₦airaland Forum

So sad, a one time beautiful thing destroyed by childlessness. A friend once said that children is the sweetness of a home and never i doubted it.
Please let us be concious of what we do in our youth. Sometimes fertility issues are as a result of what we could have avoided.
Imagine the woman saying she has taken all manner of concoctions, what if the man has a low sperm count or no sperm at all?

2elliot:
So, who are enabling the ones happening elsewhere? I am not even an Igbo, I am an ijaw from Bayelsa state. You don't know what is happening. The Igbos are taking major brunt of the barbaric Fulani wickedness because they are the major clog in the wheel of the Fulani conquest of the south. Without you guys taking the hit, we would have been overran. Don't be deceived by any propaganda. The killings are done by Fulani's and the fg, in conjunction with some sold out efulefus.

I will not argue with you

2elliot:
When it happens in the East, fingers are pointed at ESN and Ipob. But when it happens in south west or any other region, it is pointed at Fulani bandits. You are a despicable child of afonja.

No he is not! You people keep on enabling this devilish ipob movement that will end up swallowing us all. I stay in the east i have first-hand experience of what this ipob people have done. Sometimes on sundays they will first open the monday sit at home by killing people.
These days even the sound of farts gets us edgy as you dont know whether it is the sound of a gun ( pun intended) but it is what it is.

Tegabadguy:
cream also cus it

i never said it doesn't.

MissLAP:
So you apply cream on your nyash and boobs?

Is anything wrong with that?

So sad

Tegabadguy:
2 much of abortion can cus it

Fear God my dear, some people just have it.
It is not always caused by cream too, i use nivea products which is very mild on the skin but i have them.

I do not see myself entering this nightmare

buygala:
Yes Sir/Ma


Any problem?

You are truly handsome

buygala:
I would prefer to date, have kids with who I am dating, but not marry.

After all said and done sha, nothing guarantees anything.

People can date for 15 years and break up weeks into a marriage..Some can just marry upon recommendation from friends and family without dating for even a day, and have a very enjoyable marriage..

For me, marriage these days is a gamble I am not willing to take, because I like to be solely responsible for my own happiness..

Presently, I am handsome, single, comfortable and very happy...and i would really like those set of circumstances to persist as long as I live..Nobody should use her reggae to come spoil my blues.

Are you the one on your dp?

livinbygrace:
You won’t understand his statement until you get married or God has already blessed you with good woman.Marriage these days is overhyped and more or less like a scam,so the guy is 1000% right.

The man is not right and i am a woman.
You people make it seem like marriage is your gift to women. Na una no

jeromestarks:
If she's not a virgin your bro has made a mistake he will live to regret.

Either he shares her with her ex(s) or he spends his money training someone else's child or he suffers both cases.


Marry a virgin and have peace of mind.
It's foolishness to sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of inlaws just to have a woman who was fvcked by another man with just two eggs and indomie.

This is not good

Zonefree:
Don't allow any vaginarian to monopolize the front seat of your car.

A vaginarian must monopolize a man's front seat unless you are a priest because even a gay has a vaginarian as a mother and taking over the front seat is something we are born with.

4ward4:
Are you married ? ..Do you know at times a man feels,like running aways also. marriage isn't just what you see, commitment doesn't come easy .And a woman coming back to their father's house in the course of marriage is 70% likely to happen due to minor and major conflicts, her exit from Her family home is been determined by how Her family react...If not she will be comfortable. Kid sis wanted trying that when having issues with Her husband . My mum told Her I don't have space in my house for you point blank in a family meeting..This is 7yrs ago, and they are still happily together . Before you agree to marry ,know what you are getting into.

Kick that Lady out OP...
Currently a younger lady friend of mine in another state is harbouring a married woman with 4 kids, she left Her husband house with same useless excuses OP sister is giving ...All what she does is sleep around for some change , I have told my friend to Kick her out to the street or I will go myself and do it, once I visit that state. To many married harlots all around us,who choose to leave their husband house, just because of pride and lack of patience.

The fact that you can open your mouth and call all the women around you harlots says a whole lot about you.

4ward4:
Was they any case of domestic violence between she and Her husband.
If there is None, you people should kick her out. She thinks marriage is a child's play. I know Her type ,they are the none submissive and unappreciative type of woman a good man will ever marry.
The bolded sold her out, and shows she is the architect and engineer of her marriage problem.
Handled a similar case, the man for once haven't laid a hand on this woman, but Her poison lips will brag and always say such statements ur sister used. Guess what ,oga got tired divorced and married a woman who will value and respect him. Today that Aunty is suffering and squating with a friend , Oga is out of the country with his wife and Her kids...
I repeat Kick her out your family even keeping her more than the usual visit time can be seen as an accomplice.

With due respect sir you are not human. How do you advice somebody to throw her own sibling out? All your kind ever thinks about is submission and then you end it with he never laid his hands on her. Do you know the psychological truama she goes on as a mother with five kids in a country that is unstable and probably with a husband that does not really help out until she threatened to leave?
Poster, i am not going to make excuses for your sister but before most Nigerian women will leave their CHILDREN behind to run to their father's house then their a serious problem.
Please take it easy on her and advice her on the best way forward, she is your sister. If she leaves your house today and the next day you heard she committed suicide can you forgive yourself?
She might be depressed.

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Omg, i have never seen anybody say this. Hope most people japaing will not regret leaving their good jobs to travel to canda, uk etc

Corridon:
Exactly what we expected from the world worst police force. Believe them you can believe anything.

I am sure you wished that the story is true. Fake stories kill let us stop this madness.

Berrityga:
Even when you make it official between God and man.. Guys like me will still come and chop her and clean mouth.. Do you know how many married women here in Lagos that I've chopped? Talk more of the single ones.. On Saturday I went out a girl approached me telling me I'm very handsome and tall the next day she called and said she is on her way r my house.. The rest is history. Thats somebody's serious relationship?? And she is engaged. I don't have plans on marrying any Nigerian girl. I have a baby mama and I'm working on a second one.

Your type will never marry and if eventually married, cannot have peace of mind because you will always have this feeling that your wife is like every other married woman you have been with. Cheers.

Wealthbrain22:
Have you people ever asked yourself that question sincerely? What’s so special about you that makes you think that your so called babe is dating just you? Is it your money or car or house or looks? Why are you special? You think you’re the only one with whatever qualities you think you have ? Bro trust me , 95% of you are in a relationship with yourself or best case scenario you are sharing one girl with at least 5 other guys, take it or leave it.

As for me I have made my peace with this, I don’t expect loyalty anymore, I know that the only time I’m truly with someone is when I make it official between God and man and we get married, till then let the games begin. I never mean what I say to any girl, I don’t love anyone, I’m just flowing with the tides, and I know any girl talking to me now is definitely doing the same and it’s cool.

It’s when you start deceiving yourself that you have found your dream girl and she loves you, that’s when you become the clown. Whatever you have, there are 6 billion guys out there with more, so if that girl isn’t wearing your ring, bro you’re dating yourself or in a polygamous relationship with a girl who has other boyfriends too. Many of you won’t agree but deep down you know your babe has other babes.

From your write up no girl is faithful and so i am wondering why on earth will you even consider settling down with an unfaithful creature?
One thing i know for sure is that your brain is messed up. There are so many girls that are still faithful and loyal. The question is can you recognize these good girls and will you treat them right when you see them?
Also are you ready to be loyal too?

Corridon:
Shatap. Catholic church is not a cash and carry institution.

Thank you

DOTian:
But it will hold in Borno, abi?
Is that the grand plan? Cause chaos and use that as an excuse to not hold elections in thpe East?

We caused the chaos ourselves. I am igbo but i can tell you that we are the ones killing ourselves.
And just so you know, this ipob stuff is a war between the rich and the poor igbos.

hammer567:
ALL OF YOU THAT QUOTED ME TODAY, MAY YOUR BROTHER, FATHER, HUSBAND AND SON BE MURDERED IN COLD BLOOD.

ISI!


THEY WILL DIE MISSERABLE DEATH AND THEIR CORPSE WILL NEVER BE FOUND.


ISI!

You are already a dead man. Overripe mumu

Johnrake69:
How do you go killing unarmed youth?

This is cold blooded murder. I can't see the arms these youths had with them.

Go and sit down terrorist! You people sit behind and watch your brothers perpetrate evil in the name of freedom fighting and you say nothing but once the Nigerian army do their jobs you cry blue murder.
You want to see their arms? Go ask the Nigerian Army.

hammer567:
RIP IN ADVANCE TO THE POLICE OFFICERS AND ARMY ABOUT TO DIE IN THE COMING DAYS AND WEEKS.


THEY HAVE TO PAY FOR THIS.




STAY TUNED FOR THE RETURN LEG AND SCORES, COMING UP.

If they catch you now your family will start claiming innocent. Scores my foot.

I am a fruity woman (Whatever that means ) but orange and water melon are my favourites.

Wisetrue99:


This regime is pathetic!

You planned and kidnapped Nnamdi KANU who was outside the country, Nigerians asked you to put in the same energy to flush out the deadly terrorists in the North, till date, no show!

Even the terrorists shows their locations, they make and receive calls, government officials goes there to visit them, still these terrorists walk freely and collect ransoms lol

As hot as the north is, na south armies come berekete

They have given Tinubu work to keep him busy, when they are done killing innocent citizens and labelling them all sort of names, they will still come for him (Tinubu)

We warned him before they showed him a bit of what they can do!

There's no leader as great as that which is selfless!

Go and sit your behind down. If war is going on in your family and some people are trying to help you save your family will you say leave my family and go save other family in distress?
This land is our land let us protect it and forget about what is happening in some other place. T for thanks.

Haakeem:
you don't use words anyhow,what does pathetic has to do with what i typed in??.

And for your information my mum went for the right man.

He hasnt for once layed his hand on her.

My sis too, same.

It seems you are nw the wicked person here nw.

Calling you a fool will be an insult to fools

Ammishaddai:
You're being too emotional for someone you dont even know . And secondly, how do you know if he wasn't rich/wealthy? Most of you women simply love comfort all to the detriment of your future which is why ya'll keep ending up as decomposing carcasses

Atleast now we know you are poor. Ok bye.

CanadaOrBust:
Don’t project your failure with girls on a tragic situation. This was her HUSBAND. Where did you see it said that he was rich??!!

God bless you immensely whereever you are. This man might even be a jobless man. Without offending anyone, i must say that poor people are the most aggressive people on earth.

Haakeem:
Good for her(kidding).

I came across a post on fb and it goes like this.

Henry bleach his skin with tattoo and goes to party everytime.

Paul is a handsome man but very gentle.

Peter is a drunkard and a smoker but does'nt womanize.

Ladies, who would you go for?.

Can you imagine 70% of the ladies choosed peter(enhe naw)?.

One even typed in rubbish saying she does'nt like dull men, so she would go for peter{okay we hear}.

I repeat again,good for her(kidding).

You are so pathetic. Do you have a mother, a daughter, or sister?
You do not even know this girls story yet you say good for her? You are not a good person! Tueh!