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RomanceRe: [KingZaddy] Advanced Relationship and Dating Drills by Ballary(m): 8:56am On Apr 24, 2020
KingZaddy:
Ballary

i wouldnt really call it that (treat them like trash), the attention is the problem here. women will want all the attention in the world, give it to them and watch her walk away.

it is the emotional part of a woman that makes her conclude that she is being treated like trash when she isn't. she can put up a drama is trying to correct it but you just have to sit and get entertained instead of taking a roll in her script.


this can make a woman cry because she would only start seeing you as a man who careless about her; the way to achieve this is by giving a woman attention in measurements, its like giving food, if you give too much she would be overfed and waste the overflow but if she is underfed she would want more, it is that your ability to underfed her and chose when to or when not to give her the next meal that makes her stick to you. the day you start giving her a satisfying portion then you have began to build your fall.
I have a something to share, and I need your advice on this.
There is this girl in my neighborhood,i have known her for some time,I collected her number from her,we started chatting.i realized every guy in the neighborhood wants her,it started getting to her.

Whenever I asked her to come see me, she give excuses, so one day, she finally came to see me.
One thing led to another we had sex, the sex was quite boring, because she was complaining of pains that she has pile.

After the sex, she asked me for money the next day to buy some shoes, she then traveled for a church program,I was broke then, and I never wanted her to see me as a maga or simp.
I told her, when she comes back we need to see.
She insisted I send the money before seeing her.

I refused,ever since then, she became rude on phone,I was angry and deleted her number, there weeks ago, she came back from school, and greeted me, she was passing by and greeted me again,I stopped her,we started talking, she started saying why I refused to call her again,I made it known,I deleted her number, because of her nagging attitude.

I then told her, that if I was to take her number back, she has to impress me by not nagging again,I took her number, after 3 days I called her, she then insisted that she can only see me,if I give her the money she requested.

What advice will you give me in this situation.
I'm not fully an alpha male, still practicing
I will be waiting for your advice at King zaddy.
RomanceRe: [KingZaddy] Advanced Relationship and Dating Drills by Ballary(m): 8:53pm On Apr 23, 2020
luwiizy:
if you stop feeding that bacteria in their head with attention their brain will start rebooting cool if you stop feeding that bacteria in their head with attention their brain will start rebooting
Lol,I need a more detailed explanation from King zaddy �
RomanceRe: [KingZaddy] Advanced Relationship and Dating Drills by Ballary(m): 10:14am On Apr 23, 2020
KingZaddy:
confidence! I Have Seen Less Attractive Guys Get Pretty Girls Number. Just Be Confident And Different, many Guys Use Random Techniques.


My smile Is Usually Very Attractive and Many Testified To Meltin for It. I Just Know How To Apply It, i Practised With My Mirror.


Confidence Bro!
I have been following this thread, why do girls love guys that treat them like trash,sendles attitude bring girls more closer.

can you give me a detailed explanation why it happen so, because I have been trying to figure it out myself.
RomanceRe: There Are No Good Girls Out There. They Are All Scam!! (PHOTO) by Ballary(m): 6:49pm On Apr 21, 2020
stupidity:
Actually I was in this category of people talking about women, mostly the way I enjoy with them but I don’t body shame them, you’ll never know what it takes to be a woman. Your judgement on women is based ONLY on what you know and feel.

But it doesn’t stop the fact that women are life wasters shar. You go just land express because of women.


Women are to be feared, correct? Here’s the cruise in all this. Your father sent you to school, wasted money, hoping his son would become a man someday, remember mommas prayers too.

You haven’t even gone far in the life journey to make money and compensate that old man for what he did in your life, but you carry woman matter for head. Why won’t you go through all sort of things and see all sort of things when you won’t face life and leave women? grin


Another angle is, if after what your father did in your life, your education and social exposure and you still don’t have sense. God have no other way than to use women to deal with you. Make you for get sense. Nor Dey mumu follow woman!!! angry


If you are really really really busy with your life, the only business you’ll have with women(For now) Is to price the commodity, pay .............dash dash, that’s its. Everybody go em house onto something else.


Another angle is, you can’t just meet a woman and you expect her to be what she’s not. You think it’s that easy to meet your dream lady? They don’t come easy. your papa for marry the very first woman he dated in his time, dem for nor born you, maybe you for be woman sef grin. Did I insult someone? grin See cruise!!


Anyways, you guys should know whatever women are doing to you is part of life lesson. If you think women are really whores and what not then don’t you think it’s time you face your life and leave them out of it? But Nooooo, your penls nor go gree and you are still calling them who’re. Ode!!!

Time dey go!!! Dey call women who’re.

Ashawo!!! Na Toto go kill you last last. Yes, you!!! angry angry I Dey fear you!!!
Your post is literally confusing,I don't know if you are bashing the ladies or in support of them.

However good women are hard to find,in my own view, good women are only 10% especially in nigeria.what we have now are pretenders and gold diggers.

I think if men can start controlling their third leg to an extent,all this issues of women problem will be reduced to a certain extent.
RomanceRe: . by Ballary(m): 10:16am On Apr 14, 2020
Ishilove:
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FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Ballary(m): 9:37am On Apr 14, 2020
botrix:
she's Igbo,am yoruba
You are really lucky,is rare to find such this days.
Like just 5% of girls can do such.
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Ballary(m): 10:39pm On Apr 13, 2020
botrix:
Pls u and ur husband should try to rent a room,even if its inside a bush,if there's love,u both can manage.my wife and I ones lived in a single room without a toilet or bathroom.we wake as early as 4 am to take our bath outside d room,I deficated in a potty due to my condition(lame),she pours it out in a near by bush whenever I do without complain.

Until God help Us to move out,she did it for 3yrs. I love her so much.
do such women as your wife exist, I'm still looking for such women in this material world especially naija.
CrimeRe: My Journey Into The Underworld (blood Money) by Ballary(m): 10:36pm On Apr 03, 2020
Prudencely:
Even if you think his story is fabricated, it is TRUE. A friend of mine narrated his own experience wanting to get rich. Ofcourse he was told no blood will be involved but it involved other people's destinies and thing in his life that will be forever affected. My Japa!!!

His other friends that had the mind to do it are SUPER RICH but they don't have the golden money which is PEACE
That's really bad, many successful young people are into rituals, and the are suffering but pretend as if things are going well.
CrimeRe: My Journey Into The Underworld (blood Money) by Ballary(m): 10:33pm On Apr 03, 2020
gentlesinna:
Typical life of most Abuja big boys......... RITUALs....

This story is similar to mine........I have been there and back.
I thank God for his Devine mercy and love upon my life bcs today I am a living testimony.
How do you know, Abuja big boys are into rituals, there are many genuine big boys in abj.
RomanceRe: Please Help Me Suggest Ways A Jobless Person Can Find Love. by Ballary(m): 10:13pm On Apr 03, 2020
Jewessgratitudd:
Hmm...its possible to still find one but that would be an almost near impossible task judging by the kind of girls we have these days. Same goes with the guys. They don't know what they want. Chasing after shadows only to end up with wrong person and start wailing in the end.
I love you way of reasoning, very mature and forward thinking.

Majority of the girls now are all coporate prostitutes, you can't even differentiate between the good and the gold digging one, the all pretend to love someone in other to achieve something.
RomanceRe: Please Help Me Suggest Ways A Jobless Person Can Find Love. by Ballary(m): 9:17pm On Apr 03, 2020
[quote author=Jewessgratitudd post=88066380]Oh...you caught it before I removed it? I did cos the op was being rude.

Anyways, to be frank with you, I dont think this new generation of girls can love like that due to the competition among their peers and their quest for material things just to feel among.

Thank you.[/quote
I wish I can find someone like you, dating a girl nowadays is just experiment,then a successful marriage is just pure luck.

With all this post of my girlfriend did this to me, and other complains, are you sure local man can settle down, maybe only for the sake of child bearing.
RomanceRe: Please Help Me Suggest Ways A Jobless Person Can Find Love. by Ballary(m): 6:54pm On Apr 03, 2020
Jewessgratitudd:
...
I really love your comments, but in this age, are you sure such girls still exist?
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RomanceRe: My Husband Lasts Too Long In Bed, I Need A Remedy To Make Him Release Fast by Ballary(m): 8:26pm On Apr 02, 2020
Jewessgratitudd:
grin


You don't know how to play with a man that's why.

Before he enters, play with him very well as in touch him allover his body. Tease him and so on, when you see hes all excited and laughing like a jackass, pull him in and ride him. while at it, touch him all over and lick his face, neck and ears with your lips and tongue. Before you know it, he'll cum.

Stop doing it mechanically. Freestyle it.


Please, this lectures is for only married women.
You have a degree in sexology, Any more better tips.
RomanceRe: ...... by Ballary(m): 9:37am On Apr 02, 2020
mharyamikeola92:
Pls I need a male bestie who base in Osun...He must be a Muslim ,handsome and fun to be with...

If interested, kindly send a mail to hashymimmy@gmail.com with a picture of yourself

Thanks
I went through your profile, you look pretty, look before you leap.
RomanceRe: If U Know Why Sex Is Sweet, U Will Be Careful by Ballary(m): 9:32am On Apr 02, 2020
zexy2030:
smiley so what can kind of girl do you prefer, before some of our uncles here start raising another generation of w.hores..The very first girl who taught me sex was just 12..I was 6 innocent and naive, she showed me how to put my tiny di.ck then in her pussy, now I wonder the kind of porn star she will be now( that happened '91')
so can u see why we have so many who.res today?
The difference between leaked sex now and that time, is just media presence and internet...nothing new is happening now, the internet is just making them known but long happening.
I had my first sexual encounter when I was 7,and she was 18,she inserted my fingers in her vagina and started stroking my penis too, truly this is not happening now, just media presence.

But really some girls really know how to handle somebody in bed,I really missed that sex addict pussy,it was so sweet, and she has first class in sexology, but I can't go back to her to avoid releasing blood instead of sperm lol
RomanceRe: If U Know Why Sex Is Sweet, U Will Be Careful by Ballary(m): 9:02am On Apr 02, 2020
zexy2030:
there is nothing like male sex addict, your semen takes time to form, brother, you r d one releasing cum, some women who have fvcked many dicks even may take an hour of continuous pounding to cum, and that's just first round, then the second round to fifth, if the women u meet are getting tired easily during sex, its because they are not well fed or liberal with you, but if u meet a a girl who can really fvck well, u may collapse on her, u cant beat a sex addict stop deceiving urself, women dont have refractory period, they only get dried, then after meal/sleep they are ready again but if they are on drugs like you, my brother, you may rest in peace. Can ur dick be erect for one straight hour without enhancement? if yes with enhanced with drugs, very soon u will start fighting impotence. What you have in your dick are tissues, which could damage if its overstretched. Now what is the use of a long & fat dick that cannot stand again bcus of drug abuse.
Wow nice one, you are really good intellectually,I always laugh men that are always boostful that no girl can withstand them in bed.

I have been there before, this girl was a real addict, she was so good in it that you will be begging for me, she was the best I ever had,her pussy was also tight and juicy.

But I became tired of too much sex, she can have sex 3 times in the morning,3 in the afternoon and 3 at night,I couldn't cope any longer,morever l'm really good in bed, she can attest to that, but I couldn't continue with her high libido.

That thought me a lesson that no matter how good a guy is in bed,a female addict is � stronger.
RomanceRe: If U Know Why Sex Is Sweet, U Will Be Careful by Ballary(m): 12:50am On Apr 02, 2020
zexy2030:
If only u knew why sex is sweet, u would be careful.

Sex they say is life. Yes, its life because all living beings originates from sex.

We are all live for sex, survival and sanctity.
sex is the strongest force in life, that's why nudity is the selling point in all media industry worldwide.
Now sex was designed for procreation & pleasure.

Now I would love to tell you why nature made it so sweet.
Do you know women enjoy sex the most and they have no refractory period with 8,000nerve endings; A woman can conveniently go upto 10 rounds and still do her house chores only with paracetamol she is fine. But a man(with just 4,000 nerve ending, are so crazy about sex, just because their gratification is external(drop n go)) at the tenth round(if he can) would collapse or starts bleeding and may refrain for one year sef.

The orgasm a woman has is much more intense (((internal gratification, she receives and keeps for 9month, that's why they care alot and think more emotionally, because they are always inside of themselves)))) , than that of the man, it was rated 4times stronger than the orgasm of a man, that's why you hear even reserved women saying things they could not say on ordinary day but when the fvck is so good, you will start hearing secrets, I remember a girl, at the beginning she was forming she won't tell me her full name, when it got to that stage I knew she was about to climax, she told me everything I asked her. That's why early sex is not good for girls, because they will never be satisfied by just one man, they can't stay in a marriage, they will divorce and marry another, the cycle repeats till they r old.

Now the reason sex is so sweet for both gender:
Man: is because of the great responsibility of raising a child, no man will tell you it's easy to raise children.
Everyday u have to take risk and hustle so hard for your children to eat, afford good lifestyles and moreso good education, some men smuggle(drugs, girls, cars), kill, steal to make enough money to raise their kids and leave good life styles behind for the children.

women : who enjoy it more suffer more during pregnacy, incubating, birthing,feeding &training the child(ren), that's why single mothers realize the role of a man in child training, therefore yarns to marry rightly.

So remember whenever u remove ur di.ck to fvck that girl or Lady, remember it comes with responsibility that's why it is sweet, so when u start suffering for being responsible u will remember how sweet u enjoyed the conception of those children, otherwise wrap those fluidy potential kids inside condom polythene and flush them inside toilets.
But most women don't enjoy ur di.ck when protected.

so wake up and be responsible.
sex is sweet but comes with responsibility.
Nice post bro,if a male sex addict meets with a female addict who will win.
RomanceRe: Tested And Trusted Tips To Ask A Woman For Sex. (photo) by Ballary(m): 9:25pm On Mar 31, 2020
stupidity:
Let’s say you two are together. Try observe her body composure and the way she’s looking and feeling. Try know if she’s feeling kinky and a bit restless. Women are normally a bit “hyped” when they want sex but won’t say because they don’t know how to say.

But when you notice any of these things going on, politely ask her;

“Are you okay”

She’ll says YES.

“Are you hungry”

She’ll say NO

“Should I change the movie/music”

She’ll say NO.




You don catch her be that. grin

Then this is the bold part, be bold, nor fear. Ask her.


“Do you want sex?”


Immediately you ask her this question, start looking into her eyes and let out a little smile.

Then leave her and her mind to judge the end result. grin


If you do this and it’s confirmed. Congrats, you just made a woman for the first time tell you she wants sex from you. This is the real consensual sex grin

Any questions? One at a time please
You always create nice post, irrespective of your funny moniker, not all women can fall for this.

Sometimes women can be unpredictable.
RomanceRe: My Funny Experience With A Lady Friend. (PHOTOS) by Ballary(m): 5:39pm On Mar 31, 2020
stupidity:
Women are really funny. This lady that lives few minutes walk from my place buzzed me. After much chats and whining, shakara and promises she came over. She met me playing video game and smoking. She requested for Netflix. I immediately put it for her, I engaged her in discussion and focused on my phone as well.


After a while she said I should share WiFi for her that she wants to watch Porn because the movie I put for her is not interesting. I smiled and I connected my WiFi for her and paid even more attention to my phone while I heard moans of porns from her phone.

Me gan, I locked up. Later she stood up and came to where I was sitting and requested for the TV remote to switch to another movie. She got to where I was sitting and requested to drag from my smoke. I told her No, that she’s not strong for it. Then she sat down where I was sitting and requested I help her scratch her leg. I told her to place the legs on my lap.


Immediately she placed her leg on my lap she felt a bulge on my groin area. Actually I don’t know what was going on because I was fixed on my phone not knowing Mr man was at alert.

She made funny jokes and kept on and on about the bulge. I kept quite and minded my business. Later she pretended like she’s sleeping, so I placed her legs on the chair very well and headed for the kitchen. Right now I want to cook, wash plate and wash some clothes, it will make me not pay attention to her advances. She’s seducing me. angry angry


This is a reminder that these women around you are more hornier than we men. But the moment you try to initiate the sex or fall for any of her advances, you become the accused. You raped her sef. It’s always like that.


There’s a stage you’ll get to, you’ll start fvcking only intellectual women and not every pvssy that agreed to visit you but in real sense came to fvck but won’t admit to it and still make you feel guilt that you forced her.

What am I saying sef.
Am I communicating?


Any questions? One after the other please. angry
Nice post,I have experienced shit like this before, girls can pretend very well, only a few will take the bold step.
RomanceRe: I Asked My New Gf What She Likes About Me,she Said This. Now Am Losing My Esteem by Ballary(m): 11:50pm On Mar 30, 2020
L0ve:
My relationship is a month old, my girl has been really good to me. She is this high class babes that has dated big boys.
She always say if it's money she for no de with me. Note I earn close to a 100 per month but from her stories you know she has rich men disturbing her. In a scale of 10 she is an 8.5 and that's me been modest she is really hot and does not use makeup.
So I ask her what she like about me. She said I know how to use the magic stick. I was smiling when she said with your small rod.I Was like what huh embarassed she was like yes it's very small and very sweet.she noticed I was disappointed and change topic.
No girl ever told me my dick is small. Was she joking? Can a small dick really be sweet. I last very long what if I stop lasting long will she leave me. I love the way she is crazy about me. Help
it's not really about the size,is how to use it, you might have a strong dick that hits sensitive spots on her vagina.

with this,no matter how small it is, she will always feel satisfied.
maybe she is wondering how this small dick is doing wonders to her brain, good dick can confuse a lady.
RomanceRe: Why Does My Female Superior Behave RudeTo Me . Should I React ? by Ballary(m): 9:02pm On Mar 30, 2020
[quote author=Ancientbeing post=87932293]So i have worked in this industry for 3 yrs now and recently, they transferred my male boss and swapped with a nice looking lady.
So i work in the packaging section of the industry where i seal cartons, containers etc. So for the past two weeks, this new superior superior has been on my tail. Whatever i seal, she will find a fault or simply say am too slow even in front of my colleagues. She talks to me in a way my mom has never spoken to me before.. I need help on my next line of action cos its clear she is either a sadist or she has a crush on me.
It is really frustrating me o. I dont know if i should quit and find another work[/quote
Women are always authoritative especially when placed in a higher position.
The feel the are the weaker sex,so the try to assert authority over things especially men lower than them.

If you look around you, you will notice something similar in every organization or industries.
If you have ever lived in a compound built by a lady and maybe she resides closer, she will always try to be authoritative and assert control over everybody especially the men.

Sometimes women are also confused, she might also have a crush on you,that might be a way of getting your attention.
Just relax, do what you always do and try to be tolerant with her, or man up and tell her how you feel treated, she might change.
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softwerk:
See them?!

I knew they will all come after me!

My Confession: Preek is super satisfying, like coca cola you'll ask for more!
Kudos to you beautiful,preek is really satisfying.
Let them hookup with one.
RomanceRe: Truly, Women Likes Rogues, Cant Just Imagine What I Saw Today. by Ballary(m): 10:37am On Mar 30, 2020
OlawaleBammie:
Na der wahala b dat jare
those girls go be runs girls,eh no pass like that.
RomanceRe: Please, What Does She Want? by Ballary(m): 6:13pm On Mar 29, 2020
frozen70:
That's not a good one

You don't need to be harsh to get it right

Real men don't behave like a beast
that's what some ladies need to in other not to consider a guy a weakling.

moreover,his a nice guy, she says she doesn't need any relationship according to his post,he should play to the game by been unpredictable and not needy around her.
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RomanceRe: Please, What Does She Want? by Ballary(m): 8:06pm On Mar 28, 2020
hartoyebi38:
Hi guys, please advice me on this issue
This girl and i started talking not quit long ago, although she lives next to my house. With time we become good friends, she does come to my house, even sleep sometimes which makes me feel uncomfortable because i don't like girls friend zone me.
I asked her if we can start a relationship but she declined with reasons that she don't want to be in any relationship now. I tried to convince her still she totally refused.
The problem is she slept at my place and around 4 am, i started touching her, she neither complain nor reciprocate my move. She just slept like nothing concern me. I proceeded but when i want to kiss her, she disallowed my move. I respect her by let her be but she left earlier because of that.
I thought she won't come back but she didn't stop coming and sleeping at my place. This get me confused of what she really want.

NOTE: I'm broke and i don't have any girlfriend for the past two years because I want to focus on my dream.
You are been too predictable and boring, that's what simps do, stop giving her attention.

Whenever she comes visiting, behave like she doesn't exist, and whenever you want to talk to her be naughty and not desperate.

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