₦airaland Forum

Amberon11:
100% true. I hope the other misogynists like toks2008 are paying attention and taking notes.

Ah ah! Christ!!!! Wetin Tokunbo do?

tosyne2much:
Very true.. As for me, a woman's character is her beauty and that's my greatest turn on in a lady

It's either character or nothing

Tosyn what are u saying... What is character without outward beauty...
For me its outward beauty first..then character... as long as she ain't Jezebel in character...

MissRaine69:
I don’t believe in the horoscope
You are actually wrong about me on a few things.
I resolved the issue mentioned above how ?
You find, date and marry someone with emotional intelligence and someone who is compatatible as well as some one compliment your strengths and weaknesses. A relationship is not a sizing of egos.

Ah! Ah! Rannie.. Who be DAT one weh say make u no marry.. I no get.. Cresentmoon??...abi u don dey consult with Babalawo ni- no it cant be..
Well, in theory it mayn't be a sizing of egos as u put it.. But, in practical life, hmm ...Rannie... Its worse than that... This is earth planet oh..not Venus
A lot of concepts abt relationship sounds very beautiful in theory and we love to theorise abt these things...but in practise... ?? Hmmm.. A heck of hard work I guess...cos we all sick with egos that manipulate us beyond our reasoning... Well, just my one cent...

MissRaine69:
I will respond to all your comments here
My second name is already hyphenated the husband’s name will make it triple barrelled...
Music - Britney Who? Now that’s just you insulting me I have good taste
No comment regarding the family planning and my DP
Yes I have internal and external heritage in terms of parternity
My specialisation is Obs/Gyenea as well as fertility ( females only )

** And what if he insist u drop your double barreled last name and go with only his- some men can have real ego issues with this.
*** lol! And I suppose Britney spears is bad taste to you? She made hits in 1999/2000 and some are classics. Well, maybe Brandy can replace her. Well, as much as I gat preference I still enjoy all genres of music as long as it sounds real good...From RnB- Boyz2men, DruHill etc to classic raps- 2pac, Big, Nas etc to pop and soft rock...anything cool goes with me.
*** How can u have comment on that?
*** Now, I sensed this earlier...but where precisely? Dont answer that.. So you are a mulatress like Mariah Carey or more like Halle berry? Don't answer that too...
*** Oh! Come on...that can't change a thing.. I will bring my Sister along.. She's gat some reptv health challenge u must examine..am damn serious oh! Except u ain't in Lagos..
Kindly allow me leave my email so u leave the necessary details..Cheers.

MissRaine69:
These young girls are not impregnating themselves are they?
Family planning is for all

What is family planning.... When there is alchemy... Esoteric chemistry..supra sexuality...
Well, i see u did very well to change that art work to something new...
Looks better...and i like a cute baby girl with your kinda ugly nose and lips..

MissRaine69:
Its not mandatory to change names based on which custom you refer to.
I have a double barrelled name ( both parents ) so does my mother. She did not change her name she added my father’s name to hers. The same for both grandmothers. That’s us it’s not common.
Coverture Law is one reason this applies to any English speaking country including former colonies. It’s not practiced in Spanish, French speaking countries or some Asian countries. From an African perspective how else can you be identified if it were not for your name? You leave your father’s home and become part of his family, their wife, daughter and mother so the name is changed too. According to Sinnah it’s prohibited for a Muslim woman to change her name after marriage.

I don’t see a Nigerian man taking his wife’s s surname do you? In this country a name is everything it opens doors or closes them shut.

Jeez! I almost tot u meant sinnach I believe u meant to say Sunnah ...like from the hadith's
Seems you wont mind hyphenating your last name to your spouse last name as well, if hee accepts....sorry I meant if I accept

MissRaine69:
Maybe you know this
Maybe you don’t
Bahia in Brazil has the largest population of decendents of African slaves
The food is very similar to what’s eaten in Nigeria, the customs and traditions have their roots here and in other African countries including Angola
Brazil is very homogenous in terms of their racial and ethnicities how can you be certain he does not have black lineage? It would not be unusual in Brazil one does not have to look black.

And the religion of Bahia is Candomblé which is a mixture of Yoruba ,Bantu and Fon beliefs rather than be dismissive and angry
Know someone’s orgins they could be more African than you think.

You submission here is dead on! Even I know you aren't from Brazil but I wld be damned if u ain't mixed race.

Phyde:
Breathless - Shayne Ward
Beautiful - Faith Hill
Run Away - The Corrs
Breathless - The Corrs
Apologise - One Republic

You must be from Venus So whizkid and davido didn't even make your top 5...

But I also love Faithhill... If I could grant u once wish...I wish you cld see the way u kiss... Like DAT track..

MissRaine69:
1) Umsindo- Durban’s Finest
2) Numb- Linkin Park
3) Water No Get Enemy - Fela
4) Congratulations -Post Malone
5) Feeling Good - Nina Simone
6) March of the Valkerie -Wagner
I know you said 5 but on my fav playlist I have 100 so 5 is hard

Hmmm Rannie...so u lsiten to Fela..even Linken park.. I was even expecting to see Britney spears, Christiana Aguilera,pink, Nsync, westlife etc top this list..

MissRaine69:
Doctor

Ehen! I always tot so...So I was damn right...please where is your hospital at, I need a thorough check up... I couldn't be more serious oh!!

MissRaine69:
Please add Education/Intelligence I don’t refer to MSc or PhD’s here but at least by knowledgeable with what’s happening around you and globally. Be a man who can be objective and adaptable . I don’t know about other women there are times when I met someone and thought there is hope ...until he opened his mouth and then you realise all you see is a facade scratch the surface and there is nothing there. For some looks matter for the perceptive ones it has to be more than that.

Very well said. Rannie Rannie... What a Rainy spring night it is here right now and probably the best time to scratch my own surface... You will find the philosopher's stone in its beauty ..spelndor and. Magic
..
I can't wait..

MissRaine69:
That’s the thing
You don’t know me at all personally to reach that conclusion so how I write is not a definitive reflection of my persona
When a lol , grin or smile are necessary they will be included .....

Hmmmm... Rannie rannie...my intellectual salald and cream... always gat a delicious way to appeal to my intellectual and aesthetic sensibilities.

But c, U don start dey talk wetin i no like...I no conclude jor..na mere observation, albeit, a wrong one...I suppose..
Cheers..

MissRaine69:
You again ...Jesus

Yeah its mee... U know I like to play with you
Cos it seems to me like on d fiip side of what I like abt ur posts, u apparently too serious or Strict that I can't even sense an undertone of a smile, grin or LOl from your posts... What kinda principle is that

MissRaine69:
If you had managed to achieve what you wanted to achieve by being in the army you would not feel this way right?
What if you had gone and done what you had hopped to do and it had not worked out I will hazard a guess and say these feelings would most likely manifest regardless.
You are depressed and in a depressed state of mind it’s very difficult to look at circumstances. You have a job at a time when most do not. Is it the job that you wanted? No! How are you going to change your circumstances run away? Or leave? If you leave how are you goong to support yourself? And are you being realistic to your self?

Get treatment for how you feel and then when you are
able to be more perceptive plan how you want to live post army life. Many are in situations that they don’t want to be, it’s purely necessity.

Keep trying to end your life and one day you might suceed there is no coming back from that or worse you might fail and end up with more physical health issues/ paralysis who will take care of you then? And where will the money come from? Our situations don’t change us we change our situations.

Rannie...imagine the long epistle riddled with "grammer" wey u dey write for d poor Guy...This one no go confuse am more..

Is this meant to be some G&C session or what... Be careful oh...

doyinbaby:
How would you sustain yourself. Before you find your feet....

Was ganna ask same... Very good question.

labake1:
Wait till he catch you

There is only one certain place he can catch me... In that fridge with you..
Abeg I dey play oh!! E dakun..e Jor oh! E ma so fu...

labake1:
See our monitoring spirit
Enemyofpeace come see

So I be monitoring spirit now abi? Enemyofpeace must hear this

This must not be the return of " the law" Lawrence ANINI - the most notorious, deadliest and professional armed bandit of all times.

Who wld have forgotten how in trying to escape from the police, this dreadful pro went in reverse motion all the way from Benin to Delta state... ..

Well, I pray Nigeria wld never seen anything close to ANINI...He certainly made history... Shina Rambo nno even near am...

labake1:
that's their business
Oya everybody come let say the 26 alphabets

ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ

Hmmm.. BABANGBAL come and see oh!!

MissRaine69:
Norm? Or has always been there but social media has made what was hidden common knowledge .

Rannie! What happened to your other NL user name? I didn't know you are such a cute lady oh! ... Cute and smart all in 1 .
I prefer the art work in that gallery to this one.

greiboy:
We aren't dating, she wasn't single. My initial comment was a typo, I meant to write " I am not that interested"

Then shes apparently not the one am referring to.. U know the one am referring to for sure...u cant play dumb with me on this one..

whitegirl21:
Ohh, congratulations greyboy!!!!

And I didn't know it was serious like that. The I'd not have joked like that. I don't want your girlfriend to think you as girls for nudes. So sorry, please forgive me.

Miss lady..it mayn't be a no brainer decision for him... As you have shown up as a potential competitor... And thats if u ain't an impostor

greiboy:
That is the truth my brother

Yeah... No doubt. Am just glad u may end up marrying that 1 lady u Pmed ...as u too are getting alone real good ...

greiboy:
No thanks. I have only ever sent 1 pm to a girl on nairaland and it was with my old moniker. I am that interested

Hmmm. :

whitegirl21:
Hi guys

I know this is kinda long shot. But I try.

I live in Malaga in Spain. Three weeks ago I met a Nigerian man that was here on vacation. We had a fantastic week together! He taught me so much, made me a new woman! It was like I was born finally!

But then he had to go back. He promised to write me but no sound, maybe he lost my email?

Are You here John? Or anyone know him?

I know it's not much with just a first name. But not so many Nigerians went to Malaga in gebruary maybe? He is 44. Handsome.

Lena

U dey find John for NL... Flashing one part of ur ike abi? Don't worry u go soon dey find Jonathan

greiboy:
Are you indirectly looking for a Nairaland guy to send you a PM, cause our religious leaders use this psychology on us a lot. I.e They will say that they can see a rich guy in the crowd and everyone runs towards them, perhaps making this shit look like a scam

if you are not, I wish you luck

Geri.. Why not give her a shot ... Don't act like u don't wanna jor

TheUpsetGirl1:
sorry but your wife love you because of your money... your story alone tells that.. study people very well before getting married.


I ain't saying she a gold digger, but she don't mess with the poor. .

I think he said she met him broke and they built all they gat together... Did miss that part...

Well, OP ..this one is quite a sad piece. 8 yrs of courting doesnt even guarantee a healthy matrumony. Maybe is just your karma. But don't let your ego take the better part of you and cause further ruin to your family.
Good luck.

0luwatope:
I'm still young, I'm 20, but I love to learn about relationships and marriage but some people have said all what the OP said is slavery and mockery but I can't figure out how being sweet is slavery

I really want someone to come explain the parts where slavery comes in

Thank you in advance, no offense intended

My Brother, don't mind all them naysayers here.. Most of all the Ops point are on track. God would guide you and bless your Soul too at the right time with your heart desires.

NB- Be careful about how you take in whatever you read on romance section though. Always be inquisitive and analytical. Many of them come from ppl who are apparently bereft of any ethical foundation... Many are savages, misandrist, misogynist, deranged, confounded and spiritually impoverished beyond what is normal.
So watch out!!