₦airaland Forum

IconicR:
You are only opportuned to complain after six months else you are just being biased and sentimental

Afamed:
You can only remind someone who you know better than him of his responsibility.
Pressuring the Judges to declare someone who came 3rd in an election, could not be a reminder of responsibility.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Babe1994:
Hi

I’m a girl in her late 20s, I live abroad was born here but spent most of my schooling years in Nigeria. I came back to do university. I’ve been with a guy now for 7 years who hasn’t paid my bride price properly due to the fact he did an arangee marriage and the divorce process is taking too long. I got with him in my early 20s.. and have a child with him. I believed in him but now I’m at the point where I’m honestly frustrated and tired. I really don’t know who to run to to express myself. We are living together but I really want to run away and start my life afresh but I want to be told the truth. I really want to be married and content, It feels like this guy has reduced me to nothing. Im so ashamed of my situation with him, it’s like I’ve disgraced myself and my family. I’m going to try and list out all the issues we’ve been facing.

1. He’s very confused about his career path. One minute he’s a musician.. then he wants to be a painter.. then he wants to be chef. This is a man in his late 30s

2. He has anger issues. We have tussled on some occasions and he threatens to beat me when he’s angry but so far he hasn’t

3. He has addictions. Betting drinking smoking. To the point where he drank so much that he almost killed himself . I was honestly fooled by the fact that he was a worker in the church and I “believed” I could change him. Young and dumb I guess.

4. Cannot communicate properly. To the point we have not had a proper conversation in almost 2 months but we are living together. I feel so lonely and stuck.

5. He insults me so bad to the point where I question myself.

6. He is not very hardworking and I don’t gel well with his family and friends.

7. None of his family ever talk about marriage or paying my bride price. All they ever ask is when I’m having another child for him. They have reduced me to nothing and I can’t blame them.

I will say that when I’m angry I can be verbally abusive also. He also claims that I’m too reserved and isolated. I feel like I’ve been pushed to the wall and I can’t recognise myself.

I really want to run away.. and start afresh. Where will I start from? I have a son how easy will it be to find love again? All the love I have for this man has gone..I don’t know if it can be rectified. He has really seen me finish.



Thank you .

Nlfpmod front page please

Thanks

AntiChristian:
How deep did Jesus preached Christianity?

Acekidc4:
What's Wrong with this Doctors sef, can't they lower their ego and emulate NLC. Go to the Dialogue table instead of constituting Nuisance all in the name of Strikes and Protests.

Well if you people like use one year to strike and Protest, it's No Work No Pay!!

Zico5:
I don't know what's wrong from those guys from the erosion laden region. They are quick to jump on anything so far it's about south west but their region has never experienced peace for just one minute. The spate of Agbero in Onitcha has gotten worse that those notorious entities are rubbing innocent people in daylight. They see no evil in their evil ways. Thank God the law enforcement agents are on ground to give them the dose of their medicine.

Okealaaye:
Watch as they'll invade this thread with inanities. Sufficient for a man are his daily challenges, but some men love their neighbours more than themselves. And so they puff mucus from their uncleaned nostrils into the affairs of others.

ArcSEMPECJ:
A reprobate mind....who can cure..only God

Throwback:
What has the electoral loss of an Igbo politician in Nigeria, got to do with the illegitimate usurpation of power in the democratic country of Niger?

How is Tinubu the President of Nigeria a criminal? Was he convicted by any court in Nigeria or abroad?

The voters have a right to their democratic choice whether in Nigeria or Niger. And there are democratic and constitutional means to remove such leaders.

Winters23:


Religious people are the scums of the earth

I would rather do business with traditional people than trust a sanctimonious modafvcker.

kelvindj98:
Well done o.....Jesus Christ's PA....you where there when he said those words abi. In fact na you put microphone for im mouth as he dey talk am.

highchief1:
Abeg make I hear word if u no stl sin u go die.

AntiChristian:
He who is without sin....

Christianity is so funny and full of contradictions!

IconicR:
That's exactly what I'm doing, you can go sleep.

IconicR:
Davido should publicly apologize. Stop triggering people and stepping out of boundaries and trying to control how they react, they were on their own and you stupidly and intentionally triggered them. Bitter truth.

DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...

Nvestor02:
Everybody want to go to heaven but nobody want to DIE.

People want a working Nigeria but not ready to sacrifice for it.

Nothing good come easily. We are closer to greatness this time than ever.

We can't go back to the burdern of subsidy when we have dying Infrastructure and out-of-school children to cater for.

Government can only help citizen to pay for some certain things, when economy is stable.

Not when it's dying.

Minimum wage will be increased when Ministerial position is fully formed.

To people wey dey complain too much ( we are not the one wey talk say make you poor)

We only need little patience but people are not ready to give it.

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.

Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

saphiere:
My sweet angel boy. Stay strong.

ColorationMento:
I am still much optimistic that PBAT will not disappoint.

Confirmedzombie:
Obedients are really brainwashed. Can you point out where obi asked what you said in his petition.

Obi has no case in the court. All his prayers in the court will be struck out.

Peter obi is always on twitter just to seek relevance.

Obi is finished politically.

superCleanworks:
Feminist wey throat dey scratch

Jennyclay:
I’m deeply in Love with Elon musk for no reason

ebukajay184:
Following the recent rise in cost of Tuition fees of Nigerian public universities, former presidential aide, Reno Omokri has compared Nigerian universities' cost of tuition with cost of tuition of other countries' universities, IGBERETV reports.

Taking to his Twitter page, Reno wrote;



https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1682764711039844354?t=0IgblwoUFTp0ec_0Jp5VZA&s=19[/quote]SAYS A MAN WHO IS IN EXILE AND NON OF HIS CHILDREN IN NIGERIA SCHOOLING... WHY USING DOLLARS TO COMPARE? WHAT I CAN BUY WITH 65DOLLARS IN AMERICA, CAN I USE SAME AMOUNT, 65NAIRA TO BUY ANYTHING IN NIGERIA? OUR ECONOMIES ARE DIFFERENT...

Jennyclay:
Rubbish and nonsense!!!

Curse777:



Only you madam

Lost your husband

Lost two sons

Not to war, hmmn ...


Her other kids better go for spiritual fortification and become strong if not

Better cooking, with back to sender charm

No be everything Hallelujah and Alhamdulilai go solve.. some na babalawo go do am



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vannessa7:
LIES

vannessa7:
God is almost becoming a four letter word in some people's heart, what is there to defend in idolatory. When the Almighty God (Allah) (SWA) say who is on the Lord's side, Muslims always step forward. All those supporting the idolatory in Ilorin should go and do same in Kano.

Surprisingly the igbos who are christians and are privy to all that happened at Mt. Camel between Elijah and prophets of Baal are the one championing support for idolatory in Yoruba land and it's just one of their divisive tactics, they are so ungodly that it will be easier to find a needle in a haystack than to find an igbo man in heaven, they can't resist hatred and destruction of others no matter how Godly they claim.
Idolatory is the sole reason why the Yoruba race is not at par with the developed world because we are so blessed. Idolatory will enslave the coming generations and destroy them unless they keep worshipping the idols unlike God who is patient and loving even to unbelievers in Him, idols enslave even if the people that worshipped them died 400 years ago, the new generation who are educated and know nothing about idol will now be in bondage, and only Islam can break the stronghold of idol permanently, idols don't have a heaven to take it's worshippers to, they will all end up in hell with their master the devil. Islam cannot tolerate idolatory.

Nemere2020:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/tinubu-bows-to-pressure-orders-review-of-n8000-payment-to-12m-households/

Dubetex96:
I have been conditioned to be washing dishes because say dem they feed me morning and night coupled with provocative talks here and there but God dey shaa

What is your own experience like ?