₦airaland Forum

iLegendd:
Wait a minute! Why are Nigerian men so deep into Internet fraud?

These boys/men even see their fellow men who aren't into G as Jews — people who don't know what'sup.

Also, why do these fraudsters only have 6 months jail term instead of 25 years in jail?

It seems the government is encouraging them to do it. These fraudsters are always proud to flaunt the game they play without fear of police catching them because they know they'll not spend more than 6 months in jail after settling.

What is wrong with Nigeria and its habitats?

Ariza:
The silly cliche passed from generation to generation to give men false sense of superiority..... Lol Dude if it will be anyone's world, definitely not owned by the gender condemned to slavery. Be exposed and see things through logic and not emotions (ego)

SweetCunt97:
Indeed. Na wetin una use oppress women for generations

SweetCunt97:
So can be say, Don't date a naija wey done gbensh an oyibo woman?

lavylilly:
So I went out on a date with this guy I met from Facebook, he made it clear to me he is looking for a mature and God fearing lady to settle down with. Everything seem like it was going so well, he looked mature and responsible, we were having a good conversation with laughter and all till he said to me "baby can you do me just 1 favour?" I was like "sure" and he went on to say..

"You actually looked bigger in your pictures, please can you add some more weight for me?"

I thought he was joking and told him that my plan is to lost and not add more weight. He went on rambling on how he love them big and bold. That was about the last time we saw.

I began to wonder how he could forfeit the nice time we had over extra flesh?

It brings me to this point, when it comes to looking for a partner a lot of people say they are looking for someone with good character, mature, god fearing and all the bull crap because they feel that is what is expected of them but in the real sense what they need is big ass, hips, big boobs and light skin.

I have been observing posts in this wonderful platform, I see big boobs, ass, light skin even with the dumbest captions having 1k plus like and comments with a lot of guys shamelessly shooting their shots while there are post of some very beautiful sisters with interesting profiles with much lesser likes and comments.

In as much as I respect people's choices I just hope we are not getting it wrong when it comes to the criteria for choosing life partners because the rate of divorce is becoming alarming nowadays.

Having said this, I would only appreciate friend request from mature singles (38 years and above). Please note: If you live at Bora Bora and have no plans of visiting Nigeria soon, please don't come and waste my time with online love. Thank you �

Dollywood:
You ain't cursed, Thanks your stars because fornication has destroyed many destinies i pray it won't be your portion.

healthserve:
Start here.

Ask the girls you don't mean to bother them but would appre iate if they can explain why you got turned down when you extended an invite.

Telll them you want to be a better you and the feedback would help you improve.

This is the starting point of how you can find out what's wrong.

In the meantime let the girls develop strong desires for you and not you for them before you take things deeper. Let the ladies have a strong buildup emotionally for your first lest your invite would akin to forcefing yourself on them

coolestofall:
My brother "What's luck gat to do with it". Just focus on her emotions. Once she develops strong feelings for you, you will be fine. Just hang in there.

coolestofall:
Based on your story it's obvious the attraction has not taken hold before invite. Like I said, once she is smitten, na she go waka come herself.

coolestofall:
Ballary, just follow this advice. We all know, even you know yourself the reason you are so eager to invite them over is to shift their pant. Why not calm down and build attraction first and I bet you they'll be the ones inviting themselves over.

WEIRDFOWL:
You aren’t playing your card well.

avalontony:
Blood of buhari
How can you buy that thing for 49k?

subtlemee:
You can say that again as I am proudly one

iLegendd:
When the laptops arrive, I'll unbox them and send them to the students to get started. Graphic design first.

Dear ladies and gentlemen, you better take action before depression takes you.

Enough said.

Akinolabadurs:
Am tall,lean muscles (skinny type),curly hair, and am fresh (i look like a black american)Its been bothering me for a while now. Even with the fact that am an extremely handsome guy and am quite intelligent, i mean i would speak well about any topic you bring up. But i have never had a girl friend....no matter any clique i walk with, chances are i will be the finest but even with that girls keep running from me even though i usually get compliment(on my looks) from some.
My friends would usually tell me that many girls are crushing on me, i dont usually sense that though. But when i finally get to talk to them they usually seem uninterested. One once told me i have a bad boy's look. Please, guys what could be the problem? P.S today's own almost broke me.am really sad.

Darkseid:
It seems the life worth of most Nigerian men is measured by how much women they get to fvck, seriously I give up on our youths. I can't even have sex with a girl I feel nothing for, I wonder how you guys do it neither will I spend #500 on any girl just because I want sex, I'd rather subscribe and watch YouTube with the money.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm a normal human, because I do opposite of what every other guy does. Six out ten female friends that I had in my uni days confessed that they were in love with me, but till date I have never said "I love you" to any girl, I don't even know what it feels like.

I don't think a girl can control me in this life or the next one. The only thing that attracts me to a girl is her behaviour, then looks. I personally hate make up on women, especially the ones that turn to ogres when the sun starts melting their makeup foundation.