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Myexdisturbs:
Hello house. This is my own story and not a friend.
I broke up with this ex of mine some months before I got married. I definitely told her I was not going to marry her bc it wouldn't work between us and we accepted that. Now more than a year after my marriage she still doesn't want me to rest.
Now you will say I should block her in all communication channels, yes I have blocked her allover medium to communicate but she still doesn't give up, she will use other numbers and as soon as I block them she gets new ones. I definitely asked her to get a boyfriend and she did get one but was still unable to flow with the guy citing that I'm always in her mind and she can't flow with any guy. It's been more than a year and she is getting me exhausted. She tricked me one day on the basis of coming to see her sister in the same town that I live without knowing she wanted to pass the night in my place. Of course I didn't agree to that.
Funny thing is that she's been offering me lots of money, that we should use it and travel out but this infuriated me and I blocked her in all channels again.

Why do some ladies find it this difficult to just move on despite knowing I'm now married. She has been tempting me to have sex with her but I'm married is that I'm married and my heart is completely with my wife. Infact I don't even see what is special in sex that will warrant me doing that with any other woman.
I have finally blocked her again and no way this time will I ever speak with her again.

adamsmith914:
The irony is that if it isn’t them, then it is probably you or someone from your family, be Thankful that someone else sacrificed their life.

fergie001:
HQ Nigerian Army

kafeii123:
what do you know about the town

Ewroghene1:
Good day NLs
I will go straight to the point
First born in the family with big responsibility you know already,. Mother always demanding due to the status of the family, currently 25yrs.
Occupation : Barber

Your advice shall help a long way...
Have been saving but not complete, planning ahead
Xcept if d abroad u talking abt is Ghana,u cannot afford schl being a barber in a new town.If u wanna go abroad n hustle ,its a whole diff thing.Jst dnt tink u will continue barbing abroad

But my dreams are high and know I will accomplish them...
stopped schooling 2015, with S.S.C.E started hustling.....

First: should I open a barbershop with my little savings
Or
Second: go abroad and continue my school and become a graduate. And explore other lifestyles
I know opening the shop will help a long way(money)
And going abroad will also help

Reminder : I have mother and siblings to take care of with the little I can support
Please I need You advice
And can I work with the experience I have as a barber here in Nigeria to places like Turkey or Poland

Please help forward to Frontpage

micellgevity:
Pls, for those know about Oron, what is the life like there?
A friend got a call from his brother to come and work in Maritime Academy Oron. But he is sceptical about it.
Though, here in Ilorin his salary hardly lasts 3 days before he is broke again. He already built his house and married. In Oron, he will be appointed as irregular staff, as they call it, though, he will later be converted to regular staff after some time. There is no much difference between irregular and regular staff salaries. The question now is should he go, is 85 thousand naira salary worth it in Oron? For those who know about maritime academy, pls, your input is needed. E.g. the actual salary of level 8, security, social life, cost of living and quality of life, hostility from the indigens etc. I forgot to say there might be accommodation.

Lala and superior, pls help move it to the front page.

Ebunoluwa2020:
https://www.thecable.ng/nigeria-now-earns-more-money-from-non-oil-exports-says-osinbajo/amp

yungskyzye:
i want my governor to do something lik dis in niger state

Abdul05:

Abdul05:
Good news,

Apart from this counter attacked against these ipob terrorists....

Their dead bodies should be displayed on the floor that is the top priority

abbey621:
You're not being realistic, there's no way your father would be Dangote and you wouldn't expect him to leave you anything! Even if na goat or dog, there should be an expectation of some form of inheritance

vickydevoka:
Oga it's natural. Once ur brother is extremely rich n dies, u will be having it in mind he included u in it's will. Imagine otodola die today, that's when u will see he Hass people even children outside. Try n watch big daddy.

delzbaba:
Never Bleep in a car, that car will give you problems until you sell.

clayh:
its just normal when one Family member dies, there must be a bit dis agreement to usher in agreement

NarcissistKing:
You set boundaries by building respect. When you're good to your extended family, it will make it easier most times. No family will respect a man that is dissociating himself and his immediate from them. Yes, some families are very bad but not all. Some men are the cause of the family disputes after tgeir death.

You can't expect a family that you neglected or you didn't support while you are alive to treat your wife and kids well after your demise. I always tell people that it's good to empower your family if you have the capacity to do it. Some men are just greedy and too proud that they prefer to be the only successful person in the family.

Are you expecting Davido's aunts and uncles to be fighting over his father's property after his demise? His father is not even the richest among his siblings.

Abdul05:
Op, go and sit down some where

Ushman333:
Nigeria needs more armed forces.

It is within the powers of the president to declare marshall law, if need be. Democracy was birthed by blood, we can't allow a few hoodlums scare us...they will have to shed their blood.

Odewaleadesoye:
I will still repeat what I have said earlier:

Sentiment apart, Obi Cubana did nothing wrong.

How about those thieves at the house of assembly and all? Are they too big to visit EFCC office too?

This is not good at all.

#FreeObiCubana

InfinixMine:
Abeg teach us how to fish

jnrcess:
It is that time of the month when most salary earners smile home. Some have been paid and some are yet to be paid.

Personally, I haven't had a full time job in over 4 years because of school. My first full time job before I gained admission paid me 8k per month.

I recently landed a full-time job (remote) that offered me a monthly pay of 500k. As a final year student, who has never earned this amount of money in a month, I'm blown away �.

So what's the highest amount your full time job has paid you?

Abdul05:
I for one, l don't support evil-doers but l think we should wait for the right information instead of being naive cos it might make matter worse..

Abdul05:
I for one, l don't support evil-doers but l think we should wait for the right information instead of being naive cos it might make matter worse..

APCNig:
Isn't it true that Mary Odilli is Peter Odilli's wife! Isn't it also true that Peter Odilli is a former governor under PDP and that he is a PDP stalwart till date?

Will you allow your enemy's wife preside over your case? If indeed Mary Odilli is not a useless and bias judge, then she will excuse herself from all PDP Versus APC cases. But, because she us truely compromised that is why she hass been sitting over her husband's party against opposition party cases.

If not that Buhari is dull, Mary Odilli is supposed to have been forced out of our judiciary since. Tinubu will not make that mistake of allowing his enemy precise over his case. He would have eased her out a long time ago, he may even give her a big position outside the judiciary to compensate her.

Meanwhile, this does not remove the fact that the lifeless terrorist hiding inside the Rock us an unfortunate fellow whom the gods will strike soon

Abdul05:
Rifle shots were coming from some where,our gallant soldiers released the shells........
As the assault began,

The ipob terrorists were nowhere to be seen.


scampering into the trench ( Coward )

Techydude:
Comments like this often make me wonder about the type of people on Nairaland. With statements like this, Nigeria is truly in trouble.