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Onebottle:
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OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.


I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel



It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG


The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

Shugavee:
Good day ,, this is just to put it out there that I am not available for married men ,, why exactly will a married man be sending me PMs ? What is ur usefulness to me !!! I hardly reply PMs when I do I want to be interacting with a single man , if u are planning to lie about ur status , God will punish you terribly , don’t allow me curse ur female children, respect urself . I don’t even want to be ur friend please

joe4christ:
I just hope no be virtual you go use the money play. Cos if that's the case, me no go pity you at all!

Casalindal:
I don’t see any logical thing on what you saying... what is wrong having a male bestie?? The fact my fiancé he doesn’t want him because he is gay, is the more reason I want him to be my maid of honor

Quality20:
Hey nairalanders, I hail u guys , We all know that sex is now all too cheap n many girls are all too highly sexualized with many partners. The question is ,what's the effect of these excessive sexualization on a girl's life?

Vicboy1:
Very sure even my cousin do peep me when bathing
And someone is out here saying girls can didain man naked body, na lie jhoor

Vicboy1:
Daddymummy girls do admire guys naked bodies , forget all those pretence,
If you doubt what I said just bring a girl closer to your bathroom when you are bathing with the door closed , she will look for any tiny opening in the door and start peeping your naked body( dick)... I myself have experienced it

Leezah:
One has to go.

1. Twitter
2. WhatsApp
3. Facebook
4. Instagram

Which are you deleting??

iLegendd:
Is What She Did Right? Should I Send Her Away? [Picture]

So, yesterday, my female friend cooked indomie, but couldn't finish it. I hate indomie, else I would've joined her. Today, she warmed it and I told her to package it let's forward it to my non-fan on Nairaland, but she refused, burnt it, and gave it to my fowl.

To me, what she did is bad. My haters are depressed with no food, but here she is wasting it on a fowl — this is wickedness. I have told her to get ready to leave. This is Covid-19 — a time people are supposed to preserve food, but she's wasting it.

I hate when people are being wicked to my haters. God said we should love our enemies, so I'm angry she doesn't love them.

Should I really send her packing for this crime?

TOPCRUISE:
It's a 50-50. Others that concur with op unfortunately get heavily indebted and they borrow with deception to finance their family with no intent to repay. Majority of Nigerians fall into this category. I am 37, graduated 13 years ago looking for a job but found nothing. Started a business but business is failing. I am broke and with a bsc degree I am doing ACCA to reactivate my career. Every opportunity to make money and settle down and move out of this country is my focus. God forbid I impregnate a hustling lady. I am finished

Casalindal:
Hello guys, hope you all are safe? Please let take safety precautions... so I had this conversation with my male bestie today. He is gay and I don’t have any issues with his sexuality because aside him been gay he got a good heart, well he told me that most men who were at secondary school (boarding) were fucking themselves and even tho the all claim straight and most are married now. But 90% men who attended secondary (boardinghouse) had Bleep a guy at some point at school. Be it playing or body touching

Ugaboy:
I'm student of University of Uyo 300level, I packed into the compound 2019.
I live a very generous life, which neighbors believes that I'm the most caring and selfless guy they have ever met, friends come at any time to eat and go without I having issue with it.

Well, I dont have a girlfrien and I don't allow girls visitors to sleep over in my house, I have so many girls I lecture on some courses, so I never want any of them to steal my night of learning

Secondly, I'm so built and physical fit, I possess this romantic attribute that female student in the compound they usually commend me for.
So not knowing there is some one, not even a single girl but someone wife to be has been noticing and admiring

She is so gorgeous and strategically beautiful that even when I got in, I admired her first but I put my mind off cus she is into someone else
She a mother of one...living with the boyfriend
She called a me a day and told me how her boo has been treating her.
She got pregnant for him without plans
So she had to stay with him cus the parents force them together
She told me, that she still into her ex boyfriend and she missed him so much that she might end up running back to him
I actually advise not to do cus of her child
She claim the guy has no plans of marrying her
And he has been cheating on him several times
When she raise the issue, he will threaten to hit her

To fast forward the story line

Now, in the cousec of trying to advise her and keep her company
Now she is in love with me
She has wanted us to go into hot romance but I still can't cus I don't want issues

But now I'm falling for her too...cus she has shown me attention I've long received from a woman

Not that I don't have girls who want to be with me

But I don't know how I fell for her also


Help!!!...I'm confused

cunny88:
u ve said the solemn truth, it was easy for our parents back then. Today ur kid's must attend private schools, u can't live in face me I face u, ur DStv must be subscribed and so on and on

SweetCunt97:
I remember sending such to guy, only for him to complain that how could I have sent only 100naira, say I no value am. Ungrateful soul he was.

kunkelhanspeter:
Almost the same here imagine the girl I am dating now thinking of settling down wi her I asked her of glo 100 she can’t afford it I just weak

PrimadonnaO:
When you find a girl who really loves you and believes in you, you'll be really fine.
I had my first boyfriend when I was in Uni. I loved him so much that I was ready to get married to him ASAP. I knew what the future held for him... and for me. We'd have been okay. Bur uncle wanted to make all the money first. We broke up at some point.

Years later, he's trying to get serious and wants us back. But I've moved on.

P.S The people y'all are dating who want to wreck you financially don't love you. If all they do is ask ask ask, even when it's obvious that you can't conveniently afford what they're asking for, then just know it's not a love relationship. They have no other reason being with you. So if they must stay, the cash
must roll.
Well said from you, but it's really difficult in this present time to find such,cos the are hard to find.

iLegendd:
It's sad and the leaders don't see anything bad about it. Even kidnapping, they don't see anything bad about it.

It's sad.