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Cutehector:
as in eh, a true christain wil neva ask his girlfrnd or her boyfrnd for sex!!

True Christians are very few in this our generation.

Our politicians are so hilarious
I will chop it very well

How convenient is it for you to 'ask' if someone wouldn't die soon when you are not sure of tomorrow yourself?

tosyne2much:
Who the discuss sex with a lady b4 a relationship ? I mean who does that ?

Discuss it with a lady b4 a relationship and she would plainly tell you she doesn't want it

It's rather unfortunate you fail to see that there is need to treat everyone as an individual. Don't treat the lady next door the way you treat the one in your school / work place.

We all have different up bringing hence, our view and orientation of life is different. Don't forget I used the word 'OPEN MIND' without anyone holding anything back... here you need to let go of all your insecurities and fear and try to be selfish... this is what I want then you remove the selfishness and reach a compromise if you can


This believe / idea of yours actually accounts for some form of subtle rape where guys would Tell you don't mind her she wants it, she's just pretending.

If I can't show you my real color, i doubt if it's love. Something as fragile as sex should be discussed in a relationship it's very wrong to rely on assumption.

Very soon, we would start seeing topics like why do ladies eat?


Just think of smth stupid and insert ladies into it...

tosyne2much:
Hahaha

Ladies like sex but have been pretending they hate it since the time of Noah

Nope! Ladies have been taught to always hide their sexual desires.


That does not mean every lady who says no to sex is pretending. Some mean it while some don't. Best thing is for the two parties to discuss the issue with an open mind from the onset of the relationship/relationshit

Jesu oko momi o!
See insult everywhere... all because of sex.
I can't fit shout.



Op, blame the society.

Oh my God! I'm still laughing. The first pics wan kill me

Develop mouth odor or body odor.
That way even if body do you to toast babe, the babe no go gree

Fake or real, I can't

starlingslimnet:
everything there is suicidal

That was why I told you to always be at alert... acid is not a good smth.

For real, for a lady to fall in love with you as much as you claim they do, you must have led them on. The best you can do is retrace your steps and forget about hurting them. The earlier you do it, the better for you guys.

starlingslimnet:
u Don confuse me na

I gave you options... choose the one you find easy and effective

Tell them you are impotent

Tell them you have leprosy or you are epileptic

Tell them you are owing someone a huge amount of money

Tell them you have a family tradition which involves them grounding one basin of pepper with grounding stone.

Just Tell them smth ridiculous...


You are welcome









If you can't do any of the above, just Tell them they are ugly and lock up.








Okay! Tell them your mind and stop doing whatever it is you are doing for them. Like calling, texting, visiting and the rest of them but always be at alert... Acid is not a good smth.

For real?
Are you kidding me?

kinglekan:
Me sef dey wonda ooooo

So what r they doing on ur chest oooo??

I need to come ........ dem. *grins*

Oh!
you are such a perv!

kinglekan:
ROTFL. Milk factory tins.

*covas face*

What would I be doing with a whole milk factory?

killuminati:
Maybe na my eyes deceive me

They sure did

kinglekan:
Dnt mind him jawe. All I can see is two big balloons. *grins*

Thank God say na balloon you see

killuminati:
Ok, but why your belle come bulge small na?

lemme check the pishur again


As flat as that tommy is?
Make I kukuma no get belle at all?

killuminati:
Oya sorry

Berra!
Forgiven

killuminati:
O gyal, na for which village you take dat your dp pics?

You see the mansions wey dey my background, you call am village?
I'm gonna sue you!

What pweety gel

It's official, Seun is in trouble.

PunkyBrewster:
It's girl power. LMFAO.

My point is, you can't expect the woman of today to act or behavelike the woman of yesteryear when things ain't like they used to be. It's a no brainer, really. If I make my own ends, I have a right to tell you to go fvck yourself if you're becoming a headache because I'm not dependant on you for my livelihood. The qualities that y'all seem to be searching for had a lot to do with the fact that men were the only breadwinners back then, so the women had no choice but to play possum aka "passive" & all the other lame qualities that seem to get some of you guys hard because they make you feel like a big boy about town. Independence gives assertiveness & it's not about to change. Not today!

Just keep singing along to Neyo's Ms Independent because she seems to be what most guys are searching for, since they no longer want to foot the bill alone. But just remember that she'll be sassy since she doesn't need you to survive.

Can't believe the nerve of wanting to go 50/50 with a woman in other things, but yet expect her to be a silent partner when it comes to voicing her opinions or whatever the heck she wants to do. We're equals. WTH? Make her a housewife & provide for her if you don't want her rolling her neck at you with attitude. That's it!

Tell them!
I would drink one chilled can malt on your behalf

Nothing would ever satisfy you men...nothing!
you go screaming ladies should learn to be independen, i love independent ladies this and that .

When you see one, you become intimidated and to cover your sorry ass, you tag her bitchy, rude and all sort of sophisticated annoying names.

Real men handle their woman while over grown babies cry about it... chose where you belong.

You don't demand for respect, you earn it. If you want an independent lady, you better step up your game, bro.

Who goes back to demand a refund from an ex?
who goes back to demand for a refund after 30yrs?

Toh! May the dead...

davien:
I never implied you did

True....that still doesn't stop social and sexual disinterest....those are the long term effects of prostitution..

You're alluding the context, which is two people having se.xual relations to solidify emotional attachments and those that donate sperm render it for money of course, but for the couples involved want the sperm for that emotional attachment(a baby)...
It's not a matter of opinion....if you have relations with people that have different members you stand a chance to harm yourself whether through the inability to keep up with the se.xual demand( an example is "bondage" )

According to Joe S. McIlhaney, Jr., M.D., there is clinical evidence to show that "the same rate of chlamydial infection occurs in those who use condoms and those who do not."

http://www.altheal.org/overview/condoms.htm

This isn't merely a "headache at the job" effect but an exploration of the opposite gender and the degradation of their being....

I understand
perfectly
True...but that doesn't mean it'll stop anyone from still using an innocent girl...arguably it may even trigger such.
Good for you...

Alright! Weldon.

akinsadeez:
Hmmmm. I do understand but you should be able to have an intellectual discourse online without necessarily minding the creatures with myopic view. you just ignore whomever you want.


But you know, there is no express delineation of what is moral and what is not. I'm assuming the hypocrisy and double standards you are talking about concerns the men (if I am not mistaken). My point is, the morality of a thing is determined by the expressions of both the men and the women as a whole in the society not just the men alone. if there are double standards then it also has the contribution of the women in it. If you raise the issue of prostitution in a forum today, the women will be the first to condemn the prostitutes without looking deeper into the underlying issues.

However, you still haven't answered my question. if you are not condemning prostitution, are you saying it is morally right?

I was not referring to men. If the society sees nothing wrong in those whose work is to kill those sentenced to death by mortal men when the Bible clearly says thou shall not kill without a BUT in it... of'cos they are helping the society. So are prostitutes if not for them, the amount of rape victims would be more than we have presently. #My opinion#

davien:
No,emotional,physically,mentally and clinically it's wrong....How?

Well emotional the profession exploits the emotions needed to procreate and turns it into profit....more like a few naira for a few minites of "happy time"..

Physically it isn't appropriate to have relations with different genres of people with different lengths of their members that could lead to an irregular vagin.al shape or even make it lose it's elasticity....plus the necessity to satisfy the fetish of each customer(which may include bruising)

Mentally having relations with different people without the emotional attachments can lead to a life of social and sexual disinterest...

Clinically it paves way for sexually transmitted diseases and could lead to new forms of diseases(in regions that permit the consumption and interaction of our genetic cousins...I.e chimps)

Lol... I dropped the argument already. That does not mean I agree with you.

Mentally: it's a thing of choice. If you can't stand the heat in the kitchen, get the Fu*ck out.

Emotionally: talking about procreation as a means of profit, what of those who donate sperm to earn money and who says the act is for procreation alone?

Physically, I'm not one and I'm sure guys who have been with them wouldn't agree with you about the shape or state of their V

Clinically, we have a whole lot of preventive measures out there... at least, I know of condom.

I'm yet to see that profession that does not affect one physically, mentally, clinically and emotionally. Except you love what you are doing which gives you the strength to keep going despite the odds.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not encouraging prostitution. But don't you think it's better to visit one compared to using an innocent girl for sex under the pretence of love and false promise of marriage.

Prostitution is bad! I agree and wouldn't encourage anyone to go into it.

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Laitesmart:
Let's give it to u!!!
The dumbest lie is not having lied ever!!!!

My award, pls

Ipledge:
and ur bf believe

You are my only gf,that's my worst lie

Lol...
I've never said that to anyone.

My dumbest lie? what lie can that be...
Gaskiya! I'm not sure I've told any dumb lie

Ipledge:
tell me ur lies,

I don't like money