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madridsta007:
Yes, Canada is not just taking our young people, they are taking the fattest of our crops, the best, the brightest, and the brainiest!

Not just Canada, but the US, Germany, Ireland, the UK, Australia, etc.
The colonialists think ahead of the black man, their subjects. When Obama, Clinton and the UK were helping to topple GEJ in a bloodless regime change in the connivial of Nigerians from the North and South West, you think they hadn't seen this brain drain coming? Germany and Ireland, I am told from very reliable sources, were complaining that the IT industry, which had many Nigerians, had seen Nigerians relocate back to Nigeria leaving their families in Germany and Ireland because of the economic policies of the previous government. The NHS was loosing Drs from Nigeria.

Don't blame the colonialists. This is a capitalist dog-eat-dog system. Blame the Nigerians that helped topple the last government and brought in an inept and clueless and lifeless regime.

SaintNemesis:
You call it stealing? Then, I am hoping and praying to be stolen too by Canada. The sooner, the happier....I will be

Omooba77:
Yes, Canada is not just taking our young people, they are taking the fattest of our crops, the best, the brightest, and the brainiest!

One of them is my friend, Olufemi, (not real name). He graduated top of his class and best in the entire university! Nine years after graduation, he got married to his equally cerebral lawyer wife, and they both had fairly paying jobs that admitted them into the struggling middle class in Nigeria. A year after marriage, Olufemi, disillusioned by the state of his family’s finances, the situation in the country and the underutilisation of his skills, and intellect at his place of work, sold all his assets and relocated his young family to Canada!



https://punchng.com/canada-is-stealing-our-young-people/amp

mrsfavour:
I agree with you. My sister is currently sending her son down to me in Nigeria today to be moved to boarding school by next month to shape up her sences. It's a good idea.

djon78:
Sending him to naija may help. It happened to my aunt, my mums younger sister's son.
When my sister went to deliver in the US, the boys behavior was horrible. My sister told my aunt that if he doesn't send his son over to naija, that the boy will be lost. Then he was around 10years.

The parents agreed to that. He was brought back to do secondary school here. Our family put him in a very good boarding secondary in Enugu. Haha the boy was disciplined naija style. They used to call him Americana because of his accent in school. He did js1 to js 3. Then went back to US.
He is around 17 now, very well behaved.

ogododo:
The Presidency has described as untrue the Financial Times report suggesting that Nigeria has placed restrictions on importation of agricultural products into the country.

News Agency of Nigeria reports that the article, with the headline, ‘Muhammadu Buhari sparks dismay over policy on food imports,’ was published on August 15, alleging that the Buhari administration had placed embargo or restrictions on food imports.



“We look forward to the next installment of M. Munshi’s bizarre and puzzling article series.” he said.

(NAN)
https://punchng.com/theres-no-ban-on-food-importation-fg-replies-financial-times/amp

frozen70:
There is nothing diabolical there, drastic moments deserve drastic decisions

zeb04:
so right now you are cheating on her too.

She is cheating, you are also cheating so what else do you want?

If she stops cheating, it is very unlikely that you would too so?

hurthubby:
My story is too long but let me try to summarize everything.

(I have been a member of Nairaland since 2009, but i just created this account to hide my identity)



I know this is long, but its just a summary. Forgive any typo.

seunmohmoh:
You guys are not officially married so why can't you just walk away before you fall too deep to leave?

zeb04:
You are still 26, in the prime of your life. Wait until you are 40 with 3 more mouths to feed.

One day you wake up and realize you have given the best years of your life to an arrogant,unrepentant cheat.

You better leave. You are not even dead yet and someone else is already by the door.

But you can stay, have low self esteem and kill yourself with hypertension. Your reward is in heaven.

akinade28:
Life is full of ups and downs
Please get yourself together for the sake of your baby and your family. Because if you fall sick or die, he will still go about sleeping around, making your child motherless and throwing your parents and loved ones into mourning. Don't let your parents investment into your life come to a waste because of a man.
You can force a guy to be loyal or faithful to you, you can only try your best to be a good wife.
Please leave the marriage, if you can no longer endure it or it is affecting you psychologically.
Your child deserve the best of you.
Don't stay alone, you will just get depressed. Surround yourself with people you can trust and can make you laugh
Please focus on your goals and how to make your life and that of child better
I know it's not going to be easy, but I pray God strengthens you, and you will look back and smile at the end

Ugosample:
the comments we read sometimes makes me wonder what kind of human beibgs we have
the glorious days of NL is gone
this forum went downhill from 2014

wirinet:
I usually don't give relationship advice, because you freely entered into the relationship with your eyes wide open. Besides people don't tend to take advices on relationship as emotion tend to reign supreme over reason. But I will try and give you be best advice I can.



...my 2 kobo.

frozen70:
You are right, his type of men are the type they put inside bottle, close it very tight and throw inside oceans like bar beach where it would sink down and that is it, forever no one will ever trace it.

The only thing he will always remember is her and the kids nothing else, any penny with him must be remitted to his wife till death

Just that for the sake of God, we ristrain ourselves

dovenice:
I can feel your pain.

Try and find something to do get you busy. By doing you quickly get over it.

Pray and pray and pray for God to change his decision about the other woman.

Nothing is too hard for God to do.

miss00000:
We met in school during my pre-degree and dated for 7 years before he proposed to me. Before the proposal, both our parents had been pestering us to get married and start having children.

We started trying 6months prior, and 6 months after proposing I got pregnant. Few months later we did our introduction and got married (registry) march this year.

About two years ago, he met a lady where he was supplying his goods. According to him, the lady has been doing everything in her power to push his business. Every time I suspect there was more to their friendship, he always assured me there was nothing, that she's just a friend. sometimes he would even travel with her to Abuja to sell his goods which I had to allow since it was helping his business.

8 months into my pregnancy I noticed a drastic change like coming home very late, he hardly eats at home, he barely talks to memos he's always on his phone. I knew something was wrong and every time I talk to him, he always assured me that everything was fine.

After the delivery and naming of my baby I expected things to go back to the way it was, but it became worse. he changes his phone password almost everyday and still hides his phones from me.


why he got married to me if he already had this in mind. I hate my life right now.

References:
The National Youth Service Corps has said that only 4,644,808 Nigerians have participated in the scheme since inception in 1973.

The NYSC Director-General, Brig-Gen Shuaibu Ibrahim, stated this on Thursday at an ongoing press conference in Abuja, noting that the scheme had been able to achieve national unity and integration.

The DG added that 1,132,409 corps members had also been equipped with Skills Acquisition and Entrepreneurship Development package of the scheme.

Details later...


https://punchng.com/breaking-4-6m-nigerians-have-participated-in-nysc-says-dg/amp/

Omotayor123:
For real This man is a crook

I smell War ooo.. Government should do something fast about him, The court has been trying him for years now with no final judgment and that's why his followers are still protesting and keeping their hopes high.

Let the court give final judgment on his case & trials, let him and his followers knows his fate. everyone will rest that way.

Xisnin:
Empty barrel, how does your comment relate to the topic?
You just ranted for nothing.
SMH

safarigirl:
After increasing poverty rate, the next thing is to make sure half the country starves to death.

Buhari is doing so much to reduce the world population, he should be commended

Origin:
i dont believe 800 buses are in use as some of the existing buses are not been maintained.


besides its not what you have but how you use it: there are so many 'direct buses' which often have carrying capacity but would not stop to pick passengers along their routes.

DameB:
True, when food the most basic human need of man is available then productivity and innovation will flow...
we are a long way from solving hunger in Nigeria (not even hidden hunger yet). Not with the level of nepotism, greed and corruption in the country.. you can imagine local governments buying inferior farm machineries or embezzling the money... Where are the roads or railways connecting farming communities to industrial areas...
Even in dispensing soft loans and grants for agro-allied businesses there's still magomago..
After harvest how many other new foods do we process and export? When you go to all local markets you see fruits and vegetables rot and thrown away daily

DameB:
True..
Food security is when everyone has reliable access (physical, geographical and financial) to quality nutritious food at all times..
Massive increase in food production doesn't translate to food security.. ( there are pre & post-harvest losses, factors impeding food processing and preservation, roads from farms to markets/processing plants are bad or non-existent )
Giving a bunch of children school children food doesn't translate to food security...
Having some people doing well in agriculture doesn't translate to food security
High rate of unemployment...
What percentage of the population afford highly nutritious food daily
Let's not even talk about the killer herdsmen/bandits destroying farms

36STATES:
Probably Lie Mohamed and Audu Ogbe told him that Nigeria is now feeding both US and China.

The idiot doesn't know that CBN is an independent body. Shame!

ExAngel007:
A Twitter user took to the platform to narrate how she moved her boyfriend to tears with her cooking skill.


@AnaLaughh revealed that after she served her boyfriend fried plantain and eggs for breakfast, he started crying and told her that nobody has ever done such for him in his 31 years of dating.

She tweeted;


He came for a visit and i served him this breakfast and he shed tears. I asked why the tears and he said"

in my 31 years of dating,this is the first time a lady will do this to me and the way you served it so clean,i wasn't hungry but now i am #ladies, we can do better!

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/5d4d22481f83c.png

https://mobile.twitter.com/AnaLaughh/status/1159486519574503425?p=v[/quote]seeing the food alone tells me shes Igbo.
that's why i wanna marry one of them at least you are sure of good food and the other food.
my yoruba peeps no dey try when food is concern,but am scared of igbo tribalistic approach

SOFTDRINK:
All these women and their penchant for attention and victim mentality.

Why not drop the child with a doctor if the child is sick?


Why not drop the child with a nanny if the child is not sick?


Must everything be about "because I'm a woman"?

princessbecky:
November babies are so unique
I Rep Nov 09
Where is my birthmate oooo
Please locate me now

Hisduchess:
Lol.are you Nov 23rd born too