₦airaland Forum

I am a strong believer in traditional gender roles. And i believe that men should work hard and earn reasonably before they nurture any thought of dating or even marrying. Like they say why would a guy who cannot take care of him self properly think he can handle extra expenses that comes with courtship and marriage?

But that's not even the problem, these guys are big time pretenders. They know they wouldn't hang on if they were in your position so they hope that you remain foolish for as long as the world last. They don't love you because if they did they would make your life better not miserable.

Any man that does not seek to make your life better does not love you. African women, African men do not really love you because they are not after your happiness but theirs. They admire the freshness of non African women. Those women are watered by the sweat of their men, protected by the wealth created by their men. We thank God for them. This is something i tell my younger sis; You are a woman, an African woman for that matter, you have very little value in the eyes of African men, not your fault but you must be smart and stand for yourself and every woman that looks like you. Don't be foolish, there are barely no african men who have your back except me. You must do everything to make your life better and not worse Cape for yourself first and make sure you are comfortable before you start supporting another, that's what reasonable people do.

Men know they can never approach some types of women except they are made, be that kind of woman. They don't call this type of women gold diggers, they are called status symbols or trophies. Men desire trophies not struggles. I am a man so i should know. You are a woman, ''ride or die'' is for slaves.

There was a rich man who married his old time lover, but there were hundreds who ditched theirs for ''better women''. Your chances of benefitting from your struggle love are 0.00001. If you are big risk taker go for it and good luck. As for the female folks that surround me such nonsense is frowned upon in our clan.

solochris:
Ayam not reading anything

Why not bruh. I see you live in that mazy hazy world where women are always the cause of everything that goes wrong. Better grow up and expand your thought process.

solochris:
I didn't finish the story o, but I can tell what our women on steering are capable of doing. She will block u, refuse to go back, and still be running her mouth... They didn't beat u people well

You better read the story.

Thugs in uniform

Amarabae:
Dark skinned handsome guys looks more masculine and more appealing.

I can also say same for dark skin African girls. They look more feminine (curvier and/or slender)than their fair skin counterparts and have softer and smoother skin. Many fair skin girls are stout or thick and have boyish voices.

Fair skin guys in Africa are on average more masculine than their dark skin counterparts. This is true from what I see everyday.

Yet again black men show how weak and cheap they are

sodiqapril:
the way girls treat broke guys in this part of the world makes them opt for their white counterparts when they are finally loaded. I won't tell you not to marry a white lady, I'll only advice you to be like Kanye west "if he ends his marriage with Kim K today, she ain't talking a dime from his money"

Keep quiet. Which girls treat broke guys bad here. It's everywhere. That's why black guys like you have to be rich first before white models look your way. Why not go date them when you are broke and let's see how it plays out.

Inferiority complex awon white worshipper

Glo should just sit its slow ass in a corner.

Phut:
And it is a problem that we are the only race that dates so freely. It’s about time we begin to love and treasure our own. Women want to be loved and cherished. If Nigerian men love and cherish Nigerian women, they will get the loyalty of a majority of them. But cursing the. And denigrating them and comparing notes with them as to who marries out more, is not going to do us any good. This is the same thing that quite a number of African American men are doing in America and as a result the African American community is in shambles.

Men largely define themselves by how much money they make and how powerful they are. White men “believe” they have this cornered.
Women are largely defined by how beautiful or desirable they are deemed to be. As a result the white media has worked overtime to convince the world that the white woman is the standard of beauty (Lies they tell!!)
You see where I am going with this? They have and try to corner everything for themselves. Black men who go about blindly extolling the “virtues” of white women have simply bought into the brainwashing. Love and cherish your women, and they will look up to you as the Kings that you are. Together as a unit, the black family can take back what is rightfully their (financially).

BLACK MEN will not gain favorable ratings in the eyes of the world, by talking down on the mirror image of omself. No other race does that. And it only makes him look insecure.

Cc: Backinfront

Well said!!! Glad someone is awake!

Follysho707:
I got no reason whatsoever doing that. I'm just being honest and objective based on personal experiences and thorough observations.
Of course there're tons of sweet chics out there. I just based my arguments on what's become a normalcy within our society. Again, like I mentioned earlier, it's mostly borne out of POVERTY! Nothing else.

Dude there is nothing honest or objective about that especially in this case. Poverty might be a factor in marrying out but its not always what triggers interracial relationships between black women and white men. There is more to it.

Follysho707:
Sir, no disrespect whatsoever but, trust me on this one. It's become a NORM not only to 9ja girls but, most African ladies.
It's principally POVERTY. They only fall in love when money and materialities are involved till a dude with more comes along. Look at the entertainment industry which reflects reality in our society.
They've become more of a commodity (highest bidder)
What do they (ladies) have to offer other than sex? The same pvssy a white lady gives to you out of passion, they make sure you either pay in cash or kind... as long as they get something out of it. Dignified Prostitution!

Continue uplifting white women. E go back fire.

bughead:
can you comprehend what you even wrote

Let me guess! You search for white women on dating site!

You are sick. Sick head!

Follysho707:
I concur. It's all abt $$$$ and materialism to majority of black girls... . Gimme money for fake hair, fake nails, blah, blah... Not a pint of dignity and respect. Anyway, there's a reason why 65% of black chics (Akata/African) are single. Oyinbo ladies cherish their dignity like craze. Even on the first date, they prefer to "go dutch" (equally split the bill). ... Go figure!

Lies lies. You guys never get anything right. Do you! You think its by making black women look bad and white women look good. You are only shooting yourselves. If you continue to bring our women down to uplift others expect millions of this type of marriage soon!

Use your head! Uplift your women they will stick with you on the long run. Do just the opposite you will lose them steadily.

bughead:
you are still leaving in cave bro!


Come of that cave an see the light bro!

If you know the way white women chase after me during my internship there, and even the underage (17-18)

Actually this days there women are even more afraid of there own same white men and prefare the black more.

Why do you think most racist are men? don't ya know they do envy we the black! And think we are obstacle to there women.


The way you write one may easily know that you haven't step out of naija!

STFU, you lying self hating prick. Hohoho. I'm black but i'm not that type of black guy that hates himself and projects his self hatred on the women that look like him. That's fuccking embarrassing. And im going to say it real, decent white women are not chasing black men(yea i don't care). On most dating sites where white women seek for love online, the put up boldly "No black man pls". Not wanted or desired cos most never grow into real men just occupying space and being a waste. Even in reality, the rejects are all we see with black men like you even though there are exceptions no one gives a fucck about exceptions. So don't hype shitt when we know whatsup.

classicMan22:
shutup Wit dis your nigeria men marrying old white women nonsense, Nigerian women worship white, men, a white man who is a begger in his country can come to Nigeria and marry a gal dat is stunning, because Nigerian women worship white men, to dem white men is dere God, is not d same 4 white women, if u no get money no white woman go loom ur face.

Sharrap. Nigerian women or black women may have inferiority complex but they don't go on campaign about it like most dumb sick black guys I've seen, who are proud to let the world know they would walk on the ground for any white woman or non black woman that give them a chance. You think we dont see how excited many get overly excited when they get a basic white girl. The whole world is watching idiots like these, who are a complete embarrassment to the whole African race.

Btw, you sound jealous and defeated. Hope you pull through this state. Its okay for black men to get white women but black women cant get white spouses? gtfoh

wristbangle:
Abeg make we hear word She got engaged to this white man because of his money and citizenship status meanwhile the Nigerian guy still having hope on her may want to commit suicide seeing these pictures.

This is an eye opener to Nigerian men that it's hightime we married white ladies ( I don't mean old mamas).

I know some broke feminists would intrude this thread and turn the tide to their disgusting blushing

What do white women have to offer? Even their men are running away from them...if we want to generalise.

Its high time Nigerian men and black men start treating our women right. Like the fragile gender they are, showing them how special they are instead of belittling them all the time. How about that!

He is criminal minded. He didn't even bother to investigate first.

I don't care. I don't think many do too.

Livefreeordieha:
so all i wrote pained u diz much?u even repeated my words with anxiety and pressure like you wanna go physical?like i mentioned u aren't alone trust me...Alot of deluded myopic self-centered moronic social misfits like you are littering the society and cyber space nowadays...


You talk and articulate words like u are smart,voltron and Spider-Man that u are defending black women...Meanwhile we all know that it's just a decoy that doesn't sell anymore...defending women in public and abusive to them inside...


Now scientifically and medically speaking,studies have shown over time,especially behavioral science used by FBI to profile social hardened criminals that men who tend to be opinionated,self centered are usually sadistic,they are psychopathic,pathological liars and are naturally drawn to chaos and pandemonium....Don't worry this is the part that gets interesting...The study said this people are drawned to this anti social things because they have a syndrome called the heroic syndrome...


The heroic syndrome usually and it's mostly common amongst kids who suffered bullying,broken home,rejection from the opposite sex...Thus they thrive from wherever they think they can play heroes even if it meant for them to cause the problems...


If i know your problem...Why would i want to banter words with u and your kinds?

Until January this year i was still tending to your likes...My professional advice see a doctor asap..Because you will not help yourself and friends like this..Don't worry about family they will stick by u...But the outside world can only tolerate u for a while..


I know u know u are sick but the beauty of patients like u..Is that u always appear normal just until u open your MOUTH AND TALK

Or until we give u data and a keyboard to type ������������

Loser

Congrats to her. Black women should broaden their choices. Maybe this will reset some very foolish black men's brains.

Livefreeordieha:
lame lame lame!!!! You are just one of the lots who are just existing and not living...I was very optimistic that there would be inputs perhaps influx of moronic comments like this...

Because you were born sore losers and had very disdainful upbringing doesn't mean we all should share from your pain...It doesn't make it right...There is no pact btw us for defense...I stand for just judgements and observation irrespective of color,race and tribe...Afterall my mum and sisters are dark in complexion and black by race...But it wouldn't right their wrongs vice versa...But you wouldn't do such because to you and the social cultural deficit in your mentality doesn't support such default settings...Shame on you sadly you Aren't alone..


Ironically using the word defend,ignorantly and unknown to you only elucidated on the already obvious fact that you are a terrible asslicker who thinks be unfair either because of tribal,race,family,friends or political ties..

Don't worry on the street your name is unique BITCH ASSS NIGGA...Pussy Nigga!!!!!

Nigga you know what's lame? messed up fucktards like you who are so slow to defend the women that birth and nurture your ugly asses. You are spoilt, sore losers and dead brained entitled-feeling none entities. Get a life! All you have is to pull our women down and uplift other women. Your lots are so transparent! Who doesn't see how you get excited and all cussy when one of you get a basic white woman. How low and classless can you guys be. Can't you set standards for yourselves and stop bringing all of us sane black men down with your defeated souls.

You wrote all that bullshiiit because it's a black man and a white woman. White princess? How many epistles have you written in defense of women that look like you who get runned down every day and night?

Sickos thinking they are worth a thing when they are worth nothing.

This are the kind of people that make religion look so irritating. Why are people just plain dumb

Dmelkowking50:
ah tell u say I dey find girls to date for Naija? mycheeew ... clear road joor make I see beta people ..

And which sane woman would want to date a retard like you? Don't kid yourself niggar you are no shii

Livefreeordieha:
yes....The question now is...Is it ur complex? Because they can also ask u why do u people like recycling old politicians and always reacting irresponsibly...

I'll like to see you defend our black women like this. Silly slaves who love their chains.

Rhaspody:
Abeg who don see the pretty girl friend

Still searching. I only see a wrinkled albino with long hair. Maybe the definition of pretty has changed.

bobolizim:
baba, will you keep your mouth shut ? How's this lady ugly ? And is it your marriage ? Go and find something worthwhile to do jhors . Ugly boy ... You think say nah everyone go Dey ugly like you

Dude she is ugly. Because she is white, you see a need to defend her? Olodos. Your inferiority complex will consume you lots. White women that are hardly pretty are your trophies? smh

donb06:
this man is just too humble.... i'm very very very sure dat u guys insulting him cnt do this to archbishop benson idahosa cus by now he must ve pronounced and it will come to pass........ daz y sumtyms u ve to be radical 4 ppl to tk u serious.

Where is your brain? So devil would not form humble if he wants to snatch your soul? Why do you think he is called the father of all subtility?

Common tithe your GO cannot defend from the bible and you are here dropping shii

[quote author=donnaD post=62744464][/quote]You are just a sheeple going to hell with your crook master. Farewell

Wirelessmic:
Hope you know his dog enjoys a better life than you low life fool?

That's great. He has a nice life here and destruction in the next. What a life !

CyberEBOLA:
Hahaha! E be like you too dey pay tithe to them bfore

hahahha My eye don clear

ElsonMorali:
Cause

Thanks

gypsey:
thanks! very much or the insults

I have a misrable life? thanks! for that too! yes! you are correct i don't know it's there lives and how do you know my life is misrable?. you sound like an Angry and psychotic! juvenile. your soul must be troubled. see a psychiatric ASAP! Good luck!

Use your brain and hustle and cure your inferior complex. And thank me later. You are losing