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CelebritiesRe: Deborah Tushima Slumps And Dies While Dancing At Her Birthday Party(video+photos by Ballary(m): 10:19pm On Jul 05, 2020
Valerie11:
A young Nigerian makeup artist is said to have died on her birthday while she was dancing as she celebrated her special day.

Deborah Tushima had hours before her death, taken to her social media page to thank God for adding another year and more particularly, thanked Him for the gift of life.

However, in a rather tragic circumstance, Deborah is said to have slumped and died while she was dancing at her birthday celebration in Jos, the capital of Plateau state.

Her quite shocked friends have since taken to social media to mourn the late Deborah as they express their shock over her sudden and quite tragic death.

One of her friends, Andrew wrote on his page,

Deborah Tushima How do I control my tears ���������
How am I even gonna write this tribute ��huh?
How do I believe that you died same yestday you had yr birthday celebration �����
Slumped and died while dancing ����
Am heart broken �����, how I wish God could give another chance ������������
Rest well sweetheart ♥️♥️������


Photos + Video below

https:///news/deborah-tushima-allegedly-slumps-and-dies-while-dancing-at-her-birthday-party-in-jos-plateau-state/
Saw it on Twitter that she was poisoned by her friend,I pity who know fear woman.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Smart Phone Users Who Are Ready To Work Few Hrs Are Needed Urgently by Ballary(m): 12:50am On Jun 24, 2020
immaland:
Smart phone users who are ready to work few hour are needed urgently by a telecom VTU platform to work part time.
Payment is attractive and daily.
Interested people should drop their whatsapp number
or contact 08061628051 now limited number required
07031359297
PhonesRe: And I Finally Got My Xiaomi Mi A3 For 45k With Carton by Ballary(m): 1:17pm On Jun 18, 2020
Earlystar698:
Like play like play I got it. Others are going for the latest phone but I don't care, as far as I have upgraded from those shit called infinix itel and tecno grin grin grin the girl even said she prefer original phone like tecno and infinix than Xiaomi, I just laugh am grin grin grin
As from today I won't take calls from itel, tecno and infinix cheesy
What are the specifications of the phone,I think I need to buy this
AgricultureRe: Looking For A Suitable Agricultural Product To Invest In That Will Yeild Profit. by Ballary(op): 7:38pm On Jun 15, 2020
Gee64:
Cucumber.
Enlighten me a bit about it.
AgricultureLooking For A Suitable Agricultural Product To Invest In That Will Yeild Profit. by Ballary(op): 6:49pm On Jun 15, 2020
I have been planning on investing in agriculture for quite some time now, but don't really know what area of agriculture to invest in.

I seeked advice from a friend,he told me I should go into pineapple plantation, that it is a very good area of agriculture that yeild substantial amount of profit both short term and long term.

I know there are other areas of agriculture that can also yeild profit too, I'm asking my brothers in the house,who are into agriculture to advise me on the area of agric to invest in.your contribution is needed.thanks.
RomanceRe: Not Only Girl Get Raped Men Get Rape Also by Ballary(m): 12:58pm On Jun 03, 2020
emmy2fyn:
MEN GET RAPED TOO

RAPE VICTIM....... BY Laura Idika Ezine

I know you are mature that is why I am telling you this story. I sent you a request one last year but you haven't accepted, will I kill cow to be your fb friend? I am your follower and I see your post. I read your story and you are talking about women what of men? I will tell you my story but pls dont mock me because I am not proud of it, I need help maybe.
My name is Jibogun and I'm from ilesha in Osun state.
I v bin laughing seeing people screaming about female rape, what about men? Dont they know we are getting raped too?
My own is mother died when I was 10 years ,my dad remarried when I was 11, step mummy was wicked so my mum elder sister say I should come and stay with them.
That was the beginning of my wahala. One night i was sleeping in the bq then a hand was touching my dick, it was my uncle. I was very scared and he told me not to shout or he would beat me. He opened his trouser brought out his dick and told me to suck, I was shock but I obey my uncle. That was my first time of knowing what sucking dick is. The man is worse than a pig, he smell bad but everyday when my aunty go to shop, the fool would open smelling dirty dick for me to suck. From sucking dick he started penetrating my ass, the first day he penetrated me I cried before I sleep. The pain was much as a 11 years boy I couldn't sit well or shit well for days, whenever I want to poo my ass will be peppering me. I cried and regretted the death of my mother. The rape continue until one day when I was 16 I told me aunt, she beat me badly that I want to spoil her family name. When bloody Ade came back she told him and he beat me too till I was weak, he told my aunty that I wanted to blackmail him and he refused to give me money and that was why I lied against him. For a full day they starved me, I regretted opening up. Two weeks later Uncle Ade came in the dream and told me that he would deal with me for trying to expose him, that sebi he warned me. I woke up and didn't know myself, I ran mad. I believe Adekunle was an occultic man. My aunt took me to one white garment church and for one year they chained me by the church balcony, under the sun or rain, after sometimes my aunty stop coming to check me, my uncle never came one day but is like they do pay money to the white garment people to feed me.
My father later come and carried me and took me to one herbalist, after like 2 months I started getting myself small small.
Let me cut the story short I am sane now. But started using things to finger my ass till I release, along the line i started to miss my ass bleeped. As time went on I started relationship with men, I have feelings for men.
I am married to a beautiful woman, I have 2 lovely boys but my wife dont enter my eyes, before I sleep with her I will drink and high and off light and be imagining my boyfriend before my dick rise. I told her I dont like her to moan she dont know that is because if she moan my dick would come down, woman moaning turns me off, I enjoy only man own. Because she love me she respect me and hold her moan, to sleep with her is war, she would complain and beg before I do it. Sometimes Once In three months, the day i saw her finger herself i cry and almost comit suicide, I try to satisfy her that day but I cant even stand I was ashamed of myself and to be call a man. But she endure and consol me and start giving me native medicine, she thought it was infection problem but me myself know what Is wrong. I love her but don't feel urge with her, i feel it with only men. Currently I am cheating on her with a man. That woman doesn't deserve all I'm doing to her, she is so nice. But I cant help myself. I marry her because I dont want to be asked questions and to avoid shame.

I don't go to church anymore, I don't believe there is God. If there is God will he allow me go through all this? I was only 11 and know rape, at 16 I was chained like a dog. If God love me he would have left my mum, I would have been a normal human being ,I would hAve not been like this. Am ashamed of myself, I cant even tell anyone. I grew up knowing a man as a sex partner, is it my fault? Uncle Ade used me, he useless me, rape me and messed with my sexuality.
Last time I hear they say he died of motor accident, only motor accident. He didn't fall sick and rotten small small like I prayed, you see why I say no God. How can an evil man like that have accident and die on the spot, he need to suffer.
So my dear men too are raped, me am a victim, am a sad 34 year old because of rape. Full blow gay because of rape and my wife dont even know. I'm confused of my life

Pls share my story, I want people to see what men go through too in hands of rapist, but hide my identity.tnx
#Youneedtoknow
#Bethefirsttoknow
such a sympathetic story, you don't have to blame God,God knows why he allowed all this to happen, never question God.

you can change and be straight again, just be prayerful and go to a very strong man of God for cleansing, because your uncle have used you.only God that you are questioning will deliver you.
RomanceRe: [KingZaddy] Advanced Relationship and Dating Drills by Ballary(m): 7:58pm On May 28, 2020
@kingzaddy add me 07031359297
RomanceRe: Never Sacrifice For A Woman by Ballary(m): 3:47pm On May 25, 2020
bodybuilder:
Word to live by

Never sacrifice for a woman

Give to your woman out of extreme abundance
Don't go through any inconvenience for a woman
I repeat, don't do it. You'll regret it.

Cause at the end of the day, the sacrifices you made doesn't matter to her.

Your sacrifices are useless to a woman.

I don't wanna hear you bitch ass negroes come talking about how the girl you trained through school dumped your ass.

You're a fool.

In conclusion, give to a woman when you have excess.
sacrifices are meant for the strong, sacrifice and bear the risk of it.
AutosRe: Just #385,000 For Dis My Lovely Babyboy In Ph by Ballary(m): 11:09am On May 09, 2020
akwara1234:
Everything is OK. I Just fixed d AC leakage. Buy n drive. Car is mine. Call me on 08036624618
Were in ph do you stay
RomanceRe: I Love A Girl But She Didn't Love Me by Ballary(m): 9:39pm On May 08, 2020
emmy2fyn:
hello everybody, I meet a girl about a months ago and she still not in love with me and as we meet i have taken her out twice but she love meeting at fast food joint as I wanted to know her place she rejected and refuse to see me at my house then, as I called her tonight she was receiving a call over and over again, so as I ask who is calling she said she don't like such question ooo. what should I dohuhhuh?
Bro there are many fishes in the water, move on to the next one.

When we men realize that we are the prize, you will stop been a simp.
RomanceRe: Help Me! I Want To Quit! by Ballary(m): 4:27pm On May 08, 2020
Chronicwanker:
Thank you, I will search YouTube and I will also limit the amount of time I spend with my phone. I was even thinking of inviting one or two male friends to come and live with me for some days, maybe with their presence, I won't have time to masturbate that much. But I dont even trust myself I might go lock myself up in the bathroom. So that option self is just..
alright,I would like to hear good news from you on your journey to redemption.
RomanceRe: Help Me! I Want To Quit! by Ballary(m): 4:16pm On May 08, 2020
Chronicwanker:
Good day everyone

I created this account just so I could post this because my other account has so many personal details about me already and most of my friends log in nairaland often, so I wanted to remain anonymous.

Please pardon any grammatical error if you notice it. I'm not that good with writing.

Okay, let me be brief as possible(pardon me if it turns out to be a long read please)

I have an addiction. MASTURBATION.

This addiction has really affected me badly. I don't keep female friends company cause I always like keeping to myself. I am an introvert and I live alone(self-contain room). I have low self esteem, guilt after every beating of the meat(wanking), and I noticed my meat is now even slightly bent. I don't know if it's because of the excessive beating. cry

I have been masturbating non-stop since my jss2 days in school and that is over 10 years ago. I'm 26 now. The most I have gone without masturbating is 13days, only for me to masturbate at four separate intervals the very next day embarassed cry

My last gf who I truly loved_but because of this addiction, I lost her. She was a sex freak and since I always serve my akamu quickly(premature expulsion) she got tired and left. cry

I even go angry and delete all porrrn clips and pictures on my phone after every beating of the meat, only for me to use even my last money to subscribe or even borrow from mtn just so I could download and quench that urge if I don't have data available.

I remember one time my phone was on 1% and I was in the middle of the wanking process and my phone shut down, I had to put on clothes and go charge it at a bet shop till at least 4% so I can put the phone on, go back and and finish the wanking cry

It's as if I masturbate for a living. cry I had a gambling addiction and I overcame it, but this one is just something else even with prayers, and I've tried all manners of self restraint I can think of. When my phone is dead, sometimes I just picture profane things and get down to the business at hand huh

Depression is creeping on me

I have tried almost everything within my power to quit but I always find myself going back to it no matter my resolve.

Please advice me, what do I do now? I want to stop but it's seems impossible. You can bash me if you want. I just need help to my situation.
First and foremost, masturbation is an addict that is very hard to quit entirely, but it can minimized.

Go to your phone browser settings and filter all explicit pictures, and whenever the urge comes, try drinking water,or a little exercise,it works most Times.

Be occupied with yourself,find something you have passion for and occupy yourself this covid 19 period, this will also help, when is getting late at night, try and do away with your phone, because that is the most testing times for increase urge.

Finally, go to YouTube and search for Joseph okechukuwu, listen to his speech against masturbation, and I bet you, you won't go back to it again.
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls More Sexually Exploitative? by Ballary(m): 9:07pm On May 06, 2020
optimisticage:
. I totally agree with u. Devoid of money and material stuff. Just pure love or should I say infatuation
infatuation and willingness to explore.
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls More Sexually Exploitative? by Ballary(m): 5:01pm On May 06, 2020
optimisticage:
While growing up, and accounts from other guys, even girls, teenage girls tend to more adventurous than males of same age bracket. They tend to initiate kiss, romance and sometimes sex. Is it that the sex hormones at that age is higher in girls than in boys of teenage age?
teenage girls like to exploit,if the like you, there is 80% chance that the will sleep with you.

it is at this age, money doesn't really matter much to them, the just want to explore and sleep with the handsome guys.
RomanceRe: This Is What Is Now Happening..avoid Girls Btw 18-37 That Do This[pix] by Ballary(m): 10:56pm On Apr 29, 2020
Ancientbeing:
Another point while we are @ it, avoid ladies that expose body curves fancifully. Go for those who expose their little curves unfancifully. Those wey zabi,Understands my langue.
Avoid ladies in the pics below;
What happens if someone have a one night stand
RomanceRe: Showing A Little Love To All My Friends. by Ballary(m): 5:05pm On Apr 29, 2020
SLAP44:
This thread is not for anyone to brag, or to show that they have money. We understand how things are and we should give a little comfort to all our people no matter how small. I could have given more but there is still time.

I want to correct some impressions, we might misunderstand each other here, we might fight and throw bad words at each other but down below, we must know that it's our leaders who set us against each other. Sometimes, we troll and bully each other just for the fun of it.

I don't know how much in total I can give out here in the former of recharge cards of N500, N200 and others but I will keep sending till I am tired. I cannot give money for now because of the need to remain anonymous here. If I send to people's account, my account name may show. If I send the cards as text, the text message might come with my phone details which I will not like. I just want to remain anonymous.

I love you all.

This was where it started. https://www.nairaland.com/5824146/nigerians-sense-happened-bank-yesterday
07031359297 thanks in advance.
RomanceRe: I Am In Love With A Woman With 3 Kids by Ballary(m): 10:29pm On Apr 24, 2020
BonPatrick:
Guys can you date a woman with 3 kids and still in her husband's house but the marriage is about to be dissolved because her husband is not touching her for over a year and doesn't give her food or talk to her.

She met you on Facebook and loves you so much and wants you to sleep with her when both of you see. She even sends her naked video to you to show you how much she loves you. Will you sleep with her when you meet as she is about to divorce her husband?
Do you really wish to do this, do you also want to inherit the liabilities the that comes with catering for the kids.

Ask yourself this questions and decide on what next to do, sending nude videos to you doesn't really count, she might just want to get a good dick from you, women are always confused creatures, look before you leap.
RomanceRe: [KingZaddy] Advanced Relationship and Dating Drills by Ballary(m): 6:34pm On Apr 24, 2020
KingZaddy:
Ballary


the moment a girl starts telling you guys are chasing her but she chose you, she is tryin to dominate.


for her to enjoy your money she has to be worth it, she has to prove herself


when she tells you "you are stingy" reply her "unapologitically i am girl, when the situation demands me to, you haven't impressed me of recent to want to wire your azza".


she has to earn it
Nice advice,I still believe she is trying to manipulate me lol.

But the best way for her to manipulate me is by been loyal to me.
RomanceRe: [KingZaddy] Advanced Relationship and Dating Drills by Ballary(m): 2:41pm On Apr 24, 2020
KingZaddy:
Ballary


You Said The Boys In The Hood Got Eyes For her, thats The Thing About Attention, too Much Of It Will Make Them Start Misbehaving. When Everyone Wants A Woman And They Keep Showing It, you Just Have To Pull Back from That Woman and Let Her See That You Dont Have Time


Demanding For Money and She Is Not Your Girlfriend?

I Would Like To Ask, what Exactly Do You Want With This Girl? Are You Both In A Relationship?
I wanted to make her my gf, but when she started demanding too soon, and also saying I'm stingy and all.

I decided not to make her my gf again, what she does these days is to keep flashing me, and I barely call her,I only call her on my terms, when I feel to call.

Whenever we talk on phone, she will be telling me that many guys are after her, but that she decided to choose me,I know it is a manipulative tendencies.

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