Studio247: Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.
Several times I spoke to him about it But he will flare up.
And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting. Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.
I don't know
He erroneously thinks complement would get to your head. You want real solution? Tell this to Someone he respects a lot and listen to. NLanders would not really help you, but that person would talk sense into your Husband since he honours the person.
Far worse than deceitful Covid 19 that they want to use to force everybody to receive the Quantum dot 666 Mark of the Beast. Rapture is about to happen, it must before they can fully take over for their 1,000 years before their permanent destruction from existence. Will you rather choose to enjoy this Land of punishment for 1,000 years or a far exciting and better World where Technology becomes nonsense and useless, a World of exiting enjoyment and advancements that we shall witness and participate in forever. Your CREATOR, the SOURCE of Life, the CREATOR and Owner of Time created you to live and enjoy true Life forever. Don't sell your eternal Soul, focus on being holy and Rapture-ready like never before. The End Time has ended already, this is just injury time. In JESUS' Holy Name, I shall not be left behind into this satanic evil World at the Sound of Trumpet of YAHSHUA's Return. Selah!
That's nice, I wish all our politicians toll this line of not killing other humans over politics, greed and desire to be the sole Owner of the World. It is Satan enslaves and put such thought into some. For "what shall it profit a man, to deceitfully lured others to submit themselves to be killed just because he wants to own the whole World." Wake up and wise up before it becomes too late. In another news:
Nltaliban: I actually have a feeling most of us wanting the Rn9 won't buy the phone.
Because news of another head-turning midranger might be everywhere by the time this global pandemic will cool down and shipping process goes back to normal. So, most people will just chill a little for the new device
What is the use of all these reverse-psychology AntiChrist Topics that this specific evil Mod brings to FP on Sundays?! Sensible people have noticed this lately. There are very sound deeply spiritual Christian writers on NL that their every Sunday write-ups always open people eyes to true Salvation, but looks like Powers that be have warned and enslaved Lalasticlala not to bring them to FP on Sundays anymore. Judgement of God shall soon fall on all those blocking the Light of GOD from reaching souls that urgently need it.
MizJaY: Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.
I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things. .... So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warned him. Tho he still attempts once in a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move sef I no dey enjoy marriage life at all
Much talks and comments, but I have not seen practical Solutions. If you can get him to listen to just 3 messages, he would become the sweetest husband in the World. First fast for one day and pray that every demon or power of darkness that may prevent him from accepting all you will tell him should be bounded by fetters of fire and casted out of your marrige permanently in JESUS' Name. Then, you have to first praise him very well, that you realized you are very lucky to marry him. Sincerely, look for things to praise in him, maybe that he goes to work early, the way he smiles, the way he eats, comlimets that must make his head swell, after then you'll tell him that yoi discover all the bad things he said about you is true, that you are now working on changing for good. That these messages would show him how to measure your change and let him identify how to further help you. Tell him that happy marriage don't just HAPPEN without effort from both. Cook his best food and pamper him till he listen to the 3 messages. If you don't first do this he may not be intrested in listening to these Messages. You can download them as videos or covert them to mp3 online, then down and copy to his phone. The 3 are: 1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qPOl7FiRupg
3. I can't find the 3rd one online but I will forward it to you on Whatsapp:
Finally, buy The Dignity of Manhood by Bro Gbile Akanni for him to read. Within a very short time of doing the above, your marriage would literarily become Heaven of Earth. HalleluYAH!
Senseless tribalist are asking to make mockery of you, don't mind them. It is not about State or Tribe, it can happen anywhere.
Self-pity or ranting on would never help you. Nobody will, they will only be asking for "see finish things". You and your siblings should do what I advised earlier. Also, forget about Schooling, it is useless. You and yours siblings should different start businesses no matter how small. I prophesy that within a year, you will all be amazed. Even if it is putting a bench and table at a busy Junction and cooking and selling food there, or frying akara and yam, etc. There are many businesses that requires only small capital. Forget shame o!
This is not ordinary at all. He is has been under serious demonic attack because of his glorious Destiny. Blood is very very powerful, you his children can help deliver him by going to do MFM 3days dry fasting on his behalf. Thoughout the 3 days, those of you that go should be shouting to Heaven, that demonic authority that put your father in this bondage if being useless should be roasted to ashes by Fire of YAHWEH in Jesus' Name. All of you shall be shocked when you see the permanent Joyful transformation that shall happen in your family immediately after the Prayer Program. You people should arise and fight with this infallible Weapon of Prayer before it becomes too late for your family. Shalom.
Lekan239: My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.
Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.