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Christian36:
Let me start with this for those that will come to attack me, I'm not into woman things, just that I'm over due to get married. The issue now is that whenever I get a lady contact less than two weeks the lady looses interest, I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. I just want a lady I will settle down with. The second to the last and the last one just lost interest within a week. I have started seeing it as a spiritual thing. I will appreciate your advice because I'm really confused now.

Do you have a good source of income?
Are you making money?
Do you have a job?

Omo..

If you believe some of this pastors, you are on your own

Business men trying every means to validate their message.

They lie and fabricate things to make their sermon believable.

BTW there still exist genuine ones, but Omo since e hard to find, me dey go to God on my own.

You can say anything but i go check my Bible, you can pray and declare but I go pray by myself.

I dey on guard.

My biggest regret- I didn't marry earlier.

Marriage sweet die if you marry right.
E no mean say misunderstanding and challenges no go dey but una go dey resolve and surmount them.

Wether it's an achievement or not depends on each individuals definition of achievement.

To each his own. Live and let's live.

They own a buka and sell Amala.

I don't understand why people bother themselves over something you have very little control over it's outcome.

I know guyz want male children, maybe because of cultural beliefs or masculine ego but, guy no be you dey determine the gender... So chillax, God will give you what you need and not what you want.

Oyedepo has 2 sides-
Bishop/Pastor- Winners Chapel
Business man/CEO- All his businesses.

One is spiritual, the other is business, and he doesn't mix both together.

When it's time for churchy affairs, you get Oyedepo the pastor and when it's time for business, you get Oyedepo the businessman.

DHaran:
Good day all, I graduated last year 2024 and I am yet to go for service (NYSC).
I have been shortlisted for customs exams which I did and passed.
I am currently thinking ahead for the documentation processes.

I don't have my NYSC certificate has I haven't been mobilized for service.

Your advice is needed, how do I go about this documentation process??

Even with NYSC Certificate you no fit get am unless...
It's God's time to favor you or u sabi strong person wey fit help you as per connection or bribery.

If you be woman, you may need to knack person before Dem give you the job.

E madt gan for this jungle.

You no go regret ke?
You must regret na.

That you haven't given up doesn't mean you will make it.
The light at the end of the tunnel might the light of a coming train.

APOPTOSIS:
No Regrets at all.
My marriage uplifted and stabilized me.
In fact, I'm still going higher

Correct.
One mumu boy go come here now talk say u dey lie.
That doesn't mean marriages don't downcast and destabilize others. In fact some are still going deeper in their depression.

sportflex:
i took me fifteen years to realize i was with the wrong person.
fifteen years of my life!
fifteen years of fighting!
fifteen years of retrogression!
hanging on, because of the children
God knows best

Shit happens

Ifexibe:
I'm not yet married. The Redpill has radicalised me. But I wish I had kids, probably, a son, at 19. Would love to grow alongside my kids as age mates.

I don't like Nigerian women, all of them dey wacko.

"Hypergamy doesn’t care for male idealistic expectations of love." - Rational Male

This is gonna be a set back for you as marriage is concerned. It better you stay single as you have mentioned.
Wishing you had a kid is one reason why you should marry, however you can have kids without marrying all the same.
Raising kids correctly is the reason why marriage is designed as an institution. Check the meaning of institution.

Broveens42:


Until married women start using their husbands as "next of kin" then we will be ready for this discussion.

I have seen so many wives/children abandon their husbands/dads on sick beds and guess who surprisingly came through for them?

#Friends

Don't generalize it. their exist married women who have made and are still making husbands their next of kin.

There are a lot who are even doing more, some are seriously invested in their husbands success at all levels, respectful, sexual, peaceful, nurturing and supportive.

If you never meet one, people dey wey dey live with some.

gigabyte13:
Explain your own shege na
Why their no regrets dey vex you
You are supposed to be happy for Dem
Just explain your own shege.......

As in, I just bow for some bad belle folks mehn.

Broveens42:
Do an honest Check on yourself:
- you are financially stable now
-You have more access to other women now you're married
...that's why you think marriage is too sweet.
It has nothing to do with your marital status

Una sabi ask questions sha
You just want to be a killjoy for whatever reason.
Are you the one in the marriage for him.
You go explain tire, no evidence.

EponObi:
They regularly come here to bash their opposite gender. But they are parroting no regrets. 😂 May be na cows dey the martial scandals and mess we read every time on the internet. Abeg, make Una pack well. Those whose spouses are showing shege in the marriage are saying "no regrets". No regrets una

Before I got to your post I could see a mix of those who said no regrets and some regretting for one reason or another.

That marital scandals happen doesn't negate the existence of very sweet amorous marriages. Both exist. Pick a side.

molas02:
Everyone just dey here dey form, I don't have regrets I don't have regret... Dey dciv yourselves. Marriage is sweet good and Godly but yet u will still have this kind of regret . Mine is that I love to marry like additional one. But am committed to my wife because she is perfect and beautiful

Lol,
No regrets from over here baba, I dey tell you.
No be lie, no be fluke,
In marriage people want different things however, as for me I got what I wanted, so why will I regret.
It doesn't mean there are no challenges but with God as the head of the home everything ends sweet
Na confirm I dey tell you baba

MistyDense:
And my children are suffering. It's not easy bro. Sometimes I regret getting married.

Sorry about that bro. Shit happens.
There could be a lot of reason for this.
Marriage isn't without it's challenges but it will be sweet if God is involved and the head of the home and both spouses obeying the principles as instructed

WorldRichest:
A thread full of lies and deceit. All liars shall meet Sani Abacha in Hell Fire

So what is the lie, that marriage is sweet abi that it is bitter.

BabaIbo:
My brother aswear, marriage too sweet.

💯, you are correct!

I dey tell you bros. Some people think say na lie. I say pray make God help you find better wife. You go know say Heaven dey on earth

Samakus:
Swears.

Nearly 1 year in marriage and I have no regrets except not marrying her earlier than I did

And our son just arrived yesterday. Awesome feeling

Congratulations baba mi.
May peace and love continue to reign in your home. Ajeh

That I didn't marry earlier than I did.
Marriage make sense die if you marry the right spouse come hand everything over to God.
Baba, e sweet die.

Wetin you wan make we do now.
Oya "sorry"

Check your mail, I sent you not just their email address, I also added their phone numbers.
Don't say I didn't help you.

You must be capping.
You definitely a descendant of Kung lao

She came for your glory & has collected your glory
You are now empty, pieces of bread according to Prov 6.26

Everything is more expensive than ever, who wouldn't love to have somebody carry their responsibilities as the case is in marriages. Husband the provider.
Food cost die for naija now.

columbus007:
we are still in the process bro, we will get there, and you think I don't know what I am saying?

You have insight but phone is not the mark of the beast, newer technologies will replace phones, mobile phones will be replaced just like they replaced the land lines.

Mark Zuckerberg and some billionaires are already working on smart eyeglasses that will replace mobile phones.

The country don over tire this guy.
Anywhere other than Nigeria, him no mind.
I no blame you, the country worse die.

Septagon:
Make him just die at once na

Buhahahahaha 🤣

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