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Just for fun right?
Where is Lucenzo? I'll pick him. or do i have rivals already

Or errmmm...

SpicyMimi: Mr.Fx u can like to show-off ah!

This aint lovers thread oh....do not come and intimidate us here with dz love stories

Like seriously

*clears throat*

Awwwwwh....lovely kids!

redcliff: [size=14pt]mschew. So in less than three weeks, they wrote, shot, post produced a full movie going by the period the "oga on the top" interview ensued. Funke shame on You for accepting this role. Nkem Owoh, I dont blame you cos i know u have a crush on Funke. The reason you accepted the role.but i am still dissappointed in you anyways. I hate Nollywood! [/size]

same here.

[quote author=da-gentility]Of course,he has to provide me wit love,money and oda necessary things dat are needed for me 2 choose him as mr right.[/quote][quote author=bashy_demy]And what happen to your parent? are you an orphan?[/quote]

1. To love her
2. To respect her
3. To protect her
4. To correct her
5. To forgive her
6. To care for her
7. Be patient with her
8. Make her smile
9. To be faithful
etc and it should be vice-versa.
About buying her gifts, that should also be a criteria, but shouldnt be seen as one of his responsibilities towards her, it should be out of willingness.
Anyway i support the fact that no girl should settle for a selfish guy, and no guy should settle for a girl who demands alot.

He did me a big favour.

[quote author=carmelion]I would have moved on to the next update(according to idowu),you know we are supposed


But then reading all through from pages 73 up to this point,3 posts caught my attention,
Adeniyi A

Youngalex

Ichidodo(boubou)

so I decided to pause and address the issue to led to all this. There is a lot to learn from it.

I am not trying to please anybody,cos my explanation is not important but I would like to say that its a pity that this is the stage I have found myself.

I don't like it ,but at the same time I can't help it. That of Chike orji pained me the most cos he was my first friend here,and I never hesitated to tell him that. I remember the reply to his mail I sent to him,I wrote


"..............I know you will be wondering why I always complain of loneliness and at the same time,not want to mingle. I am trying to but it seems as if am forcing a bitter substance down my throat. I seriously have a lot of work to do on myself. Please I just hope you understand and bear with me."



Adeniyi. A mentioned a proverb about ladies missing the right man because of the way they behave. He is very correct,and I will indulge every lady(including me) to heed to that advise. He also wrote"should I stop using a razor because I had a cut"?

Of course not,but you must agree with me that you will only use it when neccesary and you will not lift it in hurry. You do it gently. That is exactly what is happening to me now,but maybe am taking it too far


Youngalex wrote about a girl that gave him her number but has refused to pick his call. Well I don't know the lady ,her age,or her reason for behaving like that,but then she might be in my shoes. Maybe she is scared
.Maybe she is fighting hard to let go of her past. Just maybe.

Now you will ask,"then why did she give me her number"


Peharps ,you presurized her,and she just gave it to you,so that you will leave her alone.

Perharps she gave it to you,cos she has been keeping to herself for a long time ,then someone spoke to her,about being friendly(just like dailynews told me). So she decided to give you a trial(reluctantly).


Also don't forget that you met her online. More than 70% of Nigerians do not believe in online dating. It is full of scam. Maybe someone has talked fear into her,so she does not want to go ahead with it anymore. She is expecting you to get tired of calling ,and finally stop.


Personally,one thing I don't like is that part where both parties agrees to finally meet offline. What happens if one of you gets disappointed at what he /she finally saw?.

You know picture and real life is never the same. Sometimes,the picture is better than the real person,sometimes the real image is better than the picture. In such cases,it takes only the MATURED minds to actually go for quality character other than physical appearance.


But then I won't blame anybody,everyone has a choice.


I don't know how long you have called her but the phone might be missing.


I don't know what the reason is but I want guys here to know that it takes a lot for a broken woman to fall in love again.I know that what I did was not neccesary(I mean telling someone your tribe and religiion is not a big deal) but that is to tell you how withdrawn my experiences has made me be. It has costed/caused me a lot of things,but am just scared of trying again.

All men are not the same,but how do you identify them without getting close?.I don't completely blame men for my mistakes. These days I choose to say,"I did not play my cards well".

Ichidodo,wrote something about respecting 'my space'.Then this must be very serious.If some one who has not met me realife,can perceive my attitude,and has decided to give me my space,then I can only imagine what I must have done to my self offline.lol


To everyone I have turned down in one way or the other,please don't feel offended. Smartie gurl wanted to add me on facebook,and I told her no,I prefer PMs. Please accept my apology. I promise to work faster on myself,and hope that I would come out of my shell in no distant time.

Also understand that Ihave said a lot of dirty things about myself here.I don't regret it ONEBIT,cos I choose to do it,but at the same time,I have to protect my image and my person.


To dailynews and any other sweetheart here,who has the intention of sending me a mail to match make me with someone offline,please my answer is No.

I did not open this thread to look for a husband. I opened it for the reasons I have stated earlier. The original topic of the thread was"SINGLE LADIES LET'S MEET HERE".I think it was Jaybee the moderator that changed it to the current topic. I never knew that guys would be this involved.



If I find him here,I would be so happy,at least that would save me the stress of telling HIM about ME all over again.

He must have known me and accepted me for the way I am.Moreover it would be a huge moment for this thread and for Nairaland as a whole.



This is really nice.

[quote author=carmelion]I would have moved on to the next update(according to idowu),you know we are supposed


But then reading all through from pages 73 up to this point,3 posts caught my attention,
Adeniyi A

Youngalex

Ichidodo(boubou)

so I decided to pause and address the issue to led to all this. There is a lot to learn from it.

I am not trying to please anybody,cos my explanation is not important but I would like to say that its a pity that this is the stage I have found myself.

I don't like it ,but at the same time I can't help it. That of Chike orji pained me the most cos he was my first friend here,and I never hesitated to tell him that. I remember the reply to his mail I sent to him,I wrote


"..............I know you will be wondering why I always complain of loneliness and at the same time,not want to mingle. I am trying to but it seems as if am forcing a bitter substance down my throat. I seriously have a lot of work to do on myself. Please I just hope you understand and bear with me."



Adeniyi. A mentioned a proverb about ladies missing the right man because of the way they behave. He is very correct,and I will indulge every lady(including me) to heed to that advise. He also wrote"should I stop using a razor because I had a cut"?

Of course not,but you must agree with me that you will only use it when neccesary and you will not lift it in hurry. You do it gently. That is exactly what is happening to me now,but maybe am taking it too far


Youngalex wrote about a girl that gave him her number but has refused to pick his call. Well I don't know the lady ,her age,or her reason for behaving like that,but then she might be in my shoes. Maybe she is scared
.Maybe she is fighting hard to let go of her past. Just maybe.

Now you will ask,"then why did she give me her number"


Peharps ,you presurized her,and she just gave it to you,so that you will leave her alone.

Perharps she gave it to you,cos she has been keeping to herself for a long time ,then someone spoke to her,about being friendly(just like dailynews told me). So she decided to give you a trial(reluctantly).


Also don't forget that you met her online. More than 70% of Nigerians do not believe in online dating. It is full of scam. Maybe someone has talked fear into her,so she does not want to go ahead with it anymore. She is expecting you to get tired of calling ,and finally stop.


Personally,one thing I don't like is that part where both parties agrees to finally meet offline. What happens if one of you gets disappointed at what he /she finally saw?.

You know picture and real life is never the same. Sometimes,the picture is better than the real person,sometimes the real image is better than the picture. In such cases,it takes only the MATURED minds to actually go for quality character other than physical appearance.


But then I won't blame anybody,everyone has a choice.


I don't know how long you have called her but the phone might be missing.


I don't know what the reason is but I want guys here to know that it takes a lot for a broken woman to fall in love again.I know that what I did was not neccesary(I mean telling someone your tribe and religiion is not a big deal) but that is to tell you how withdrawn my experiences has made me be. It has costed/caused me a lot of things,but am just scared of trying again.

All men are not the same,but how do you identify them without getting close?.I don't completely blame men for my mistakes. These days I choose to say,"I did not play my cards well".

Ichidodo,wrote something about respecting 'my space'.Then this must be very serious.If some one who has not met me realife,can perceive my attitude,and has decided to give me my space,then I can only imagine what I must have done to my self offline.lol


To everyone I have turned down in one way or the other,please don't feel offended. Smartie gurl wanted to add me on facebook,and I told her no,I prefer PMs. Please accept my apology. I promise to work faster on myself,and hope that I would come out of my shell in no distant time.

Also understand that Ihave said a lot of dirty things about myself here.I don't regret it ONEBIT,cos I choose to do it,but at the same time,I have to protect my image and my person.


To dailynews and any other sweetheart here,who has the intention of sending me a mail to match make me with someone offline,please my answer is No.

I did not open this thread to look for a husband. I opened it for the reasons I have stated earlier. The original topic of the thread was"SINGLE LADIES LET'S MEET HERE".I think it was Jaybee the moderator that changed it to the current topic. I never knew that guys would be this involved.



If I find him here,I would be so happy,at least that would save me the stress of telling HIM about ME all over again.

He must have known me and accepted me for the way I am.Moreover it would be a huge moment for this thread and for Nairaland as a whole.



This is really nice.

NoContract: @OP flash my number incase it hits the front page!

He is Handsome but not the most handsome.

Charly is right though....

But the 'oga at the top' trend was fun while it lasted..

Happpyy birthdayyy sir!

[quote author=Adeniyi A.]u berra say 'yes' to us if n when 'we' propose,age is counting o,
if u dare wait for crabs winks...[/quote] okay that's if he turns out to b a Nigerian, though most of them are jerks.

Lmaoo...@his mouth.

With that hairdo? I doubt its real and besides she looks older....

obadiah777: ERMM NO. BETTER FOR YOU TO HIDE UNDER THE BED

loooooool.....

Awwwwwh.....

Yessssssss! And i cant wait to meet mine! Hopefully he would b a white-American.

dopeJemi:


I never Liked kim b4 buh dis thing wey happen so don make me Love her sef, abeg Incase kanye no good 4 u, no hesitate, I dey Here, over good dey worry me

Same here.

ighoosagie: Ur parent insult u n u dey complain my own dem dey beat me in advance for watin I neva do yet

lmaooooooooooooo.....

elkol: Na person wey neva chop go buy wedding ring

Just like that? Just let her be for now, but try as much as possible to findout why she behaved that way.

SpicyMimi: BUSTED!!!
i get the tory now....
Now i know the Oga at the top.

leme ooooo! Lol