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FamilyRe: Blindsided By Love & I Cannot Get Past It To Save My Marriage by Beke2020(op): 6:30pm On Aug 27, 2018
; :Dope ooo
zinnydan:
Chai....
FamilyRe: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Beke2020(op): 6:29pm On Aug 27, 2018
shocked
Skyken99:
And whoever thinks that u r nt making sense is [b] DUMBEST[]/b
RomanceMy Wife Is A Wicked Woman,she Denies Me My Right As Her Husband by Beke2020(op): 5:41pm On Aug 27, 2018
Good day admin,

You see why I say that some women are the cause of the problem that they experience in their marriage. I cannot believe how much my wife has changed just five years after marriage. And now,there is trouble brewing in our marriage and she is the cause of it.

When I met my wife,I told her that I love sx so much and I will love to be having it every time when we get married. She said ok. In fact,when we were dating,we were having sx every day,sometimes two to three times a day. That made me marry her because I was happy I found someone who like s*x the way I do.

After three years of marriage,my wife began to change. Initially,I thought its because of tiredness with taking care of the children so I got a house help for her. I didn’t want anything to stress her cos she has to be ready anytime I am ready so that I will not be tempted to go outside and look for it outside.

But as time goes on,she keep changing. saying she is tired every time. It became once every three days and once a week and finally now it is,two or three times a month. I asked her what the problem is several times,she says nothing that she don’t like s*x as much as before. That she don’t like it again, that she is doing it just to please me.I asked her what she want me to so cos me I like it,she said nothing.

This matter is causing quarrel with us everyday.Instead of her to look for solution,she will....see


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-wife-is-a-wicked-womanshe-denies-me-my-right-as-her-husband/
RomanceMaking Progress With Giant Strides; Ls Telegram Group by Beke2020(op): 11:40pm On Aug 26, 2018
Hello friends & fams,

Our telegram group is growing daily and you cant afford not to be in it...We guarantee you, It's the place to be! Learning about intimacy, what & what not to do in your relationship/marriage to keep it healthy.

How do you join? Simple, join via the link on the blog stories, alternatively, leave your number here and you be added by one of our admins.

Together we are changing the narratives....
FamilyRe: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Beke2020(op): 10:29pm On Aug 26, 2018
cheesy cheesy cheesy
MrBrownJay1:
bwaaaaah! if a woman knows and marry a man for 3 long years, but dont know he is already married with a kid, then i am afraid to tell you that you are DUMB, and should solely blame yourself for what is happening to you....

but more importantly, if you think we will click on that BS link, then you are even DUMBER
FamilyI Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Beke2020(op): 7:00pm On Aug 26, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

Please hide my identity. I am 35 years old with a year old son.
I met my ‘husband’ in 2013 and we started courting in 2014. We got married in 2016 June and got the shock of my life the two months later that my husband was already married with a daughter. I found out I was pregnant, from then on my life has been one long sad story.
The man I loved and trusted deceived me with his family’s conical. They claim he......more



https://livelystones.com.ng/i-was-a-good-girl-but-why-did-god-allow-this-to-happen-to-me/
FamilyRe: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Beke2020(op): 4:25pm On Aug 26, 2018
cool
FamilyI Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Beke2020(op): 1:52pm On Aug 26, 2018
I am 35 years old with a year old son.

I met my ‘husband’ in 2013 and we started courting in 2014. We got married in 2016 June and got the shock of my life the two months later that my husband was already married with a daughter. I found out I was pregnant, from then on my life has been one long sad story.

The man I loved and trusted deceived me with his family’s conical. They claim he said no one should tell me the truth because he loves me and didn’t want to lose me.

The world believes I am happily married but I live like a single parent. I feel alone and sad because I grew up with a single mother and I saw the emotional and psychological turmoil she went through,I promised myself that I will give my children a better life but this is where I find myself.

Now the liar will not let me be, I want a restraining order against him but my family says the marriage should just be annulled traditionally so am free but I should allow him come around because of his son.
What should I do?

I want to move on and erase him from my life,that way I can be healed.

NB.. I just found out he has a second child with his first wife so the ‘I don’t want to lose you’ does not hold water.

My strength is failing me, am in a mess. I was a good girl, I kept myself and now this
https://livelystones.com.ng/i-was-a-good-girl-but-why-did-god-allow-this-to-happen-to-me/
RomanceRe: My Father Is A Monster:i Feel The Guilt Of Covering Up For Him by Beke2020(op): 5:14pm On Aug 25, 2018
huh
FamilyRe: Breaking News! Missing Four Year Old Elo Ogidi Has Been Found! by Beke2020(op): 9:31pm On Aug 24, 2018
FamilyBreaking News! Missing Four Year Old Elo Ogidi Has Been Found! by Beke2020(op): 8:50pm On Aug 24, 2018

FamilyBlindsided By Love & I Cannot Get Past It To Save My Marriage by Beke2020(op): 8:36pm On Aug 24, 2018
Good evening Admin,

My wife and I are having a hard time even though our marriage is just two years old. I admit,I saw the signs but I was either too naive or stupidly in love to admit that.Right now,I find it really hard to trust that my wife can ever be truly in love with me and I have come to the realization that I cannot live with that.

I met Medline (not real name) three years ago. She had just broken up with her ex. She seemed pretty burned in the relationship so she didn’t really trust my intentions when I approached her. She said she was not ready for dating or long relationships. She wanted to get married right away if I was truly serious about her. All well and fine,I agreed cos I was blown away and in love with her.

In four months of knowing her,we already stated marriage talks and we had our introduction,wedding in the eight month. Medline is a lovely girl,educated,smart and very caring. One area I did however did not notice her flaws was that she was still in love with her ex. Even though the guy burned her,she seemed to be in love with him.

I noticed she still followed him on social media. I am a free minded person and I didn’t think anything of it. In fact,some of my exs are my friends on social media. But the trouble started when we......more



https://livelystones.com.ng/blindsided-by-love-i-cannot-get-past-it-to-save-my-marriage/
RomanceMy Father Is A Monster:i Feel The Guilt Of Covering Up For Him by Beke2020(op): 6:16pm On Aug 23, 2018
The day I lost my mother five years ago was the worst day of my life. My world became black. I never thought I would be in such pain and hopelessness that I was. Why? Because she was my hero. She was my pillar. She was my best friend and everything.

My mother raised me up all by herself. Strong woman who died too early. She was diagnosed of cancer too late. She didn’t stand a chance,she gave up after a tough fight. At that time,I was left alone to the cold world. My grandmother is alive but she is old and poor. I has just finished my SSCE and my grandmother had no means to send me to the university.

Against my wishes,I had to go and live with my father who abandoned us more than sixteen years ago. Yes,my father threw my mother out when I was just one year old. They were married for less than two years. He beat her until he drove her away. Since then,he had married two other women whom he has also divorced. He currently .......more




https://livelystones.com.ng/my-father-is-a-monsteri-feel-the-guilt-of-covering-up-for-him/
RomanceRe: I Was Trying To Help But I Am In Love With My Uncle’s Wife by Beke2020: 11:39am On Aug 22, 2018
There are betters ways to help ogbeni
RomanceRe: My Wife’s Attitude Changed After Working For A Few Months by Beke2020: 11:35am On Aug 22, 2018
Nesso:
Your wife is and has been cheating on u. The late nights, dressing sexy and the constant quarrels are all red flags.
absolutely, but again it may still not be true.
RomanceSixteen Years Of Deceit! My Husband’s Secret Finally Revealed? by Beke2020(op): 11:00am On Aug 22, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

Please keep me anonymous. I have been married for almost sixteen years and I have five children. I got married at the age of 25 to a very handsome man. Many were happy for me cos there many girls around my husband but he choose me.

I suspected we had a problem during the early years of our marriage but I didn’t know how serious it was until a few years ago.During the early days of our marriage,we had intimacy like once in a week. As the years went by,it became once in weeks and once in months.

I feared my husband was cheating on me but I never found proof. I cried many times and asked him to seek medical help cos he said,....more



https://livelystones.com.ng/sixteen-years-of-deceit-my-husbands-secret-finally-revealed/
RomanceRe: My Wife’s Attitude Changed After Working For A Few Months by Beke2020: 10:51pm On Aug 21, 2018
cool cool cool
RomanceRe: I Am Tired Of Being My Husband’s Mother For Six Years! by Beke2020: 10:49pm On Aug 21, 2018
many thanks dear, i get ur point
ZIMDRILL:
you are missing the point

most people dont come here to re directed somewhere
RomanceRe: Why You Shouldn’t Divulge Your Marriage Problems To Your Mother by Beke2020: 9:42am On Aug 21, 2018
cheesy cool
RomanceRe: Lively Stones Fans & Couples Hangout: A September To Remember! by Beke2020: 9:40am On Aug 21, 2018
Hurrrrrraaaaaayyyyyyy!!!!!!
RomanceRe: How To Ask A Woman To Marry You And Make It Perfect by Beke2020: 9:38am On Aug 21, 2018
cool cool cool
RomanceRe: I Am Tired Of Being My Husband’s Mother For Six Years! by Beke2020: 9:36am On Aug 21, 2018
that's why you have to comment on the blog story if you truly want to advise, but it not compulsory. however, some stories comes from some NLanders, that's why we share it here to encourage more people to reachout to us with their issues.LS was borne out of a vision to change the narratives...so dont be critical,Life takes us around sometimes my friend and....
ZIMDRILL:
its useless because the person who is meant to get advice on wont he here,

it seems like you want to promote the blog
RomanceRe: My Wife’s Attitude Changed After Working For A Few Months by Beke2020: 9:25am On Aug 21, 2018
marriage is about trust and keeping the trust.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Hit A Very Rough Patch But I Want Him Back by Beke2020(op): 10:35pm On Aug 20, 2018
you dont have an idea at all of what's going on in homes.some stories, if not because it the person who its happing to is sharing you doubt it. pray God bless you with a godly man or woman
LUGBE:
Continue, i hope is not super story kiss
RomanceRe: My Wife And My Sister’s Fantasy Is Threatening Our Marriage by Beke2020(op): 10:31pm On Aug 20, 2018
FamilyMy Uncle Or My Girlfriend: How Do I Move Forward Eventually? by Beke2020(op): 10:08pm On Aug 20, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

I am not much of a writer so I will just go straight to the point. Ivanka was posted to our hospital to do her NYSC. The first time I met her,I was immediately drawn to her. She is attractive,smart and very friendly.I had just started working as a young Doctor two years ago in my Uncle’s hospital.

Throughout Ivanka’s service at the hospital,we were friends and I was actually too shy or too lame to ask her out. I felt a girl like her would have someone already that she was dating and planning to marry. I was in a relationship myself but it was long distance not very serious actually. Ivanka is so likable. I would gist with her and sometimes we go out for lunch and it was a joy working with her especially when I am performing surgeries.

A few months to the end of her service in our hospital,I decided to shoot my shot. I asked her if she could be my girlfriend. I confessed to her that I was in love with her. She broke down and began to cry. She said she was also in love with me but that we cannot be together. I asked her why,she said....more



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-uncle-or-my-girlfriend-how-do-i-move-forward-eventually/
RomanceRe: My Wife And My Sister’s Fantasy Is Threatening Our Marriage by Beke2020(op): 10:06pm On Aug 20, 2018
cool
FamilyRe: My Wife’s Attitude Changed After Working For A Few Months by Beke2020(op): 10:06pm On Aug 20, 2018
Nice one
bukatyne:
You are lucky that I am mobile, else I would copied the story here. grin

@ story: The husband behaved opposite to his desires. He wanted his marriage and yet cheated to show his displeasure. It doesn't work that way.

He also said he was not against the wife working yet he had no plan till the 9th year in their marriage when she complained. He is also not willing to slightly adjust to accommodate her ambitions. She works late and he doesn't like it. Did he make a move to look for other jobs? To understand her schedule and suggest better ways to navigate it?

What did he ever do to show that he supported her to earn her trust in decision making?

The only mistake he made was 'training' her so she doesn't have any desire to pursue a career.

An advantage of women knowing what they want and/or starting it before marriage.
FamilyRe: My Wife’s Attitude Changed After Working For A Few Months by Beke2020(op): 8:45pm On Aug 19, 2018
sure! But one thing i know, man worse fear always gets at him
chiommy123:
they don't trust their wives
FamilyRe: My Marriage Hit A Very Rough Patch But I Want Him Back by Beke2020(op): 6:33pm On Aug 19, 2018
shocked
meobizy:
Long story short I’ll reserve my comment till I read the full thing.
RomanceRe: My Wife Wants To Leave: Is It My Fault Or Is She Hiding Something? by Beke2020(op): 6:32pm On Aug 19, 2018
i concur with you my dear
rebirthforgoody:
Your family first before anything
RomanceRe: My Husband Is Ashamed Of Me But I Got What I Wanted by Beke2020(op): 6:31pm On Aug 19, 2018
no vex dear we are.....
greyham:
Thank you. I am disappointed this beke poster posted half a story angry

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