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Romance / Re: Why Am I Always Rejected By Women? by Ballary(m): 5:13pm On Feb 05, 2023
MenInsight:
I am going to share with you my experience with women and what changed to help me.

If you take to heart what I am about to discuss here, you won't need to spend much energy to get a lady, honestly speaking. I say this because what I have experienced in the last 90 days of my life has seen me getting comments from ladies, including the ones that didn't want me in the past.

Women are not moved by what they HEAR...period. The saying that women are moved by what they hear is false. It may have worked many years ago but currently, I do not think that saying still holds weight, and here is why.

I am more of a guy who lives in his own world, call me an introvert and therefore, I do things more in private and rarely hang out often. I did have some relationships in the past when I was in Benin, but not much. I relocated to South West and since then, I have been trying to make a name for myself.

Because of the challenges and time in making my life worth it, I didn't have time going to meet new ladies. At a point, I had to try to meet some ladies online and none worked out. I realized I was spending too much energy in trying to "win" ladies than was necessary and at a point, I became so drained, and disappointed, and gave up.

Why didn't it work?

1. Focusing on just one lady at a time. If you are always focusing on getting one lady at a time, the chances of that particular lady rejecting you are pretty high. The reason is that a lady can sense when you do not have a life beyond her walls and that makes you so much unattractive to her. When a lady sense that she is the ONLY one on your radar, you are clearly telling her that she has no competition and women love competition, they love the idea that they have to fight to win you from another lady.

I used to be that guy who would make the mistake of making a lady know she is just the only one on my radar. I did this ignorantly when I didn't understand the game properly.

There was a time one girl said: "I will have to find out whether you have other girls" You would assume it is wise to make her feel she is the only one but the moment you do that, you have increased your rejection probability by 1.

Instead of focusing on just a lady, try to have more options. Keep your options open. Women on the other hand ALWAYS keep their options open, so why should you do otherwise? The fact that a girl is talking to you does not mean she is not talking to 10 other guys.

A girl will be in a relationship with someone and she will still give her number to the guy she met at a wedding or any social gathering.. why? she is keeping her options open.

Also just focusing on one lady can make you look desperate at some point because you do not have a backup. Many girls on the other hand do not feel that way because they have quite a number of men giving them attention. One girl told me she does not date outside of the men she has in contact with. What she is saying is that she has a lot of men in a queue and would go for the next one that is available if the current one does not work.

2. Not taking advantage of my advantage: I said above that women are not moved by what they hear. That saying women are moved by what they hear and men are moved by what they see is not true. Women, just like men, are moved by what they SEE.

If women are moved by what they hear, I am good at that and I can tell you for a fact that you will end up wasting your time with little to nothing to show for it. Instead of talking, SHOW IT!

The mistake I used to make is that I didn't take advantage of my own advantage or showcase them while showing interest in these ladies. For instance, I rarely had my DP on my profile anywhere, even on WhatsApp where I interact with them. But in 2022, I changed that, and one of my female friends started asking for my pics whenever she sees one she likes.

To further prove this, there were these two girls I had an interest in but they refused.

Let's call them Girl A and Girl B.

Girl A was one I met earlier before Girl B but due to distance, things couldn't pan out well. The only thing she had seen was just some old pic of me. I rarely take pictures and when I do, they are poorly done because I am my own photographer with my hand smiley. The life of an introvert is boring.

Earlier this year, I uploaded a recent picture and video of me at the airport in the company of a lady and a male friend. The picture was shot by my male friend and he did a greater job on my physique than I had ever done. I was well dressed of course but this time around it brought out my full feature, especially my height. But previously, you would think I am short because of the way I usually take pictures as I often just take pictures of my face. One other lady on my contact said she didn't know I was this tall. And women love tall guys.

Girl A on seeing the picture and video quickly wished me a happy new year. The last time she initiated a convo was in mid-2021. I replied to her 8 hours later and she responded by injecting a word she has never used in our chat before... smiley

Girl B saw it but didn't say anything but I knew that she was troubled. A few days later, she started acting funny in my DM... Weeks after that, I uploaded another picture of me and she had to pick up her phone to call me at 10:45 pm. I didn't answer the call, waited a while, and texted her to know her purpose for calling to which she said she just wanted to say "hi". I laughed after seeing the reply.

Technically speaking, the lady in the picture that was uploaded helped boost my social image in the minds of Girl A and Girl B. Remember what I said about women wanting competition... They can't imagine a guy who was chasing them being with another girl. I am sure some men reading this have had those experiences too. They will reject you and still be mad or unhappy that you are with another girl.

I actually got some reactions from other ladies, including the ones I hadn't thought of. My closest female friend kept saying... is this really you?

3. Master The Art of Attraction, Make money and Look Good: Making money is good but if you do not spend that money on yourself to look good, your money is a waste. The reactions from these ladies mentioned above are made possible because I put in effort in taking care of myself. Previously, I just want to make money but started using it to show what I have got.

Instead of using money to give to girls, use that money to buy things for yourself. A girl will admire your looks more when she sees money on you but can't have it from you.

4. Never share your challenges with a girl you are wooing: Girl B from above was someone who made it known that is single and available to interested guys. However, she quietly withdrew because, at the time I was in contact with her, I foolishly shared some financial problems I had at that time. She felt I was broke and stylishly ported to another guy... but now she has seen different images of me and has been trying to use those cunning tactics that women use and want to come back to me. Obviously, the guy she went with has no plans whatsoever and he is likely tired of banging her.

When we started talking, she said we could see... when she ported to another guy who is based in Lagos, she said why should we see each other when I probed her for not seeing me whenever she is in Lagos but a few months after that, she was telling me she is in Lagos. I didn't ask her this time around. I simply told her to enjoy her stay.

5. Get another girl, take picture of you and the said girl, and upload it: A few days ago, I uploaded 3 slides of pictures of me and a new girl. Girl B viewed 2 slides as the first person to view my status and SHE REFUSED to view the 3rd one. In fact, she didn't go near my status after that till this moment. The next day, her message to me showed what I had suspected... she was not happy seeing me happy with another girl. Such is life!

What I have learned this past 90 days have showed that we can spend less energy chasing women if we play the card right...just by mastering the art of attraction because women are moved by what they SEE cool

Nice and well documented, just dress good, have a nice physique, focus on your goals, be comfortable to a minimum, you will surely attract quality girls.

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Romance / Re: My Secondary School Re-union Experience by Ballary(m): 12:11am On Jul 24, 2022
ublight:
Please read patiently

I happen to be one of the luckiest persons on this planet. Not because I was born with a silver spoon, intelligent, or handsome. Heck a lot of people could do better than me in those areas.

I am lucky cos around 2019 I was opportuned to have a billionaire become my mentor. I had always known this man from 2015, but he didn't know me. We never had met until July 2019, but I always read about him and engaged him online until we met in 2019.

When I met him, I was broke and had almost nothing. He on the other hand had just lost 800 million naira. He just took interest in me irrespective of ethnic difference (he is yoruba, I am Akwa ibom)

One of the first things he said to me about himself in July 2019 was that he doesn't go for his secondary school re-union. Without waiting for me to ask for the reason he told me.

According to him, he had gone for his secondary school re-union many years back, and didn't like what he saw. Many of his colleagues were living fake lives. They only came to compete and measure their level of success. (these are people above 50. I thought this was a madness for young adults)

My mentor said even though he was the richest amongst all of them by all material indices (standards), yet he felt uneasy in their midst.
Many had to cook up lies, pull up in rented cars etc just to sell a false image.

I had finished secondary school since 2010, and because life was rough, I never bothered about secondary school re-union. Truth be told I was secretly hoping for when I would blow so I could go and show off. U get?

Working closely with my mentor started shaping my mind. I stopped hustling for the competition. My mentor always asked me, what if by d time u finally made it, u realize that all ur contemporaries had already made it??

I finally started seeing some good money last year. Majorly this year. I could literally give out 300k and not feel it. Of course I make a minimum of 30k to 40k weekly with my fone. Excluding my major source of income. In a month, I make more than 400k from my agro business, and I have not even mentioned my education business.

My cousin who went to the same sec. Sch with me convinced me last week to join him let's attend our sec. Sch re-union. At first I hesitated, but my cousin is not some1 who gives up easily. So I finally obliged.

Guess what! De ja vu.

What my mentor told me is exactly what I saw. Competition at its peak. Twas crazy Mehn! If I were still broke maybe I would be depressed.

Everyone was elegantly dressed except me. Everyone came with bolt except me. I felt out of place Mehn!
My only consolation was that I knew I was doing better than most of those guys there so I just kept my cool and sat behind.

I always came 2nd 3rd or few times 4th. So I knew I would be among those that would be on the spot light. A few friends came around, did a little bit of chit chat and exchanged contacts and that was all.

Some of us were married, the single girls didn't even come close to me cos I didn't look flashy. I didn't even try to force myself on anyone. I just sat one place observing.

After everything, we decided to contribute money to renovate a part of the male hostel that had gone up in flames some weeks ago.

It was at this moment that I became very keen and attentive. The first person to donate was our head girl. Very modest and nice person. She was married now and exhibited maturity more than the rest of the girls. She did 20k, but promised to transfer the cash by first week of next month. The head boy followed. He was well dressed. He did 20k too and promised to transfer next week Friday.

Me I was just shocked that after the whole packaging the guy still wan transfer 20k after 1 week. Wonders shall never end.

Some other guy on dread lock transferred 12k. I was impressed. First guy to actually give cash. Other people followed suit. Some gave 2k, 5k, 1k. Etc. Look I am not looking down on anyone, but after all the packaging no body could even do 50k.

We were only 51 (our set was ss3a and ss3b) everyone had done their donation and I was left. I beckoned to my cousin (who was d anchor) that I would do mine in private. My cousin (foolish boy) rejected d idea and everyone supported him. They wanted me to say my donation openly for everyone to hear and also take account.


There was a dead silence when I said I was doing 500k. It was like they didn't hear well. I asked for the account number immediately and made d transfer. ( I no get time 4 chere ka mbia. Forgive me I am not igbo)

To cut the long story short, I humbled everyone (for just 500k o).

Na once every body just get sense o. While we were about going na so everybody dey drag to carry me for dia car grin grin

Come see as all man rush to collect my contact. As I dey like dis, my WhatsApp don full with messages. Both from naira land and from my mates at the re-union.


I dey plan to even blow their mind join when I invite them all for my birthday this December.

My mentor got this 1 wrong. I don first my mates hammer. Na grace sha.
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Their messages on WhatsApp don show me say country no balance o. I am planning to create a WhatsApp group for some of tgem that would love to venture into my line of business and mentor them.

Do you think that is a good idea?
Please let me know. Thanks



What line of agro are you into?I want to venture into agro, but I need a mentor?
Business / Re: Addmoney Loan Goes Wrong by Ballary(m): 10:37am On May 27, 2022
EnglandAmaka:
They don't call your contacts again. They will keep on calling you begging you to pay.

Talking out of experience. They don't call your contacts any more.

LCredit, Oxloan, Fairmoney, Ease Cash, True Naira. These ones here for sure don't call your contacts again.

Don't ask me how i found out

Not true about easy cash, although I haven't used it before, but the demanded a picture verification,I believe it will be used and posted,if you refuse to pay back, that is even worse than calling your contacts.
Crime / Re: Money Was Debited From My Account By Unknown POS Service by Ballary(m): 10:10am On May 03, 2021
WiszyFraud:
It’s not very clear..

You didn't state the amount you had before/after the transfer....and also the balance after the last debit alert.

But I’m thinking that POS debit alert you got might probably be the name of the POS account you transferred to.....

It was just the amount I stated above, there were still fund's left, but I transferred to another account before I lose all, I'm using access bank, thinking of going to bank tomorrow to find out the POS responsible for it
Crime / Re: Money Was Debited From My Account By Unknown POS Service by Ballary(m): 10:08am On May 03, 2021
pharmagba:
Hope you are not banking with access bank
Someone had once told me of similar incident, till date it was never refunded

I'm banking with access bank, do you think a POS might be responsible for it?
Crime / Money Was Debited From My Account By Unknown POS Service by Ballary(m): 9:45am On May 03, 2021
I have an urgent matter, on Saturday by 1:07am,I received a debit Alert of 5499 from my account,I was really surprised because I never withdrew any money from any POS machine 5 days ago.

What I only did on Friday was transferring money from my account to a POS account because I was not with my ATM card at that time, the POS operator was not credited immediately, but I was debited, so I took her number in case the money reversed back to
my account.

So she called after 45 minutes that she has been credited, so I was happy, so early in the morning by 1:07am on Saturday,I woke up and saw debit of from my account with the description POS,no address of the POS operator.
So I'm really confused on how to go about it, I'm thinking of going to the bank,if the can help me to identify the POS responsible for this fraud.
Any suggestions guys!

Sorry it's 5499 not 45499,it was a typing error �
Romance / Re: Why You Should Stay Far Away From Yahoo Guys Ex. by Ballary(m): 10:37pm On Apr 26, 2021
michaelpop50:


Mumu, which client go drop his or her account information including internet banking with their clear eyes?

I'm not not taking about those providing accounts from clients, I'm taking about those loading the accounts.
Romance / Re: Why You Should Stay Far Away From Yahoo Guys Ex. by Ballary(m): 6:17pm On Apr 26, 2021
Godoverevery:
This from my personal view and people are free to disagree.
Anyone who still think a yahoo guy can make good money without being festish is a slowpoke.....yahoo game have really change the US govt and European govt are making it difficult to make money online through dating or any illegal means.
Most of this white aiin't that stupid to be sending money to someone you haven't seen but most are under serious spell.(they lock them)
The one you seeing buying big cars and building houses are the one using potent charms......the charms they use vary depending on there conscience....They use herbalist , white garment, Alfa.(discussion for another).

Back to why you must never date there ex.....You see this guys are spiritually expose so they try alot of charms and mostly ladies are there target.

Here are the reasons why you should stay away from there ex.
1: Most of this ladies have bad luck hovering over them due to the fact most of this yahoo guys tap there good luck spiritually and dump them when is exhausted.

2: Most of this ladies are also very diabolical themselves.... some even get charms for this guys to use.

3: Most of them have no future and are very lazy.....they just want to enjoy without doing anything.

4: Only a useless lady will date a diabolical person,a chain smoker and a cultist.

5: Most of this Ladies are greedy and only in for the good times.....when things go bad they move to the next available yahoo guy.

6. Yahoo guys Bleep this girl like prostitute....everything they watch in porn they try it out on them....anal sex ,cum swallowing etc.

7: Most due to there rough life abort alot and suffer abuse from this guys.....they are very wayward and mannerless.

Ladies that date yahoo guys are decent prostitute.....This guys hardly trust them hence they pass them around.

Yahoo guys are spiritually conscious....they just don't marry anyhow....... they only marry one who will help there hustle both physically and spiritually.

If a lady can date a yahoo guy then her conscience is dead and she belong to the street.

If you don't want to unfortunate in life stay away from these ladies especially the one that attend white garment.
Note : You can some yahoo guys coming to themselves.....98% of guys into yahoo use charms.... this a fact.

everything stated here are pure facts,90% of Yahoo guys are into voodoo, unless you are ready to wait for over 3 to 6 months to cash out, which might not still be possible.
the only people I believe does not necessarily use voodoo are those involved in loading of accounts.

it's really worrisome to what our girls have turned to in the hands of this guys,85% of girls are been used and some don't even know.
only those into account loading and credit card loading,I might disagree.

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Education / Re: The Reality Of Life After Graduation by Ballary(m): 12:04pm On Mar 09, 2021
blazepascal:
Life after graduation is not easy. Whether you studied a professional or non--professional course, you will suffer after school, but those that studied professional courses has a better chance of securing job in the labour market.
I repeat, life after school is not easy. This is not Nollywood. What you see on Nollywood is rare in reality.
While on campus, you can discover your gift and work hard to avoid suffering after school. Don't depend on people but rely on God. Hustle as a student, do business, organize campus fellowship to win souls, contest elections. Just engage in something that brings money because when you go broke, nobody will help you. Academics won't give you money. It is better to try something and fail than not trying at all. If you contest election and lose, it teaches you something which political science cannot teach you. People are hungry, so they don't care about your manifesto or vision, if you don't help them financially, you will lose election or anything you are fighting for.
Don't wear expensive clothes to impress people because nobody really care about your appearance. You can use the money for expensive clothes to better your life. You don't need to be buying plenty clothes, you can manage the little you have, iron it and wear.
Learn from your father's mistakes, don't associate with people that never liked your father. If they never liked your father, they can never like you.
Don't allow yourself to be used without a reward. Before David accepted to kill goliath, he asked the people what shall be done for the man who kills Goliath. David wanted to make sure there is a reward before accepting the task. If I mistakenly accept a job that doesn't fetch money, I instantly lose interest in that job and I won't put my energy in such useless Job.
"
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE"

that is when you will know that you came alone in this world especially when you are from a struggling family.aviod anything that will bring liability and pursue anything that will bring investment.

don't allow women be your priority at this stage of life, rather you can have one that is intelligent and understanding, body no be firewood.

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Romance / Re: The Amount Of Money I Withdrew This Morning For Love (picture) by Ballary(m): 10:17am On Mar 09, 2021
Lovethaa:
So I have been speaking to this lady online for a while and I must say that she is extremely beautiful., We've done video calls several times because I just couldn't take my eyes of her ..

She stays at Portharcourrt but would be around anytime soon which made me go to the atm to withdraw this undisclosed amount..

I'm in a great mood today so I'll be giving out 10k to anybody that can guess how much is in the picture. You don't have to be correct just be close ..


200 to 250k
Romance / Re: Something Is Happening Now And I Am Shock by Ballary(m): 11:33am On Jan 17, 2021
Villagemeat:
A lady lodge in a hotel since morning,and she demanded for two guys from the receptionist to come sex her? That she was going to pay.

Immediately the two guys left,she demanded for another two,just right now...she call the receptionist to demand for another two guys.

Note: the receptionist call street boys that use to come smoke weed in that hotel,is not a standard hotel though. And the lady in question is paying boys to Bleep her.

This is the first time I will ever see such things,I am extremely surprised!!! Could she be a ritualist or just want to have fun!

I met her personally though,I asked her many questions,she said she just came from a barracks in Ojo town to come had fun in a hotel. Me self still dey shock ohh. She even bosted that she can take more than 4 guys same time.

Nawaohh


nothing to be surprised about,mid last year,I was in a watsapp group,I met a very fine lady with curves and all,it was a sex learning group.

I chatted her up, and we followed,we exchanged nude pics and she was really eager to see me after seeing the size of my dick.
she had to travel 2 hours journey in the same state just to taste this dick,we finally met,I got her water and refreshed.

we had sex for an hour,and she was so energetic,
I tried all my possible best to satisfy her, but I couldn't, she wanted more and more.
at a time I lost erection, after she left, she told me she would want a party with someone as cute as me with same dick length or even bigger.
she told me she can even handle 3 guys, so some ladies are like that, one or two guys cannot satisfy her.
Romance / Re: Pre-wedding Pics Of A Nairalander (simsify) by Ballary(m): 8:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
SimSify:
more..
your face looks very familiar,did you school in Anambra state
Romance / Re: I Prefer Olosho To Regular Girls. (this Is Why) by Ballary(m): 2:17pm On Nov 27, 2020
Jerkbaba:
If you want to have sex with a regular girl, you'll have to talk to her, fool yourself, lower your level for her and make her feel like a queen when she's not. Even take her out maybe once or twice. Even when that's all done, having sex with that girl is still uncertain. She's still be forming rubbish in the bedroom after spending all that time and money! I can never do all of these things! I'm a straight to the point person. I can never waste my time with woman just for sex. I just prefer going to the brothel, look for a clean girl, discuss small, enter room, fvuck and disappear! I don't waste my time with women o. Cus I only need them for only one thing and that's sex. Gbam!

after reading your post,I can't really judge you because, many girls are secret oloshos disguising as gf.but you still need a partner.

the best way to spend less in this era of oloshos is to Target any girl that likes you much and gives you come and get me signal.
with this you spend less and enjoy proper sex.

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Romance / Re: NIN by Ballary(m): 1:41pm On Oct 12, 2020
Psych412:
guys/ladies in the house;

why is it that, my konji level increase (so high) when I kush (smoke weed) and I get wet easily.

I have not kush since July because of this

and I believe you enjoy sex the most when you are high,I have an ex that gets Hot after drinking black bullet.
she is like a Tigres in bed after drinking it.
Romance / Re: My Neighborhood Ladies Are Stalking And Disturbing Me Now!!! by Ballary(m): 8:48am On Oct 12, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Hehe bruh I Smiled. You say Small Girls?? You can say that again. Female Beings are extremely Wild despite their gentle touch and Innocent look. A female being Is absolutely matured sexually by 15years of age. Their body Varies though. But for moral, health and society sake. They pegged It at 18years of Age. A 14years old female being with a quite nice body will gulp up a Man of 30+ years of age comfortably hmmmmmn. You see that Hole between their thighs, Hmmmm don't let me talk........

Well said, during my nysc days, girls of similar age were throwing thier body's at me, complementing me with, sir you are very handsome and dresses well.

One even asked me out directly without fear,the ones I didn't give attention to, tagged me a dulling sir, you have to have self control to withstand thier seductions.
I caught a 14 year old student with a 15 year old having sex at a bush, the were having sex like an adult,I reported to the principal,he did nothing about it.

The way things are going, are you sure there are decent girls again.because this days, when a girl gets to 16, she has started exploring.may God help this generation.

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Romance / Re: My Neighborhood Ladies Are Stalking And Disturbing Me Now!!! by Ballary(m): 1:17pm On Oct 11, 2020
Evolutionlove:
If you live In Nigeria/Lagos and you are a successful man or have your life In order, You are under a siege and You are an endangered specie hmmmn, Be very careful, These girls/ladies are not smiling these days. Be STRONG.......

I concur,a young girl of 19 was bold enough to tell me, she admires me sexually.that she will satisfy all my sexual demands.

I was really surprised to hear this from her,with this I concluded that there are no more small girls.

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Romance / Re: Is This Why They Always Say Women Have Fish Brain? by Ballary(m): 11:56pm On Sep 24, 2020
Goodmarlian:
I have yahoo boys as friends and I can proudly tell you that 90% are successful via diabolic means,if I Start telling you stories this place go full,secondly there is this man In my village who is a ritualist he has used many of his wives for rituals and every body in my hometown knows this , now the reason why I am using this two people is because I am baffled why these people seem not to lack women despite how dangerous they are as In despite all these bad news we hear about how girls are used for rituals and shit they still get attracted to yahoo boys like crazy...

how do you come to the generalization that 90% of Yahoo boys are into rituals, the percentage is much,70% I will agree with you.
girls don't want to know or hear anything these days,the just want the money, and ends up been butchered for rituals or luckily use there glory and become walking corpse.

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Health / Re: 81-Year-Old Russian Grandma Comes Back To Life 7Hours After Being Declared Dead by Ballary(m): 8:55pm On Aug 19, 2020
Righteousness89:
Only God Can Do this!!

I will Glad if we Could Have Access to what she Has to say..

She will Definitely have some Ecounters on the other side..

I know a Brother in the Lord who had Similar Experience in December last year or there about
did he tell you his encounter on the other side?
Celebrities / Re: Lady Found Dead Some Minutes After Seeing With A Yahoo Guy (graphical Video) by Ballary(m): 2:56pm On Aug 06, 2020
Nuel4:
most market women, doctors, lecturers and pastors also seek spiritual backup does anyone equate those works to killings?

I understand your point, what I'm trying to say is that,few people Cash out this days without any spiritual backup.others uses fetish means to Cash out, while some are ritualist claiming Gee boys.
Celebrities / Re: Lady Found Dead Some Minutes After Seeing With A Yahoo Guy (graphical Video) by Ballary(m): 9:52am On Aug 06, 2020
Nuel4:
what does Yahoo have to do with killing girls?
Una guys dey use una head play. Instead of them to tell you straight up that they are not going to give you format they'll make up shiiity stories about sacrifice.
This whole killing for yahoo spread a lot because over 80% of guys in the South have at one time created a fake Facebook account to try and defraud people with. Most of them fail miserably. It's easier to assume the guys looting money did something spiritual than for you to accept the fact that you failed.

most Gee boys are into rituals to hypnotize their clients,gone are the days when intelligence was key.

very few Cash out successful with out spiritual backup, the few one's that cash out are by grace and patience.

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Romance / Re: My Boss's Wife Keep Asking Me For Sex. by Ballary(m): 10:36am On Jul 30, 2020
Xinox:
I started driving at 15 and became a defensive and trained driver at 19.Don't get me wrong, I am a graduate from one of the prestigious universities but my love for driving pushed me into a difficult situation. My Boss is a nice man and the wife will always want me in bed! How can I pay this Man that is so kind to me with evil. At 25 iam a mess if I can do this to a good man... I resigned from this job a week ago cos I can't tell the man this is what the wife is doing and the man keep asking me to come back to work. Please I am confuse, advise me.
There is something you are not saying here, has she ever told you that she wants sex with you,or she is trying to seduce you.
Romance / Re: How To Get Any Girl You Want! UDS cheat code (Guys only) by Ballary(m): 9:38am On Jul 24, 2020
mutantninja:

Classic shit test... This could mean many things depending on the context or situation she told you this.. She probably wants you to be a crazy guy as that's what turns her on... if she's a girl you're interested in just ignore whatever she says and pay close attention to what she does... Actions > Words....
girls don't really know what the want, I'm already practicing alpha, but some girls can make you forget about been alpha lol.


Okay hardytech... let's chat here privately and securely: https://discord./56mnCen
Romance / Re: How To Get Any Girl You Want! UDS cheat code (Guys only) by Ballary(m): 1:08am On Jul 24, 2020
mutantninja:
Hey guys, hope you’re alright? I’ve done seen alot of threads spurting up on this section about redpill and the recent overuse of the word simp, alpha etc and it’s really funny how y’all have been misled.. *facepalm*

I’ve helped alot of Nairalanders even Females that reached out through pms.. one recently even got married and was like guy, write a guide and post it on NL for the young generation and ignorant guys as your chit is very precise and understandable to the average nigeran guy... Redpill isn’t just about men.. a lady reached out to me here and jeez she was a married woman that has always been repeatedly abused by her husband and i advised her to involve the law enforcement and now she’s living peacefully with her kids... Let’s learn to love an appreciate quality women because not all women are bad.

Misinformation is worse than ignorance... Also, ive seen alot of comments on those threads with users flexing their ego about how many girls they’ve laid and all that blatant bullshit that does not in anyway add value to their lives or the life of others but brainwash this men into faking and doing desperate stupid shit just to get female attention or get laid and also to massage their flaccid ego.

I’m here to stop y’all from being misled... don’t get me wrong, those threads hold some really useful information and i do not know everything neither am i a messiah but there’s one important thing that’s missing which is VALUE and the ultimate purpose in the male dating strategy which i will address.. Redpill isn’t solely about getting laid and understanding women or manipulating women or game... if you wanna know that, you could as well google for pick up artists videos or memorize 48 laws of power (this is a good book don’t get me wrong but it’s sickening hearing guys quote for quote say laws to mislead the public) and all that bull5hit that just makes you a creep and a loser to a high quality woman.. Solving your sexual problems is a part of redpill but that isn’t the ultimate purpose. You will never know the feeling of piping a high status woman with standards if you don’t know the real truth. Being a high quality man you shouldn’t settle for less, you should be confident and filled with charisma.

UDS (ultimate dating solution) isn’t about:
Hating all women because your secondary school crush or college crush broke your soft heart made of rare south African diamond with gold encrusting... it also isn’t about sugar coating the truth or claiming to know everything or be a professor on a faceless forum... Also avoid this thread if you’re a Misogynist, MGTOW, INCEL or a troll (thread derailers or i hate broke boys gang plz backoff!) We love women so much on this thread and only want the best for them so that we get the best for ourselves. “You don’t say you’re the prize when you are actually an empty gift box” - me.

UDS is about swallowing the redpill not the blackpill (women hater and false projection of alpha) or bluepill mixed with redpill: Guys that after having the first sex start revealing their beta trait and telling her she’s the most sweetest girl they’ve ever d1cked! Or how she’s prettier than their mom or how she cooks better chicken than KFC..

Wtf guys! This happens all the time... I remember my supposedly alpha friend... he’s 6’4 black aggressive basketballer and all, after acting alpha with his supposed unicorn (a hb8 [hot bait]) he started following her like a handbag to everywhere and when she broke up with him ( which always happens eventually) he was so depressed and cried (red eyes) infront of us when we mocked him.... Don’t be like him! This thread is going to be your:

• How to put yourself in a situation that gets you high quality women

• Bulletproof against slutty girls using you for free lunch and airtime

• Bulletproof against manipulation

• Knowing when to pump and dump

• Knowing which girl to keep as your gf

• Knowing the right road to take when you’re lost

• How to wear a condom (because most of us are dumb and don’t believe STDs are real)

• Knowing how to not text a girl 10x in a row because she’s ignoring you

• And importantly, knowing how to be a high quality man that your family will be proud of not just impressing every slut wearing a revealing outfit and has tattoos (I like girls with tattoos).

Hold on,
I’ve already started a discord server incase this thread gets derailed in future or feminist wins the war against men in future and deletes this thread:

https://discord./XP9gHmH

Some abbreviations and slangs reference we’ll use throughout this threads:

AWALT: All women are the same. You see that girl you think fell from heaven? She’ll leave you if you’re a loser or lost your job or dress dirty or get sick.. always remember AWALT.

UNICORN: You think she’s different and an angel like the girl davido sings about? Then she’s your special unicorn.. but i warn you, the only true unicorn in your life is your mom. Many have and are still following this road thinking they’re special but i warn you, it will not go as planned and you’ll waste your valuable time.. you could be the next billionaire if only you used those times instead of believing everything davido said about finding and spending money on your special unicorn, he’s only selling you his music.. he hasn’t even married his unicorn.. use your 6 (head).

CUCKED: if you’re being repeatedly cheated on or used as a free lunch/meal ticket by a girl then you’re being cucked lolz... i was cucked so hard in sec sch.. i used to give a girl (my then gf ) 5h-1k before I could kiss her or make her sit on my lap. That was when 5h had serious value.. looking back at her now after knowing the truth, my life so much better and she wants me back but nah! Never take back a cheater!

BPD: Borderline Personality Disorder (google about this for extra info)...when you meet a bpd woman or girl it either makes you stronger or destroys you... I remember one bpd girl at college back then... she came to my house and faked fainting infront of my parents and did all stupid shit for attention and blackmail... A bpd can and will do anything to control you, ruin you or get back at you for even the simplest reasons like talking to another girl... my friend’s bpd gf arranged gang members to beat him up and she came the next day to have sex with him with his swollen eyes... it was many months later a member of the gang told us what happened... you can see why bpd girls are a no go area? Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

RUNS GIRL: We all know this one haha! But you don’t really know everything about them... we’ll be using this term alot... it’s in every girl’s dna even married women.. even that girl you respect so much in choir section in your moms church... that girl you see dress so decently at 2am watches rape porn and fantasize about swallowing a long 8inch pipe... The great thing about Nigeria runs girl’s is that they only show that evil side to their clients not you their friend, brother, colleague... although this thread will teach you how to be their client without paying... relationships are transactions don’t be scared of being a client... even marriages are transactions so stfu if you think or disagree chit! My female friend of over 5yrs is a runs girl.. ( didn’t meet her as one) a professional one, she’s gone to dubai etc but i swear you’ll never know unless you’re a client... she posts about God on her statuses on social media you’ll think she’s a wife material! Of course she is a wife material lol she’s my friend lol and we want the best for our friends but I’m telling you I won’t want my son or any of you brothers stick your pipe in dirt. Just imagining the different kinds of pipe she’s taken in makes me cringe.

HB8: Short abbreviation for Hot bait! It means a girl in the 8s, 9s and probably 10s in the hotness/sexiness scale.. say model type chicks like banky W wife adesua (I think she’s a solid cool...

Branch Swing: We’ve all watched National Geographic channel and saw how monkeys jump and swing from one tree to another? Women are beautiful creatures like our mom and dear sisters and are not ugly as monkeys, but i tell you bro, they do have mad jumping skills when it comes to switching from one guy to another.. in-fact they even set traps for you to enter so they can swing effectively and come back to you while you still apologize for a mistake you didn’t make. You could just wake up to a text that reads: baby i want a break up.. it’s over.. i want sometime to be myself.. This isn’t working.. And you thinking to yourself, tf did i do wrong? I’ve bought her the latest iPhone and a new house... am I ugly or my Pipe small? No brother! she has successfully found someone to branch swing to... Girls are always constantly searching for who to branch swing with even if they’re married. They need new exciting things to do bro, don’t get me wrong but after a few months if you’re not killing and wasting top dollar taking her to china or japan to watch anime and climbing the China wall you finna bore her and she’ll wish an angel will appear as a guy to save her from you! Guess what? You ran out of luck and that nigga shows up? She’s leaving you my bro... I’m sorry but you don’t have to be in such a sad situation that’s why I started this thread.. to make you the best man you can be and recognizing this traits and silencing them as a man! Also to make you that nigga she branch swings to! Think of regina! I see so many people cap chit that she’s dating a old man and I laugh... ned a real nigga for real.. he works on himself a lot and he getting what he deserves while gina living her best life on a private jet giving ned good ride in the air, experiences that none of us might ever have in our lifetime unless you take a step to improve your miserable life..


SMV: Most of y’all already know this... SEXUAL MARKET VALUE... This is one of the most important aspects of UDS, you see how girls recently always talk about wanting a fresh guy and you’re like tf is a fresh guy? Money? Designer clothing? Material possessions? Yeah you maybe right but Its SMV they’re generally talking about dumbass ! Lemme tell you a short story my brothers... i once saw this 19yr old few years ago... she was a HB8, very pretty and model kinda face... a face that will give you premature ejaculation when she stares at you directly so i was like why not follow the saying: “catch them young”.. Groom her to be my unicorn (worst mistake i ever made! Remember there are no unicorns)... i took this girl out every day and showed her to my friends (high SMV guys), took her to the mall showed her to even my sister but I prevented her from associating with my family as that would’ve spelt doom for me (never ever get a pretty girl close to your family yet unless you’re married! Its easier for them to win a battle from the inside)... she had daddy issues so i was like a father she never truly had... i even flew her to lagos ( her first time flying ever..! she lied her dad took her when she was little but i noticed she couldn’t even put on the seatbelt in the aircraft) with me and everywhere i went she was with me.. she loves sitting near the window of the plane... my severely experienced natural redpilled friend I’ll call him mr W, warned me that I’m making a wrong decision exposing this girl to the lifestyle and giving her underserving level... but i ignored him... her game was so intricate that even me questioned myself, she refused gifts and didn’t even demand for money and did everything i said... I thought i hit jackpot, i’d even tell her to ride me till I release! early in the morning when she’s hungry and tired and she’ll ride me like a IndecentStar without questioning chit! I felt like a boss... took her to parties and let her roam the whole place and no one could dare approach her even a senator wouldn’t because she finna ignore (atleast niggas used to tell me)... but as months passed our relationship started growing cold, my little unicorn had now had so much rich contacts and connections through me she no longer found me interesting and was waiting for the right moment to branch swing to the freshest guy (higher SMV) ... i was smart and broke up with her first by going ghost on her azz... till this day she craves my attention and likes all my chit on instagram ... i bet she even wants the pipe the last time even though she’s obviously with someone else... because i worked on myself and hit the gym and continued to focus on my career, skills and job without letting a woman be my sole focus or priority in life.. I recently found out by her best friend she had a quarrel with that she was collecting the D from one lowlife guy all that time we were supposedly serious and even had an abortion and that she’s a serial lesbian (no wonder i was getting those crazy snake riding positions)... and during that time her friend was giving me mad green light but I ignored... but again if you want to know a quality girl, look at her friends.... but this is a story of how great girls are at concealing their true hypergamic nature... no matter what you say, what you do and how high you climb, she will leave you (branch swing) for a guy with a higher SMV. I was only lucky because i had my senses intact at that time and i was so cool it made it harder to branchswing.. I’m not saying if you reading this had a private jet and houses in banana island you won’t make her trip, she’ll definitely trip but she’ll think carefully.. be that nigga she thinks carefully for.

SHIT TEST: This is what we face everyday... from our parents to our siblings etc.. we are bombarded with shit tests... you remember the time you invited your babe to your house and she said the classic: I want to go home o... it’s getting late.. Real niggas always put her legs in the air and her pants down after that statement.. dumb niggas always never hit it after that statement... So I’ll teach you how to identify and counter shit tests... shit tests from nigerian girls are crazy and confusing to spot...

(I’ll add more as we progress)...

Swallowing the pill or being alpha isn’t a status symbol or something to brag about like holding your iPhone 11 so the apple logo shows to attract / intimidate an insecure poor girl standing next to you... if anything it’s irritating and repulsive... Being redpilled is a state of mind and a way of thinking that makes you a better /real man in general... some months ago a girl was resting on my chest after making out and was like do you know about this redpill stuff? I was like: wtf is that? She was like those internet warriors that hate women kinda like the male version of feminism? I laughed and told her I don’t know what that is.... and later that night we banged harder than I imagined... you see? She shit tested me right there and i passed because i know my purpose and that knowledge is power not the abuse of power or a status symbol or boasting about how you’ve banged 20,000 girls... Unlike niggas in this section that go around telling girls they’re alpha and redpilled while completely missing the entire point of redpill itself... if you’re one of such people get out of this thread immediately!

Do not quote or reply anyone that trolls or tries to scatter our message into tiny particles by discussing insignificant things on this thread.

Like, Share and follow this thread if you’ve read to this point so we can save that dumb nigga over there from getting cucked! Ask questions below and if you know your stuff very well contribute! Let’s kickstart this movement and stop the brainwashing! I’ll update thread if I receive positive feedbacks! Lemme eat lunch now brb. My fingers hurts typing all this.. don’t forget to join our Nairaland discord server below on my siggy (I’ll tweak the server for advanced functionality tomorrow)



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A girl told me, she does not like rugged looking guys, that she prefers crazy guys, what is she trying to imply.
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Romance / Re: Ladies Get Intimidated By My Looks. I'm in trouble! by Ballary(m): 11:46pm On Jul 12, 2020
Dicktion:

Thanks for the tip man cool

And I'm one of the first to take pills tho in case you wondering. Since way back 2013 wink
You said you just turned 19, and you said you took the pill like 2013, that means you were 13 year old taking pill.lol.

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