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Martin0:
mmmmm OK ooo

Matinez ezigbo Nwanne biko e ge na ndi ara ju na NL.
I bet you, there is no how in this earth as long as the heavens exist that God would not bless your soul with the best woman of your dreams.The one that would love you more and that you would love better, a lady that wld make life so easy, fun and fulfilling for u. She wld appear from no where. Just watch. You would certainly end up in a happy and successful matrimony. Mark my words....
Amam na uche GI di ya..
I will personally be damned if u don't. But am sure u wld... Btw, nice write up!!

pweshboi:
I know most people get confused a whole lot about this topic.

I was discussing repentance with a friend of mine and we got to the hypocrisy part of most Christian's, he made mention of some Christian's that exhibits a religious outward look but in secret they are devil's advocate.

He then later made mention of a part in the Bible matthew 7:21 where Jesus said ' it is not everyone that calls me father father that will enter into the kingdom of God' meaning it is not everyone that lip talk "accepting Jesus" are actually born again. Now his argument is, being born again is of the spiritual and it's more than mere words of one saying they've accepted Christ.

In conclusion he said though accepting Christ is the way to being born again but it's not the same thing and can never be equated with being born again.
Now my question to everyone is , in your own opinion is being born again the same thing as you verbally saying you accept Jesus Christ?

Mods please do the needful and let's hear people's views about this.

Let's be open minded about this. Only an intelligent and profound analysis of this blatant falsehood would revel to us that this is just a mere flawed theory that has been perpetuated by the failed Christianity for ages.
Still no one asked questions and many so called Christians prefer to swallow this hook line sinker...
If u like accept Jesus Christ for as long as you live, that don't mean one is born again and that won't stop anyone who is found wanting from having a horrible vacation in hades. A Muslim, a Buddhist , a Jew, an IFA worshipper that applies universal principles of spirituality and has never known or heard of Jesus the Christ let alone accepting him still stands higher chances of having his eternity in heaven than a deluded christian that foolishly believes all that gobbledygook about accepting Christ.
The most important thing in life is authentic and sincere repentance. Every other thing is a miserable waste of time.

sampatdikachi:
Please, Do not dive into rivers, streams and other water bodies if you don't know how to swim. Water is a good [b][/b]Master but a bad [b][/b]Servant.
During my University days, 200L precisely, I joined a group of Church brethren to a river in a town in Enugu North, Nigeria. We got there quite early so that we could swim for a long time before going home. We were lucky enough to meet a villager who showed us the shallow and deep spots. We all changed to our swimming wears, and my friends dived into the water and were enjoying the free gift of nature. Meanwhile, I was standing few meters away from the river as the noise from its splashes sent chills down my spine. I decided to join them anyway, being conscious of the deep parts. At exactly 4pm, we decided to go back to the coaster bus we came with, in preparation for our journey back home. Half way down the road where our bus was located, one of us quietly deceived seven of us back to the river without the notice of others. I went with them and we continued swimming. It was all fun until I was challenged to swim past a deep part. Just at the middle of the spot, I sank. I struggled to call for help but the more I opened my mouth, the more water I gulp in. It was a terrible experience.
After the much struggle, I gave up and I was going down. There, I thought of my family, my obituary and the ugly story that will trail my death. I cried bitterly. On the other side, the other six guys were planning on going back to where our coaster bus was parked.
Miraculously, in the midst of my travail, I saw faintly, the leg of a guy swimming out and I held onto it with all my strength. He was struggling, shouting and people came to help. As he was dragged out, I came out with him.
That was how I escaped death.

Hmmmm...your God knew it wasn't your time to go home. But u have 9 lives indeed... What a close shave...

Windflower:
I ain't the op. I love me the way I am,you just quoted the wrong persom

I know. I had to quote your post to contradict one of your points and to corroborate other points to the OP.

Windflower:
You should be glad for your kinda stature,I am also brief but a little chubby. My friend whom we are of the same height is as slim as a broom,she also goes tru what you described. You would come to fall in love with your stature when ure getting older.
Most importantly, its depends on the way you see yourself,I am gone past that stage where peoples opinion of me will bother me,call me short from today till tomorrow and I won't be moved an inch. About respect,don't mind those people,when you come down from the latest car,they would be the one saying yes ma
Soo don't be bothered about that,seniority is not about stature,its about what ure worth

@ Op.. You don't need to seek anything external to make you feel good about yourself. The reason you speak this way and haven't accepted yourself the way you are is simply cos you are yet to discover who you are in spirit. You also seem to be full of complexes.
No human soul is dispensable, no matter the height- tall or short or body frame- slim or fat etc. You don't need validation from anyone about how to feel abt yourself. Its a waste of energy.

Because we all have Ego, everyone gets insulted- everyone feels insulted no matter who they are or how they look. Learn to be thick skinned and ignore what u term an insult- learn to laff things off... Or transform impressions.
Well, i think as u focus less on these worries u would get over all this...
Cheers.

greiboy:
Which one ?

greiboy:


Bro how do you manage to be single on nairaland with all your lady friends

The answer lies in the fact that this my Bro man has refused to be buddies with any one of the 3 prominent and notorious witches of NL ....of which you, grei- my Ogbomoso Bros, have been trying hard to impress one of them.

MissRaine69:
And let’s be clear on things while we are at it your opinion has no bearing on any aspects of my existence or any of my beliefs or points of view. Feel free to disagree the world would be boring otherwise.

But your on povs does have bearing on mine.. In the interim miss Ranie...when do you hope to replace that divine work of art in your gallery with something all new..Am getting tired of seeing your bow legs ..

MissRaine69:
Considering assisted reproduction is one of my specialisations I have never used a test tube to begin with. I don’t live a life shackled by the ambiguousness of religious texts and even more the human interpretation of those particular texts. Invitro fertilisation did not exist in biblical times how can it be relegated to being a sin? At what stage are oocytes considered life?

Now assisted reproduction can be done in vivo so they way I look at it you are very welcome to have your point of view and beliefs I will stick to mine. There is no attempt at seeking validation from anyone here. Agree or disagree it’s not something that I take personally.

IVF, assisted reproduction, test tube human ferterlization..whatever denominations its called. It is damn wrong. Let your mind keep playing games with you over things it can hardly fathom. This isn't an intellectual matter. All the same.. Stick to your povs.. Its your prerogative.

hajoke2000:
destined to happen

What do you mean...like Karma or what...
Well, we shld expect anything and everything to happen on earth in this day and age. Its a dark age- a Kali Yuga.

BedLam:
Isn't it funny that people who personally haven't contributed anything to this development are being tribal ?

One thing I observed is that overpopulation is the worst thing to happen to a beautiful city, especially when that city isn't improving and developing exponentially.
This is the case of Lagos today...
Imagine the fewer cars and persons on the walkway.

U damn right! overpopulation is fast becoming a scourge in big cities the world over. Every one seem to wanna move to where they are likely to get economic stability...a place that seem to offer them the hope for a better living standard. It won't get any better...

ibkkk:
Wish I was born in those days.

Everything looks peaceful and natural.

Exactly my tots- quite a peaceful ambiance back then. Now its a little more developed but the ambiance is all HoT Mess...

I was born in those days but I wasn't a Nigerian....I didnt live very long though..
Well, am happy to be back as a Nigerian...

Lionessza:
Where is the sin in you and your husband deciding on exploring more options to expand your family? As long as you both agree and are comfortable with it, specifically you the person that will undergo the process. Who cares about other people's opinions.

But you should also look at the options tabled by your husband, sleeping with the ;friend , brother or maybe cousin . You have his permission and encouragement after all .

Please OP.. IVF is a great challenge against the divine. Science of this dark and decadent age in which we live is the science of the anti Christ.
Be advised not to take that option in desperation. Please look well and factor in possible consequences before leap.

MissRaine69:
Whose sperm will be used? And will this be done in a clinic or at home? It’s not just a case of injecting as that will not automatically guarantee anything. How does she know the man has no disease, has viable sperm? Is not carrying some genetic illness he will pass on? Artificial insemination is viewed as having a child out of wedlock and the sperm will have been aquired as a result of masturbation. IVF is not a sin

But then religion is ambiguous over a lot of things.

Jeez! Ma'am. I can't believe you just said that- IVF isn't a sin. Based on what premise?
I beg to differ. I think authentic spirituality frowns against such act of making human life in a laboratory. Isn't it a.k.a test tube babe..
It very well violates universal spiritual principles and laws.
Please your submission is bereft of objectivity this time around. Tanx.

Amarabae:
26 is too early to be expecting that from men.

My hands no de for this one.

Hmmm Aunty Amarachi! Well done oh! ... Adaeze ndi Igbo 1 of NL.

Martin0:
correct babe I sight ya

Ha! Matinez, e bi do kwa! Dey your lane oh! Leave this only one for me oh! U don get many- allow me face this special one biko
Nwanne Akuna..

khiaa:
First off, I'm not a diva, I'm a straight to the point, honest, no bullshyt taking or giving, don't mess with me and I won't mess with you kind of woman.

Wow! That's what am talking abt Lady. U really had to come clean... And y wld I think of messing with you.
The only thing- why u trying to give me the run around here.. And trying to violate the NL privacy code we shld do all of this better in private if u gat no.p with it..

Breezzy:
school

Like masters degree? There arent many schools in Germany that use English as their language of instruction..though..
You have to be clear what the purpose is..

Breezzy:
ya bro but like how much are we talking about here, will it be upto 1.5m ?

What is the purpose of your trip first? Business? Schools? Vacation?
That wld determine how much...

AntiBrutus:
Oga, no one said it makes him or her feel great. Social media is now a major part of life, which is why you're here by this time...

If you think it is nothing, then do well to ignore. That shouldn't be difficult.

Biko! Kam nu ife ... I don't wanna challenge you.. Just go..

Amarabae:
Special announcement.

My mention box is allergic to zombies who think that I am the type that can be bullied online.

Make sure you are mentally fit before quoting me.
I don't reply riff-raffs.

Thanks.

Don't try and conceal your pathetic and intransigent arrogance with this silly scribble. It doesnt suit you. People that know you..know that you aren't as smart as you appear to be. Take a Chill pill NNE!
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AntiBrutus:
If I don't dislike anyone here, why should you?

I like her for one reason, she is tough.
I love people that can take the heat alone. You have to give her credit for that.

Do you know some ladies here say things that are pro-male, to avoid bashing? Do you know some don't comment for same reason.

Respect the troublesome ones like us...
It is not easy to be a vocal lady on NL.

Clap for yourself for being vocal on earth ...?NL... I guess that makes u feel great.. Lets see how far u and your proponents would have come 10yrs from now on NL...keep living La Vida loca here on NL while u can.

Breezzy:
GERMANY the country i always wish to travel to asap. LORD PLEASE ANSWER MY PRAYER OOOO NAIJA DON TIRE ME, it irritates me to wake up every morning and be seeing myself inside this pessimistic country

And have you made moves towards that goal... Its not that difficult. Well, depends on the purpose of your trip to Deutschland..and your financial strength.. Mainly... But Naija still dey sha!

khiaa:
I just wanted the OP to know just how hypocritical and assinine the topic is.

Ha! Lol! Nice one. Don't mind her..Shes part of the reason Nairaland can be a fun place... Let her keep floundering around. that aside...
So what wld you like me to know.. Talk to me Diva am listening...

I trust my Safiaa... She can't even entertain trolls like dis...let alone having her real PIC on nairaland... Thats not the Safiaa I know..

khiaa:
If every guy should be financially stable at 26 then so should every WOMAN, unless she's a
lazy azz. What does being a coward have to do with this scenario?

Hey Crush!! Am very shocked to find you in such a thread...not to mention the fact that u even had to respond with a post... Its either the poster knows what she's doing or she's doesn't even know that she doesn't know..
Please save just 1/10th of that attention for me and ur life wld be more exciting and less dry ...

Martin0:
OK do you have anything else to add to this which you just typed?

Martin Nwanne! E bu ISI Aki

Martin0:
dammm see i ve seen numerous ladies double dating and when I ask they say in case of fall out, one time I met one girl I think she's 40 now, I met her at a hotel in Lagos, I approached her and we became friends, she told me last year to put her in my heart and I was like "dammm" but you have a guy and she said yes but she doesn't know what may happen in the feature.

but within my heart I place her platonically, I don't know what she based me into.

then again she not some cheap bitch an entrepreneur she is.

basically I believe most ladies have some secret side men only few stay very very committed to one man one preek

Matinez what da heck are you saying- that lady is simply using you as spare tyre..If u don't know... Can u imagine, she doesn't know what may happen in future.. Well, I wonder what kinda lady wld be stupid enough to tell a Guy that...and what kinda Guy wld give an ear to that...
Am not saying u ain't smart oh! But this ur Tory get bow leg...