Here is a short list of problems you may encounter but not limited to these

1. Being a "partner" means you get to pay for half- if not more: I have seen men putting money away for college for a kid that´s not his. Buying ridiculous amounts of brand name clothes, expensive homes etc all in an effort to be in a so-called "family".

2. The Family you just got into is by invitation only: In being a step- parent you are not the basic unit. The mother and child together are the basic unit. No matter what is said or mentioned before marriage, you will never come before her child. You will always be in a family and relationship where you come second, maybe third.

3. No matter what you think her ex is going to be there forever: In just about every case the child´s father does not seem to be in the picture during the dating and courtship stage but seems to suddenly show up after. Just about every time you will be dragged into the endless bickering and fights they have and you will not be liked by him "its only natural remember"

4. Her kid will most likely not like you very much. Let´s face it you´re sleeping with their mom and most of the time the child will see you as a roadblock to his parents getting back together. Most likely the mom has made you the giver of discipline in the relationship, being the man and all which results in the kid hating you.

5. All that time you had together with your new love will end after marriage. The number one job of a single mom is simply to be a mom. She is not a party girl, hiker, camper, biker, clubber etc. Just be prepared for a frontal assault on your time and money after marriage. You will find your weekdays taken up with homework, PTA meetings, suppers at home, and early bed times. Weekends will be the time for the child´s extra-curricular activities and other activities

6. You will wonder what happened to all your money. Most men involved with a single mom report that their money seems to dry up. Children are expensive and expensive like most men have no idea. Between school supplies, clothing, vast amounts of food, babysitters if you ever want to go out, medications, fees, sports, supplies, toys and such; well, there will be little left.

Since you asked, I'm going 2 give the cold hard facts to you comprehensively.

Contrary to popular media-myth I have yet to meet a single mom who was career driven, carefree, balanced, happy; doing it all type gal as often portrayed in most media outlets. The reality I have seen over the years is usually a stressed out, overworked, debt stricken woman who really had no idea children cost so much in time, effort and money. Their careers are on hold as they need to balance their child with sickness, school activities etc versus moving up whatever career ladder they are on. Most single moms are raising their children with help of an extended family member (usually their mom), a bevy of friends and other single moms they find in support groups. It is usually not a pretty picture at all.

Somewhere along the way, usually quite quickly they come up with the idea that they need a "partner" to help them in their new enterprise of having a child and the sooner they can get one the better. Realizing they have a bit of a disadvantage with having a child and being in the dating scene they resort to several well known strategies to get a partner.

One trait that seems to come to the forefront with most men who are dating single moms is just how wonderful a woman they really are. Most men cannot for the life of them figure out why another man would abandon a woman like her. It has been stated that single moms are more caring, compassionate, great lovers, excellent cooks, laugh at all your jokes etc they seem to be ideal mates.

No matter what you see as a man there is something else going on do not forget that. Her plan is to eventually get a partner one way or another. You are the prize and she is going to earn it.

So that you can like what you see!

Nets are seductive, that's why models, strippers and pornstars wear them

On guard always.
Everybody is a friend and an enemy
Depending on the events and circumstances
Trust no 0ne

God1000:
that means your landlord isn't a loving person, you need to ask him why he single you out for increment

Didn't you read, reason was mentioned in the topic.

zenithgroup:
I had doubt her before she ask me to confirm it myself on several occasions.

Lol,
I'm not doubting you, I'm just asking how you confirmed it.
But know regardless that if it's not by medical examination, you been on a goose chase mahn.

Blame the user.

However, the man whose beautiful lungs are in this image is also dead.

Something must kill a man.

OneCandleAway:


In new Zealand so far you've dates for about 3 years the woman can claim a part of your property when you break up.

Wow!

Jaws dropped!

Nothing favours a male in this systems mahn.

Somehow, you made reading this sound more like it's a stolen vehicle than you are a potential buyer.

Just saying

Marry if you want to.

It has its advantages; companionship, combined resources, nuclear kinda family procreation, children and a lot more.

...also has its low points, subtle bondage 😀, Cheating, Fights/Misunderstandings and lots more.

Do whatever suits you but know that going forward it's your responsibility.

This move is going straight from her mouth into the garbage, they ain't married.

But in a case where she can prove that the original intention was for you to share the beneficial interest and that they've at one time made payment for your rent, they can be entitled to half your property. 😀 Like the fk?

Voila!

1. No kill me with laff abeg, Hw did you confirm she is a virgin? Won ti gbe e ni handicap.

2. If she tells you the pastor is making passes at her but kips visiting him, she is no only doing chores. Ani won ti gbe e ni handicap se

3. Na only you dey practice this abstinence o, the girl dey grind her coochie wondering what spec of mumu are you

Nex123:


Thanks, let me check out it's spec.

I've checked it, it's a good phone sha, it was the best entry level phone in 2022 i think. But i want something a little better . Thanks anyways sir.

That's fine.
Thank you too.

Sunflawa:

What's wrong with the flashlight?

Very low for torch light use compared with other low end phones

Your narrative has issues.
Did you request for a pack, if so it contains 84 tabs in a pack.
If otherwise, you might have been cheated.

Nothin special.
It's in the blood, naija environment & law no too favour those kain behaviour but over there, na free for all.
So they only act out what has been dormat all along.

Sorry, I can't recommend 3 but permit me to recommend the one I have tested & has all the features you mentioned.
I recommend Redmi 12c (budget phone)
I am currently using it, the only downside *for me* is the flashlight.

Wether 1 wk or 1 yr. If you are tired of your marriage, there must be a reason.

Ah! #mouth wide open #

Mafo!

Smoking igbo dt year.

1. Make money
2. Make a lot of money
3. Repeat 1 and 2 above

That's the end.

A lot of students no get person wey fit give us the kain money wey go fit run this kain package.

I'm not saying the money was given to him but most students don't have a source of money for this kinda set up.

To get table and canopy sef na big wahala.

Thank God if you have someone helping you get ahead but remember you are not better than others, if they had similar assistance they might even break records.

Ortintin:

When we were in skul every department often defends their courses to be the hardest, despite I studied mathematics, we all knew passing medicine or being this faculty shows you are atleast brilliant.

To the quote I have a IQ score of 121, what is yours?

Making this about competition further shows you are not intelligent

Putting lawyers and doctors as a mark of intelligence show you are not intelligent.

Thats a Gaboon Viper.

This already half dead man want to be completely dead. Lol

Who else thought it was something serious then got here and was surprised to see it was ordinary weed.
Ogbeni, park well. Next!!!

Na 3310 Nokia camera you use?

Omo...
You get time o

Correct Anti Rape Procedure.

Just put same in the front as well.

Lolzz

I can't laff abeg

That 7th paragraph na die.

Buhahahahaha

What, my son? and what, the son of my womb? and what, the son of my vows?

Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.

Proverbs 31.2-3