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FashionRe: Vivian Ugochi Zeibe Emerges Most Beautiful Girl In Imo State Universe 2020/21 by BarrElChapo(m): 9:44am On Aug 29, 2020
Hopefully she'll make future Big Brother Naija editions as her next step in her career undecided
FamilyRe: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by BarrElChapo(m): 11:12am On Aug 25, 2020
Tribalism123:
Oga drink the milk. Na ur money and u need am. Women are too possessive. Las Las the small pikin go buy rapper for the mother, but come buy Seaman Oromatic schnapps for u. Life no balance at all.
I have friends who can't stand their mothers but love their fathers to death. She doesn't know what she's losing not breastfeeding that child
FamilyRe: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by BarrElChapo(m): 11:10am On Aug 25, 2020
Offpoint:
If I should do a background check on you now, I'll find out you're as single as f£ck.
What has your comment got to do with the her post ? Off the point as usuals
FamilyRe: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by BarrElChapo(m): 11:08am On Aug 25, 2020
Well you have to use an iron hand on this issue. Not beating o but actually make sure that during the weekends when you're at home that you feed the child with right meals as directed by the doctor.

On the other hand do not stop involving any other person parents, relatives etc. Goodluck
BusinessRe: UK Court Jails Abdulrahman Bashir, CEO Of Rahamaniyya Oil For Contempt by BarrElChapo(m): 8:45pm On Aug 20, 2020
Was he sentenced in person or in absentia ? I perceive the latter here though
PoliticsRe: Kyari, Funtua & Now Maida… Buhari’s Inner Circle Hit By The Grim Reaper - Cable by BarrElChapo(m): 8:42pm On Aug 20, 2020
Really
RomanceRe: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by BarrElChapo(m): 10:22pm On Aug 18, 2020
totalhouse:
You are not nice at all...lol
Lolz but the truth sometimes needs to said bluntly.
RomanceRe: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by BarrElChapo(m): 10:12pm On Aug 18, 2020
Get the number of her husband and tell him all the crap she's been telling your fiancee and then quit the relationship. They're not over themselves. The day they'll meet in person they must commit adultery. Good luck
CrimeRe: Man Who Killed A Farmer In Ekiti Sentenced To Death By Hanging by BarrElChapo(m): 1:28pm On Aug 18, 2020
Kudos to Ekiti state judiciary for fast tracked adjudication of justice in this case.
CelebritiesRe: 13 Popular Celebrities Who Have Snakes As Pets. by BarrElChapo(m): 9:27pm On Aug 17, 2020
angry
PoliticsRe: Ngige: Monarch Armed With Pistol Intervened When I Was Kidnapped As A Governor by BarrElChapo(m): 4:13pm On Aug 17, 2020
Proudly Anambra !

Proudly Alor !

We're fearless and don't stand for evil smiley
CrimeRe: Tolulope Arotile: Police Arraign Brothers Over Death Of Flying Officer (photo) by BarrElChapo(m): 4:37pm On Aug 13, 2020
After devil don do overtime :'
PoliticsRe: Obiano Suspends 12 Traditional Rulers In Anambra Who Travelled To Abuja by BarrElChapo(m): 10:33am On Aug 13, 2020
akpunda86:
His Royal Majesty Igwe RC Eze.
The traditional ruler of Ukpo Community and brother to prince Author Eze!!

He was never seen on video counting money !!

He was not part of the group that went to Abuja Illegally and against the traditional council rules

He was not Suspended !!���

The 12 Igwes never asked questions, why is he not in their midst if not for
anything ,he ought to be among the group that went to Abuja!!

Today he remained a certified king

And others suspended for following his brother sheepishly!!

He is a wise King that understands the rules.

Dear brethren, its not about gragra!!!!
Its all about wisdom.
My own dumb Igwe foolishly joined the crew. Our Igwes' in the East don't know how to package themselves. Look at the way the other tribes revere their rulers. Smh
PoliticsRe: Obiano Suspends 12 Traditional Rulers In Anambra Who Travelled To Abuja by BarrElChapo(m): 10:29am On Aug 13, 2020
Not surprised to see my unaccepted Igwe, in the list. Thank God my hometown has no Igwe for now. smiley
CareerRe: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by BarrElChapo(m): 10:27pm On Aug 10, 2020
rasheedatt:
I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.

I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.

I told him to give me a week to think about it.

What should I do?
Date or commit adultery ?

Well you won't be damned from losing that job besides what if you still give in and he sacks you later. May God give you the grace to do the right thing.
RomanceRe: Is Too Late Now To Say Sorry? by BarrElChapo(m): 1:42am On Aug 10, 2020
What if your guts was right too ?

Has he mad any moves to reconcile with you since both of you are in the same city ?

Granted you made your decision in a haste but still there maybe more to it than it meets the eye.

One other thing for a person who is or may be cheating, long distance would suit better but maybe his true intentions are being exposed now that it seems you're gonna be around full time.

Don't sell yourself cheap though. Good luck
RomanceRe: What Happened The Last Time You Shoot Your Shot?? � by BarrElChapo(m): 1:26am On Aug 10, 2020
She died tongue
RomanceRe: He Brought A Stranger Home From A Bar To Pass The Night, Now This Is Happening by BarrElChapo(m): 1:25am On Aug 10, 2020
Random lady = your bed. Men we continue to surprise the devil every day lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Marrying Her Now Questionable by BarrElChapo(m): 1:21am On Aug 10, 2020
Me: There is fire on the Mountain

OP: Run Run Run Run cheesy
RomanceRe: House Help Took The Hearts Of Husband And Children Of Her Madam And Left by BarrElChapo(m): 1:11am On Aug 10, 2020
Will this make FP ? undecided
EducationRe: What Is The Most Embarrassing Day Of Your Life In School? by BarrElChapo(m): 11:09am On Jul 22, 2020
Every week this stuff makes FP. Aren't you guys tired undecided
RomanceRe: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by BarrElChapo(m): 12:03pm On Jul 21, 2020
Boss kindly run..

If you will pls also introduce me to this business of yours it is clearly lucrative.
HealthRe: Woman Dies 24 Hours After Her Wedding In Delta State (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 9:03am On Jul 21, 2020
She died a Mrs at least. Rest in Peace
FamilyRe: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by BarrElChapo(m): 11:06am On Jul 19, 2020
Wizvicky:
hiding her biological mom from her from when she was born is illegal already. her mom is supposed to be a part of her life. Nigerian laws and interpretation don derail our brains we don't even know what is legal or illegal anymore
smiley well the law cannot help here. It would have been a different scenario if there's another woman claiming to be her mother so they're trying to find the truth.
What if she sues him and he and he refuses to show up or she claims she was kidnapped as a child they run a DNA test and he is her father but he claims amnesia to who her mother is ?
Las las she will have to find the truth out through the back door
Christianity EtcRe: 8 Reasons Sex Should Wait Till After Marriage by BarrElChapo(m): 10:56am On Jul 19, 2020
motionarena:
All my company Staff are currently working from a hotel due to the pandemic.

My friend and colleague is currently sleeping with another female colleague who got recently married on a daily basis.

How do I report this.
I pity her poor husband.
This is the height of betrayal. I would want to do the same thing too but I don't know if you should.. I think you should secretly get the lady's number. Send her an anonymous message that you know what she's doing and that if she doesn't stop you'd tell her husband. The shock should make her have a rethink if she even ever loved or respected her husband before they got married.
FamilyRe: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by BarrElChapo(m): 10:49am On Jul 19, 2020
What would you be praying the court to do for you if you sued him ? Has he done anything wrong in the eyes of the law ?

As much as I share in your pains you still need to have a clear head in finding out the truth.
You may want to go back to the relative that told you in the first place and put pressure on him.

Another option is go back to the village if your father is popular or not people will generally know him and his past that maybe why he was so protective of you guys and the information you got.

As an example someone could pose like he wanted to marry you but is on a fact finding mission. May not ask someone from your kindred so as not to make anyone call your dad but may see someone who knows your family's story extensively to give you a headway.

But you would need two things Patience & Perseverance. In all if you're religious stay close to God too. Good luck
CrimeRe: Illegal Police Extortion And Harassment : A Nairalander's Experience by BarrElChapo(m): 10:19am On Jul 19, 2020
OP go to Twitter and tag @segalink with all these your evidence.. you'll surely get justice..
FamilyRe: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by BarrElChapo(m): 4:10pm On Jul 18, 2020
You are wise. I doff my hat Madame

veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.
FamilyRe: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by BarrElChapo(m): 1:58pm On Jul 18, 2020
pappilo:
Never! It is never okay if one of the 'friends' is in any sort of relationship.

My ex-wife started off as friends with a colleague. But once she started hiding to take calls from him, it was obvious this was more than friendship.

Like a bad Nollywood movie, I ended up out of my own home, sleeping in a freaking cold garage that had been converted to a single room while her friend ended up in my warm bed and became the de facto dad to my kids.

Fear women o!
So sorry about your experience.. Marital infidelity is one of the worst forms of betrayal.. I hope you're in a better place now.. Take care
PoliticsRe: Arthur Eze, Elumelu, Obi, Ikwechegh Make List Of Top Influential Igbo People by BarrElChapo(m): 12:54pm On Jul 17, 2020
No Emmanuel Bishop Okonkwo. Nonsense list angry
Science/TechnologyRe: Fish With Human-Like Teeth Caught In Malaysia (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 9:52pm On Jul 16, 2020
Med oo

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