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Unhealthy:- handshake going beyond the elbow ,a peck involving tongue locking, a glance that sees eyeball to eyeball. Hmmm,thanks to the great NLanders. Counseling at its best! Gues many NLanders would be great parents, luvers,leaders or maybe just great analyst .

At what point should one stop thanking a helper? I do too much thanking and its even embarasing to me. Well,lately a sister took care of me in the hospital when i had a car accident in a town i traveled to. My wife was far away. I only met this sister at my workplace. She overheard coleagues talking about the accident and she came to the hospital & took care of me throug my stay. Now i cant stop thanking her or seeing her. Our relationship is becoming unhealthy. Please help!

Well,sometimes y'all never will undastand what some hearts are passing through. My guy needs prayers,cos i showed him all these advices and all he said was ''thanks but you guys wont understand''.

Telling my friend to live with reality and face his family sounds like the best advice so far. It is not easy though but luv is always funny. I think he can learn to luv his wife and find real peace. Titi will always be his friend , thank God for the safe distance!

And please believe me,this story is real. Your advices could help not airing this on newsline or sunnews/saharareporter. . . Abi news of the world.

Hmmm,öne thing about luv is dat it can be very inconsiderate yet stil true. My friend only tot he was geting old dat was why he got married to someone else. As for accepting her despite her affair, he tot it could hav gone either ways i.e. What if he had a child wit anoda girl, would she be justified leaving him then? Wel,i suport that even though african men think otherwise. I hope she gets married soon,maybe that wil help my guy. Luv sweet o!

A friends romantic tale. He is recently married but his heart is with his ex. He met and dated his ex,Titi (not real name) since 2006 when she came for Nysc in the town he worked then. It was blissful. They lived together and he gave her his all. Suddenly service year was over, she left and afta some months gave him a bad news: she was pregnant but not him even though the guy denied it. He swallowd the pain and chose to continue wit her even ready to adopt her daugter. But another issue was distance. She is the south and he in sokoto. They talk always on phone and he visits her sometimes. He hoped to marry her. Over time, she called off the relationship, he begged to no avail. 2 yrs later, he decided 2 get over Titi and find a wife. He got one ,did engagement, paid dowry. Met Titi 2 tel her he is geting married, then she begged him wit tears 2 marry her. She suprised him but it was too late. He got married but has not been able to keep his mind off Titi. Titi sudenly cant hide her luv from him. Thank God 4 distance,thngs could hav been messed up in his mariage. He talks wit titi always and says he cant stop luving her. What should he do to save his mariage? Hop he wont quit his mariage for titi cos he realy luvs her. Pls some kind advices.the pain and chose to continue wit her even ready to adopt her daugter. But another issue was distance. She is the south and he in sokoto. They talk always on phone and he visits her sometimes. He hoped to marry her. Over time, she called off the relationship, he begged to no avail. 2 yrs later, he decided 2 get over Titi and find a wife. He got one ,did engagement, paid dowry. Met Titi 2 tel her he is geting married, then she begged him wit tears 2 marry her. She suprised him but it was too late. He got married but has not been able to keep his mind off Titi. Titi sudenly cant hide her luv from him. Thank God 4 distance,thngs could hav been messed up in his mariage. He talks wit titi always and says he cant stop luving her. What should he do to save his mariage? Hop he wont quit his mariage for titi cos he realy luvs her. Pls some kind advices.

You obviously like him beyond mere friendship and he is fully aware of that. He is trying to give you what he percieves you want from him. He is taking some advantage here. Why dont you just free him. He must be commited to his babe. Its good to hav friends but both parties need to see from same glass. Luv is not selfish.

Some folks in the north had a fearfilled xmas. Jos and maiduguri. Churches in maiduguri now look like military baracks. Why do xtians have to suffer or be used whenever political mesages wil be passed? It is said that boko haram's after govt,why churches?

IT'S FUNNY HOW WE JUST BELIEVE EVERYTHING WE HEAR AND READ.

ALL NA DRAMA. POLITICIANS ARE WONDERFUL PSYCHOLOGIST AND NIGERIAN MASSES ARE GOOD GUINEA PIGS TO TEST EVERYTHING.

ALL THESE MEN KNOW WHERE THEY MEET AND THEY MAKE US BELIEVE WHAT THEY WANT US TO BELIEVE.

LETS STOP WORRYING OUR HEADS AND CONCENTRATE ON IMPORTANT THINGS, MAYBE WE CAN CHANGE THINGS FOR THE BETTER SOON.

THESE MEN ARE PLAYING A GREAT PUPPET SHOW.

THEY SAID ATIKU AND OBJ WERE QUARELLING BUT SOON AFTER THEIR REGIME,WE SAW ATIKU IN OBJ'S HOUSE, THEY ALL KNOW WHERE THEY SETTLE SCORES.

he who has no sin should cast the first stone,
trust nigerians,when this regime passes over we shall hear more tales and the angels of today will become the next devils.
Our politicians are jus too crazy and our mentality is at their mercy.
Men in the corridors of power,

No matter how right SLS can be today, we'l hear the other side very soon.

Lets pray for our dear nation.

Atiku: I’m Ready to Settle My Debt
•Marwa, Anenih, Albishir deny owing banks
By Emele Onu in Lagos and Chuks Okocha, Sufuyan Ojeifo, Kunle Aderinokun and Yemi Akinsuyi in Abuja, 10.16.2009

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Former Vice-President Atiku Abu-bakar yesterday expl-ained his involvement in a non-performing loan granted him by Spring Bank Plc and promised to settle the debt “soon”.
Atiku was speaking against the backdrop of yesterday’s publication by the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) which listed a facility of N111,150,439 against his name.
In a statement issued by his media office in Abuja, the former Vice-President said that the account in question was an “old, dormant account” to which no attention had been drawn by his staff. “I have since resumed talks with the bank on the issue and the matter will be resolved. We will pay the outstanding sum as soon as it is agreed upon,” he said in the statement. (thisdayonline.com)

CAN SOMEONE HELP ME HEAR A COMMENT BY CHIEF ATIKU THE LAST DON: N111MM IS CHICKEN CHANGE AND HE NEEDS SOME REMINDER TO KNOW HE IS OWING, BIGBOY.

SEE WHAT THEY'RE DOING TO US

whichever way we see it,he is either acting a script or taking some pound of flesh, whatever,something right is being done wrongly.

or better put,something is not really right .
but we hope it translate to good for Nigerian cos we just know how to change situations naturally. Nigerians will always survive.

time will prove all things,
lets just pray it doesnt get out of hand b4 we get a solution to all this madness.

I.M.F will support everthing and anything of interest to them and trust our people to luv the psychophancy feeling,

God save Nigeria.

RIBADU, WAZIRI, the difference is clear,

Nigeria has alot of work  to do in eliminating the "MAFIAS".
Only a few men like Ribadu have shown courage in this regard and i really dont expect the state to protect him or his likes because the state is practicallty run by "POWERS IN HIGH PLACES", (hilltop, )

i join fellow patriots in praying for Ribadu and other real men who have refused to be broken in the face of the evil storm.

Waziri,, i thought women fight better and are incorruptible. why wait for Mr Sanusis to prompt you to action. Obviously she's got no game plan and was just waiting for cheap glory.

It is well.