₦airaland Forum

EgunMogaji:
I'm very calculated and cautious with anything that goes on in my site while I'm not there. I don't care if my build takes me 5 years to complete, it will be at my pace and control.

In fact, some asshats on here regurgitated that I was struggling for money to build a bungalow

You can still build instead of buying but with one eye open.

so if u live abroad, and trying to build a block of six flats, do knw how many times u will have to go to naija before the project finish?

and u can even be there and they are robbing u. while u dey check up on electrician, plasterer don bury 2bags of cement for ground

Utchgirl:
Painful kwa ?

U must be joking

Why wil it be painful?

I tot u gona like it.


Akuko n'egwu mich ejeagha

speak d one i go hear naaaa, haba?

my people take am make parable say,

if pric-k no errect , u no go use punches beat to-to

or do u have other solutions to force a man to stay wit u??

u see dis people??

team buy house ooooo

i no fit shout

at topic,

those suppliers are wicked. in this era of telephone, they cudnt call to inform u rather they supplied their rejects.

just cut ur loses, return it to them and chose another colour of attempt to sell it ur self for a lesser price.

the colour is so odd, u will always look at it and remember how u got it.

Realone92:
This is why I have trust issues ...God aint sleeping ..It's well with her


I am just short of words..4 Children's wow

amen oo

amuokuko:
Does she not ve village people's number

Make she call asap before madness finish for store.

pls dont make me laugh, she is cursing and swearing na, wat gud will dat do?

even threatning to go naked swear for four junction

give her one week and she wud have come to terms with the situation.

life goes on.

bigx:
People are wicked, the ones in front of you want to cheat you talk less of long distance.

if she even had the money now i will say start again, she is in her late 40s, no better job, dont know if she will ever recover from this.

uckennety:
Ya we know dts y u sent to ur parents or u do it urself!or pay a construction coy! Once n 4Gt all dz story

parents ke?

some parents cant be trusted especially if there are other children not doing so well. they will try to use u to solve the other kids problems.

construction companies with substandard jobs

bigx:
A return ticket to seal transactions never hurts

her kids are so young, dont think she even had papers then.

so sad

Gd day to you all,

am so shocked right now i dont know were to start.

dear nigerians in diaspora, stop sending money home for

projects unless u can physically go and see it for ursef, in short dont do it,

unless someone here has other ways of getting round it.

as some of u knw, i do money tranfer from uk to nigeria, dats how i met this lady. she transfers money

upto three times a week, from there we became friends. she later told my she was build a house in nigeria.

it got to a point i had to caution her and ask her if she trust this person, she said yes oo, he is a big man, he works for customs etc.


fast forward to last night she came to my house without invitation just banging on my door, i opened the door, without saying a word she went into my living room sat on the floor and started to cry repeating ''xxxxx has kill me''

apparently this guy helped her to buy a land, not the size they discused, instead of a full plot he bought half in a different area.

the building is suppose to be in the tiling stage only for her to find out that the man has been lying to her, showing
her picture of other pples houses and she was sending money thinking the project was progressing.

she started to suspect wen he sent her a picture and she cud see a fence at the back of it and she was asking him, he said it was a neigbour that fenced, she didnt believe it and asked a relative to go check the place. for weeks the man started to avoid her fone calls not until she threatened get the army to beat him up , then he reluctantly took the brother.

the brother took pictures and sent it to the lady and dats wen all hell broke loose.

i saw the pics for my self, i just felt sorry for the lady, the block was so red u cud tell there was no cement on it, he used ghana sink after collecting quotation for aluminium, and the roofing was half done. some of the rooms were still not roofed and the clading was undone, but he put pvc in the living room, no german floor and the size of the toilet was not upto 3ft wide.

this is a lady that has four kids, and goes from house to house making peoples hair, dats how she got this money that this man has squandered.
she was busy crying, cursing, swearing, crying again.

but wats done is done, lets be smart to avoid these type of issues.

#just buy house if u live outside the country#

connie2flex:
I have a land for sale measuring 100 by 100 located at upper mission extension by d cattle market in Benin city, price is 1.4m, there are some blocks, granite and sand on d land, and d land has documents and its genuine, for enquiries and negotiations call 08036259881 or 07058237144.

Babe why are u selling it?


U Don check the area realise say na big no no.

I grew up in upper mission.

Utchgirl:
Hope u wil stil say d same tin whn somtin like dis happens 2 u ?

My dear Wat can I do? I will not die na,

I rather he leaves than make the rest of us miserable. If his heart is no longer, there is nothing u can do.

It's very painful but life goes on.

no, i just check the tread

she be ashawo?

greed is the cause of this trpe of relationship not porverty.

asking for money after sex

Ratello:
A man can possess all these qualities and still fail you cuty......in the place of prayer faith works wonders and not your human wisdom. Trust me you will know if he is the one for you. Have fun

,

u think all those people u see suffering around u havent prayed?

or are the richest men around the world the most prayerful??

just food for thought

Ratello:
He will surely do it for you just walk by faith and not by sight.....so if He says, daughter take him as your husband do not say No, nobody knows tomorrow....

wrong advise , faith is the most stupid thing u can use when getting married.

look for the potentials rather, wat has he achieved now? how does think?

how does he view himself, how is his sleep pattern? is he an optimist? has he got the get up and do it attitude?

awww poor them,

africa is the worst place to be born disabled?

no govt has ever thot of giving this group of an allowance, so shameful

and they can travel around the world and sit on the same stage with

govts who pay all their disabled citizen living expenses

Utchgirl:
Nuella d snatcher !

I wish u many yrs of snatching ahead.

Too much make up is artificial beauty. U r no wia around beauty whn u r compared 2 Sophia Tchidi -chikere.

Nuella d husband snatcher.


I hate snatchers !

na by beauty??


abi marraige na torture chamber?

if he is happy he wont leave.

can u send pictures of the area and plot?

sonOfLucifer:
You think they didn't say these prayers?

shey person no go pray again??

thespokenword:
spear the rod spoil the child. Abeg make him flog gam well.

Yea

We can see the effect of the rod in Nigeria today ,

Can't we?

xavier0327:
The boy is visibly terrified!!! You can't treat my kids like this!!

Dat is ehhh,

Person must go jail put

Torturing and humiliating a child is
Never funny

Oh my God

Is something wrong with me

How come these news don't shock me anymore?

I just read with a straight face.

Nairaland has desensitised me to evil

ettaetta:
cool down i know say your blood dey hot, this is not an advert, i just shared my experience.

In Benin, the family might demand for 100k etc,

But at the end they collect #24 and return the balance to the husband asking him to use it to look after their daughter.

Bride price shouldn't be based on how much u spent in training or raising ones daughter.

Daughters are priceless

I fear these senators,

So shame let theme reject that bill in this 2016?

Chao dis country get plenty issues ooo

tivta:
@op,what ever happened to the good old type of roofing? This high rise roof seems risky to me not to mention unnecessarily expensive, what are the main benefits of this type of roof?

The thing too dey fear me oo,

I guess it's all for beautification.

Think it's uneccessary

Chai

This gist no go ever finish oo

Folks

back2sender:
My Sista you dey here. I hail ooo.
Our Oba of Benin knows he carries the Edo nations both far and near on His head hence cannot let His gaurds down. Our Oba speak once and dont talk and laugh any how like we are seeing now. Last i forget he does not travel. I just did a bet of 50k with a colleague that the Oba of Benin will not carry out thank you visits to anyone after the coronation . I know where i come from.
I also tell my colleague we no send any body as we edolites are enough to Witness the coronation

Yes na, he owns the lands go reach obodo oyibo

This is the real deal oo, one and only.

IYARE UMOGUN

Datz life
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mccoy47:
Naija has been doing theirs since time immemorial. I think kenya copied. Ever heard of 9ja orgy?
They host sex parties in different cities. Ofcourse they are smart enough not to expose the venue until u hv paid. Thats wat I expected the Kenyans to do but dey are ďùmb!

So even wit all the churches and preaching wey no dey let person sleep, pple will do dis?