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This is the reason why what your brother and the lady have is called 'relationship' I don't just understand you guys and the way you just conclude blindly.

First of stop frolicking into your gf personal contents like you are a saint yourself, when a guy does their own stuffs he is a badass but a lady is a cheat and a player.

Some guys needs to understand one thing, some ladies have been promised, deceived and lied to in the hands of guys that are even more caring and smooth talker than you, some guys even take you home to their mother and only to get inbetween your pant and when they are tired they just 'LEAVE'

Ladies are the worst in the receiving ends here, they have been cheated on, beaten, deceived, lied to by even the best of guys on earth that you can NEVER live up to. Don't we just understand they also needs time, some ladies have been so hurt that when you come ask her out she just say yes, when u lie and deceive her and sleeps with her she just open her legs and afterwards go home because that's what we guys want and they are tired. But some ladies will only appreciate everything about you as a guy the day they say 'I DO' relationships don't mean commitment to them entirely because it's a road they have plied countless time

Before you judge anyone, think this through well and understand if this lady in question is your sister or daughter, how would you feel.

Not all ladies are strong enough to withstand been hurt countless times, from the guys message, you don't notice anything bad except that she didn't write things down about you and she has only loved 2 guys who hurt her feelings and she's trying with another again who is on the brink of hurting her again. You didn't caught her with a man, you just judging with her past stories, like you are saint as well.

If your brother is looking for cheap way to break up he should let us know and stop this nonsense excuse.

N:B am a guy and we guys needs to start been matured in a relationship. This excuse is lame my brother, u don't eat and you tired. Get cheap ticket to have a fresh air on the railway track my brother. You need to growup

Lilaex and the other guy, am trying to understand what you feel with been so insultive and rude while you ask questions and you expect a response

I don't blame you and have a great day ahead. Be good

*When you die don't worry...*
*Don't be concerned over your decaying body..*

*Because the Muslims will take care of what is required..*

*They will..*

*1 - Strip you of your clothes*
*2 - Wash you*
*3 - Shroud you*
*4 - Take you out of your home...*
*5 - ... to your new place of stay (the grave)*

*6 - Many will come to bid farewell at your funeral - infact many will cancel work for the sake of your burial, even though most of them didn't think about advising you even once whilst you were alive..*

*7- Your belongings will be gotten rid of:*
*your keys*
*your books*
*your bags*
*your shoes*
*your clothes*

*If your family are wise, they will give it to charity so that it may benefit you (in your record of good deeds)*

*And be assured..*

*That this dunya will not grieve over you*
*Nor will the world*

*And the economy will continue..*

*Your job, someone else will take your position*

*Your wealth will go to your inheritors*

*Whereas you will remain to be questioned about every minor and major deed*

*There will be 3 types of grievers over you:*

*1- The people who knew you only at face value will say 'poor man/woman'*

*2- Your friends will grieve for hours or days but then return to laughter*

*3- The deep grief at your household will last for a week, two weeks, a month, 2-months or even a year ?*

*And thereafter they will add you to their memories*

*And so..*

*Your story amidst the people ended..*

*And your story with the reality begins...*

*And that is the life after death..*
*Indeed, these things left you..*
*1- Beauty*
*2- Wealth*
*3- Health*
*4- Children*
*5- The mansions and cars*
*6- The spouse..*
*7- EVERYTHING!*

*And your real life has started..*

*And the question here is..*

*What have you prepared for your grave and hereafter?*

*This reality needs to be thought over..*

*Take care of..*

*1- The obligations (e.g. Prayer..)*
*2-Voluntary Good Deeds*
*3- Secret Charity*
*4- Righteous Deeds*
*5- Night Prayer*

*Perhaps you will be saved..*

*وذكّر فإن الذكرى تنفعُ المؤمنين*

*'And continue to Remind.. For surely the Reminder Benefits the Believers..' (Qur'aan 51:55)*

May his soul be at rest..

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Alphamale2017:
i have read it before, everything made sense. My point is, there is really no need creating duplicate content with a different title , even google frowns at it. , about the other stuff, my brother tame ur tongue. Did u see me insult him ? That shows ur are the real kid. If u must quote me then change ur tune. Do not make me verbally put u to the sword , i do not want to rain invectives on u and get ban. One love

If them dey talk of who go rain anything on me, u no dey anywhere near them atal, you small well well. This is the topic I wish and the write is posted by me. Couldn't you get that straight into your thick skull.

You came on my page with destructive comments and you still have the gut to utter don't insult me comment from that your..................... Make I no respond to u again sef, u no worth my time. Better things to do mhen. Get a job asap

Alphamale2017:
I can bet everything u copied this write up from anoda thread here on nairaland. I have seen the other thread before, its even word for word. Forget the 2017 u see on our profile, some of us here like me spent 4-5 years as guest before we decided to register, guy edit this post and add "copied" at the end &

It's very easy to notice kids on here when you see one, from everything posted on there your problem is maybe it was copied or not?

Channel your frustration to Buhari My brother, no be me koba u

"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

Tomorrow will be my 11th year on here and counting. It's been fun and lovely so far.

Very funny brother

Now this is all getting me confused, Dino Nysc Certificate was presented on July 8th 2001 which happens to be on a Sunday? Abi what are we really missing here again o

Wanna kill yourself? Imagine this. You come home from school one day. You’ve had yet another horrible day. You’re just ready to give up. So you go to your room, close the door, and take out that suicide note you’ve written and rewritten over and over and over You take out those razor blades, and cut for the very last time. You grab that bottle of pills and take them all. Laying down, holding the letter to your chest, you close your eyes for the very last time. A few hours later, your little brother knocks on your door to come tell you dinners ready. You don’t answer, so he walks in. All he sees is you laying on your bed, so he thinks you’re asleep. He tells your mom this. Your mom goes to your room to wake you up. She notices something is odd. She grabs the paper in your hand and reads it. Sobbing, she tries to wake you up. She’s screaming your name. Your brother, so confused, runs to go tell Dad that “Mommy is crying and sissy won’t wake up.” Your dad runs to your room. He looks at your mom, crying, holding the letter to her chest, sitting next to your lifeless body. It hits him, what’s going on, and he screams. He screams and throws something at the wall. And then, falling to his knees, he starts to cry. Your mom crawls over to him, and they sit there, holding each other, crying. The next day at school, there’s an announcement. The principal tells everyone about your suicide. It takes a few seconds for it to sink in, and once it does, everyone goes silent. Everyone blames themselves. Your teachers think they were too hard on you. Those mean popular girls, they think of all the things they’ve said to you. That boy that used to tease you and call you names, he can’t help but hate himself for never telling you how beautiful you really are. Your ex boyfriend, the one that you told everything to, that broke up with you.. He can’t handle it. He breaks down and starts crying, and runs out of the school. Your friends? They’re sobbing too, wondering how they could never see that anything was wrong, wishing they could have helped you before it was too late. And your best friend? She’s in shock. She can’t believe it. She knew what you were going through, but she never thought it would get that bad… Bad enough for you to end it. She can’t cry, she can’t feel anything. She stands up, walks out of the classroom, and just sinks to the floor. Shaking, screaming, but no tears coming out. It’s a few days later, at your funeral. The whole town came. Everyone knew you, that girl with the bright smile and bubbly personality. The one that was always there for them, the shoulder to cry on. Lots of people talk about all the good memories they had with you, there were a lot. Everyone’s crying, your little brother still doesn’t know you killed yourself, he’s too young. Your parents just said you died. It hurts him, a lot. You were his big sister, you were supposed to always be there for him. Your best friend, she stays strong through the entire service, but as soon as they start lowering your casket into the ground, she just loses it. She cries and cries and doesn’t stop for days. It’s two years later. Your teachers all quit their job. Those mean girls have eating disorders now. That boy that used to tease you cuts himself. Your ex boyfriend doesn’t know how to love anymore and just sleeps around with girls. Your friends all go into depression. Your best friend? She tried to kill herself. She didn’t succeed like you did, but she tried…your brother? He finally found out the truth about your death. He self harms, he cries at night, he does exactly what you did for years leading up to your suicide. Your parents? Their marriage fell apart. Your dad became a workaholic to distract himself from your death. Your mom got diagnosed with depression and just lays in bed all day. People care. You may not think so, but they do. Your choices don’t just effect you. They effect everyone. Don’t end your life, you have so much to live for. Things can’t get better if you give up. I’m here for absolutely anyone that needs to talk, no matter who you are. Even if we’ve NEVER talked before, I’m here for you.

Suicide rates will multiply in Nigeria. Not because times are hard. Times were HARD during the Biafran war. The problem now is that adults are increasingly immature. The society is increasingly frivolous. People have no true friends. Because friends see themselves more as rivals. The race is measured by wealth and nothing else. Set backs are mourned as wasted lives by those who should give love and genuine support. So a troubled man becomes the butt of jokes by those in whom he has reposted his trust.

Calamities befall men, and their friends shed tears in the morning and run them down at night. Adults are now children. The man can't even tell his wife because he is sure she won't understand. He has seen her divulge little details to her family. He has heard eulogise wealth and curse set backs as abomination. She has a little merry heart.

The pastor can't be trusted because he is given to flashy cars and worldly ambitions. He rates men by their earthly successes and wealth. He can't be trusted because wealth he says is the ultimate blessing from God. Everyday he celebrates only the rich.

So the troubled man walks around with his troubles in his heart, smiles at all the children masquerading as adults around him. One day, he would weigh it all over again and say no.

It's enough.

True mature friends are now very scarce!

The high rate of depression amongst Nigerians lately has been on a high rise, we always believe it's a white man disease until we realize lately almost everyday in Nigeria the high rate of suicide is rising,

A medical doctor jumped from 3rd mainland bridge into the water yesterday and just two days ago a man killed himself because he couldn't pay his rents.

Where is this issues brewing from and what do you believe we can do to curb this devilish mindset from Nigerians, we are known as the nation who are scared to die talkless of killing ourselves. Where did we get it all wrong

stephleena:
snoop Dogg, passed the limits.. if it were to be in Nigeria, DSS, go help find case for you..even when,you didn't mention anyone's name,but you criticize the government, you
u don enter..ask Audu maikori...not to talk of you animating the president, infact make you just try shoot cow for your video, you Go explain..

. Have you seen the hate message the whites did for Obama when he was the president which he ignored, they made an animation of him and hunged him in public on a baseball match day but he turned a dear ear, this dude called trump should learn to ignore, responding to everything against him only promotes whosoever sent the posts

So Snoopdogg just shot a video where he gunned down a dummy trump lookalike and President Trump came after Snoopdogg calling him a failed career, But l guess he wasn't expecting T.l heavy punch...

saudah:
Jazakallahu khair to Nairaland muslim community for the donation given to me thanks and am greatful most especially to brother Balash may Allah (s.w.t) bless and reward you for the care and concern you show us Amin.

. You welcome my sister, May Almighty Allah continue to protect and guide you

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lol Didn't know atheist also promotes kids too or even promotes families as well, this is so interesting

Muslims stranded in American airports due to Trump's anti-Islam decrees, turned American airports into Masajids.

Subhanallah, Islam if left unhindered, grows, if squeezed solidifies.

KillerFrost:
If you saw what Hazard did to Mustafi, you would understand the reason why footballers prefer to go to China

Nonsense! It was Koscielny if you don't know how to watch football with open eyes! Hush your mouth

A neighbor confirmed DSS arrested 2face at his home prior to his cancellation of the proposed protest, This country is not ripe yet for this I believe. If only Wizkid, Olamide , Dbanj , Donjazzy, 9ice , Tiwa savage and the Nollyhood actors all supported the cause maybe he won't be the only one fingers are pointed on but I can authoritatively tell you if he continued with the protest and anything happened he would be locked up...

100k

joyContraMundum:
lol.... "Higher moral ground", abi? Well, whatever. As far as I'm concerned, your ideas about love are dangerous for society, hence will result in a catastrophe, since you seem to be promoting unconditional love, which implies tolerating an evil person, a tyrant, a selfish animal looking for people to screw over and trample to the ground. You're gonna tolerate such people, just to satisfy and preserve your own selfish desire to and pleasure of loving them, consequently propagating hate.

I used those words because they're ACCURATE, and couldn't give a rat's bottom how they make you feel. I'm neither "fluffy", nor "cuddly". I'm not your "friend" nor am I politically correct. If you're stupid, I'll say it. And if that offends you, then too bad, I don't care.

What I'm concerned about right now is you correcting those warped orientations of yours. I'm already blessed, and today's gonna be great for me, regardless of your wishes. Thanks anyway.

Have a fun filled day ahead

Nice

fbtowner:
When the angry mob finally catch them in their next operation some ppl will now come here and say they are only suspect and they should not be burnt

No one will imagine the pain they will cause the owner

I can remember the guys face vividly and I was discussing with my friend yesterday that if this guy was apprehended now and jungle justice was performed. They would say people are wicked, if you see the way the owner of the car was crying like a small boy ehn! You would understand what he clearly went through in getting the car.

coolesmile:
Nice write up.

We need to be more security conscious. That's why steering locks and other security measures are always needed on our vehicles.

I hope they apprehend the thief.

Most times this sorta car are used for operations and they would just abandon the car far away like the eastern or northern part of the country

epistleNow:
Describing what you witnessed could help in recovering the car but for police abnormal investigation tactics that you avoided.

Citizen loses when institutions don't function efficiently.

Exactly my brother

HtwoOw:
Why you go withhold the name of the area? Na paradise he be?

If you witness something as risky as a theft in Nigeria, give the name of area and come out as witness you hear! Police is your friend lol

joyContraMundum:
You sir, must be a BIG FOOL, a clown prince, the leader of the empire of the deluded, the grandmaster of the magisterium of morons. Your delusion is STRONG, and your false consciousness is pretty awful. You have my pity.

I can't believe I'm seeing this. Perhaps, you need a lobotomy.

God bless you for this. Have a great day