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TimFisher:

victorian:
It's either spiritual husband who turned his mind against her or effects of idols been worshiped by her families way back, many many years ago gunning out to frustrate her life, cos the idols were been neglected as Christianity ti take over.

Move on, go for proper counselling and deliverance. Complete the divorce proceedings and start life afresh.. At least thank God u have 5million Naira. Invest it wisely in business and be focused on God.
This period will pass away .. Be strong

Samuelgr8:
Pls move on with your life my dear

daveP:
A new Nl crew's been birthed.... The full story crew... The neemesis of bloggers.

ubunja:
shìt story

Samuelgr8:
Good day Admin,

This is not a regular relationship story but I do need your help with my life right now.

For as long as I can remember,I have always wanted to travel abroad. Soon as I turned a teenager really. Back then,anyone who was anybody had someone abroad. It was like the elite thing to do. Many families in Benin then had at least one person abroad and they used to show off their wealth from abroad especially at celebrations like Easter and Christmas time. Many built gigantic houses from monies sent from relatives living abroad. The urge for me to travel abroad became so strong when my friend,Osemu traveled abroad when we were in SS1. Before long,her parents started to receive wealthy gifts from her.

Unfortunately,my parents didn’t have anyone abroad and my father wouldn’t allow me go with the pimps who signed bonds with the families that gave out their daughters to travel abroad. My mother argued a lot for my father to allow me but he wouldn’t listen. So I settled for looking for sugar daddies to spend on me. At least,if I couldn’t go abroad,I could have sugar daddies and rich boyfriends to spend on me. As early as 14 years,I was already having sugar daddies and rich boyfriends.

This lifestyle continued. It paid off sometimes. Most times actually. I began to save for my visa to travel abroad. Three times I was denied visa.Of course,the embassies could smell my desperation to travel so they kept on denying me. When I was 23,I met Kovie. I had just managed to finish my OND at Auchi and I was attached to the factory where Kovie was the Supervisor. I think Kovie fell in love with me for whatever reason I know not. I was just happy to have someone to spend money on me. He was trying to change me and tell me he loved me. He wanted us to get married. He was the nicest guy I ever met though. I tried to be faithful to him but Kovie was not....Read and leave comments on full story on the blog



https://livelystones.com.ng/the-dream-was-abroad-the-cost-was-losing-my-family-love/

CarlosTheJackal:
I think the Op is really over reacting. Sometimes a little bit of trust is all we need to make our relationship or marriage blissful.


If my wife doesn't have tendency to cheat and she has passion for her biz, why should i be a clog in her wheel of progress.




REVERSAL OF MY OPINION.
Women can be so emotional for success tha they won't know when the line gets blurred between work and emotions. I think the Op has every right to be suspicious because Trust went with the Beatles with great hits so being wary and asking questions or entertaining fears might be the only thing to keep the Op's wife that the Eyes of Sauron is watching her every step. Being paranoid should be the only thing that keeos the Op sanity

Kobicove:
That your fiancée is a free giver and her attitude if allowed to continue unchecked could wreck your finances in future