peepydelano:
Maybe the sperm of her ex mistakenly fell inside her. Lol

lol he kuku possible oooo
those gender will do something and you will think and ask do they have sense at all.

peepydelano:
Their next agenda is to rubbish the DNA tests so they can enjoy hoeing around in peace, it won’t ever work. She never talk truth . Or the baby was swapped at birth but I no trust that gender at all.

Guy you are smart naaaaa.
Test Confirmed she's the mother but the husband is not the father.
i said increase your daily hour to fear that Gender.



Jesus come soon

Awesomeking:
Would you like to have access to her whatsapp chats so you can see everything both past and present? If so ,kindly respond

Lol �
Dont hack people WhatsApp

Its criminal

Sweetvie:
Awwn
The girl is blushing
Thanks.
Sorry, m not is any social media stuff atm for personal reasons... You don't mind me sending hello on email, do you?

Not at all.

Have blessed day �

Sweetvie:
Amen. Thanks
Why would I take side when I know it wrong.
I talk/ type from my own view, even if the person is my closest friend sef I'll still you truth whether you're wrong or right coz I hate rubbish and I don't like when someone else accept rubbish too

You are one of the few sensible ladies here.
Can u drop your handle i wanna follow u.

Arielle:

Swimming pools have covers, some eletronically operated. Some people even have railings and a gate surrounding the pool. How could they have been so careless?! And the thought of leaving my 3 year old child! Not for any reason can I fathom it. At least one parent has to be with him. We take things too much for granted in this country.

Abroad they will be answering serious questions.
What pains me must in this life is avoidable death.

I know accident can happened but haba this is avoidable

general111:
The woman you married is a bitter woman...
You obviously love her more than she loves you...
God will help your marriage

Dont u ever marry a woman that you love more than the way she love u.its a disasters a total failure in waiting

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Dont you dare loose confidence on that.
you were rejected not because of the questions you asked,but because your class of degree was not suitable for the job.

The MD knew you will soon leave the company because you will surely get a better offer as per your degree.

keep searching and you will soon nailed the job and you will come here and share the testimony.

keep improving youself.

SeeHim:
Paul Okoye 'Rude Boy' of P-Square Music Group has outlined what he feels men do not want, Reports.

The Singer In His Instastory Post, As Sighted By And He Stated that men don't care if one loves them or not. According to Paul, all men care about is making money and having peace.

That's why he's wife left him.

cutecommend:
Ladies, many, most or some guys will never take you serious again once they discover you have cheated especially with sex. They may just keep you to satisfy lust pending when they are exhausted or done with you. No matter the reconciliation or apology you make, many, most or some guys hardly forgive genuinely when you cheat by having sex with another person.

Advise: Apologize and break up the relationship if necessary to avoid unexpected revenge, etc.

You are more Dummb with the silly post of your yours.
do you know the trauma and the instability and trust you broke when you cheated on your partner.

thats why i love the whites,why cheated in the first place.

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

He withdrew 70k and set it on fire.
He will never prosper on this life.

What useless spoilt warward animal

FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone to the technical gurus and something was installed, all my wife's call is now been recorded.

Within a space of days I replayed her conversation with the caller, behold it was her customer. The man is a Keke Rider and always have chance at night. All these while, my wife who is a professional tailor was sawing ashoebi cloths for his wife to be. The man is the one footing the bills and he is paying it gradually hence the conversation.

I was shocked, I became speechless. One day the man called again after she dropped the call I jokingly told her who called you abi na your catch? She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally". I tendered her an apology and regretted why I allowed my emotions to judge my woman wrongly.

Since after this incident I concluded that many broken home today maybe as a result of lack of trust and communication.

As many innocent people are in prison for what they know nothing about so is many family broken for no just reasons.

If I don't have the money to track that caller I could have concluded that my wife is cheating on me and sent her packing.

May God give us the wisdom to manage our home!

The only think i take from here is do your finding well.

dont just accuse people and break trust simple.

Moreign001:
Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.

I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.

I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.

We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...).
We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..

She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.

So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.

ment for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.

You are great guy.
I dont usually responds here but your good heart will make me to do so.
Let me share a story,i was dating a girl 4months back and we were flowing and all the vibes so she suddenly got and offered to move to Belgium though she told me and i was happy for her and all that but while showing my sincere pain that am gonna miss her and it gonna be hard on me seeing my girl go.do you know what she said,that she dosnt want to delay me and we should break up lol.

Typical women all they do is selfish interests.move on get a job and pls dint ever have a anything to do with her of she calls you picked at your convenience and don't feel bad at all.

Bola146:
God bless Seun for creating this platform, if you are not happy just log in to nairaland and read stories, you must laugh ni sha

Oh my God.
Your are very brilliant woman.
Please can i meet you.honestly anytime am sad i just log here and see what will make me laugh.
Real therapy that's what NL has been come i mean see thread lol

kelly72:


The law is that no landlord has a right to break into your house or forcefully evict you except he has a court judgment.

Even if you owe 5 years, only a court can throw you out and confiscate your belongings until you bring the money to the court and the landlord will go there to collect it. (But I think you are a wicked man sha......anyways, your landlord still commits a crime by doing that).

When the court has given judgment saying you must pay up your arrears of rent and move out on so so date, the landlord must wait till that date. If you (tenant) fail to comply on that date, landlord must come back to court to report and apply for eviction order. The court if satisfied will grant the order and direct the Deputy Sheriff and the Commissioner of police to liaise together and forcefully evict the tenant, give possession back to the landlord and bring many of the tenant's property to the court as seized property. After eviction, rain will then start falling and destroy tenant's remaining load packed outside the gate......don't ask me why it always rains on that day. Then the tenant will later go to the court, pay what he is owing the landlord and carry his bed bug-infested property.

You can see that your landlord has no right to touch anything. His own is just to get a lawyer and go to court.

If you hire me peren, your landlord na prisoner o

Baba will make cool cash and it will be a detty december all expense paid by the mumu landlord

BeardedMeat:
This is the kind of stupid alibi Americans attorneys and investigators like. They will tear the landlord to shreds. But this is Nigeria.

They will make sure he will pay for the stress and they invested in this case.a win win for all.

But in Nigeria nothing i mean nothing will happen to the landlord for lawlessness

Fego50:
Bro the law is definitely on your side, infact what he has done is trespass and you can sue him.

even if you owed him 3 years rent, he ought to do it the legal way, by serving the statutory notices on you and after that, he can then file an action in court for recovery of premises.

It is only the court that has powers to order its officials (bailiffs) to break in your house and move out your properties upon evidence that you have been served the two notice and you refused to pay or move out.

Let us not excuse lawlessness, because of hardship.Get a good lawyer and sue him.

Thank You jaree.

Oh God the levels of ignorance in those Gen Z stink to heaven.@op you just won a lottery get a good lawyer sue him collect damages and use part of it to pay his rent.Though you wrong for not engaging the landlord earlier but make him pay for his lawlessness

TPound:


Sure do

Your details pls

TPound:
February 2019..
I sold a car to a man who claims to work at a military establishment. He bought a car worth 1.4m from me and paid 1m. Asked me to follow him to his work place so as to get the balance but being busy, I designated my boy to follow him.
Few hours later, my boy called and was hysterical. The man asked him to come down to check what was bring out smoke from underneath at which there was none.
Immediately he alighted, the man zoomed off with his phone in the car.
He had to use a passerby's phone to call me.
I went to pick him up and we went to the place where he claimed to be working but there was no such person working there.
I was pained as there was nothing to be used to track him. He left with all the documents and receipts...
Ever had such experience, please share as there are lessons to be learnt from such.

Do u have affordable cars with no stress.
let me know

Modernizer:


Nope. I do.

for peace of mind RUN.
from experience this is an insecure woman and you will constantly proven your love for her.

if you can manage continue,but nothing beat Peace of mind in relationships.
i once had a lady that clone my whatssap just to monitor my activities just RUN

Modernizer:
I won't bore you all with a long write up.

I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily.

So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself.

The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?
Any people with experience on this here?
Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible?

The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it.

Should I drop this girl? Or can it work?

Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge.

Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove

does she has money

MrbonZ:
I just want to know if I am the only one to notice it, some female bosses are usually overtly arrogant, abusive and overbearing and most times they bring their family problems to work and can't deal with the stress that comes with working.

This is not a misogynistic post just an observation from me. Do you guys also experience this.

Lol female bosses lmao.
Make i no talk cos am currently facing one.

It is well thats all i can say,just walk yourself to their heart not that they wont make things difficult for you but just dont talk all of them too serious

TarOrfeeek:


Whether she exhibit.

Whether she nor exhibit

I no like wahala.

Buhari hardship is enough for one person.

Bro calm down what u can do is stay with her on one room for 6 month and come back and tell us your experience.

Same applies to women also don't manage or marry a damaged men all because you want to marry.my story is just like the Op my own is i was studying her and she showed her colour she was faking it but she can fake nature and pretends for long.trust me i left without looking back

AdemolaA2:
I was also scammed this same way on the 29th of December and I’m yet to recover from it till date . Wanted to create a thread on it to inform and educate people on this new crooked way these criminals use scamming innocent people but I was just too emotionally down to do so .

Sorry lets hear your story.
U will recover.

CrescentMoon:
Let me first tell you my kind of character. For you to make me angry, you have to repeat an offense more than 30 to 40 times. After each offence, I would only give you facial expression that will let you know that you offended me. And I would ensure you get the message.

So wife kept repeating same offence. I told her I don't like what she was doing. She said she would adjust, but kept repeating the same thing. When I got fed up, I tried to retaliate. My only retaliation is that I stopped being around in the house. I would leave the house very early in the morning and return late at night. I would go for business in another town and return 4 days later. She knows nothing stops me from coming home everyday from the other town because I have means of transportation. She flared up. Started calling relatives that I'm maltreating her. They asked her to say which ways I have been maltreating her...she said I'm avoiding our home. Relatives asked if I'm beating or starving her. She said no.

I know why it pained her very well. If she wants to go and urinate outside, I would go and drop her there. When she is through, she would call me and I would go and pick her up again.

She's a woman that's always settling fights for couples in the street. So, she never wanted it to be heard anywhere that we are quarelling in our home. She won't want anybody to come to our house to settle disputes. So this prolongs our fights always.

When she couldn't bear it again, she sent a message to me that goes like this: I INITIALLY DIDN'T WANT TO DIVORCE YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR DISABILITY AS I PITY YOU. BUT NOW, IT'S OVER. YOU HAVE TO BEAR THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS TOWARDS ME ALL THESE YEARS. WHAT DID I HAVE TO DO WITH A JUJU DIABOLIC MAN IN THE FIRST INSTANCE.


My problem now is that those words are still ringing in my head... someone I thought was a lover said she married me out of piety.

Ok i understand your pain but you bleeped up.

Reasons is marriage is for matured mind am not saying there won't be issues of this nature but of what marriage is to you to the extent of leaving your homes for days is marriage not until death do us apart i always say this if we have issues and we don't settle it that night before we sleep then we ain't ready for marriage and this also goes for singles.

That's the only way she can get back at you since she knows you don't talk and shout some will even prefer u shout but silent treatment some don't like it,all the same forgive her and move on that's women for you,most of them will behaves same way.

IyaTola:
As shared by Gold-Olufadi Shakirat @skinandall_
, A Physician, Dermatologist & Genitourinary medicine specialist.



https://twitter.com/skinandall_/status/1343554372693843970

finally a post reasonable to end the year.
thank you for this as i really appreciate your unbiased narrative kudos your follower just increased

MeeztaFabulouz:
It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.

Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.

She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.

I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.

One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.

If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.

Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"

Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.

shame on you.you are a disgrace to manhood.
someone that has no regards for you or the marriage vow and you think she wont kill you at the slightest opportunity.

dazzlingd:


Very funny, science never claimed to be perfect, that's why there are researches daily to update. But it is still the best way to unraveling mysteries, answering questions and solving human problems...
Since the inception of time, nothing else has ever been known to do it better

You get time shaaa,let them continue to dey watch their BBN now

LinLinGentle:
You are right bro, I had plenty gra gra back in Naija and I think she has psychologically programmed herself before arrival to come take her pound of flesh here. There is complete breakdown of communication with her family as they are on her side, always encouraging her to call the police on me. All they say is ''No gree for am o, he think say na Naija he dey. Show am well well, you have rights there and the govt. would support you''

Well this is no more marriage cos I see no coming back from all this,to be on safer side seek for divorced and full custody of the kids if there is any. I repeat do not accept her back, brother to live long and not end in jail do not accept her back

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family memberhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

You that institutions called marriage some of us think it's a joke and once we have money and big body we are ripe for it .you obviously saw all the red flags and you waited for a pastors that will not live with you to determined your life.

Ok for the sakes of the kids, have a final heart to heart talk, make sure she says what's making her to behave this way, what you are going to do differently and way to make things work.

Give her the warning if she dosnt change them you have your decsiosn to make and don't make the mistake of telling her what you want to do or else you will find yourself in the grave Sooner.

Go on vacations two of you only,spend time with her cos obviously both of you dont know one another.and after this if nothing changes divorce her silly asssss and take full custody of your children

Yenefer:
But how can they say he died of covid-19 when he was actually undergoing dialysis, has a complications from diabetes and high blood pressure? When he was tested positive his BP when up the roof. Fake news
I know him personally for those of u insulting me

some of you are slow.
don't you know that people with such conditions are high risk to Convid-19.
Italy will be a joke when nigeria own start

seunmohmoh:
Good day everyone, i need urgent advice from you guys. My Jamb centre was located at gateway poly saapade. Not knowing there are two gateway at ogun state, i went to the popular gateway at igbesa and it was too late before i discovered this.

Is there anything i can do? Can jamb reschedule the date if i complain? Please help.

you are still writting Jamb O ma se oo.
during out time,we will go and inspect the centre 3 days before the exams,truly kids of nowadays are something else and you see them dragging someone here,internet is really the undoing of some peeps here,chaill still writing Jamb NOT even NYSC