Christianity Etc › Re: Benny Hinn: I Am So Wrong About Prosperity Gospel, I Don't Fly Private Jets by BdorianGray(m): 10:29pm On Feb 23, 2018 |
Wow! I think this kind of acknowledgement of wrong usually comes easy when one senses they are being called from the "other side" by Divine funeral workers. May God help us all. |
Family › Re: Husband And Wife Celebrate Their 100th And 95th Birthdays Together (Photo) by BdorianGray(m): 12:49am On Feb 23, 2018 |
Rozaytee: i replied...i have one thousand and one people who sent me an email from NL...i replied u Aii. No. P. |
Crime › Re: 'I Only Scam Whites' - Scammer Lets Go Of His Victim Because He's A Nigerian by BdorianGray(m): 12:32am On Feb 23, 2018 |
mccoy47: After seeing this ur signature below
It'sobvious u r a scammer too! Please be warned! I have been reliably informed that the real person behind the moniker Desire01 whom u you quoted is a confirmed Con artist. A hardened and unrepentant smooth talking criminal. His real name is Ikenna Mgbejiofor, a resident of Enugu State. All the details can be made available to anyone who cares to ascertain the veracity of my assertions. Keep off Nairalanders.. |
Family › Re: Husband And Wife Celebrate Their 100th And 95th Birthdays Together (Photo) by BdorianGray(m): 11:43pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
Rozaytee:
..how can i accept a proposal from a faceless person Am not faceless.. U should haveat least replied my PM and my other mentions.  |
Family › Re: Man Pays Tribute To His Late Wife Who Died During Childbirth by BdorianGray(m): 7:56pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
greatme2good: Even those that do not post anything on social media die too. my Sis died same way last month she never posted anything on social media. my dear life is worthless In my opinion, Life isnt worthless. You are sounding blasphemous... saying life is worthless. There is a dinive purpose for every life on earth. Life can only seem worthless to those who are yet to discover the divine reason they incarnated on earth in the first place. |
Family › Re: Husband And Wife Celebrate Their 100th And 95th Birthdays Together (Photo) by BdorianGray(m): 7:20pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
Rozaytee: awwwwn..so lovely ...i just love dis...dey stayed irrespective of their flaws...now dats tru love......i pray for dis for me and everyone who wish dem well We can be like them 70 years on from the day you say YES to me  |
Christianity Etc › Re: 10 Reasons Why Many People may End Up In Hell. by BdorianGray(m): 5:05pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Toks2008: 1.They believe that good works will take them to heaven: Many people believe that salvation is all about how good you live while on earth but unfortunately it is not by how perfect your conduct is or how good natured you are. You must accept Jesus as your lord and saviour first and foremost because he is the only way to paradise, no other way.
Ephesians 2:8-9 'For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God;not by works, so that no one can boast.' John 14:6 'Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'
2.They question GOD about his ways Many people ask GOD different questions about salvation...'Why did he have to send Jesus to die when he has the power to simply forgive us' 'Why did a loving GOD sacrifice someone he claims to be his son?' 'Why did.....' and on and on. The fact remains that GOD ways are not our ways(Isaiah 55:8 ) and he made us understand that without the shedding of blood there is no remission of sins(Hebrews 9:22) and it is impossible for the blood of goats and bulls to take away the sins of the world(Hebrews 10:4-5).... so why not accept the sacrifice of christ and ask GOD why he chose that route when you get closer to him in paradise.
3.The simplicity of salvation Now this is a very unique reason and many unbelievers find this very hard to understand because to them, getting saved had to be more difficult than just accepting Jesus as lord and saviour and getting baptized...but the truth is...it is that simple yet as simple as it is, many people find it extremely difficult to accept Jesus as lord and saviour which makes me wonder why a simple escape from eternal suffering can be so ignored by people. John 3:16 'For GOD so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life.
4.Self condemnation It is so sad that many people had at one time accepted Jesus as lord and saviour and have tasted salvation but willingly gave up their salvation due to self condemnation. Because they still find themselves committing the same sins they were involved in before they accepted Jesus as lord and saviour,they just felt they are not good enough to be saved. GOD expects us to live a holy life and to also work out our salvation with fear and trembling but nevertheless, he will never condemn you but will help you in your weakness through the help of the holy spirit to get better and better because salvation is a work in process we go through right from the day we got saved to the very day we leave this world. So please don't ever condemn yourself or give up your salvation because the moment you are saved, nothing will separate you from GOD except you. Anytime you commit a sin, go on your knees and pray for forgiveness and ask the holy spirit to help you overcome that sin/addiction...trust me, he will surely help you and you will hate the very sinful habits you once thought you can never overcome. Romans 8:1-2 'Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death'
5.Unbelief It is so unfortunate that some people believe that Jesus was never crucified yet they believe in every other aspect of him...they say he is not the son of GOD, that he was just a prophet like every other prophet and so on. Some even say there is no heaven, no hell and no GOD...But believe it or not. Jesus was crucified, he died and rose on the third day and he is alive forever and ever. He is THE DIVINE SON OF GOD and he is coming back again to rule this world for 1000years and afterwards he will establish a new heaven and a new earth where those who believe in him will live forever and ever and ever without sins,sadness,death but in total grandeur John 3:36 'Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life; whoever does not obey the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God remains on him.
6.Heresy False teachings have made many unbelievers run away from salvation simply because many preachers have presented salvation in a very different light and many people would rather remain as unbelievers rather than get involved in what seem to be a bondage to them. I have heard some preachers say 'You will end up in hell If you wear jewelleries, use relaxers on your hair, if a lady wears trousers, if you don't pay your tithe, if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, if you take alcohol, if you marry more than a wife....and on and on they set their own standard that is totally different from what is written in the scriptures thereby making salvation look like a serious bondage and in the process they discourage many people who indulge in those things they condemn from getting saved.
Galatians 5:13 'For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don’t use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love'.
7.Theological permutation and combination I know many people might be coming across these combination of words for the very first time but i have meticulously observed that there are different interpretations to scriptures in relation to different Christian denominations. This is not heresy in anyway but just a different understanding of the scriptures hence the reason why some believe in trinity and some don't...some believe that this earth will remain forever and some don't...some don't even believe in speaking in tongues and some believe it is a vital sign that you have received the baptism of the holy spirit...and many more. In my opinion, this different beliefs could make outsiders or unbelievers get more confused and could make them start wondering if they really need to get involved. My humble suggestion is that we as a body of Christ must focus on saving souls which is the most vital assignment given to us by Jesus and focus less on the discrepancies in interpreting scriptures.
Romans 14:5-8 'One person considers one day more sacred than another; another considers every day alike. Each of them should be fully convinced in their own mind .Whoever regards one day as special does so to the Lord. Whoever eats meat does so to the Lord, for they give thanks to God; and whoever abstains does so to the Lord and gives thanks to God.For none of us lives for ourselves alone, and none of us dies for ourselves alone. If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.'
8.Using human as role model This is one of the biggest mistake many people make...infact some people have given up their salvation because they use 'pastors' as role model rather than use Christ Jesus. Many people will say 'How can i give my life to Christ when i saw a pastor in a hotel room with a lady, how can i be born again when pastors who preach the gospel are enmeshed in sins'. If you are one of these people who use humans as role model i humbly advise you to take your eyes away from men and focus on Jesus who is the author and finisher of our faith...He is our role model.
Hebrews 10:2 'Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.'
9.Sophistication Many people are too full of themselves when it comes to the issue of salvation...they believe they are too powerful, popular, classy, wealthy, handsome/pretty,educated...to accept Jesus as their lord and saviour so they just ignore and continue to live their life until its too late. No matter how powerful,wealthy, good looking, influential, popular...you are, the fact remains that one day when you least expect it, you MUST leave this world and you must end up in either HELL or HEAVEN so the choice is yours to make while you are still in this world.
I keep reiterating that death must come to all no matter your age or status and it will come when we least expect it and when you die, people will forget about you so the best insurance you can have for your soul is to accept Jesus this moment because the worst thing that can ever happen to any human is to be caught dead without accepting Jesus as lord and saviour.
10.Some people will never be saved As strange and wicked as this may seem,it is the truth. Lucifer,the demons and all fallen angels as well as those whose name have not been written in the book of life before the foundations of the world. This may get us confused but then i guess it still remains our choice to decide if we want to be saved or not....its totally up to you.
MAY GOD HELP US ALL. Smh! Once I skiimed through the first point- all that crappy and flawed doctrine about accepting Jesus... I didn't even bother to take even a glimpse at the remaining. This is highly delusional and a terrible scam that our so called Churches have perpetuated from time immemorial. Please you so called Christians should snap out of this silly line and quit being narrow minded. I wonder what wld happen to the Muslims, Buddhist, Hindus and Jews who would never get to accept Jesus but have high ethical standards.Guess its an automatic hell for them.. Please anyone that cares to learn- Authentic spirituality isnt abt Jesus. Its about applying the universal and timeless principles of the spirit which cuts across all religions. And yes, doing good..having a solid ethical foundation is an intricate part of it...as a matter of fact its what wld determine each person fate in eternity. Closed and narrow minded folks don't know there are other very rich Hindu, Buddhist and Christian scriptures where they can leaen from aside the well known and overrated Bible. |
Romance › Re: Can You Surgically Kill Your Sexual Urge To Please Your Partner? by BdorianGray(m): 3:27pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Mariinee: Hell no, fvck no. Sex is a necessity and I'm not talking about sex with some plastic human or dick-looking d!ldo.  Smh! Ola what foundational values are you laying in preparation for a successful matrimony. I think you really need to think about the way u have allowed certain kind of iinfluences to shape who you are making out your self tto be.. Good luck! |
TV/Movies › Re: 50 Cartoons That Were Shown On Nigerian Television In The 1970s And '80s. by BdorianGray(m): 11:27am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Wow! Op, lord have mercy! This is Nostalgic. I was a frequent viewer of these kiddies programme in the 80s on NTA2 channel 5&10. Like 80% of them all..esp Voltron. Superted-spotty  .. Danger mouse..sesame street etc.. This post reminds me of other top tTV soaps and drama like behind the clouds, aya iya ko ko ko ko ko...New masq and village headmaster... Na wah oh! The world is coming to an end oh  ... |
Christianity Etc › Re: RCCG's 'Office Of The Mother In Israel'. Folu Adeboye's Title: Meaning? (Photos) by BdorianGray(m): 11:05am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Shegzy8: so because the lord said they are a chosen generation now means israel=chosen one..nonsense analogy...in hebrew, israel means "may God prevail"...we are not israelites...christians should learn to be liberal..jesus came for the gentiles but still a gentile will remain one in person and not in belief Liberal u say? That's like a tall order.Many so called Christians have been terrible indoctrinated with very flawed and fanatical kind of teachings. Hence their belief that Jeusus and heaven is their Sole property and inheritance. They are apparently too superficial to reason and understand that Christ is universal and is an intricate part of evey religion be it Buddhism, Islam, Jews, Hinduism or the so overrated Christianity.No one will be judged apart based on the earthly religion of their haman personality. |
Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Old Beliefs Of Pastor Kumuyi Of Deeper Life Which He Latter Abandoned by BdorianGray(m): 10:42am On Feb 18, 2018 |
I wonder if Kumuyi broke away from Jehovah's witness cos it seems they both share or used to share similar extremist, fanatical and weird beliefs. |
Romance › Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by BdorianGray(m): 4:23am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Shankieboy: I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.
I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.
I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.
What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.
Insults are welcomed. It happens! Many times in life we seem to have done all we could- Pray, fast and still we don't see the change we seek. Well, my advice to you is to keep praying, fast and above all do a lot of sacrificial giving or charity. It is very likely your Soul is entangled in a terrible karmic current. Most time just prayer and fasting don't do the miracle. Good luck! |
Romance › Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by BdorianGray(m): 4:21am On Feb 18, 2018 |
[quote author=Shankieboy post=65142453]I'm a devoted christian. I believe |
Romance › Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by BdorianGray(m): 10:27am On Feb 17, 2018*. Modified: 10:07pm On Feb 23, 2018 |
AntiBrutus: The thread is directed at ladies, with over 90% comments from males and some of them dissing females. This is the exact reason women don't even tell men anything in reality. They can't shut up and allow you talk. Damn!  |
Celebrities › Re: 'How Chukwuka Emelionwu Kasvid Discovered Us' - Aki And Pawpaw by BdorianGray(m): 9:58am On Feb 17, 2018 |
TheSoothedSoul: Honestly I work very hard, I work in a private organisation but the pay is too low...a graduate for that matter, in fact I dnt wanna talk about it. I wish someone can direct me to some babalawo...I know I'm desperate but it ain't ma fault honey. Na wah oh! I still think you are joking... But please try and exercise a little more patient and don't loose hope.. |
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Nairaland General › Re: 4 Tips To Help You Become Free Of Your Every Addiction by BdorianGray(m): 1:46pm On Feb 16, 2018 |
Rozaytee: i remembered suffering from an addiction.. i confided in a priest and he ignited it more...i decided not to confide again...i decided to deal wit my shiit alone....am glad i overcame it Wow! I think a lot of other younger ladies and even Guys have something to learn from your experience and success story. |
Family › Re: "I Slept With 18 Men In 30 Days" - Delta Wife Confesses At Shrine by BdorianGray(m): 1:37pm On Feb 16, 2018 |
Rozaytee: d woman is a sex addict....dats y people need to work on dem selfs before marriage.. Maam! Would u be kind enough as to explain what u mean by " work on dem self's " Tanx. |
Sports › Re: Why Iheanachọ's Name Has Two Dots Under by BdorianGray(m): 1:21pm On Feb 16, 2018 |
B4queen: Nigerians and Football hmmm.
@iam_b4queen How are u doing? |
Celebrities › Re: Victoria Inyama And Ben Okri's Marriage Crashes: I Want Divorce, He Assaulted Me by BdorianGray(m): 12:28pm On Feb 16, 2018 |
teacherbim: Marriage marriage marriage not easy but thank God for mine not by my strength, 13years still counting also thank God I did not marry that my ex that I so much loved, he now have 2baby mama's and 1wife,chicks nko uncountable, thank you Jesus Wow! Congrats on your successful marriage. BTW u are very pretty with cute kids too. I wish you many more years of a very successful matrimony. Cheers! |
Romance › Re: "If You Want Peace, Let Him Be" - Lady To Insecure Women Who Keep Tabs On Men by BdorianGray(m): 10:39am On Feb 16, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe:

The sad truth is, If you want peace, be single and contented.
Being in a relationship with someone means your peace is relative to them. Your happiness is directly proportional to their willingness to letting you have it.
If you are in a relationship already. There's no definite rule to it. Forget about peace, just live. Peace and love comes to who it wants to come to.
By the way, Hello Nairaland. Thanks for the love https://s19.postimg.org/kizr1d9sj/2018-01-13_12_43_08.gif Peace comes from within neither way or either way. It isn't dependant on any external factors. |
Romance › Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by BdorianGray(m): 8:14pm On Feb 14, 2018 |
I perceive the bad ass stench of acrimony, animosity and bitterness between folks who have had St with each other in the past and it turned out a farce..a fiasco..
Come on now! Y'all shld do better than acting like little kids here...
And as for the OPs topic... I think its very funny and silly. In any case, what applies to 90% of romancelander ladies is more or less applicable to romance lander Guys...
What lopsided sick carp is all dis.. |
Romance › Re: 14 February 2018: Valentine’s Day, Ash Wednesday Or Soccer Where Will You Be? by BdorianGray(m): 5:36pm On Feb 14, 2018 |
JennieCutie4U: yes i am... you may now take your leave Aii... Didnt mean to sound like spiteful... What i meant is dat we seem to gat things in common...and one is that am boring too...But i aint leaving... Sorry!  |
Romance › Re: 14 February 2018: Valentine’s Day, Ash Wednesday Or Soccer Where Will You Be? by BdorianGray(m): 5:16pm On Feb 14, 2018 |
JennieCutie4U: no val plans at all...just Ash Wednesday service shikena! Why na? Are u that boring  .... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Faith Oyedepo's 60th Birthday: Adeboye, Enenche, Ibiyeomie Others Attend by BdorianGray(m): 3:04am On Feb 14, 2018 |
Berlyn1: Awon goons toh di pastors Hmmm never knew u were a Val's kid.. Happy birthday and happy Val's.. Hope ur lala be by ur side  |
Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by BdorianGray(m): 2:59am On Feb 14, 2018 |
tynar: Hello peeps, my name is valentina. Am currently working on my project and i want to know if anyone has a similar topic has mine which is "impact of social media on student academic performance" thank you. How u doing....Happy birthday and happy Val's... |
Romance › Re: 99% Of Men Get Married Because Of Sex & 100% Of Women Marry Because Of Money! by BdorianGray(m): 2:56am On Feb 14, 2018 |
DivaJessy:
[color=#990000][/color] I see you are new here and looking for your way around...let me help you? |
Romance › Re: This Is The Highest Level Of Friend Zone. Photo by BdorianGray(m): 1:53am On Feb 14, 2018 |
overonty: Lol, there are two sides to a coin Think of him as just a friend with no lustful intention He was even smiling in the last pix How u doing lady?Happy vals |
Romance › Re: 14 February 2018: Valentine’s Day, Ash Wednesday Or Soccer Where Will You Be? by BdorianGray(m): 1:33am On Feb 14, 2018 |
dammysel: Celebrating my birthday ����� Happy birthday. Wish u many happy returns. Happy Val. |
Romance › Re: 14 February 2018: Valentine’s Day, Ash Wednesday Or Soccer Where Will You Be? by BdorianGray(m): 1:26am On Feb 14, 2018 |
JennieCutie4U: Ash Wednesday sure pass! Which parish? .... But well, do u mean u gat no Val plans at all...  |
Romance › Re: Valentine: "Fornication, Witchcraft Are Twin Sisters, Virginity Is The New Cool" by BdorianGray(m): 12:37pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Yinxies: Who will be my Val? Your Husband..  |