Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 12:57pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 12:34pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
horladmejy: you Dan reach here? Well I guess the Op is talking from his own side of the story....I guess catch dem young isn't working like before tho Lol... I was only mocking the expression catch them young  It has always been funny to me since the very first time i heard it in my university days.  I've seen ladies very much older than I'm who ain't half as matured as i'm likewise I've seen ladies younger than i'm and their level of maturity wowed me. My stance here is AGE has got nothing to do with MATURITY You shouldn't write someone off because she is in her early twenties. |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 12:10pm On Aug 11, 2015*. Modified: 12:40pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
BrainnewsNg: Hmmmmm
Can we see your own write Up? Please I'm yet to understand the rationale behind this your mention. Correct me if I'm wrong, you are in your late twenties/early thirties and in your teens and early twenties, you exhibited all the traits OP mentioned in his post, right? |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 12:00pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
erico2k2: The Op sadly is right, the days of catch them young is long gone,no one wants libility in all its episodes,I think most men these days want a woman with foundation so he can lay his base there in order to build on if you get waht I mean. lol... Financial independence has got nothing to do with age. Would have loved to share an experience with you but i can't due to one very funny reason. |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 11:39am On Aug 11, 2015 |
Toks2008: lol we had an elaborate intro 6 years into ctship but no trdtnal marriage yet as we both agreed to wait for some rsons but thats history now. chai! i can't fit. Una try |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 7:59am On Aug 11, 2015*. Modified: 8:05pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
Toks2008: Yes o see my life?
now ladies wont stop asking me jamb questions like
How come you are still single at 40? i just tell them that i was in one chance affair for 11years so now i dey find matured babe wey go don see experience like must have been heart broken,head broken,everything broken by at least 3 guys. Such will calm down.
If a man thinks he has found love with a naive lady then he just might be fooling himself cos no matter how caring loving faithful cute rich or romantic you may be,a naive lady will always believe ther is something better out there while the experienced knows better that a good guy is very hard to find. At first, i was shocked... now I'm laughing. How can you date someone for 11yrs  (seen my mixed reaction now) like who does that?  She tried, she was with you for 11 good yrs before leaving, she gave you the whole of her prime. You guys were dating for 11yrs? What were you doing in the relationship that you couldn't do in 5yrs at most and get married. I don't even know how to organize my thoughts. I have a lot in my head right now  |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 7:38am On Aug 11, 2015 |
EmmyDe25: Didnt see much sense in what the guy put up. Its more like saying dont date any lady. I will go for an indoor and hardworking bae any day of the week. Thank you  |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 7:19am On Aug 11, 2015 |
Toks2008: Interesting.
Just that most times the steps you teach the young ones will usuallky be used to dance with another.
I was 27 when i met my ex at 19 but all the 11 years we were together i realized that she was always wondering how the outside world looks like and before we parted 2years ago she was saying stuffs like she feels caged all her life that she has no life outside our affair having spent all her life wth me bla bla so she eventually left.
Now tell me if i happen to meet her in her late 20s after she must have had experience will she utter such words?
i have come to realize that only experience can shape us and this is why these age group are usually calmer,wiser and ready to settle down. Are you kidding me? You meet her when she was 19 and dated for 11 good years WTF! |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 7:14am On Aug 11, 2015 |
Alezy: u might just be wrong. how nau 
Tell me sweetheart, how? |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 7:00am On Aug 11, 2015 |
Toks2008: I can bet you did not read and comprehend. Puma *Rushes back to read the write up all over again* Sweetie, what i wrote is not out of context. I guess you are the one who needs to understand my post. Good morning. |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 11:22pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
LaurelP: 16 to 25 still dey learn how to wash their panties! ehen? You can't be serious  |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 11:02pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
What happened to 'catch them young'  I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity. Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it. It's very funny how people reason |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: The Wooing Challenge Season VII!!! [Men Pick Your Ladies] by Beamborla(f): 10:53pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
mystage: Am nt gona ever be discharge until u cum nd see me on my sick bed in my house where am been treated. wat i nid to get wel is nt a drug, wat i need to get well is ur presence nd ur pretty face. ur pretty face heals faster dan every drugs(both native and english). And you are sick o  ... if you no come sick nko  By the way, i will not 'cum'  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: The Wooing Challenge Season VII!!! [Men Pick Your Ladies] by Beamborla(f): 10:16pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
asumo12: I want to woo tchidi and beamborla but I don't know how  Asumo |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: The Wooing Challenge Season VII!!! [Men Pick Your Ladies] by Beamborla(f): 10:10pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
mystage: Nah am nt. u xpect me to be fine wen u unfairly abandoned me? Oh dear! When will you be discharged?  |
Forum Games › Re: Tag And Ask by Beamborla(f): 7:49pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Yeeeey! Why is this place moving on slow motion  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: The Wooing Challenge Season VII!!! [Men Pick Your Ladies] by Beamborla(f): 7:44pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
mystage: enh enh. where is dis girl sef? whats dat her name o.. beam..beambor,.. nw i remembe? its beamborla. beamborla where are thou? long time i heard frm ya. Ayam very fine. Are you?  |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 5:03pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
otunsman: The op didn't say it's applicable to every indoor individuals. Even after reading the title? |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 5:02pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
wrench: yea I can testify to this......OP is so wrong. Thanks, hun  |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 5:01pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
ifoundmyperfect: I couldn't agree any less with you. Very well said. We seem to be having many phoney human behavioural analyst trending lately on Nairalander. E don tire me! Things like this end up affecting lots of relationships negatively |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 4:59pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
sage2: Yeah, he will get that wrong on a lot of people who keep indoors. Meanwhile, how is JTown? i heard JTown is fine.  I'm out of JTown for now |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 4:56pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
butanep: You have some point which I subscribe to... but the Op is 60% correct.
Most indoor ladies are very boring and uninformed. They prefer to be isolated which is not too idea. They hardly go out to visit friends, hardly communicate with their neighbors or even go for outings.
I meet one during my NYSC days. This lady can be indoor for 22hrs of the 24hrs in a day. She hardly talk with her neighbors or fellow corpers. She just have one friend but they later had misunderstanding. When other ladies are going out to watch football and volleyball at the field, she will prefer staying indoor. She hardly go out for social events. Come to POP dinner night, she said NO, come to after party, she said No.
That lady indoor mood was affecting her psychologically. Just her PPA and church she do attend. I was having feeling for her but she was just too boring for my liking. I knew we can't cope because I am a very lively person.
The worse part of it is that, she is not romantic. I couldn't understand why such a cute lady was just like that...I was the only guy she visit and chat with in the LG but I must confess. she was boring. I really couldn't explain if it was her indoor mood that place her in such state. For me... its a NO to indoor and boring ladies. It's so unfortunate you met a boring lady. I mentioned that the OP might be right about SOME |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 4:46pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 4:43pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Jackrich: We will give you a Nairaland guy to play husband while you play the wife for me to believe you.
I also heard that the indoor type makes babies like rats - Even if you only smile at them they are already pregnant . 
TP Lol... You want him and i to flood NL with babies, right?  |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 3:36pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
ademega: but I advise u don't take the chance of marring such There is always one flaw or the other in people. Nobody can be perfect, never. You see no. 3,4,6&8 are debatable. It is rather unfair to generalize them and ask for them to be avoided. |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 3:11pm On Aug 09, 2015*. Modified: 3:27pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
ademega: the question is, are u married? Let me ask IFA  My point is, cos someone is the indoor type does not mean he or she is not informed(not when all the information you could possibly be in need of is just a click away from you) or must be boring. I'd tell you indoor people spend their time reading almost anything they come across. They'd beat you hands down on any topic you engage them on so long it's of interest to them. They often the chatter box on social platforms...you can research that. They make up more than half of the people you find on any social platform. some of them might be just what you've written above but believe me it applies to quite a few I repeat, they are not necessarily boring. Cos they are not exposed to people, they might be kind of withdrawn but if you make them feel comfortable around you, you might just have to beg for a break if care is not taken. |
Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by Beamborla(f): 3:00pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Am the indoor type and you are totally wrong about me.  |
Events › Re: Hbd To Asumo12!!! by Beamborla(f): 12:36pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
asumo12: If no one wishes me HBD I nor vex lemme use this medium to wish my humble self LLNP...
To be LEO no be easy task...
08/08 nani ko easy...
 Sweetie, happy birthday in areas. I wish you the best of all good things. I apologise it's coming late |
Forum Games › Re: Tag And Ask by Beamborla(f): 11:34am On Aug 09, 2015 |
luxanne: Replied  I'm yet to receive it.
Can you re send, pls |
Forum Games › Re: Tag And Ask by Beamborla(f): 11:33am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Specialist900: my bachelorhood is a bit different from theirs. Atleast I still get hope
You don dey indebted for ekiti? This is serious  |
Forum Games › Re: Tag And Ask by Beamborla(f): 11:31am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Specialist900: tell me, what then are you a fan of? Nothing in particular  |
Forum Games › Re: Tag And Ask by Beamborla(f): 11:30am On Aug 09, 2015 |
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