat I wanted to take to the skies. Air travel is the next best thing and I'm always looking forward to having a glass plastic cup of ice-cold apple juice which always tastes better at 10,000 feet. What could possibly disrupt this moment of long-awaited bliss? Cue the Nigerians... On my recent return trip from New York alone I encountered 7 annoying things Nigerians did on the plane: My thoughts exactly and someone beats me to it How about 8.dragging for overhead compartments for their hand luggage and cussing each other out 9. Refusing to buckle up despite continuos announcements and seat buckle sign clearly up 10. Walking to the bathroom when they have been asked numerous times to sit their behind down 11. Taking over someone's window seat and doing open eye when asked to move 12. Screaming on the phone and Refusing to turn off their cell phones |
Family / Re: What Do I Do? by babymama3: 5:07am On Jul 24, 2014 |
Glitterdust: I am in my early 30's, married with two kids. Living with my MIL and two of my husband's nephews... (btw, I am a stay-at-home mum at the insistence of my husband.. Stay with your parents Have your baby Intensify job search Move on with your life The man doesn't care a thing about you,you could be dying and he will walk over you to go about his business You have to love your self.It may have even been a plan with his relatives to beat you up,what else could explain the reason he didn't show up after the beating. Move on Nne! You married a goat,you didn't know it then,now you know,you do better let this give you the strength to succeed 3 Likes |
Culture / Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by babymama3: 5:00am On Jul 24, 2014 |
armyofone: lol... generally speaking, can you imagine someone trying on a top without deodorant? And sadly most Nigerians don't wear any and be smelling funky 2 Likes 1 Share |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by babymama3: 4:55am On Jul 24, 2014 |
Yum 4 Likes
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Culture / Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by babymama3: 4:53am On Jul 24, 2014 |
cococandy: You don't need to explain anything to them If a thread offends you move on If they choose to stay,let them It is now in it's 8th page and they are still crying Well I am back to wipe their tears 2 Likes |
Culture / Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by babymama3: 4:45am On Jul 24, 2014 |
@ armyofone did I hear you went to forum park west to look for me Please o That part of town is dangerous ,don't dare Ndi ashawo may attack you ,they do drive by shootings in broad daylight that side o Don't near that place lai lai 3 Likes |
Culture / Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by babymama3: 4:42am On Jul 24, 2014 |
MrRenaissance: what's my problem? It's simple, GET A LIFE and stop being biased!! It's shameful!! Me taking it personal? So asslicking like you will make it non-personal? So when people speak against evil, it becomes personal? So babymama invasion of someone's privacy is not her taking it personal, but when another person pays her back in her coin, it becomes personal? Damn!! Your hypocrisy is in 3D. I'm back! Who invaded my privacy please? Posting a block of apartments as my address is an invasion? Mukina banned me for a thread and I kept off and refused to sign on a new name and tried my other handle now and it works,at least for now What is that address again Forum park west Last time I lived in an apartment in this city was in 1996 I passed that stage long time ago,Jehovah lifted me higher since No privacy was revealed at all but you can go there and look for me If you come out with only one gun shot wound only,you thank your stars 3 Likes |
Culture / Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by babymama3: 4:37am On Jul 24, 2014 |
MrRenaissance: Bikpnu who invaded my privacy? Na so una dey foolish reach? See why I said Nigerians are bush I live in Forum park west ? Tua! Even my ghost won't live anywhere near there 4 Likes |
Religion / Re: FourSquare Gospel Church Building Collapses At Ojodu-Berger by babymama3: 4:33pm On May 09, 2013 |
The building was originally a bungalow before it was converted to a 2 storey building. The labourers and menial workers were trapped(about 4 of them) and sadly, all the government could provide were axes for digging. One of the trapped guy even called someone with his phone. Everybody pick shovel,axe begin dig. This is the problem right there They dig a foundation and pour slab for a one level house then they keep adding on to it The landlord and the person who gave him a permit to build should be arrested and charged with manslaughter if anyone died,endangering the lives of people willfully should be the other charge |
Politics / Re: Dangote Secures $4.25 Billion Loan To Build Refinery In Nigeria by babymama3: 4:25pm On May 09, 2013 |
He should also look into the falling building in Lagos and find out if they were built with Dangote cement. |
Religion / Re: FourSquare Gospel Church Building Collapses At Ojodu-Berger by babymama3: 4:19pm On May 09, 2013 |
JUO: sub-standard materials [size=18pt]Is it the Dangote cement or what[/size] |
Religion / Re: FourSquare Gospel Church Building Collapses At Ojodu-Berger by babymama3: 4:16pm On May 09, 2013 |
Chineke Mee 1 Like |
Food / Re: A Male Nairalander Cooking Jollof Rice by babymama3: 3:01pm On May 09, 2013 |
ChEkWaS IyKe : Good job I wish many young men could learn how to cook. Looks delicious That was my jollof ice 2 Likes
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Fashion / Re: Miss Nigeria 2013 Semi-finalists: Who is the Prettiest (Pictures)? by babymama3: 2:50pm On May 09, 2013 |
This one look like she don born pikin See her neck,evidence of good living I see her as madam in a supermarket wey her millionaire husband open for her 2 Likes
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Fashion / Re: Miss Nigeria 2013 Semi-finalists: Who is the Prettiest (Pictures)? by babymama3: 2:29pm On May 09, 2013 |
These are the two prettiest IMHO Judging from these head shots o Natural and flawless beauties The second girl reminds me of a youthful me 1 Like
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Fashion / Re: Help Me Re- Invent My Style by babymama3: 2:52am On May 09, 2013 |
Virgin Finder: Aren't u the same guy that told us in another thread that u don't use deodorant/ anti perspirant too |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Couple Failed DNA Test For Twins At Embassy by babymama3: 2:47am On May 09, 2013 |
tanidabi: truth is people looking for children are desperate,i've been trying to conceive for 5yrs now and i've been offered this same option.How on earth will i be pregnant and they will tell me no scan can see the baby and that i must deliver there?There are so many stolen babies in the hands of desperate parents,what i do not know is if they are aware.My family friend did the same and after my husband abused me that am not serious that so and so person is pregnant,i called them to introduce me to the doctor,lo and behold na herbal way they used,ministers in the house of God,though there's was somewhere in Ondo State,long story short,i could not sleep the night they told me,me that am anxious by default before,how will i be pregnant and no scan will see my baby,ijump am pass o,what i do not know is if they know na stolen pikin dey born or na der pikin,loads of people dey dis tin.My prayer is that they catch all of them I pronounce the blessings of Hannah upon you May you be blessed with children of your own May this post here be a point of turn around for you May your own hands carry your own children in Jesus's name Amen 4 Likes 1 Share |
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