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Omosexy, you're simply da "bomb"

Dear Fickle or whatver you call yourself, what a feeble mind you've got afterall!!!!!. How dare you come on the blog to be searching for an innocent soul who apparently must have helped your infirmity or shortcomings in the past, mscheeeeeewwww!. You better get up from your slumber, make up with your husband and stop chasing shadows here on the blog cos we've got some better things to worry over than you lilly-livered type.

Shioooooom olodo rapata!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ Poster, you sure must be pretending not to know some of these things before going into the wedlock. Be rest assured you can't get it any better anywhere as no two relationships are the same. I have been married for over nine years and as the man in the relationship, I can confirm to you that everything you have complained about is just the reverse in the case but what can I do?. You don't want to hear me reel out an epistle as to the way and manner for which I have been managing the non-chalant attitude of my spouse even at the risk of my career and relationships so to speak. The best you can get from me is to admonish you to prepare for many other challenges but keep praying for him in all sincererity and possibly he'll chnage one day.

@ Poster, you must be in wonderland to agree to such a farcade called marriage before going for studies. What you both doing in the last six years dating?. Both of your surely must have been teenagers banging each others brains out in the name of love. I mean what will you be doing while he is gone with one silly piece of metals round your finger called wedding ring while he is busy cooling off with canadian damsels in university over there?. Mscheeeeeewwwwww!!!!, hear yourself talking jagons!!!!. You too should better go in search of a better university experience here in Naija, screw some other guys and you probably feel better for it.

Shiooooooooooooo, bloody time waster.

@ Poster, after all the razmatazz why didn't you make room for the after-marriage fantasy (divorce)?, hahahahahahahaaa!!!!!

Asiwaju the Enigma!!!!!!!

@ Poster, you strike me as the main problem in this situation. While reading through your post and subsequent responses, it seem to me that you have only created for yourself, the picture of a self righteous being wanting the best out of every situation. Even if you never considered cultural differences before considering the marriage thing, here you are in this union and you must just live with it and make the best of it. Why haven't you sieved the good side of your husband and learn to penetrate from there?. At a glance, you sounded like a moralist and then you began to get selfish with your feelings also. Frankly, I am aware that there comes a stage in marriages or even relationship were either party is yearning for a spark but might not be getting same but for real, all you have to do is wade through your challenges to become a better person.

The option of cheating could be very grievous and of course you will remain the weeping party in this case if you dare to do that basically because we have so many single mothers out there that the society doesn't just respect anymore. Have you not heard about the woman making her home?. That is the best you can do for yourself in this circumstance because certainly, the devil you know,

Uhmmmmmmmmm, Nigeria we hail thee. I wonder what these pressure groups stand to gain with all the violence and threat to lives. Why can't we just face development and eschew violence in order to better our lots?. Can someone tell the northeners to go study the Sudan issue and make them understand that the war over there did no one any good. When the western world is considering investment options in the country based on our perceived political status, why won't these groups embrace peace and let us talk of the commonwealth of all?.

I pray for this land and the leaders therein.

@ Poster, wonderful piece and hope ur marriage is intact also ooooo!!!!!!

@ Poster, what about someone like me that has never been broken-hearted?, can we have a forum to discuss those we've broken their hearts?, hahahahahahahahaha!!!!!, I laugh.

I'd always felt something odd about this incident as such that I have to conclude there is no one reason for the action. This babe has only brought untold sorrow and hardship on her peers, family members and well-wishers in general. Conflicting stories could be malicious at times like this and only the dead could offer explanations for her deeds. In any case, it is not for we "mortals" to judge but for me, it is totally uncalled for.


Adieu Motunrayo, good nite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OP, what has the cop got to do with love gone sour?. I suppose you enjoyed it while dating the "Fadeyi Oloro", so what is the fuss about calling the cop or telling your pastor?. You really are your own problem here as nobody will diagnose or profer solution to the problem you seem to be imagining. Simple, go down on your knees first and foremost and pray fervently to God with supplication and seek to break whatever hold the guy has on you and possibly fast along. All these are premised on the fact that you'll believe in the efficacy of what you have been told.

But if the reverse is the case as per haunting you whenever you're lonely or sad, then I must confess the guy must be a pervert, else why did he say goodbye in the first place?. Just move on with your life and "BELIEVE"!!!!!!!.

Poster, you heard it all. Stop doling out money to the ingrate, ask him subtly what he's been doing with his income, if he doesn't bulge, drop him and move on with your kids. When he is ready to conform, hear him out and stay happy in marriage. Divorce could be counter productive in the aftermath.

Its just a natural law applicable to chemistry, physics, geography & biology. Of all these subjects, who were the authors, scientists, discoverers et al?, (MEN). Please let nature take its course joor.

Guy, this story line seem like those available off the shelf in Nollywood but nonetheless, you may wish to set the "upcoming LovePeddler" of a girlfriend free so she can have more fun with the old fool while you concentrate your energy on his daughter's backside. That way, you will surely make good the adage "he that lives by the sword"!!!!!!.

Bravo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have said before n and I will like to reiterate the fact that Sanusi is just a misfit as far as this banking business is concerned. Without sentiments (muslim or xtian), can somebody help me ask him if that is the next thing we need in the Nigerian context?. When the governor of central bank has summarily taken over the dictates of the economy, polarized the banking sector, stiffen the entire financial sector as such that even infrastructural projects do not get adequate funding (that is if they get funding at all) and now wants to establish a non-interest banking module under the guise of sharia banking.

I ma not perturbed as a person and considering my length of years of service within the banking sector (12 years), my residence in the northern part of Nigeria in the capacity of secondary school education, after school residence in Kaduna (Zango Kataf) & eventually NYSC service in Kebbi state, I can say for sure that this is nothing but another hoax. What with the level of education of the core northern populace, the ignorance to life and subservience, how much more the non-existence of the economic activities needed to drive such business frontier, you can be rest assured that the morons called the directors of this bank who apparently had benefitted from the spoils of this country will only wish the bank dead after some dividends might have been declared ASAP.

I still dey laugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fashola, well done jare. I recall my grandma made me hawk local soap (soda) & agidi (pap) even after returning from a private school in Ibadan while growing up and immediately after secondary school while waiting for WAEC & JAMB, I made do with managing a rental service for an uncle. All these are pointers to the fact that a generation wasted can never be regained. I pray sincerely that your son gets the import of your action and not think it is because you are the governor?.

Asides that, just keep working!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ OP, no wahala for the "yahoo, yahoo" kid at all. Call the child, admonish him on how to invest such fund through me so that when he is caught, I can help him spend his money before I die, hahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!. LWTMB

@ Poster, you have only shown your naive side and I can attest to the fact that there is nothing absolutely wrong with the way you feel. However, all comments well articulated, let me put it to you that you need to thread on the side of caution before taking any action(s) like call the lady or giving your husband ultimatum. You are lucky your husband has let you into the scenario, that is why you are feeling like a "Mrs. Bond". What if you never get such opportunity?, they would have kept on with their intimacy all in the guise of friendship and of course anything can happen thereafter.

I am sure there is something inherent in your husband that still makes this lady feel he's the best to talk to. Probably he is a good listener and a calm one at that. We don't know how you met your husband, how long you've been together and possibly where your weakness(es) lies. Making friends with the lady would not debar their ultimate action if the choose to so the best is for you to exercise some restrains, talk less about her to your husband and finally check for what are the things you used to do to get your husband's attention that might be missing in your relationship right now and correct the wrongs. It is obvious there is a missing link somewhere.

Dear, get a life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This issue is quite pathetic and demands careful examination. Let us eschew the theories of religious affiliation, tribal sentiments or even social status. The guy does not have any reason whatsoever under any guise to have been cruel to his wife ab initio lest we talk about going demented before doing the havoc with his owns hands. Being jobless and having a woman providing for the family is quite worrisome but there are a million ways to deal with such situations that would not require violence.

Now, I pray for the departed soul cos I hear they have a child between them. If in actual fact this guy is found guilty of this offence, it will not only augur well for the government to keep such a person away from the general public for eternity but subsequently encourage spouses in marriages to come out of their shells and discuss them before they get outta hand. But If I were to be a roman soldier, I will simply recommend that we reap the guys body apart into four sets and distribute them to the four corners of Naija so they don't join up again, mscheeeeeewwwww!!!!!

I wouldn't know what the first word is meant to be but it's different strokes for diff folks. For me, here are some tips from my long service award memoirs;

I love the perfume you're wearing, I guess you wouldn't mind a ride home, uhmmmm, you're my mother's name sake, you look worried- is there something bothering you we can share?.

Guy, just get away from the conventional compliments and you'll find these ladies warming up to you. But most of all the crazy stuff I'd tried, the craziest seem to be a fateful Valentine day when everyone at work literally turned up at work in red. I told a lady I have had an eye for who turned up looking really smashing in her red camisole with a black skirt suit to go with it. Guy, I whispered into her ears I could bet she was wearing a sexy red g-string underneath to compliment her outfit. You know what?, I got a consolation screw just two days after.

Gbam

Wouldn't it be a lovely thing to see Klitschko kiss the canvas?. I can't wait to see such happen mehnnnn

@ Poster, get real. Your man didn't just leave two weeks ago, he had since left you but you thought he was around, mscheeeeeewwwwww. Go get a life!!!!

@ Poster, no probs at all, just send her to Maggie Kitchen to learn the "Ojemba way" so that you get certification of her cooking ability before marriage else prepare for many more embarrassing moments after saying "I DO"

What goes around!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Heyyyyy, can somebody tell me this is not the Abiola's son that wears that bushy beard (USTAZ)?. He better not be oooooo!!!!!. In any case, if he were to be or not, Fela Anikulapo had once told us that "Imam na gbaladun", so there is cause for panic. The guy must have just swindled the mugu under the influence of the Imam.


Gbam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ Poster, thank you for the shots but I aver that while it could be true that such transactions took place on Ajimobi's account, why did it take the bank so long to detect such and how on earth were they able to close their books for that particular day?. It is trite in accounting that for every debit posting, there must be a corresponding credit posting, so what went amiss. You'll agree with me that even bankers have a way with sharp practices and for such to have taken place, they ought to have been drilled.

For the dear governor, I suppose he has just been holding on to a string all the while. He should swallow pride and do the appropriate thing  by returning the money to the bank, simple!!!!!

Date a single mother!, why not?. You will be doing her a world of good be servicing her periodically so that she doesn't get infested by cobwebs. Moreso, the kid(s) will be glad there is someone like a father figure around. In actual fact, you are simply carrying out what can be best described as "Community/Social Function" by helping the needy.

God bless your soul the single mother or widow is comfortable with a good job or self reliant, then bravo!!!!!, you just coast on and leave all of dem small gals out there for the ragamuffins!!!!