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RomanceRe: I Was Forced To Marry A Man Twice My Age,now My Life Is At Risk! by Beke2020(op): 12:44pm On Jun 30, 2018
coolI feel you wella. In my office we have two dispatch men, one has just one child and the other nine. I asked the one with one kid, want happen is his wife having challenge conceiving. He said no. He just want to to bring him up well. I was shocked
XhosaNostra:
Of course I'm an African. What do you mean by "not everybody"? Is it not in Africa where you always see people who shouldn't be having children, having them by a bucket load? Ding! Ding! African countries top the world's breeding statistics & yet we're plagued by poverty, collectively. More children, more mouths to feed, which requires more money. It's common sense. Which unfortunately is a foreign concept to the majority.
FamilyRe: Is His Strange Behavior A Sign Of Love Or Danger? by Beke2020(op): 12:39pm On Jun 30, 2018
Its well
RomanceRe: The Thing I Don’t Want My Wife To Confess…i Cannot Bear It! by Beke2020(op): 8:15am On Jun 30, 2018
Skmoda360:
Hmmmmmm!!! I'm confuse don't know where to start anyway what I say is that try and settle it. call her to order and please don't sleep with your two eyes closed...just be observant.....she might do what she promise ooo women are threat finishers at most.
hmnnnn, agreed, but not all women shaa. Am....
RomanceRe: I Was Forced To Marry A Man Twice My Age,now My Life Is At Risk! by Beke2020(op): 8:13am On Jun 30, 2018
:onot everybody my friend or are you not an African? [ quote author=XhosaNostra post=68950425]

The bolded: that's exactly why Africa will never prosper & will forever be locked in a never-ending cycle of poverty, generation after generation.[/quote]
RomanceRe: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 8:10am On Jun 30, 2018
cool
Sleekydee:
In Charles hypeman's voice *Cheeeeeeeee worldwide* u need some accolades.

On a more serious note, I will advice u to embarrass or expose the devil now before he exposes u.

Bye bye oooo
RomanceRe: I Was Forced To Marry A Man Twice My Age,now My Life Is At Risk! by Beke2020(op): 7:37am On Jun 30, 2018
Injustice plenty for this part of the world
RomanceRe: Yippee!! We Are Now On Telegram & You're Welcome. by Beke2020: 7:36am On Jun 30, 2018
coolDone
Makoq:
07038515234
RomanceRe: Please Help Me Jzhane: He Wants His Wife Back! by Beke2020: 6:35am On Jun 30, 2018
;Dyou should know there is always a price tag! James Hadley Chase
Samuelgr8:
Good day Ma,

I am writing on behalf of my elder brother. He was married to a lovely woman who gave him two boys and a girl. About four three years ago,he suddenly started maltreating her,beating her and eventually kicked her out of the house. All our family members did everything to intervene but he refused. He accused the wife of cheating but he never had proof. He accused her of trying to kill him and use juju to stop his progress. He said a prophet told him that.

What we eventually found out was that,there was a woman behind all of this. Another woman was trying to get him. This woman was devilish and fetish. She must have used spiritual powers to remote my brother cos he didn’t listen to anyone. Before long,he married her and she moved into his house. She got pregnant immediately and she made my brother abandon every member of our family. Anyone of us that tried to visit,she came up with problems that made my brother chase us. My parents are no more,thank God,it would have killed them to see my brother like this.

Eventually,everyone left my brother to his new wife and family. In March this year.......



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RomanceRe: Is His Strange Behavior A Sign Of Love Or Danger? by Beke2020: 6:33am On Jun 30, 2018
coolcan't agree any less with you.it a trouble water she is about to step into
linearity:
He is still immature and not ready for marriage yet, he is also self centered and most likely thinks the universe resolves around him.

If you made the mistake of getting married to him, be ready to foresake you, your goals and aspirations and live a live that revolves around him. Any attempt to break out of that, will result in anger and quarrel in the home.
RomanceRe: Yippee!! We Are Now On Telegram & You're Welcome. by Beke2020: 6:26am On Jun 30, 2018
Makoq:
07038515234
check you TG message
FamilyIs His Strange Behavior A Sign Of Love Or Danger? by Beke2020(op): 12:58am On Jun 30, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

Please let the house look into this and advice me. I have been dating this guy for three years. This guy has anger issues. But he always say he loves me and that he is working on himself. About nine months ago,not really up to a year,he proposed to me.

Since that time,he has broken up with me at least three times. Anytime he is upset,maybe we are arguing,he will just get angry and say the engagement is over. The first time it happened,I begged him cos I thought I was the one at fault. He broke up with me for like a month and after that,we got back together.

The second time he broke up with me,I was surprised and I really thought it was over. What caused this break up was just ridiculous. It was after our marriage introduction,he got angry when called me at work one time and I told him I would call him back. Sincerely,I was so busy at work,I forgot to call him back and he refused to pick my call after that. He just sent me a text that its over cos If I cannot respect my husband to be by picking up his call then there is not need.

I was so upset at his flimsy excuse that I just ignored him. I left him alone for two weeks before he came begging saying he was sorry and that he was just having a bad day. I accepted him back and we started planning our wedding.

This last one happened just few weeks to our marriage. We had an argument about.....


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RomanceI Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 5:38pm On Jun 28, 2018
Hello Admin,

Hide my ID please. My wife is a fan of your page,she introduced me to your page. Since I started reading your page,I must confess,I have been blessed. So much,I am now referring other married people to your blog.

My wife is a wonderful woman. She is a super star. I pray to God to help me so that I can really reward her for all her love and support. Can you believe that my wife has been supporting our family for almost two years? I made a horrible mistake four years ago. I was in the banking sector. I was doing very fine and taking care of my family and relatives cos I was making good money.

But I made a mistake by allowing the lifestyle I was living get to my head. I was chasing a female client that was very rich but a single lady. She was going to give me a huge account from her company if I agreed to be her lover. I initially refused but the pressure to meet target was so much and getting the woman’s account would make me relax from getting new targets for a long time. I eventually yielded. I tried to keep it a secret as much as I could. I had an affair with this woman for two years.

Writing this down makes me so sad for being stupid and desperate. I wonder why I didn’t walk away from the job with my integrity intact. My affair continued until this woman told me she was pregnant for me. I was enraged. I didn’t want to hear it. I told her it was not part of our agreement. She knew I was a married man. I tried to persuade her all I could but she was adamant and she went ahead....


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FamilyRe: My Divorce Story:i Gave Him Everything Just To Make Our Marriage Work!. by Beke2020: 8:45am On Jun 28, 2018
God will see you thru ma'am
FamilyRe: Please Help Me Jzhane: He Wants His Wife Back! by Beke2020: 8:44am On Jun 28, 2018
Zanas:
So I have to go to your blog to read your story in order for me to heed your cry for help?
No be by force naa
RomancePlease Help: My Mother Thinks My Fiance Wants To Divide Our Family! by Beke2020(op): 12:34pm On Jun 27, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

I met Alex in January 2017. We have been dating and towards the end of last year,he proposed to me. He met my family in January. He is a good man,his is nice to me and I love him. We fixed the introduction for April 2018. All my family members were invited for the introduction and that was where the problem started from.

I have a cousin who is very close to our family. She is my mom’s twin sister’s daughter. She grew up in our house,so she is like a sister to me more than a cousin. I haven’t seen her for almost eight years though. She came for the introduction ceremony. As she prepared with us,she had the opportunity to see my fiance’s picture for the first time. She was alarmed to find out that Alex,my fiance was her ex whom she had actually dated for five years. According to her,they broke up in February 2017 (Recall, I started dating Alex in January of the same year). She suspected him of cheating and she actually broke up with him cos she saw the signs of cheating all over.

When she broke up,she found out that she was pregnant and she contacted him in March to tell him about the pregnancy. He denied her at first but after she threatened him,he begged her to have an abortion. She eventually agreed cos she saw he was no longer in love with her. My cousin said that was the most painful period of her life. I was in shock when she said......




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RomanceRe: My Divorce Story:i Gave Him Everything Just To Make Our Marriage Work! by Beke2020: 12:10pm On Jun 25, 2018
some people will neva see good thing in their life again. How can a man be so calous?
RomanceRe: Am I Loosing My Best Friend To A Jealous Girlfriend? by Beke2020: 2:00pm On Jun 23, 2018
cheesy
ghettowriter:
I like the girl in the Pics with her weird ear ring cheesy
FamilyRe: I Forgave Him But I Don’t Think I Have Forgotten,how Do I Marry Him? by Beke2020: 1:59pm On Jun 23, 2018
shocked
mimimile93:
U a learner for this traffic business...

Knock yourself 7times
RomanceThe Thing I Don’t Want My Wife To Confess…i Cannot Bear It! by Beke2020(op): 8:24am On Jun 23, 2018
Good day Admin,

About a couple of months ago,my wife used my laptop to connect on her whats app. She chatted with her Chinese supplier then (My wife imports and sells fashion items and children wears from China and Turkey). I don't think she knew that the her future whats app messages can be read on my laptop just by anyone scanning the whats app QR code. I only just found out myself.

I cant remember exactly when but my wife and I had a fight. Over a very irrelevant matter. If you ask me sef...I can't remember what caused the quarrel. That made both of us say some things am sure we didn't mean. In the heat of her anger,she said I am not good in bed and she will go out and find someone to make her satisfied. That hurt me so much. My ego was really hurt. But I cant lay all the blame on her,I also called her a few names I am ashamed to say in this mail.

But since that time,we have not been speaking ...



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RomanceRe: I Forgave Him But I Don't Think I Have Forgotten..how Do I Marry Him? by Beke2020: 4:23pm On Jun 16, 2018
Olifiz:
I’m loyal to Oga Seun.
I hope this no be afam?
RomanceRe: I Forgave Him But I Don't Think I Have Forgotten..how Do I Marry Him? by Beke2020: 4:22pm On Jun 16, 2018
shocked
gmtanwa25:
Click @ your own peril
FamilyRe: I Forgave Him But I Don't Think I Can Forget..how Do I Marry Him? by Beke2020: 4:20pm On Jun 16, 2018
Hmnnn, its your decision to make
FamilyRe: I Forgave Him But I Don’t Think I Have Forgotten,how Do I Marry Him? by Beke2020: 4:18pm On Jun 16, 2018
mimimile93:
U a learner for this traffic business...

Knock yourself 7times
thanks pro
RomanceRe: Help: I Am Struggling With The Idea Of Having Another Child by Beke2020: 10:53pm On Jun 14, 2018
Yanga dey sleep, trouble....
RomanceRe: No Love No Help No Emotions..is This How Marriage Is Supposed To Be? by Beke2020: 10:52pm On Jun 14, 2018
huhwaoh, waoh,waoh
afecofrank:
Perhaps you don't have the right love for him. The Love of Jesus Christ has no limit and is unconditional. My advice to you is, seek God's help to love your husband more, and genuinely. The right love that comes from God alone. Everything else will fall in pleasant places for you. Give it a try.

Read 1 Corinthians 13 in New Living Translation (NLT). Meditate on it and read it to your spirit, not your head. Pray with each verse a day for 13 days, and watch how your change will change him.

God bless you.

Love Is the Greatest

1If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. 3If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.

4Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 6It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 7Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

8Prophecy and speaking in unknown languagesb and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever! 9Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture! 10But when the time of perfection comes, these partial things will become useless.

11When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. 12Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity.c All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely.

13Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.
RomanceRe: Nobody Plans To Cheat..how The Heck Did I Get Here? by Beke2020: 10:50pm On Jun 14, 2018
Hmnnn.
RomanceRe: I Was Forced To Marry A Man Twice My Age,now My Life Is At Risk! by Beke2020(op): 11:40am On Jun 13, 2018
This life self!
RomanceWelcome To My Weekly Musing With The Beautiful Ms. Agie! by Beke2020(op): 6:41pm On Jun 12, 2018

RomanceI Was Forced To Marry A Man Twice My Age,now My Life Is At Risk! by Beke2020(op): 11:48am On Jun 12, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

Please hide my identity cos I am afraid even as I write this. I don't want anyone who knows me to trace this back to me. My name is Banke (not real name). I am 20 years old. I got married last year at the age of 19 to a man that is 48 years old. He is a from a different faith as me. I am a christian and he is not.

Actually,things have not been easy for my family. My father died when I was 13. I have six other siblings and my mother is a petty trader. It was very hard to cater for all of us. I had to ....

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RomanceI Love My Husband But He Keeps Hurting My Feelings by Beke2020(op): 4:20pm On Jun 11, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

I am extremely angry and I don’t know who to talk to. I have been married for almost eight years and I love my husband. He is a good man. But only one problem I have with him. My husband does not like to apologize for anything that he does to make me angry or anything he does that is wrong. He can make a mistake like for example,he can shout at me when he is angry abut something. When I tell him that I don’t like him shouting at me,he will just keep quiet and act like nothing happened. This has been going on for years. I know he loves me but why cant he apologize to me when he offends me.

Honestly,I feel he does not regard my feelings or emotions when he behaves like that. I have been trying to ignore him and not expect any apology from him no matter what he does but I wont lie,I get really hurt and I feel like......

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