₦airaland Forum

dahveey:
I am David, pls I need job with accomodation in Lagos . I only have Waec result.

eeya...all is well

laHot1:
Want to work at federal ministry?
I can help @ a cost

how genuine is this

Nothing is impossible but he should come back to struggle and free us

This is Nigeria

graciamore:
i forgive you anyways, may u find help too.. I leave u in peace.

How are you campbell118 GraciousLoveth bro begging, sis begging, dad begging... All family members on Nairaland begging
I always knew I will find you here

Pretty lady

What exactly don't this people want

iTearHerToto:
Prolly what these hoes deserve. Too much attention and they'd attempt transmuting you into a nauseating simp.
Do not be a simp for no hoe unless your ancestors cursed you



Pukes

hahahhahahha caused by an ancestor

Time is changing... Wedding is for women. it's an event meant to celebrate the ladies who have not turned themselves to community distributor and live a pious life.

No matter what she wants on here wedding day,if she has been faithful, you can give her what she wants.

But you see these lonely online feminist in their 30s ehen

You are a Hypocrite.
Which passage of the Bible teaches you you be disobedient to the law

Righteousness89:
It Makes no sense!!
I condemn this statement in all its Ramifications !!

Some of us could see through your shenanigans.

Let the blackmail start rolling

Dyt:
Oh yeah
You know her so well?

You won't be the first woman to be a single mum and you won't be the last. My point is tone down the hate.

There is nothing bad being a lady, picking a poor man and helping to to become better person.

Takotsubo:
@dyt

Married 10+

It is crucial before tying the knot to sit down and actually think of what you want and be very very clinical about it. List the ones that are deal breakers for you and DO NOT compromise on them.

Talk about money,is it 50/50 or is it joint account? How about chores? What does he or she think about raising children? Dirty or clean? Church or no church? Flexible or rigid roles at home? Sex everyday or once in 2 weeks?

Marrying the wrong person can ruin and derail a person forever and it's important to remember that the definition of a good marriage differs from person to person depending on their needs.

I strongly believe that once you miss laying the kind of foundation & communication style that suits you in the first 3 years,it will be very difficult to redress them later on

I am in what people/outsiders would term an easy marriage, My family think my husband is a saint and it makes me smh BUT I will say what makes it "easy" is that we are mostly cohesive personality wise and because we ironed out our main differences between year 1&2.
We were also fortunate to be free from family intrusion so we chose our own pattern free from mama and papa method .

Even at that,life has still found ways to throw curve balls.

Easy does not mean that you won't misbehave and or inflict pain on each other.

It does not mean you won't struggle with faithfulness , bad thoughts including I hate you ones ,thunder fire you ones etc but the difference is that you have a lot in the emotional tank that acts as a buffer so when you have the devilish thoughts or when that ass is shaking in your face, or some hot dude is hitting on you, you draw from that bank and remind yourself that someone actually loves you and you don't want to destroy what you have.

When this tank is full, apologies flow easily, you agree to disagree. No money? You chill and plan together. Every challenge will just feel surmountable because you know you will face it TOGETHER.

No human being is perfect,no human being can fulfill your every desire.

You will make so many sacrifices and accept your spouse and their inadequacies because when you balance their goodness against it,you'll still feel like you hit a jackpot.

I cannot describe how incredibly satisfying it is to have a spouse that always wants to be home with you ,to have a home that exudes warmth & children that are happy.

Despite my personal struggles ,once I open the door and see their faces,every sacrifice is worth it.

That said,if anything happens to my marriage, I will NEVER remarry. Got kids,nice career,small cash,the rest can be on a hello & bye basis.

don't worry nothing will happen to your marriage just be honest with yourself. The thing the person that opened this thread is actually a single mother, so you all should know the angle she is coming from

Millenniumlady:
Boy i'm better than you because what I've achieve right now in my early twenties you can't come close to that in your late 50s.

but they said you were beginning for just 1k in a post lie that

Ishilove:
Nigerians are indeed very emotional. Now we have incontrovertible proof that Cynthia lied. In saner climes Jude can sue her for every Kobo she has (which isn't much to start with).

at all at all naa hin bad pass

Uneme-Nekhua in Akoko Edo is #5
Yes you saw it right!
It's Five naira.

Holumhidey:
Audio education......

But how do you intend to help since you know it's audio education?

You could be asymptomatic..
You could probably be having a different ailment.

Please don't be afraid to self isolate of consult your doctor. Don't wait till you infect another person which will make contact tracing to be difficult

The Lord is your strength

donbachi:
They need a roof over their heads...where is never a problem.

the wife won't be free. It's best a man moves into his own private accommodation with his wife