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Romance / Re: Describe The Person You Would Never Date by babymama3: 11:54pm On May 07, 2013 |
vivian chinaza: 1. Uneducated. Looks like you will be by yourself then because almost every man with normal testosterone level has that number 6. It is unmanly not have some air of arrogance intertwined with self confidence That is the plain truth sis |
Romance / Re: Describe The Person You Would Never Date by babymama3: 11:50pm On May 07, 2013 |
A person I could never marry |
Education / Re: I Want To Die Because Jamb Let Me Down by babymama3: 11:41pm On May 07, 2013 |
Al-hasan: This is not the end of the world Let this disappointment spur you to desire success more than ever I wish you well |
Celebrities / Re: Paul Okoye & Elshama Igbanoi Pictured Together by babymama3: 11:36pm On May 07, 2013 |
dayokanu: You should mind your language young man This is unbecoming |
Family / Re: Kneeling Down To Greet Mother-in-law: Oddity Or Obeisance? by babymama3: 8:36pm On May 07, 2013 |
@ the poster,I would have thought that one marrying into a different culture would ask questions from the spouse regarding some cultures that are alien to them. he is the best person to give you advise on what to do here and the type of mother he has so that if the old woman fusses at a future time that she is not being "worshipped" properly by her daughter in law ,you would have him on your side. Most MIL's don't get along with their DIL anyway and coming from a different culture it will always be used against you when things don't go right There is also this need for women married to other cultures to over compensate and over do things at the initial stages in their bid to be accepted,not a wise thing to do,it will come back to bite you when you decide to be real but if you can sustain it,good for you.i have heard of women that even kneel to sisters in law and husband's relatives younger than them just because they married into the family. I will never do that. My advice As my mama advised me privately during my engagement ,she said " Ada m ,love and respect your husband and his people but whatever you know you cannot sustain in your marriage don't ever start it." That is wisdom speaking I hope to pass on that advise to my daughter If I were married to a Yoruba culture,I would bow and greet the older folks as they do but will never kneel. I don't kneel for my parents or to any man and sure will not kneel to any MIL. Doesn't mean I don't love and respect them,some kneel and cuss them out under their breath but I guess the outward appearance of kneeling even when I can't stand you is more important. That will be my method from day one so that those who like me will and those who don't will know that is my style. So ask your husband what you should do to please his mother and if it something you can do,do it,if not,do it your way and they will just have to take you like you are. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Paul Okoye & Elshama Igbanoi Pictured Together by babymama3: 8:18pm On May 07, 2013 |
[size=18pt]Let us see a picture of the bouncing baby boy I don't need no DNA I only need to look at the nose on the kid to pronounce Paul guilty or not guilty[/size] |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by babymama3: 8:12pm On May 07, 2013 |
Vikin: Kai So she is already married Isorait |
Family / Re: Yet To Speak At 29 Months, Should I Be Worried? by babymama3: 8:04pm On May 07, 2013 |
Some posters already gave you some sound advise Don't listen to anyone that says just relax,it is nothing,it probably is nothing but you need to be sure If you have a feeling or unction that something is not quite right,you need to see someone. Problems are better corrected at the onset not later Besides speech,does the baby display undue anger and tantrums? Are there any habits? Does he socialize well with other kids Does he make eye contact? When you call him does he answer and walk towards you? Does he imitate speech when you talk? What type of doctor did you see and what tests did he perform? Are you in Nigeria or Yankee? This is critical A doctor who is jack of all trade or one with no experience in child development issues will not help you much. If this is your first born and the only problem is delayed speech and you are sure his hearing is right,it may not be unusual My first child got me all worried too but is a very smart kid today Ileobatojo talked about hearing,get his hearing checked by an ear specialist ,that is standard You can follow up at home before then by standing behind him and call to see if he turns or answers. Gosh Now I feel like having a cute baby in my arms |
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by babymama3: 7:22pm On May 07, 2013 |
Knowing how fierce the community is on this,he should have buried the serpent at the back of his house or carried it together with the garbage in his household and thrown it deep into the bushes or buried it there. |
Celebrities / Re: Paul Okoye & Elshama Igbanoi Pictured Together by babymama3: 7:18pm On May 07, 2013 |
coogar: As you dey so,will you allow a strange woman to pin a baby on you ? Most modern and decent men would willingly call for a DNA test to prove their innocence and those really angered by this will follow up and sue for defamation if the test proves the woman to be a liar. I think he is guilty |
Celebrities / Re: Paul Okoye & Elshama Igbanoi Pictured Together by babymama3: 7:15pm On May 07, 2013 |
What type of name is Elshama by the way Is she Hebrew? |
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by babymama3: 7:12pm On May 07, 2013 |
subnormal: Reading through most your comments, I get the feeling that most NLs will prefer the thread title to be 'python kills whole family in Anambra'. A snake is a wild animal, maybe some of you believe it won't hurt you, but others may not subscribe to that belief. When such 'unbelievers' encounter your god, they may not pay him homage as you wld cos to them, it's a dangerous animal. And the same eediots commenting and condemning this man would ask where the father was when a snake killed his children |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by babymama3: 7:10pm On May 07, 2013 |
ogugua88: [size=13pt]Ahn ahn. Common olive. All you have to do is remove it from the can and slice. Biko are you married I have found my sister in law by faith |
Politics / Re: 2015: It’s Either A Northerner Or No More Nigeria - Farouk Adamu Aliyu by babymama3: 7:08pm On May 07, 2013 |
Evestar200: Make i go find money nw,,in case kasala burst i go just fly my families go RWANDA Rwanda lol |
Politics / Re: 2015: It’s Either A Northerner Or No More Nigeria - Farouk Adamu Aliyu by babymama3: 6:56pm On May 07, 2013 |
camelus: In 1910,the Secretary of State for Colonies Lewis Harcourt presented to the British House of Commons,proposal to merge the Southern and Northern Protectorate,the aim was purely economical. This was where our problems started Why we were punished in this manner and God allowed it is what I still don't understand. why were the wise warnings of Sir Ralph Moore not heeded? How did this evil machination enter into the hearts of Lord Lugard ? Lord Lugard is now dead but the Problem he created is now without comparison 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Yinka Olonode's Suicide: Bros,so U Finally Killed Urself? (tribute) by babymama3: 6:48pm On May 07, 2013 |
For those condemning him,will you also say RIP to someone who died from complications of diseases that he contributed to their risk factors ? Think about it. |
Celebrities / Re: Yinka Olonode's Suicide: Bros,so U Finally Killed Urself? (tribute) by babymama3: 6:48pm On May 07, 2013 |
Double |
Celebrities / Re: Yinka Olonode's Suicide: Bros,so U Finally Killed Urself? (tribute) by babymama3: 6:46pm On May 07, 2013 |
specialguest: I find it kind of hard saying 'RIP' to someone who commits suicide... The only thing i can say is 'why' would anyone want to take his own life? It cant be that bad, there's so much to look forward to in life. No matter the circumstance, i would rather be 6 feet above the ground than below it. People kill themselves not because they want to do so but because of an illness called depression so condemning this young man if indeed he committed suicide is wrong Let this story make you to watch out for signs of depression on loved ones and point them to help Sometimes that help can come from a psychiatrist We don't know what was going on in his head We don't know the deep despair he was in The saddest thing in this story should be that a young man in his prime was so tortured mentally and he received no help or maybe even had no one to trust or turn to and suicide became his only option. may his soul RIP and may his parents and relatives be comforted. I have been in a situation where someone cried out for help with dark poems and even talked about suicidal tendencies ,I wrote a word of encouragement but withheld myself from reaching out even though my first instinct was to give my phone number.My common sense kicked in and I didn't want to appear intrusive. He is now dead . 3 Likes |
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by babymama3: 6:20pm On May 07, 2013 |
It looks like most Igboland has this stupid custom about pythons being sacred They have it in mine too My great uncle was a hunter and sometimes caught pythons in his trap and ate them And he lived to a ripe old age and passed away peacefully If a python entered my father's or grandfather's compound,it is sure to get a double barrel gun on it's head and thrown into the bushes. We are a Christian family and don't subscribe to any deities or gods and idols and have no ties to traditional beliefs They should cage their gods or ask them to stay in the bushes where they belong The moment they wander into the homes of non worshippers,they had better have disappearing powers or else 3 Likes |
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by babymama3: 6:13pm On May 07, 2013 |
Krucifax: And that is a woman that claims to have kids o I wonder what she would have done to see snakes beside her kids Some eediots that post here don't even bother reading the post before commenting That is what I have learned They see a topic and post rubbish pulled out of their anuses and expect it to jive If one has the patience to make a comment,he/she should take the trouble to read the preceding post or posts 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Jonathan During State Visit To South-Africa (Pictures) by babymama3: 6:05pm On May 07, 2013 |
Goodluck Jonathan meka meka o (As Ikwerre people would say) We the SS and SE are solidly behind you sir! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 2015: It’s Either A Northerner Or No More Nigeria - Farouk Adamu Aliyu by babymama3: 5:57pm On May 07, 2013 |
I hope his dreams come true It looks like the Boko haram they unleashed on the nation is not enough for them Please Lord let a Northerner not win in 2015 so that there will be no more Nigeria in Jesus mighty name 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Couple Failed DNA Test For Twins At Embassy by babymama3: 5:21pm On May 07, 2013 |
The couple are resident in Chicago Why they thought the American embassy would fall for this coooock and bull story beats me I hope they have a comfortable home in Ikorodu and jobs to sustain them after a jail term in Njgeria I don't see them ever being able to travel to the USA ever again let alone live there Let that be a lesson to all the baby buyers America is now tough on these things 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Brown University's Tribute To Chinua Achebe by babymama3: 4:56pm On May 07, 2013 |
Wow |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Couple Failed DNA Test For Twins At Embassy by babymama3: 4:53pm On May 07, 2013 |
I hope the mother of the twins was not killed as a cover up These baby factories are capable of anything. A thorough investigation should be carried out 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Couple Failed DNA Test For Twins At Embassy by babymama3: 12:30pm On May 07, 2013 |
They can kiss their American citizenship goodbye I bet they were already planning to do thanksgiving and owanbe in Chicago A legal adoption could have solved all the mess How can someone submit to a DNA test when you know the kids are not yours biologically Juju no fit change biology 6 Likes |
Travel / Re: 7 Annoying Things Nigerians Do On Airplanes by babymama3: 4:57am On Mar 30, 2013 |
CFCfan: @baby mama: Your flight was indeed interesting. Did any of the traders utter this phrase "Babe'm I wulu make u my eggovin" Hahaha It was a vey interesting fight I sat beside an Anambra state political aide one time and his humor was off the wall It is always a blessing not to be stuck on those long flights with an annoying person This time I got lucky The man cracked jokes all through He had a wife and children in Lagos but was busying himself with undergraduates in Nnewi At some point in the fight,he brought out his chaplet and prayed When he was done I asked how he could cheat on his wife and pray regularly too He said my sister,I am trying but GOd is not helping me I laughed so loud and asked how He said if you see the pretty things in Nnewi,the type of girls there ,even your own husband will sample them taya The specie of girls we have nowadays will make any saint to err I said but oga,how about hell fire,what if Christ comes when you are sampling His answer still cracks me up to this day He said my sister ekwensu agba nu aka ahia ( devil will get customer na) 3 Likes |
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